Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

Good luck! I met my Mahal in HK 5 years ago on my way to RP; I had told her that I would then see her again 30 days later, on my way back to BKK. Never made it back to BKK, just kept flying into HK every couple of weeks from Cebu to see her on her "Holiday".

Been married 3 years, never happier! All the while that we were courting and since we've been married, my career went into a tailspin (Telecom and stock market), but life goes on, we've been very happy. Just landed a career position at the Post Office, so maybe things are looking up career wise, but the 3 of us (13 month old daughter), again, are very happy.

She has also turned into a great cook!

When you getto Negros, I hope you'll pass through San Carlos City, nice little place, but the sidewalks roll up about 21:00. Have a great trip.

Chocha Monger,

Good point! My point was that. I can see some a perfect asking to marry someone for 100k. But, many of the girls that are asking for things like he got to have a phd, 100 k has to be this and that. They aren't even close to being hot. I would consider many of them average or below average, and kinda of rough around the edges or well groomed I. e. maicure etc. I wouldn't call them classy, well educated many of he so call colleges over there are sub par. Some of them have children and are past 28 years old and they don't want anyone more than 10 years older. I would be really curious to see if any sucker takes the bait.

Pimpster,

Not only will some guys take the bait, they will swallow hook, line and sinker as well. Some of these girls may well be pushing 30 yrs of age with a few kids but the force is still strong with their pussies. Some of them will use that pussy to play Jedi mind tricks on the most skeptical of men. When that is combined with an exceptional ability to play an exquisite tune on the skin flute most love and attention starved foreigners will find themselves running to their respective embassies to fill out the paperwork for a spousal visa. They will wear the Ring and it will be the end for them.

Three rings for the Elven-kings under the sky/ Seven for the Dwarf-lords in their halls of stone/ Nine for Mortal Men, doomed to die/ One for the Dark Lord on his dark throne...
One Ring to rule them all, One Ring to find them,/ One Ring to bring them all and in the darkness bind them.... -Lord of The Rings

Where is the best place and cheapist for bareback full sex in the Philippines?

[QUOTE=Johnson994]Where is the best place and cheapist for bareback full sex in the Philippines?[/QUOTE] Really anywhere and everywhere ! But really you need to find girlfriend or a girl that thinks you will marry her ! Dont find working girl too! dangerous ok!

If you want to go bare back! find your self a good girl that thinks you will marry her! NOT WORKING GIRL! It takes time but its cheap cos only going out on dates, best I had was met a girl in shop, she was working there asked her over for a swim. She arrived with out bathing suit! So went a bought one came back had great swim. Then instead of getting her to change in public area after swim. Suggest she has shower in room more better for her. Well there she is naked and showering, Just take it from there! I did and it cost me 50 pesos a day for her to catch tricycle to work and back from my hotel stayed for 2 weeks. And what ever I wanted when I wanted fo r the cost of 50 pesos a day! Cos she thought i marry her! Okay.

There must be at least 500 reports on this subject for anyone willing to take a couple of hours and read them. Why keep posting the same information?

GE

Well it's over a month since I left the Philippines but hardly a day goes by that one of the girls I spent time with doesn't spring some surprise on me.

The girl from Manila might actually meet me in Kansas City when I go there for a holiday in January. She's going to get her student visa in November and go study in Jacksonville, Florida. This will be a first for me to have a Filipina visit me in the States. Japanese girls used to go home with me when I lived in Japan. This girl is the most normal of the 4 that I spent lots of time with in July and August.

The girl from Cebu has been asking for money pretty regularly. No surprise there you say. The difference with this one is she comes from quite a well-off family. Her father is well connected with local politicians and businessmen. He's an electrical engineer and designed the digital message board at Santo Nino Cathedral. The family drive around an SUV and live in a nice house. They're also flat broke. Business has dried up and they've actually been using my girl's money to get food and gas for the ride. Now even that's running out so she's been asking for school money, electrical bill money, etc. True to my hard-hearted self I've evaded these requests. You really have to wonder about the Philippines economy if people like this are getting destitute.

