Showing my face on main photo
[QUOTE=VanessasClient;3029575]Some on ISG have admitted to posting obscured or inaccurate pics.
Think about it. If you are a "sugar baby" looking for a man with resources, what concerns are you going to have on your mind? If he's trying to hide as much info from you as possible, are you more inclined to think he's legit, and not trying to scam you, or a risk to your safety? Most especially if there's other profiles out there that have taken the time / effort / money to make themselves stand out by sharing more inciting indicators upfront, before initial contact begins..[/QUOTE]I'm curious about showing myself and the difference it would make. I'm not married either. My main photo is me with sunglasses on, and the rest are hidden. I have yet to verify myself either. What are your thoughts on improvements by showing my face? I have a decent picture. Of course you may also get a lot of unwanted attention. I find there is a lot of "noise" on there too. Meaning distractions with girls from places I never visit. You can always just contact the girl you are interested in and unhide your photos for them.
Seeking Ban Evasion update
[QUOTE=WaltoDerri;3029596]Seems like my idea has worked for now. Friend made the account and had his face scanned. I just avoided uploading selfies but messaged the girls and offered to send my pics via text. We shall see how this goes.[/QUOTE]It seems my idea worked until Saturday. Only met 2 women and one ran off with my money while distracted (rookie mistake) and I reported her but MY account was deleted. The other was an old connect and the date went fine. No extras happened. At least I seemed to get an automatic refund to my credit card but zero explanation from customer service LOL. I did not upload photos and offered to show them via text or even just video call.
First timer experience trying to be a sugar daddy in Brazil Part 1
This is my first attempt at trying to be sugar daddy in Brazil. It's full of rookie mistake and things I learned. I would like to thank all the senior members (Steve 9696, The Cane, VanessasClient, Chicago85, etc.) for their sage advice, even if I stupidly forgot to follow it at times. Prior to my September trip to Brazil, a couple of months of insomnia allowed me to do a lot of leg work on Meu Patrocinio, which seemed to have more options than Seeking. I found very few English speakers, although English speakers seemed more common in Rio than Sao Paulo, I'm guessing because there are a shit ton of tourists in Rio. I don't speak Portuguese, and used Google Translate and at times the more accurate DeepL Translate to communicate. A complete waste of money was the $400 purchase of Time Kettle W4 Pro AI Interpreter translation earbuds, the translations were comically incorrect and really only good for a laugh and the Portuguese English translation is not even available offline. I paid for an Airalo cell phone plan before I arrived to get a local Brazilian eSIM, but I could not get it to work, at least it was only $33. Luckily, I was able to get by with my T-Mobile plan. The server at a nice restaurant in Rio walked away with one of my credit cards, next time I need to be more aware. A kid on a bike filched my iPhone while I was requesting an Uber leaving Ibirapuera Park, I was lucky he tossed the phone after I chased him for half mile, I don't think he was expecting that. I seriously need to consider a burner phone my next visit.
I messaged a bunch of SBs on Meu Patrocinio and Seeking using a generic opening with an account that had 3 pictures and short description. Overall, I'd guess about half are some type of GPS, business accounts on their WhatsApp was a dead giveaway. I tried to avoid the 18-21 age group (one that messaged and WhatsApped me, did exactly what the exulted senior members warned about, send naked picture and immediately ask for money = block). The SBs that messaged me as opposed to the other way around were all older, fatties, ugly, scams, or based on their pictures trans (wholly shit there are a lot of masculine looking profiles). I ignored most that wanted to go to WhatsApp as their opening reply, although after spending time with my SB as well as garotas from Scandallo and Bomboa smart enough to seek alternative sources of revenue, many garotas want to move off the Meu Patrocinio app right away because the phone app sucks and crashes a lot. Trying not to be scammed, I eliminated profiles with less than 5 photos and any with single line descriptions. I ended up WhatsApping about 20 of the SBs (stupid insomnia). So as not to be surprised, I had the gift discussion with a lot of them. Gift requests ranged from 800 are-2500 are per day. They all asked for money except one that wanted an iPhone 15. Some conversations faded, others ignored, a couple were dropped for asking for money before a meeting was suggested. I vetted 6 of them with video calls and dropped 3 of them for being fatties, unattractive, lying about where they actually lived. All of them photoshop their pictures or use old pictures, even on WhatsApp, but there are varying degrees of photoshop. I found out that videos sent could also be deep faked by these garotas (they are either getting help or getting smarter), so I'm glad I did video chats asking for no filters. On the video chat, I tried to be clear about the importance of chemistry and private time.
