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[QUOTE=Drbombay;2669614]Lurkers,
Ask Amy: 'I met a young woman online,' but now she wants more money for medical problems'.[/QUOTE]Nice post but wrong in one important respect. The woman does need the money. I know as Bruno, my Nigerian friend in Lagos, is that woman.
Still a few weeks to go until arrival and I am trying so hard not to kick off my Pinalove and various strategies for finding pinay in my target work area.
I did set up a new FB profile and added a few random Buy / Sell groups, local newspapers etc. Posting a few mundane public posts to get some history on the account news feed.
Even this simple act resulted in a conversation leading to a 30 yo single mum gym goer wanting to lock herself in for a weekend of staying over.
What it did remind me is that I don't need to start collecting and juggling contacts until the week at most prior to arriving.
[QUOTE=AsianPursuits;2683432]Still a few weeks to go until arrival and I am trying so hard not to kick off my Pinalove and various strategies for finding pinay in my target work area. Even this simple act resulted in a conversation leading to a 30 yo single mum gym goer wanting to lock herself in for a weekend of staying over.
What it did remind me is that I don't need to start collecting and juggling contacts until the week at most prior to arriving.[/QUOTE]Very wise. Most cannot even plan more than a day in advance anyway. "no to schedule" is the mantra. Since they only think about their needs for today, planning anything most often ends up in a waste of time.
[QUOTE=AsianPursuits;2683432]Still a few weeks to go until arrival and I am trying so hard not to kick off my Pinalove and various strategies for finding pinay in my target work area....[/QUOTE]Dude.
I admire your tenacity. Stay the course and it will pay dividends.
[QUOTE=Goferring;2267691]That's it, I'm soooo done putting in ground work on the online hookup sites!
Last trip to Davao.....[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Transporter;2683730]Very wise. Most cannot even plan more than a day in advance anyway. "no to schedule" is the mantra. Since they only think about their needs for today, planning anything most often ends up in a waste of time.[/QUOTE]You are right. Even the ones I know from previous trips I don't need to plan ahead. They have their schedule and each day is like groundhog day anyway.
[QUOTE=AsianPursuits;2683862]They have their schedule and each day is like groundhog day anyway.[/QUOTE]Except it's warmer. Everyday in the Philippines is warmer than Pennsylvania in February. But the metaphor is good.
Is it possible to pay for a girl's lab tests there?
Do they sell morning after pills? I know the country is very Catholic l, so wasn't sure.
Any info would be appreciated.
[QUOTE=Yungtwntysluvr;2687289]Is it possible to pay for a girl's lab tests there?
Do they sell morning after pills? I know the country is very Catholic l, so wasn't sure.
Any info would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Yes. Maybe.
Yes. Maybe.
How about plan be? Bring your own?
Do not trust Pinay to find you a pill, the Philippines is a deeply catholic country. The condoms concept is almost nonexistent.
I will suggest you try to use protection, also bring your own morning-after pill, officially Morning pill is not approved or allowed to be sold in the Philippines.
Your Pinay has zero concern about you nutting in her, and getting prego, she will see this as a lifetime income opportunity from you.
Bring your own morning after pill, and the question is if she will take it. Its only effective within 72 hours after having sex. What if you stay with her more then a week.
So be careful.
[QUOTE=Yungtwntysluvr;2687289]Is it possible to pay for a girl's lab tests there?
Do they sell morning after pills? I know the country is very Catholic l, so wasn't sure.
Any info would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MohdirFan82;2687361]Do not trust Pinay to find you a pill, [/QUOTE]The traditional contraceptive pill is available in most pharmacies. My GF used to buy it without prescription.
But obviously the pill needs to be taken correctly.
Condoms are available at 7_11 and many other convenience stores. I assume the local sari-sari may even sell them.
Girls whom ask about condoms have had lots of foreigner experience.
[QUOTE=Yungtwntysluvr;2687289]Is it possible to pay for a girl's lab tests there?
Do they sell morning after pills? I know the country is very Catholic l, so wasn't sure.
Any info would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Normal BC can be used as a morning after pill. Research the protocol for the particular type of BC pill available.
For the most common types, it's four pills after sex, followed by another four pills 24 hours later.
Interesting video by Filipina Vlogger Rubeauti who makes the claim that Filipinas don't like rough play like face-slapping or dirty talk and are afraid of large penises:
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jViyEW6TGts&list=PL3qIKKFJmVmS0clk_5FngjMyq8escpYVz&index=25[/URL]
She then seems to disagree with herself- following up with the assertion that, well actually Filipinas DO like to be dominated. So which is it Rubeauti? Dominated gently? Vanilla sex with a slight edge? Could she be expressing her own preferences? Could this be what conservative province women tell each other to save face and then go wild in private?
I've only had experience with WG's, so can't vouch for civilians. Some seemed to go along with the rough play, some not so much- it was hard to quantify. All tried, at least, to be accommodating to some degree. This was somewhat before I explored my DeepThroat fetish in South / Central America so I am also curious about the prevalence of that fetish.
Board Members have any opinions on this issue?
I will be finally back this summer for a few months to test all hypothesis- see you guys soon!
RakS.
As a follow-up to my previous post here is Filipina Vlogger Des also making an appeal to Western Men to be gentle, kind, vanilla, and not to use sex-toys:
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvM7bKlDLvQ&list=PL3qIKKFJmVmS0clk_5FngjMyq8escpYVz&index=14[/URL]
Knowing that all women, everywhere will fuck hard if turned on by a physically attractive high value aggressive man, the subtext here is that her imagined audience is the older, less virile Beta foreigner males in the cast of schlubby Youtube Vloggers like Reekay Velez, Gio in the Philippines, or Paul's Asian Adventures. There is a sense of duty and necessity but no genuine desire in these sexual encounters, and so yes a gentle, non-taxing, minimally aerobic expedited deed heavy on sensual foreplay would be the preferred modality.
The red-pill is a flawed ideology, but I think the dictum "women make rules for Betas and break them for Alphas" holds here. If you can bring the the all of this wishy washy hemming and hawing goes away. For us mongers who deal with WG's who are often hyper-sexual due to childhood abuse- all this is much less applicable. I've had plenty of Filipina WG's who were wild in bed.
Curious what the BM's here think.
[QUOTE=RakSopheni;2689275]As a follow-up to my previous post here is Filipina Vlogger Des also making an appeal to Western Men to be gentle, kind, vanilla, and not to use sex-toys:.[/QUOTE]I rarely have the patience to sit through any Filipina vlogger. Their audience is the Filipina who want to hear what you have just regurgitated.
Each person is an individual.
I have a long term GF in PI and am sure I am the only guy supporting her.
I haven't been able to visit her during the Covid period and will be returning in October but, in the meantime, we are discussing an increase in the allowance I send her.
She reckons that she needs P700-800 daily for food and drink alone so lets say P20 k per month.
Is that reasonable?
I also send her cash for other expenses on an ad hoc basis BTW.
All constructive comments appreciated.
PP.