Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

Thanks for all the great advice.

BTW, I do NOT know if this guy sends her money. Of course I really don't know for sure if he proposed or if she accepted.

This is what I did:

I sent him a message giving him common sense advice about the Philippines. Don't propose to people you don't know, go there and meet several ladies, don't send money, if you DO send money 5000 pesos a month is enough. No reply, not even a thanks. Now I'm tempted to send him some pictures. "Here is your fiance wearing a pair of panties I bought for her. Do you like the color?"

Ah hell, I'll just send the pictures to you guys. Just give me a few days.

I sent HER a message and said I was unhappy that she had allowed my home email address to be picked up by "some guy". Her response was so revealing...."which guy? What's his name?"

And that's where I left it.

I'll add two more tidbits...

This trip I met up with a lady in Cebu. I had met her in April when she worked as a go go dancer in a different city. Back then, I paid her bar fine and we ended up spending the next two days/nights together. She was a lot of fun with a great attitude.

I gave her a call as soon as I arrived in Manila. She tells me that she is in Cebu and that she had "started a new life." Well, I was happy about that. She struck me as a really intelligent lady who wouldn't be in the ass-selling business for too long. She is also very fine! We meet at Bo's coffee in Robinsons just below Midtown hotel (my hotel of course). She had ordered a Mocha for me -- she remembered what I liked to drink. What a sweety. One hour lady we were humping and bumping in my hotel room. Since she had "started a new life" I didn't offer any payment, but I gave her a 500 bill for transportation at the end of the day. But what surprised me is that later she tells me she has a fiance who sends money ("10,000, but I only spend 5,000") and will soon be visiting. Wow. I boinked two fiances in two weeks.

Around this time I read an article in the paper. A seaman (30s) contracts AIDS. Comes back to the Philippines and give AIDS to his live in - a college girl in her 20s. The article goes on to say that she then had sexual relations with three other men, one of whom also gets AIDS.

The moral of all these stories:wear condoms and don't expect fidelity in a long-distance relationship.

x

My girl in Cagayan, who I've met 3 times in the last year, has informed we that she's married and has been since June. It looks like it's some guy from Iowa that she got to know on the web. They got married right away when he went there for their first face to face meeting.

I already knew something was up because she seemed much less needy about money compared to before. She talked about taking trips to Cebu and Dumaguete. The average Filipina student just doesn't have the money for that sort of thing. So I already assumed that she had some guy sending her money, but I was a bit surprised about being married already.

It looks like she wanted one last fling. She said that at the marriage ceremony she was imagining getting married to me. But who knows about that kind of hogwash, telling me what I want to hear and all that. Anyhow it's fine for me because she was great company and a great GFE for all the time I was with her. But I wonder about the guy who came here and married her. I would feel more sorry for him but his lack of good judgement holds me back from that. Whenever she does get to Iowa I hope they have a good life together. She's really a good girl to be with, even if not entirely forthcoming about what she's getting up to.

Actually she's inviting me back for my next possible visit in November. One last LAST fling? I'll have to think about that one since this time I'll know full well about her situation.

Anyhow, looks like I'll have to start looking for a new Cagayan girl...

I can't believe what some of these girls on here are asking for, you have to be making 100k you have to be this and that? I don't think they realize that they are not in a position to make any sort of demands especially if they are not all that.

I had a similar experience where a Filipina I know met someone on Internet. The guy promised marriage on Internet, came over here for the first time and did just that! I would give her no more than 3/10. It is truly amazing how naive some guys are. Just shows how desperately bad things must be with women in Western Europe and USA!

I wonder how many of us wouldnt do the same if we were looking for a wife or a long term partner. I'd probably check out several girls and see which one best matched my needs. I'd also probably be a cheating lying scoundrel and juggle them around until I finally settle on the 'right one'.

JP2U, Oh, you are so right. I sometimes feel guilty, but then I remember that most of my life it was I that was "desperate" to find a woman. In the Philippines the tables are turned and whenever the guilt thing starts, I remember.....

Pimpster,,,,they realize! They are phising!

X Man

[QUOTE=Pimpster]I can't believe what some of these girls on here are asking for, you have to be making 100k you have to be this and that? I don't think they realize that they are not in a position to make any sort of demands especially if they are not all that.[/QUOTE]
I think that is precisely why they should make demands. They want to be wives, not doormats or sperm catchers for rejectsI would not marry a Filipina pauper but I would gladly help her negotiate. And I would do it for free. In my travels around the developed world (US, Canada, Europe, Japan, Ockerland), I have seen many good, young Filipinas make good wives to old (generally) white has beens. I salute them. I have met many good Filipinas here but I am an inveterate social snob. I warm when true class enters but I do not like the Atteneo fakes. So finding the right short nose is hard for this long nose.
I also salute X-man, Chocha, Cebu and some others here. The quality of posts on the Philippines board is much higher than the choir boy Thai thread. Allied to that, the Japanese one meets in the Phils are of a different caliber than the Bangkok pussycats. More Osaka guys, I guess. They certainly are a lot rougher and readier. What the Panthers (and their babrs) cudda done with them:)

If my girl of the moment sent me a message and said she doesn't have money to go to the Internet cafe...but she so much wants to chat with me everyday....I would be tempted to send some money. Probably wouldn't, but I would be tempted.

