Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=MikeBayArea;2999428]Wait. Getting played before getting laid. I haven't sent any money nor will I. I'm supposed to meet her next week. Part of my thought process was that at 35 years old, no tattoos, seemingly normal, she is not a drugging risk. How am I getting played before I get laid?[/QUOTE]I don't see any issues with meeting someone to get to know them. The biggest issue is usually girls asking money online for nothing. Here, the biggest issue is probably that she wants to see you while you are here and you may want to see other girls. The money part is tricky. If she is not asking for money and you guys have sex then she has certain expectations as to the nature of the relationship because she isn't meeting you because she is horny and wants to have sex with you because you are so handsome. There are plenty of good looking local men who want to meet with her. So the question really is what is her intent? It may just be meeting a foreigner with money who can treat her nice and take her to nice restaurants and give her some gifts. Nothing wrong with that except that she would get upset if she finds out you are having sex with multiple women here.

I prefer to pay women so I don't have these issues. The nature of the relationship is clear and it is understood that she is one of many and there is no expectation of anything else going on.

[QUOTE=Turgid;2999440]It is not really a concern and has nothing to do with underage girls, I can navigate that easily. Before I get there I feel like banging a chica but when I arrive I don't. I just get a bad vibe there so I'll avoid. Must follow my instinct. Thanks for the offer.[/QUOTE]Just take a 20 MG Cialis about 45 minutes before arrive to plaza Botero.

[QUOTE=MikeBayArea;2999428]Wait. Getting played before getting laid. I haven't sent any money nor will I. I'm supposed to meet her next week. Part of my thought process was that at 35 years old, no tattoos, seemingly normal, she is not a drugging risk. How am I getting played before I get laid?[/QUOTE]OMG BRO! You do not have to go through all this just for some pussy. As soon as you bust a nut and realize you don't speak the same language, will you really want this girl around? Take things slow! If you want a GFE, then get a GFE and go on some dates or do an overnight, but any American man would be out of his mind to consider marrying a girl from Colombia and attaching his finances to her. That's like getting a loan from the Mafia back in the day to start a business. You know there going to bleed you dry until you got absolutely nothing left.

Have fun, watch your drink. Use common sense. Always think, if its too good to be true, then it is. Every once in awhile, you do see a real relationship form. They are very rare and its usually a successful guy who can get a decent woman in the USA, but wants a slightly hotter and younger girl from Colombia. Is that you? If not, then don't chance it.

Any recommendations? I looked back over the most recent 20 or so pages and found nothing about hotels other than the St. Peter.

I want a place that is chica-friendly and has either a pool or jacuzzi.

Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=MoonShot;2999445]I prefer to pay women so I don't have these issues. The nature of the relationship is clear and it is understood that she is one of many and there is no expectation of anything else going on.[/QUOTE]You know you can also have that without paying. And there are also cases when you pay that the woman has expectations a part from the money.

[QUOTE=MikeBayArea;2998658]Hey I'm coming out from May 3rd to May 10th. Staying at Hotel Haven. Anyone want to grab a drink?[/QUOTE]I will be in town the Apr30-May5. Always looking to hang out to get a drink or dinner and enjoy some conversations.

[QUOTE=MikeBayArea;2998552]What's up everyone! Hope to meet some of you during my trip May 3rd through May 10th. I'll be staying at Haven Hotel. I'm already busy trying to make contacts with Chicas on Seeking, FB, and Bumble. Yes, I am aware of the risks with these girls, and I am actually quite nervous about it. I may just stick to Casas and paid escort sites at the end of the day.

But I wanted to run some ideas past this group to get your feedback. Ideally, it would be great if I trusted that I could drink, eat, and relax with some hot Colombian women todos LOS noches, and not have a care in the world. But sadly, for a newbie, with bad Spanish, and a Gringo, I know that's not the case. That is a recipe to get drugged and robbed.

So, my thought is that I will stick to one hour dates in my hotel. Girls need ID to enter. I will not drink or eat anything around them. Wouldn't this be a decent enough strategy to stay safe.

I know these girls doing the druggings are experts, and they can make the guy feel comfortable and let his guard down. That is my only concern. So I might have to have a rule that I don't see a girl more than once, or I don't allow any woman over for more than one hour. What do you all think?[/QUOTE]If you have front desk personnel that have to check everyone or security then you're your golden. One thing you can do if you have security tip them and ask them anytime a girls leaves they have to call you when she goes to check out (some places hold their I. The or take a picture of it) . That way they make sure you are good and not unconscious. Doesn't mean you can let your guard all the way down but it helps protect you a bit. When I travel I'm careful when I drink (don't over drink) I don't do drugs, don't act stupid, not be flashy, carry only the cash you need, get a good ATM that has no fees (charles Schwab). If you find a pretty good girl there is no reason you can't see her again, just keep your wits about you. I probably will 2 I've seen before when I'm back there next week but will look to find some new ones. I use FB alot.