This girl also stands out as a manipulator and schemer. Among other ruses she's pulled, she tried claiming she was a virgin to get me feeling more obligated. Even at the time it was obvious she wasn't. Lately she's been more forthcoming about past boyfriends, including one guy that I've met before. Small world.

The girl from Cagayan, as I reported before, informed me after I left the Philippines that she's been married for some months. Now she's saying that she really loves only me and she's willing to divorce the other poor sod for my sake. She's offering to meet me again for my short visit in November, but I'm not sure if even I'm that immoral. But she is great company, has a firm body to die for and is a dream in bed. So I'm afraid I will remain tempted.

The girl from Davao, who charms all in her path, ran away from home. Her chat window popped up one day from Pagadian, on the other side of the island from Davao. Her father, also a professional like the one in Cebu, is similarly out of work (Is this country getting worse than ever or what?). Some family quarrels followed and she felt like she needed to get away. She's now back in Davao, working hard to pay her expensive Ateneo fees. She hasn't asked for money yet, only hinting at it so far. I might consider actually bending my personal rules and opening the wallet some.

Mind you, these girls are all quite normal, girl next door types. All are college-educated, fun to be with, very pleasing for a man in all ways. Almost any guy would consider them marriage material. But after getting to know them fairly well, only 2 of them still seem like good long-term relationship material. The one in Cebu plays too many head games and the one in Cagayan also has obvious issues. So in this sample even some of the best of the nice, regular girls are only a 50-50 bet. Food for thought for any of these guys coming over on 1-week courtship and propose tours. Everyone out there keep a clear head.

Mahku,

Thanks for the very interesting posts.

Just curious, how do you know the family is flat broke? Have you confirmed this?

It just strikes me as the same old bullshiiiiiit many of the girls use. It's pretty obvious they share information just as we do. Hell, her bull (my assumption) is probably more believable because of the situation...and a true sucker might think there is more potential for being paid back. Why depend on Daddy to give an allowance when she can make as much as Daddy scamming?

I know a lady who seems genuinly to be well off. When we chat, she appears to be in a small apartment and from what I can see she's middle class, with a good job. She's never given me any reason to doubt her, which is besides the point...

Without me prying or anything she tells me some of her friends have quit their jobs in order to scam online. I guess it pays more.

Hmmm, virtual reality prostitution.

X

I found a yahoo message board which, at first sight, seems to imply it might be similar to this message board.

In fact, some girls post, but it's mostly a bunch of Sunday school banter. One guy writes in with a bunch of religious mumbo jumbo. The next post is quoted below. At first, I thought it was real. But, now I wonder....is this very subtle sarcasm? Maybe Dominic knows...

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Well, I am bringing my best friend with me to the PI in November. We
are looking for a really godly woman as well, and we'd like the Lord to
bring her to us, and give her to us.

How do we expect to meet her?

Probably by accident, fate, or God's working.

I don't know what to do or think. But putting messages on this board is
better than sitting at home watching a movie, right?

Some of us are just a bit lonely, and would love to have lifetime
partners.

Though much of the Philippines is a chimera, now appearing as one sort of reality, and then as another sort, the decline of opportunity for middle class professionals is, it seems, real. The country is simply not creating jobs, particularly in MIndanao, and foreign investment in this island is quite modest and shrinking. It's possible therefore, that everything claimed by the women to whom Mahku refers is true. Of course, it's equally possible that it's all bullshit as this is the land of the endless variations on the same (my carabao died) scheme. The internet merely offers scope for additional thematic variations.

Xman, if these bible thumpers are not attempting sarcasm, then I hope they're committed soon. This country has enough missionaries--most of them from the US--to start several new religions. They are having an impact, as the most rapidly growing religious movements here are not Catholic, but various evangelical sects. As if this place isn't nuts enough on its own!

