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[QUOTE=SergeantRay; 1426003]. You aptly sum up the sexual downside of marriage, but the real problem is economic. When you're married you're not only stuck with an aging woman with little sex appeal, but you're also on the hook for every real and imagined crisis. Filipinos are masters at creating and wallowing in crises. In the end you wind up paying thousands of dollars for a woman that you wouldn't pay 500 pesos for on the street.

A good friend of mine isn't coming to the Philippines this year because his Filipina wife is trying to clean him out of every dollar he's got.[/QUOTE]Spoken by a person with experience viz : "Filipinos are masters at creating and wallowing in crises. In the end you wind up paying thousands of dollars for a woman that you wouldn't pay 500 pesos for on the street". I say, newbies beware. Filipinos, cheap when single, very expensive and troublesome in marriage.

Oh yeh, there are exceptions, but we are not talking about exceptions, we are talking about "in general". Fools rush in where wise men fear to tread, applies.

[QUOTE=SergeantRay; 1426003]I was always a one-woman, monogamous guy, until one day it finally occurred to me that the strategy of finding "the right one" and marrying her makes sense in the US, but it is nothing short of retarded in the Philippines. Another big part of the problem was my strict religious upbringing, which was full of ominous warnings about the dangers of "sexual sin."

You aptly sum up the sexual downside of marriage, but the real problem is economic. When you're married you're not only stuck with an aging woman with little sex appeal, but you're also on the hook for every real and imagined crisis. Filipinos are masters at creating and wallowing in crises. In the end you wind up paying thousands of dollars for a woman that you wouldn't pay 500 pesos for on the street.

A good friend of mine isn't coming to the Philippines this year because his Filipina wife is trying to clean him out of every dollar he's got.

Why would any guy get married?[/QUOTE]Never been fanatic in anyway when it comes to monogamy (or beeing faithful) but ofcourse I have tried my best not to sleep around when having a steady GF. From I was in my early 20'ies I decided that marriage was out of the question. Not that hard as in my country the marriage rate is going downhill and still is (these days. 20 years later, rates are even lower 40-50% of all couples living together get married). This was ofcourse also affected bcs my parents allways told me that marriage is no point realy even if they have been married for a good 40 years themself (and still is so they should know). I have a half pinay GF back home and she has asked me a couple of times about this (I know it is her pinay mother behind this). I have ofcourse not said yes and that is fine by her it seems as she is borned and raised in my country and pretty much know how this works but I guess most girls have this dream of a whitebride wedding and so on. In my country the same rules apply if you are married or if you just live together (after 6 months living together). Luckely we do not have this system where a split up or a divorce will affect your economy a great deal as I will get back what I brought into the relationship/marriage and my GF will get back her stuffs. My money is my money (even so some idiots are signing a privat agreement so the misses gets half what they own when getting married, hehe). If there is a child in the picture girls still get full time custody of the child (in most cases) but the government have regulated support rates for cases like this (you can ofcourse agree to pay more but then you make up a private contract through a lawyer). Everything you buy together you have to share though so in my case this is easy as I buy all the big things like housing, cabins, cars, vacations, furniture and my GF brings mostly food on the table and pay a few regular bills (electricity, cleaning, houseinsurance). I earn substantely more money than she does(student) so I be damned if she would have any of my money, my house, my cars and so on if we break up. My Gf is just finishing many years of university so I have supported her a bit more than I realy had to leaving her with no governmental debt (I guess this makes me feel better as I am not very faithful).

Another big downside by beeing hooked up is: How exciting can it be to fuck the same pussy for years and not cheat? I realy admire people able to do so but I simply don't know how they can manage. I get bored after a few months as we have been through the hole fuckprogram many times. I have no complaints towards my GF's in a sexual way as they have all been very giving and willing to explore. These days i infact think our sexlife is better due to my mongering bcs when I get back home my GF pussy seems relatively new to me so in a way I start from fresh again.

In my mongering I allways say in an early stage to the girls that I am not here for relationship of any kind. In a P4P market this is easy but sometimes in the datingsiteworld you will encounter contacts having hard time to get this even if they agree to meet. So my goal is fucking only and not marry (I don't say this will never change though but marriage, hm, I don't think so).

[QUOTE=Skogis; 1426078]Never been fanatic in anyway when it comes to monogamy (or beeing faithful) but ofcourse I have tried my best not to sleep around when having a steady GF.

Another big downside by beeing hooked up is: How exciting can it be to fuck the same pussy for years and not cheat? I realy admire people able to do so but I simply don't know how they can manage. I get bored after a few months as we have been through the hole fuckprogram many times. These days I infact think our sexlife is better due to my mongering bcs when I get back home my GF pussy seems relatively new to me so in a way I start from fresh again.

