Where do you take your girlfriend to shopping in Medellin?
[B]Me[/B]: I took her to barrio to buy veggies. I picked her up and we went shopping together. She choose what she wanted then picked out the bills I had in my hand to give to the masked seller who was holding a large stack of cash, and a bag. We went to my place afterwards. It's cheaper efficient, and she is happy. Why not? haha.
[B]You[/B]: ?
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Thoughts on power dynamic
Disclaimer: YMMV, depending on specific context.
When girl steals from you, she gains power over you.
When you give in to multiple gift requests or alone this line, you surrender your power.
When you pay more or when you think you should pay more, you surrender your power.
The images are the negotiation with a Lleras girl. To me she is very attractive and that I was willing to pay for it (the second image). In hindsight, I probably should have approached her friend first. The friend is attractive but not ask attractive but the deal could have been made quickly. Haha. I hope it is obvious why I turned it down. You can see the turn of the event by the 3rd image. That is when I already arranged a date. She asked how much I paid. I answered that in the beginning of the 3rd image. It is sex for the entire duration except when we need to rest. Jaja.
There are things that I do not want to share so I black it out. I know how she thinks. In this case, it just happened that I was able to say something to her to make her smarter to agree with me. I worked with how to price service and there is a scientific way to explain why people pay more so I am not trying to put people down by posting this. The girls derive their value (or price) from the customers so you are not paying more for better girl (assume the girls have the same background, little education, no skill is one of the many categories).
I don't look at the price as a single event. I look at overall cost. I multiply by days, weeks, or months. I want to be free to do what I want, including trio, at any given time