Fool's Gold. Ever hear of that?
[QUOTE=PimpinIt; 1321494]Dude! OMG!
I don't want to flame you, but you got to take a step back and try to get some focus on reality.
From the questions you're asking, I think you might be focusing / obsessinng too much on the details.
For the money issue, spend what you want to spend, when you want to spend. For some perspective, I've got a chica that's actually proactively tries to find me the best deals whether it comes to taxi rides or buying drinks or whatever. She never asks me for anything except spend time with her. Of course I take her out, but I'd be doing that anywhere.
1k? Thats like 16 bar girl bangs or 50 street walkers. Perspective dude!
Maybe you shouldn't be thinking of supporting her for the whole week. Take a different approach. 'You will be down for a week, and you want to see her during that time'. Set up a few dates with her. If she's really into you, she'll make berself available, and you're also still free to sample.[/QUOTE]Allot of good men chased a pipe dream and ended out broke. You seem to want advice so here it is:
1. Dump your "sig" anyway. You are cheating your ass off on her so it sounds like there's no love or comitmment left anyway, and it's likely there's something in you that wants to get caught so it makes for a good break.
2. Stop thinking with your heart and start thinking with your cock. Strange right? Here's why; what started as a cock thought has transformed into an effort at logic and turned into an emotional fuck instead of a literal fuck. So; you are involved in a massively dysfunctional situation with your working girl.
3. You bar girl is playing you out. Sucking you financially dry. That's evident in your post. When she empties your accounts, breaks up your relationship with your "sig" you will have nothing. A naked dog in the street.
4. Trust me; she has several "favorites" like you. It is rare, seriously rare, that any of these girls have any sense of ethics. Take it from experience. I married a stripper / call girl from Mexico. Have had (5) years of great marriage, but I still catch her playing me. So, I play her too. Leopards don't often change their spots, those spots just fade a bit. Normally she will pout affection on me, suck me dry or fuck me raw, and then tell me she is going out with her friends or ask for something. You see, that pussy has become a tool for them, quite successfully, and that's all they ever use it for.
You are going to get burned man. Quit now while you can.
Hotel San Nicolas on the main drag
Hotel San Nicolas is a pretty nice place. It's on the main drag as you enter the city, right next to bar Nelson with the big gorilla head over the front door.
This hotel has a small lobby. The rooms are nice and clean with a balcony overlooking the parking lot. You can hang out in the balcony drinking, cooking BBQ ect.
This hotel has the best location of all hotels in Ensenada, right next to the main tourist drag with lots of shops and restaurants etc. It's across the street from the fish market and the malecon if you want to hang out watching the sunset, eat the famous fish tacos or buying seafood to cook on your balcony.
It's night next to bar Nelson if you need a few extra pussies for the night. The possibilities are endless.
[QUOTE=Guitarrefreak; 1322957]Ensenada board a little dead, wondering if any fellow mongers here are familiar with decent hotels to stay in ensenada, thinking about taking my chica down there for some pampering this week,
Preferably next to water, within walking distance to local excitement, but doesn't break the bank. Ie, not looking for dingy short time hotel, but some place with a decent lobby and amenities[/QUOTE]
I recall posts talking about this
But unable to trace back who and when it was said.
Just wondering out loud to fellas out there who have had similar experiences: how did you go from paying your chica for sex only, to paying for everything else except sex?
All emotions aside, and just doing the math, if she is a family gal, one may end up paying more for the latter