My aim was for a 27-30 year old semi pro or a slightly younger pro. Basically, I was hoping for an excellent time in bedroom with full GFE. My general experience with the hobby has been if they are too young and inexperienced, the BJs are bad and all they do is starfish, in which case it doesn't matter how beautiful they are. I may be naive, but I think I ended up with a full on civilian. More to come. .
First timer experience trying to be a sugar daddy in Brazil Part 2
Day 1. In case the first date went badly, I spent 3 hours of the afternoon with a GDP I found online. I then went looking for flowers and chocolates and ended up at a flower shop where I'm pretty sure I got the gringo price and ended up spending R300 for a dozen roses, so I skipped the chocolates. I met my SB at a Korean restaurant for dinner and soju. I ended up with a pretty (although not as DDG as her photoshopped pictures) mulatto, 5'1", 88 lbs, long black hair, tiny fit spinner with soft skin, beautiful round natural be cups, a waist so small I could almost get my hands around it and a well shaped small bunda. I'll call her M. 27 years old, divorced after 5 years of marriage and one previous SD. Working multiple jobs, I'm going to guess all pretty low paying with no degrees, she is into older guys (her ex husband was 16 years her senior) because she is looking for a provider. At the restaurant, we used Google Translate for conversation, knocked back a couple of bottles of soju, then there was reluctance to go back to my hotel because she was tired. After some coaxing, back at the hotel, she was a bit shy, but talking led to DFK and then 2nd base on the couch. I stupidly did not follow the exulted senior members advice of the 48 hour rule and purchased her plane tickets to join me on my trip for the next week. As a result, I had to cancel my other SB meeting in Rio and boy was that SB ever pissed. I'm not sure how M talked me into it, but after she got comfortable with that body and her hand on my cock, the credit card came out and the next thing I knew I had spent R5000 on 3 plane tickets for her. While she was in the bathroom, I put out an envelope with R1000 on the night stand, the agreed upon per diem. In bed, more DFK led to a cursory BBBJ that was below average, especially compared to the pro earlier in the day. I did some DATY and when she was nice and wet, I almost went into her BB, she completely forgot about the condom (she had neither condoms or lube the entire week). After grabbing a condom from the drawer, sliding into her was real nice; wet and snug like only a spinner can provide. I was surprised that positions were limited and she struggled with several of them. She could do missionary and spoon sex, but cowgirl tired her out in spite of her fit body and she didn't seem to know how to position herself for doggie or prone. I may be naive, but the overall experience made me think I ended up with an actual civilian. After about an hour, she said she was tired, got dress and went home with the flowers to pack for the week, completely ignoring the envelope with money.
Day 2. We met at an expensive resort in Foz do Iguacu, the one in the national park with exclusive access to the waterfalls after the park hours. The place had an interesting mix, very wealthy families, couples on their honeymoon, what appeared to be multiple SD / SB relationships (several super hot 20 year old blondes with mature men at least 20-30 years older than me), and whoever else can afford R6000+ per night. The resort was amazing, top notch food, excellent services with multiple concierges at the ready. My experience with M the 2nd night did not go as well. She got bitten in the eye or eyelid by a mosquitos or some bug and was super grumpy. No sex, no kissing, no touching. After getting her treatment and being a nice guy, she tried to play games to pass the time like tic tac toe and hangman (next time I bring a deck of cards) but nothing fun, just a couple of drinks and an early end to the night.
