[QUOTE=OldAsiaHand]IMHO, I think too much emphasis is placed on language ability. I understand that guys that have mastered the Japanese language are very proud of it. Without pointing any fingers, I sense that bravado in some of the posts here e.g. "I am accepted but you are not." That said, I am nearly fluent in two other Asian languages but I always encourage those without language skills to go for it in those countries. They can usually manage to get laid with a pen and paper and some body language.[/QUOTE]The number of establishments that provide in house services is shrinking and a lot are hotel health or delivery health. A lot of places now do not advertise an office but tell you to call from the station and they direct you to the office and then a love hotel or directly to love hotel. You then have to phone and let them know where you are and the room number. I'm no good on the phone in either English or Japanese :(Of course if you can just walk into a in house parlour then that's different then generally good social skills might win out, but in my experience less common these days.