On the other hand, if they are in the Internet cafe everyday.....telling me about their money problems....my comment is ..."what the hell you doing spending money at the Internet cafe?"

Classic One:

"I'm very sick and need to buy medicine."

Wow, dragged herself to the Internet cafe while "very sick". My heart is bleeding.

Classic Two:

"We have no money for food" (If anyone has been following this thread, this gem comes from the fiance)

````` but I still love Filipinas.

X Man

Damn Domino,

Just when I think you are a complete luny, you come up with something extraorinarily lucid. Referring to your "wives" post....

Also agree that ISG Philippines has some excellent posts and some good people. I first figured out how to get laid in the Philippines 25 years ago so those posts I read just for the titillation. This site also gives great info on strategy, psychology, hotels, things to do, etc.

Some post are just plain fun. Love Domino's volunteer efforts btw. Just tell us how to send the 1000. Or, does she prefer to receive it in person?

I'm in Japan at the moment. Send me a pm if you plan to raise any banzai here anytime soon.

Yea, Japan. Instead of boinking 20ish women, I've had to put up with boinking 30ish women. But the lady Saturday night send me a message. "Thanks for Saturday night and Sunday morning too."

" Damn girl, the only thing I did on Sunday morning was bounce on top of your for thirty minutes." Oh, maybe she was thanking me for the cup of tea I served.

X Man

[QUOTE=Pimpster]I can't believe what some of these girls on here are asking for, you have to be making 100k you have to be this and that? I don't think they realize that they are not in a position to make any sort of demands especially if they are not all that.[/QUOTE]

Don't be perturbed by their demands. These LBFMs can't be expected to know that guys who make 100K and still have all their teeth don't have to go trolling for pussy on the internet. They can afford the price of admission for bulimic Ameriskanks with silicone tits and plastic vaginas.

These girls don't realize that guys shopping in the Philippines are value shoppers looking for Walmart pussy. LBFMs enjoy being all things to all men, and this is exactly why they're such a great value for the money. Why not be a gentleman monger and return the favor? You can be anything they want you to be short of a ticket back to Candy Land. Remember that the same way that you have no way of verifying anything that they tell you, they have no way of verifying anything that you tell them. Match wits with the best little scammers in the world and enjoy the game. This is where you get to develop your creative side.

[QUOTE=Pimpster]I can't believe what some of these girls on here are asking for, you have to be making 100k you have to be this and that? [/QUOTE]

Let’s put things into prospective here with many people keep going on about these girls asking for more and more extravagant demands. However, the reverse of this, which is not widely seen here are the guys who fuel all this demand. I have seen many guys on chat sites who all claim to be “rich” promising god knows what to the girls. I recall one guy who promised that if the girl would be his woman, he would buy her a red BMW and sent her a photo of this, as well as $100 per month, yet she was happy to hang with me (quietly :) ). So it’s no wonder these girls are reaching for the sky with more unrealistic demands and yet in when was the last time you saw a marriage Filippina in your neighbourhoods doing that well?


Whatever happened to the art of conversation? Remember, talk is cheap and actions speak louder than words, if you want to impress the girls just actually try going to the Philippines [u]leave the promises until after you’ve met them.[/u]

[QUOTE=Simmer][/QUOTE]Just thought I'd let you know that everything's still going well! She's met my parents, she's dead keen on sex (hell, has more of an appetite than me! Good old vitamin K helps though), and we're going off to PI land sometime in the near future.

[QUOTE=Simmer]Just thought I'd let you know that everything's still going well! She's met my parents, she's dead keen on sex (hell, has more of an appetite than me! Good old vitamin K helps though), and we're going off to PI land sometime in the near future.[/QUOTE]
Hi Simmer
Glad to know that things are doing fine for you,Remember I told you Good things were worth waiting for.Its nice to hear success stories like yours after all the horror stories on this thread.Let me know when you get to the PI and Maybe we could have a drink CL

[QUOTE=Cebu Local]Hi Simmer
Glad to know that things are doing fine for you,Remember I told you Good things were worth waiting for.Its nice to hear success stories like yours after all the horror stories on this thread.Let me know when you get to the PI and Maybe we could have a drink CL[/QUOTE]Thanks CL - good idea. We'll be going to Negros and the Chocolate Hills so not too far from Cebu.

[QUOTE=Simmer]Thanks CL - good idea. We'll be going to Negros and the Chocolate Hills so not too far from Cebu.[/QUOTE]Sure why not,I would also be more then happy to buy you Lunch or Dinner.Cebu is like the main city for the region,Let me know when you come in cheers CL