Day 3. I was hoping M would make it up to me for being really nice and caring the previous night. But even though her eye felt better, no morning sex like I had hoped. When the evening came around, she was tired, not in the mood and we basically fought and went to bed angry after nothing. In the middle of the night, she woke me up with her body next to mine as the little spoon, proceeded to stroke me off, rubbing me against her opening before sliding me into her wet pussy raw. The make up sex was amazing, although positions were still limited to spoon and missionary. She became a wild jack rabbit as the little spoon and before I knew it I had CIP. I probably should have brought PrEP, but was not planning on BBFS.
Day 4. BBFS morning sex in spoon and missionary, missing breakfast entirely, cut short by the need to catch a flight to Rio. In Rio at the hotel, I find out she is not on birth control of any kind and she finds out my swimmers still work. We decided she would have to use plan be. After which, starting in the afternoon and into the evening, M decided to get drunk. Really drunk. We met some cariocas and bar hopped a bit, it all started so innocently. I stopped buying her drinks after her 9th one, but she had money and continued to drink until the bar cut her off at like 11. Remember, M is only 88 lbs soaking wet. Back at the hotel she was too drunk to do anything, and when I tried, she almost threw up and I left her on the couch with a waste basket next to her in case she got sick.
Day 5. As bad as drunk M was, hungover M was a much worse experience. She spent the entire day in the dark hotel room. I left her with water and whatever was in the minibar. I checked in on her in the late afternoon and we had another fight over me suggesting sex later that evening when she felt better. So I went to Solarium, I had a couple of drinks, but did not find any of the garotas to my liking enough to session with. The evening back with M resulted in another argument and the decision that she would fly back to Sao Paulo the next morning. We went to bed angry on opposite sides of the bed. In the middle of the night, I found her on my side of the bed with a leg over me. Still upset, I moved her leg, rolled over and went back to sleep. I woke up a second time with both her legs over me and my dick literally being squeezed between her thighs. This led to the some of the best make up sex I've ever had in my life. Cowgirl, missionary and spoon, multiple sessions of full on BBFSCIP over a couple of hours until the sun came up.
Day 6. We slept in the morning and missed breakfast. After lunch, we decided to do a helicopter tour. A fancy expensive dinner at Mocellin Mar resulted in the server walking away with my credit card without me noticing. Back at the hotel, it was DFK and BBFS. After sex, we had a discussion and she told me and I quote "As long as we share the same bed, I can have sex with her whenever I want", I even got a screen shot of it. She then went to sleep with no panties. In the middle of the night, when I woke up at full salute, I decided to take her up on her offer. Spoon sex BBFSCIP. I woke up later in the night and after some touching, we did it again BBFS spoon and missionary.
Day 7. Make up sex is great. The morning started with BBFSCIP and we miss breakfast again. I gave her an envelope with R6000 as no money was asked for during my time spent with M, but the original discussion was for R1000 per day with money spent on flights, helicopter tours and 4 and 5 star hotels. We took our flight back to Sao Paulo and said our goodbyes. I went in to for a kiss, but she turned and gave me her cheek.
Overall, I got a GFE, just not the one I was expecting. The make up sex was great, but the fighting and general lack of affection was not. Other than the first night, there were no BJs and minimal DFK. In retrospect, I should have definitely followed the 48-72 hour rule so I could have seen the other SB I had lined up in Rio. Although, with the eye injury, the experience would have only included 3 session and I would have missed out on some seriously amazing make up sex. I could have also tried to line up more SBs in Sao Paulo, but I've never been to Scandallo and felt like I needed a couple of days to check out that scene as well as Bomboa and Casarao.
Day 9. I scheduled to meet up with M for dinner and private time for R2800 (I agreed because I felt like I shorted her earlier gift, but did not have enough cash at that time) and even extended my hotel stay a day so I would have a hotel room to do it, but she flaked last minute. So off to Scandallo I went to spend R2800 before my late night flight back stateside.