[QUOTE=MikeBayArea;2999363]You're not wrong. I'm sure she is already being taken care of by multiple guys. I'm curious to see nonetheless, but I'm not delusional by any means, that this is real. Sometimes the connection is strong and it can lead to something meaningful. And I'm not interested in children at this point, so if this ends up being a three year relationship or so, I guess it would be worth the time. With prenup in place.[/QUOTE]Does she have a job and kids? I think it has to cost you something. The average person there who has a job makes peanuts compare to the average worker in the US.

I know a few working people who work 6 to 7 days a week. Where would someone have the to time to meet someone for nothing?

She has to expect something because most Colombians think all Americans are wealthy.

[QUOTE=AmorPorFavor;2995786]Everybody is talking about time and prices paid but nobody is talking about what they look like and if they are giving you BBFS without an upcharge. Looks are very important to me. Some SA girls are very hot but they almost always want a premium just because they are on SA. I would say about 200 m more than they are worth. I stopped using it but now have a stable of chicas from FB and a few from SA that charge a fair price and are ready to see me.[/QUOTE]Yeah on the sites they start to get the GPS and think they are worth more. Plus when guys pay the higher amount then don't want to start taking less.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2999438]I do not get it. You talk like you have never met a normal woman online before. I meet dozens every year, so I am not seeing the big deal or disbelief.[/QUOTE]I've definitely met normal women. But I've never been to Colombia, and I'm honestly freaked out about the druggings that happen here, and perhaps I'm being overly cautions, but this girl does not seem like the type, but what do I know.

[QUOTE=KeviKev68;2999566]Does she have a job and kids? I think it has to cost you something. The average person there who has a job makes peanuts compare to the average worker in the US.

I know a few working people who work 6 to 7 days a week. Where would someone have the to time to meet someone for nothing?

She has to expect something because most Colombians think all Americans are wealthy.[/QUOTE]She says she has no kids and just lost her job. She's on seeking and I saw her on Tinder. So clearly she has guys financing her. And yes, she clearly wants something which is a US passport, and I'm not really under the illusion that it could work out. She does speak some English and it was nice for a minute to fantasize that it could work out, but the truth is pretty clear as the date gets closer.

[QUOTE=RamDavidson84;2999479]OMG BRO! You do not have to go through all this just for some pussy. As soon as you bust a nut and realize you don't speak the same language, will you really want this girl around? Take things slow! If you want a GFE, then get a GFE and go on some dates or do an overnight, but any American man would be out of his mind to consider marrying a girl from Colombia and attaching his finances to her. That's like getting a loan from the Mafia back in the day to start a business. You know there going to bleed you dry until you got absolutely nothing left.

Have fun, watch your drink. Use common sense. Always think, if its too good to be true, then it is. Every once in awhile, you do see a real relationship form. They are very rare and its usually a successful guy who can get a decent woman in the USA, but wants a slightly hotter and younger girl from Colombia. Is that you? If not, then don't chance it.[/QUOTE]I know. I know. I was joking in my message when I said she was beautiful and we should get married. And then it just spiraled. But I know this isn't real. And I agree I don't want to create a false impression and then have her upset when I'm not going to follow through with it. But I would definitely do a prenup if it were to happen, but it's not. I can get women in the USA but not a dime piece like her in the USA. This type of girl would be on millionaire yachts and such, and in reality, if I were to do this, she would shortly be ditching me for one of those guys, so it's not going to happen.

[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2999523]I want a place that is chica-friendly and has either a pool or jacuzzi.
[/QUOTE]Energy Living.

[QUOTE=KeviKev68;2999566]Does she have a job and kids? I think it has to cost you something. The average person there who has a job makes peanuts compare to the average worker in the US.[/QUOTE]Neither does the average person in Colombia have $2,000 rent as would the average American worker. It is all relative. It is not how much you make; it is how much you need to spend where you live.

[QUOTE=KeviKev68;2999566]I know a few working people who work 6 to 7 days a week. Where would someone have the to time to meet someone for nothing?[/QUOTE]Is that your perception of Colombians? Do Colombian women meet Colombian men "for nothing" or do they just stay alone without a mate all of their days? Everybody is not on the take!

[QUOTE=KeviKev68;2999566]She has to expect something because most Colombians think all Americans are wealthy.[/QUOTE]You must have very limited interactions with normal people, because after 20 of coming to Colombia and dating normal women, I can assure you this is not the case.

Why are you engaging in these conversations anyway? Do you really think she is attracted to you when she has never even met you?

Do above attractive women in the USA have chats with you not even knowing you?

I personally know of gringos that fall for this and send money. One even tried to bring the girl back to the states.

These girls are desperate to get out of their economic situation. They will say anything to get out.

As Mr. Enternational replied, "tell them you want to live in Medellin".

From my experience, these girls will shift gears and want you to send money on a regular basis then.

[QUOTE=MikeBayArea;2999312]Ok, so I'm chatting with a 35 year old. Really pretty in pretty much every way. Like was a drop dead gorgeous type. No tattoos. Clearly a dime piece. And wanting to marry for American citizenship and acting like it's real. Anyways, I'm meeting up wither her. I'm sure she's going to sell the dream. But literally I just imagine her jetting off to LA or Miami the second the fiance visa goes into play. Give me some game, yall?[/QUOTE]