Seeking Arrangements

Filled with pros from out of town asking outrageous prices (10 k-20 k baht), a pale local girl who wants to be your Asian spinner fantasy for just 25 k baht, and my personal favorite, a local girl who asked me "what condo are you staying at" because she wanted to "know my lifestyle". When we talked about her job, she mentioned having a hair salon, nail salon, real estate and restaurant business. Wonder how she got those by 26.

ThaiFriendly is apparently geared to short-time hookups at your apartment. Closest I got to a real date with decent English is a girl from TF who is leaving Bangkok for the islands and deleted her account. As Steve said in a previous post, when in Bangkok, do Bangkok (meaning the bar scene). Which might be a short-term solution, but is so not my scene. Heading to Manila.

Had a nice time last night with a lovely seeking girl. Wasn't totally the best in some respects. But what a sweet and earnest girl really doing her best.

We met on Seeking Jakarta three weeks ago and had great chat. She was one of the few that was a combination of nice, non-pro and reasonable for the market.

Turns out she is brand new to Seeking and I am her first date. This is quite apparent in chat when she asks for example if we meet up twice does she get allowance / gift each time! 😝She is really just a sweet, poor girl trying to figure it out.

I decide to show her the time of her life and book dinner at Henshin (67th floor of the Westin) and a corner suite at the Westin with a view to die for. She is a little late but I am an easy going guy.

When she arrives she is clearly lovely but a shade off my type due to her green eyes and even more petite than my usual petite taste. Tiniest little thing on the planet. Regardless a very pretty girl.

She is shy and little embarrassed about her English though it's very good. I speak very slowly and we able to converse. She is over the moon about the venue (it IS stunning) and of course the food and service are great.

After dinner we bounce down a floor to the bar, which also has a panoramic view. She didn't drink during dinner, but has two baileys afterwards which I think takes that nervous edge off.

We bounce to the room with little discussion and you can tell she is shy and nervous. I encircle her waist at the window and get some initial touch going. Still a bit shy.

At some point I sit on the bed and have her face me as our faces are now perfectly aligned. But she's a bit shy and turns her back to me but still between my legs. I put my hands on her waist but shortly slide them up to her tiny A cup tits. Working them in circles gets her going and after a bit she turns her head towards me for a kiss.

Things flow much more naturally after her fuse has been lit. And it's not long before she has my dick out and doing a darn good blowjob. We shed our clothes fully and continue. I am thoroughly surprised that for a petite girl she can 90% deep throat my cock. Overall solid BJ points.

I think this girl needed a good fucking because when I go to do DATY I get her pretty worked up just on the approach and when I hit her clit it's like electroshock! Honestly I am only down there maybe two minutes and she just can't take it.

That's ok. Let's move to some sex then. She needs two or three reassurances that I won't cum inside (she is very nervous about this even tho she knows I've had a vasectomy— but fair play, she doesn't know me.) But it's on after that.

With most of the indo girls I've been with it's been a slow and careful insertion over 30-60 seconds and she is similar. But for a girl as tiny as her, I am amazed she can take me balls deep once we get going.

We do all the usual positions. She seems to really enjoy the Steve, as she cranes her neck forward so we can watch my hard cock impaling her tiny body.

I can't cum in the end despite really great fucking and a solid BJ. Too much fucking and too much drink. She is very concerned about this but I assure her it's fine. And it was def not her fault.

I slip 2 M for the date plus 200 K taxi and 300 K for the dress she bought for dinner in her purse. When she finds it later she is overjoyed and I think a little incredulous that she could have an amazing evening, amazing sex, AND come out ahead. Truly a nice girl and a nice time.

Another real life example from the not too distant past. This is with a former Seeking girl; her profile is no longer active.

We negotiate over a month in advance, and this is someone I have physical experience within in the past. I'm going to her country, but not to her particular city. The city I am visiting is a few hours away by land, so she agrees she will pay for the ground transport herself.

So, the morning of, I contact her. The response I get indicates that not only did she not reserve / purchase a bus ticket already, but she doesn't even know the goddamn bus schedule, or even what bus company she will use! As if it wasn't bad enough she did not take the initiative to be prepared for the trip, she doesn't even know when the buses depart, which leaves me in the position of not knowing what time she will arrive. And like I said, she is multiple hours away, and I had initially hoped to coordinate our first day with the approximate time my flight lands, and when I get to the hotel. That's not to mention the bus potentially selling out of empty seats due to trying to get a ticket at the last minute.

So what happens next? She makes some "semi rude" remarks to me, as if I've done something wrong by politely asking her to stick to the original plan. And her excuse for not upholding her original end of the deal? She's complaining about the weather.

So how does this play out for me? I don't get to see her the first day at all, as we had previously agreed. Instead I spend the remainder of the afternoon and evening exploring the area around the hotel, and going to dinner by myself.

So the next day, she finally gets to the bus station. But rather than attempting to rectify the situation by getting there first thing when they open in the morning, she gets there in the afternoon instead. The bus doesn't leave until it's almost dark outside, so by the time she gets to me, it's really late at night. So I also missed the afternoon and most of the evening of the 2nd day too.

Granted that after she arrived, her behavior was mostly appropriate and on par. And to be fair, I will lend credence to her in that she did get legitimately sick. Thankfully nothing contagious, but something I know with 100% certainty was real. It's not the kind of "illness" you can fake. Imagine someone having an allergic reaction to food for instance; if their face turns red and their throat starts swelling to the extent they cannot breathe, this obviously is not something you can fake.

Anyway, we had agreed beforehand that I give her xxx and she's comfortable having sex at least once per day. In the end I only get half the amount of sex I hoping for, but on top of that, I basically miss two full afternoons and evenings, and even one morning that we should have had together. And that's besides the fact that I paid for a wasted night for her room reservation at the hotel.

It just goes to show you that the value you get may not necessarily be what you originally agreed to. In this particular case I don't regret the experience because I still had fun overall. But my financial risks in this scenario were VERY low. I wasn't paying for her to come to me, and I had only prepaid for one night at the hotel as a deposit. If she was a no call no show, I could just lock my credit card, and if the hotel attempted to charge the remaining balance after I checked out, at worst I could just dispute it if it somehow managed to get past the card lock.

Some people talk of setting up flights half way across the world, and spending numerous weeks or months together. Doing that is a WAY bigger financial risk than I would have been on the hook for if things go completely south. Especially if you throw in non refundable tickets for popular events that tend to sell out weeks in advance (think Coco Bongo or similar). In this case I was lucky that it was ground transportation, and she was footing the bill. But it also demonstrates that unexpected illness, injury, natural disasters, or other "uncontrollable" factors can interfere. Take your chances if you want, but if I do this in the future, I'm either playing a VERY conservative hand, or I'm likely not doing it at all. Unless the girl steps up to the plate and takes the initiative on some of the expenses, which I would agree to reimburse later. But let's be honest; how many girls working in this industry either have the money to do that, or are willing to trust a guy based on his word alone. If I ever find any foreign travel insurance that allows cancel at any time, for any reason, I will let you know. Until then, my risk tolerance for these kinds of arrangements will be VERY low.