In my mongering I allways say in an early stage to the girls that I am not here for relationship of any kind. But sometimes in the datingsiteworld you will encounter contacts having hard time to get this even if they agree to meet. So my goal is fucking only and not marry (I don't say this will never change though but marriage, hm, I don't think so).[/QUOTE]Our website has a whole lot of different participants methinks.

Theres the guy who is hapily married but damn, he likes Asian puss and is on a business trip so no one will know.

There are the guys who have been married once twice thrice but keep hoping for that really big happy ever after.

There are the guys maybe like yourselves Skogis, who see the need to stay single and to milk it for all its worth.

There are the guys who are married but bored to tears with wifey and who play at every opportunity.

And the newly separated, who's downfall came about because of their playing (self included)

Have I missed anyone out?

[QUOTE=SergeantRay;1426003]Why would any guy get married?[/QUOTE]I guess you guys are right. It seems to be a losing proposition for any guy, even if you marry a Filipina and stay in the Philippines. I've been a bachelor my whole life and was never faithful to any of my girlfriends. I suppose if you wanted to get married to have kids that would make sense but from what I hear from my married buddies that turns into a big headache, too. Still, I respect the guys that can do it.

Enjoyed reading the past two day messages. I like to add my view. I am divorced from a Filipina here in USA. And yes, she made my life hell to get all the money she could get out of me being that said and at my age of 69 now. No way to want marriage again. I have been coming to the Philippines for the past 20 plus years and though I not as good a player as most of you. I do get lucky at times.

Yes, the same gf or live in partner can get old fast.

Talk about being in the candy shop. I have talked to girls who married / live in partner with a foreigner and they live in Angeles city together. I just laugh and say the girl asking for trouble from the start. One Filipina was a nurse and she came home early to find her husband in bed with her best friend. I am sure we all have stories like that one.

Ok back to the topic. I make a point to find girls in DIA or tagged who are ok with threesome and / or ok to have threesomes a few times each month. I tell the one girl she is #1. I will always be faithful to her but I want variety / enjoy fantasy and she is ok with it. I tell her to find a cousin or friend who can join us. She is ok with that. Knowing I will not drop her or go behind her back. (of course I could drop her) but as most of you know not easy to find a good one who is also open to play.

I have two sisters ages 19 and 26 who want to keep me around. Mainly for support. Yes, I have enjoyed the pleasure of them both in bed. They have an 18 year old cousin who wants to meet me and maybe end up being a foursome.

What I am trying to say. I am the kind of guy who can be happy with the same 3 pussies over a long period of time instead of marriage / instead of playing the field looking for new ones every week or day or month.

The one older sister has the right attitude. She knows that to keep me in her life (access to my wallet) she must accept having threesomes. She knows we men like to play around. She gets it. So she is eager to find partners. Cousins, schoolmates, neighbors to play with us.

The one biggest drawback to having a regular group of girls with me at one time. Is the daily cost of living expenses and there is no way I am taking them to other islands. Transportation too expensive.

In the past. I just fly alone to meet the girls. Example. One in Cebu then fly to Davao then fly to Cdo or just stick to Cebu where there are so so many to pick from.

Thus that is my happy middle point. Not stick to one woman but not play the field. At my age and past. I can be happy and not get bored with 2 or 3 regular girls to enjoy at the same time or individually.

One last point to share. There are so so many sexy young woman who are "separated". Who cannot marry and are ok with guys like us who not seek marriage any longer.

Good luck to all of us and thank God for Viagra as a back up.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan; 1426098]Our website has a whole lot of different participants methinks.

Theres the guy who is happily married but damn, he likes Asian puss and is on a business trip so no one will know.

There are the guys who have been married once twice thrice but keep hoping for that really big happy ever after.

There are the guys maybe like yourselves Skogis, who see the need to stay single and to milk it for all its worth.

There are the guys who are married but bored to tears with wifey and who play at every opportunity.

And the newly separated, who's downfall came about because of their playing (self included)

Have I missed anyone out?[/QUOTE]Nice list but yeah you missed the happily married monger who is allowed free time to do what he / she wants.

As of 2013 I take 6 weeks off my marriage. I spent 2 + weeks in PI last Feb. And 8 days in Colombia 5/1/13. I plan on going back to So. America later this yr. For another 2 weeks. Tijuana is also on my rotation. My getaways involved wall to wall fucking and everything else is secondary. By 2015 I plan taking 8 weeks a year and play it by ear after that.

How do I do this w / out losing half my assets to a pissed off wife?

1. I have become prince charming. I do everything I can to make my wife happy, I / e flowers, money, travel, I love yous, dinners, housework. You name it I do it (excluding sex). We haven't had sex since 1999 because I'm not interested in that part of our relationship. Kissing and superficial things, yes but that's it. No FS for her! I bought her a vibrator a long time ago, maybe she uses it when I'm away, I hope so. There are other aspects of our marriage that also help me in my hobby but the bottom line is I want to be happy too and I'm really happy now.

