Gentlemen start your evening. Useful facts part 1
What do you think men, best bar to kick off your night in Wanchai?
I'm torn between Carnegie's and Delaney's until 9pm.
The Indonesian creampie (potential risks)
[QUOTE=Chantik; 1281148]Nighthawk.
Issue with non-use of condoms has nothing to do with disliking their life / job. At least 90% of D / H love HK.
It is more a case of no knowledge and maybe a small chance to get pregnant.
Some of the Indo girls don't even know that some drugs are illegal.[/QUOTE]Really hate to disgress from issues of sex and focus on the potential result of such. This effort by the Indonesian girls to get pregnant sounds like something to be filed in the "endless cycle of poverty" bin to me. Would not want a child of mine, even if created via devious means, raised in the village.
I just cannot see how the pregnancy route is working out for them, particulary when they have no idea who the father is. There are enough compassionate suckers out willing to support some other guy's kid? In particular I am thinking of the DH I met last week who was willing to bareback. Gets around. Figure she discovers she's pregnant in several weeks, or months. What is the likelihood of sorting this out?
And not insubstantially, wouldn't this pregnancy cause some issues with employers / visas? Whew.
Those damned cock blockers
[QUOTE=Yhddude13;1281081]Do you guys have experience with girls that cock block? I had a girl that I had been with a couple of times, but I have made it clear that I like my freedom and thats why I go to bars. I saw her at a bar and she was with a table of ladies. One or two were very interesting, but I got the feeling she froze me out. Do you think I am the cause or do women really do that? Any advice.[/QUOTE]Yhddude13:
It has happened to me, too, and I felt like a dork before realizing not to take ANYTHING that happens in the bars personally. Seriously, would you bank on the judgments / opinions of the girls you would find in Wan Chai. I am coming to the conclusion that, if anything, I am far too effin respectful to them. In fact, many of the girls seemed to be utterly chamed by the fellows who are acting like the biggest asses. Not my style, but that's the way many of the ladies like it. Suppose they like the confident man, asshole or no. (And don't get me wrong: if done artfully the showoff can sometimes even be amusing)
But I digress. With the friends giving you the could shoulder perhaps there's some kind of "face" issue involved where the original girl you have been with would look bad if you were to get the other.
You might just bide your time and end up seeing the girl you're interested in on her own.
In the end, I don't think that most of these girls are really "friends" in the real sense, and would sell their friend out in a New York second to get a client (I'm assuming you're talking about WGs here).
In my case, I initially was slightly upset (that being a relative term; there are just too many girls to even get worked up over one) that perhaps the girl I had been with may have told the friend that I wasn't a nice guy or some nonsense, but who knows.
You will encounter the most inexplicable behavior with these girls. I'm sure a good number of them are users. Very polite and friendly greetings can elicit a "fuck off" glare from the girls. It's their way of holding power, perhaps. Whatever. Give as well as you get and move on.