Reading the Te(&)a Leaves
[QUOTE=Charlie123;1622089]I think one's intuitions are reliable in those situations, and whilst I also wouldn't advocate a strategy based on telling girls to fuck off so you can judge how well they take it, I do think the original poster was passing on a useful tip.C123[/QUOTE]Well amigo, we shall just politely disagree on this. Rejection and what follows will trigger a variety of behaviours and it involves so many variables and moods that it is hardly a reliable guide to someone's "nature". That "nature" itself very much also a function of mutual chemistry-some people you click with and some you don't. I know my own reaction to rejection, whether in business or on special ops at Artemis varies all over the place, depending upon the context and the moment. I just don't think really seeing how a girl reacts to being told nyet is anything more than a momentary data point. It is a bit of information, and without understanding the full context, it is simply not a reliable guide to predicting anything. And this is just drawing upon a "normal" rejection observation; to deliberately reject a girl to see the reaction, which was suggested as a "tip" at one point, makes even less sense.
The nature of [I]how[/I] we reject plays a huge role in this-the oafish, silent, curt dismissal via waving the hand away, or shaking the head, vs the polite "look, you are very attractive but I am really sorry but just not now" etc. And at times, even some of my steady favs have been mildly miffed when I would not muff. It was surprising as we both know we get on well, and have done so for years. Maybe they were just having a bad day, lots of rejections by scruffy men, their investments were tanking, their new designer shoes were not fitting right, business was slow, whatever. The next time, all was hunky dory. I don't think I am climbing way out on a limb to say women are moodier than men folk, and as any one who has been in a long-term relationship would say, things change....all the time. Just way too many variables at play, on both sides, to conclude anything reliable.
Not to bang on about this (as the danger of over-thinking all this is real), but there is also a flip side to the coin. On rare occasion, I have talked with (for me) a "new" girl and everything was just problematic, almost combative, and all the verbal signals were flashing danger Will Robinson. And yet, overcome with pure lust, I just thought well who cares, let's go, and the session was fantastic. At the end when lying in bed together after the fluids had flown, I would mention how odd our first contact was, she would reply, well that was just before I "knew" you. Predicting chemistry is a black art and rules to improve the odds are probably limited or doomed. At the critical moment, you just have to go with your gut. (By the way, also on occasion this "gut" strategy has blown up in my face and wallet). You just never really know, til the thin lady purrs.
Anyway, welcome back to the village of the damned, and happy hunting.
Thursday with the boys (and girls)
Nice meetup yesterday with Charlie123, Rocketboy, Buck Rogers and others. Thanks guys!
Day started really slow but the vibe went up during the day, never crowded.
Went with Jay Jay (that's how it sounds but I know the spelling is very different). Iranian but born and living in Berlin. 21 yo, long black hair, quite petite, brown eyes, piercing in upper lip (if I remember correctly). Looks really young. Wearing a red rose in her hair. Could remember Amy Winehouse, at least that's what crossed my mind. Anyway, exquiste girl, will definitely repeat.
Then spent over an hour with Viola. Russian, black hair, pony tail. Reported her many times. She was particularly hot yesterday, had great fun. She is leaving for a couple of weeks.
Had another session with Gabriella, Polish, blonde long hair, late twenties (at least). I like the girl and we find chemistry but probably not the best performer, or maybe my fault.
Closed the dances with Sissy, yes again. She is also leaving in a weeks time, coming back after 3 weeks If I understood correctly. She is consistently in my favourites. Also reported many times.
Don't know about the food as I was out for dinner but was told it was not bad.