The hobby is mighty powerful and guys like me need an anchor, my marriage is that anchor. I have to come home and take care of her and my other responsibilities and mellow out. Would I rather be unattached and free to do what I want when I want to? SURE THING! But I'm not, and when I think about it, it's a good thing I'm not.

Everything is great as long as I have peace of mind in my home. Right now I am the master of my domain (to a certain extent) and if I lived w / a young hottie and was responsible for her enjoyment it would be difficult to say the least. No, I'm happy to have a ball and chain that I can unlock during the year.

I fantasize about what it would be like to live in a foreign country and be neck deep in good young pussy everyday. It's very hard to imagine what that would be like and how I would operate on a daily basis.

I think I like what I have quite a bit. Is it easy to come back home and leave the awesome sex behind and have to wait a few months for more? No it's not easy and I feel it's getting harder to go thru each new year but it's still good for me to be home. I'm very happily married and I hope it stays that way.

The Colombiana's beckon me on Facebook everyday, really beautiful creatures, it's not getting easier.

Good topic, thanks.

Nice read about Prostitution in Asia and the customers thereof. Not that anyone on this board would be shocked to find that Koreans are the largest demographic for "single male visitors" nowadays.

[url]http://english.chosun.com/site/data/html_dir/2013/01/30/2013013001376.html[/url]

[quote=whatsurname; 1427031]nice read about prostitution in asia and the customers thereof. not that anyone on this board would be shocked to find that koreans are the largest demographic for "single male visitors" nowadays.

[url]http://english.chosun.com/site/data/html_dir/2013/01/30/2013013001376.html[/url][/quote]what is shocking is, that news is from a korean news site lol.

btw, what is more comical is, recently two under-age girls were rescued in pampanga and the news carried the bar name et al. when i asked a native where the bar was, the answer was odd.

he said "it is inside the basa airbase"

go figure.

and then they blame the foreigners for all **** women being abused.

I always tell people that pinoys shit on pinoys. It happens everywhere IMHO (the Middle East full of this scam and I know a few ils lumbered with debt due to disappearing relatives!)

[url]http://www.sunstar.com.ph/davao/local-news/2013/05/26/pastor-12-partners-arrested-recruitment-scam-284302[/url]

Like see how the pastor explains his involvement. Administering to the poor LOL

RA 9208 penalizes any person who 'maintains or hires a person to engage in prostitution or pornography. '

The law's penalties range from six years in jail to life imprisonment and fines of P500, 000 to P2 million. Convicted foreigners will be deported after they serve their sentence and be barred permanently from the Philippines.

There goes my social life.

[QUOTE=Lonely566;1427268]RA 9208 penalizes any person who 'maintains or hires a person to engage in prostitution or pornography. ' . There goes my social life.[/QUOTE]Umm, that is a 10 year old law (May 2003, not 2013)

[url]http://www.lawphil.net/statutes/repacts/ra2003/ra_9208_2003.html[/url]

If it hasn't killed your social life by now I wouldn't be too worried.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan; 1426098]Our website has a whole lot of different participants methinks.

Theres the guy who is hapily married but damn, he likes Asian puss and is on a business trip so no one will know.

There are the guys who have been married once twice thrice but keep hoping for that really big happy ever after.

There are the guys maybe like yourselves Skogis, who see the need to stay single and to milk it for all its worth.

There are the guys who are married but bored to tears with wifey and who play at every opportunity.

And the newly separated, who's downfall came about because of their playing (self included)

Have I missed anyone out?[/QUOTE]And the newly separated, because of external forces & egos and never played until separation :P (self included)

Thanks / G

[QUOTE=Gajith; 1427518]And the newly separated, because of external forces & egos and never played until separation :P (self included)

Thanks / G[/QUOTE]Welcome to the playing fields Sir. On your left are a variety of Asian ladies, on your right the Africans, and over there are the alrge white ladies.

Here on the Asain field, you will find the very playful, in that corner there are the serious but available, far over there are the ones available any time of day for the right "coin". Closer here are the girls who will dance you into happiness and just there are the young ones who are growing up fast.

All these playing fields are available to you. Please leave your ego at the door, no shinpads needed just go and ENJOY. Oh there are no rules so play for as long as you like.

Head's up for those of you travelling within and outside the Philippines.

At NAIA 3 yesterday as told to me by a friend. At the X-ray security check to get to the gates, he was told that he couldn't bring the pirated DVDs he had in his hand carried bag onto the plane heading for Cebu.

He had to leave them behind. I have since learned that they were doing the same at NAIA1 last week with international flights.

Be forewarned patrons of fake CDs and DVDs. Be sure to put them into your check-in bags.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt;1427851]Be forewarned patrons of fake CDs and DVDs. Be sure to put them into your check-in bags.[/QUOTE]RK do you know what the quality of the fakes are? I've heard a few guys here purchase those and wondered if its worth it.