:D

GE

X-man
1. The sites you draw our attention to are virtual substitutes of the old marriage dating agencies. More than 15 years ago, all kinds of minor cult members used to advertize in them. Women wives, mail order, remain the Pi's chief export.
2. Good Enough's post is great food for thought and the members of whacko religions want to get out as much as good Muslim/Catholic girls.
3. Don't let membership of this esteemed forum con you into believing that all Asian women want to be hookers/doormats for white guys.
4. Given the zero options available with being a good Catholic, it makes sense to join a whacko cult and divorce oneself off from the untouchables. Anyone familiar with India's caste sytem will understand this dynamic.
5. Davao is littered with whacko churches: they are well funded and dynamic. They offer certainty in this crazy country.
6. In Rizal Park every weekend (3 pm Sunday is best), the bible thumpers all meet and duke it out. It is great fun and a real eye opener. Domino has joined in on a few occasions and has won all his bouts. He has only met one Pinoy who knows the score: a burly schoolteacher he took for a goon/hitman told him the authorities are happy with this biblical circus as it keeps the unemployed masses happy with "bread and circuses". The priest opposite in San Pedro Cthedral, meanwhile, rabbits on, mentioning corruption etc but cannot hit the nail on the head as someone will then hit im on the head.

[QUOTE=X Man]Mahku,

Just curious, how do you know the family is flat broke? Have you confirmed this?


X[/QUOTE]

Very good point. In fact I can't even be sure that this girl is even a member of this family, and not just part of a well-planned scam.

That's why my rule when faced with these situations is this: Express total sympathy, believe only what I've seen with my own eyes, and above all cultivate a blank spot in my vocabulary for such words as 'Western Union.'

Laughed out loud when I read your post.

I'll assume you have a gut feeling that this girl / family is legit.

As Dominic rightly points out, not all the ladies are scamming and Xing. That would be a generalization and a stereotype which is very untue.

x

Ah Mahku, if I had not met you I would think you were something of a skeptic. Who could doubt the continuing soap opera-like epic that is life in the Philippines? Nothing here is sad; it must be tragic. The concept of liking does not exist, but loving madly certainly does. Mild anger is not within the Philippine lexicon, but screaming hyteria is common.

The personal life histories of these ladies are but microcosms of the political arena, in which there are villains and heros aplenty, and they are mostly interchangeable, but there are no shades of gray. This is a culture in which subtlety does not seem to exist, and which has no sense of its own irony.

This is a place deeply imbued with the importance of empty, but sweepingly dramatic symbolic gestures, which is what allows the government to pass myriads of laws to help the poor, few of which are ever implemented and even fewer of which are ever funded. This is a country that articulates wonderfully ambitious economic goals which, once trumpeted with great fanfare, slowly sink beneath the muck of public consciousness, never to be heard of again, only to be replaced by similar, if not identical fiats several months later.

Truth, as we would define the concept in the West, is not synonomous with truth here. Facts count far less than transient emotions, which may be expressed sincerely at the time they are uttered, only to be forgotten as the next emotion sweeps through. Therefore, if a girl needs to make up a preposterous story to express how she is feeling at a given moment, the recounted facts may be (usually are) bullshit, but the emotion is probably valid, albeit temporary.

Succinctly, life here is but a play, and the Filipinos, for the most part, merely players. The tragedy is that the farce has been running so long that it's now accepted as reality.

:D

GE

[QUOTE=Porty]Really anywhere and everywhere ! But really you need to find girlfriend or a girl that thinks you will marry her ! Dont find working girl too! dangerous ok!

If you want to go bare back! find your self a good girl that thinks you will marry her! NOT WORKING GIRL! It takes time but its cheap cos only going out on dates, best I had was met a girl in shop, she was working there asked her over for a swim. She arrived with out bathing suit! So went a bought one came back had great swim. Then instead of getting her to change in public area after swim. Suggest she has shower in room more better for her. Well there she is naked and showering, Just take it from there! I did and it cost me 50 pesos a day for her to catch tricycle to work and back from my hotel stayed for 2 weeks. And what ever I wanted when I wanted fo r the cost of 50 pesos a day! Cos she thought i marry her! Okay.[/QUOTE]Thanks. It seems you are the only one that answered my question. I am not that good looking but I will try a regular girl and then if I strike out I will look for a working girl. Where are the working girls?