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[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1421158]Opened my web site chat line.
Messages as received below.
She: Hi hello I like your profile. I want to meet you.
Me: Did you read my profile?
She: Yes.
Me: So you understand that you are way too young; much too chubby and short in height for me and I don't like that you smoke.
She: OK. So can we meet.
Duuuuhhhhhh[/QUOTE]RK.
Maybe she misread it and thought you were talking about yourself and she felt pity and wanted to meet an old chubby man? No comments please LOL
[QUOTE=Fredje1961;1421267]Indeed he realizes he did and he regrets. I think that's honorable. Nobody is perfect but admitting & learning from your mistakes is a proof of wisdom (as far as I'm concerned).[/QUOTE]But how did he not know it in the first place?
This isn't an "asian women" or "crazy pinay" thing.
You going to give a white woman an honest answer to "does this make me look fat?"
[QUOTE=Wicked Roger;1421367]. she felt pity and wanted to meet an old chubby man?[/QUOTE]Yes obviously she likes chubby guys and sent the wrong message to me instead of you.
[QUOTE=X Man;1421346]Nevertheless, Westerners should know that in most Asian cultures, criticism / conflict is best softened or avoided. Watching some self-important Western arse ranting at the desk clerk about the pool closure (due to cleaning) makes me cringe. Just thinking about it.[/QUOTE]Hmmmm must be the heat. I once again find myself agreeing whole-heartedly with the X Man. I see this sort of "rant" regularly and I hate it too.
[QUOTE=Wicked Roger; 1421367]RK.
Maybe she misread it and thought you were talking about yourself and she felt pity and wanted to meet an old chubby man? No comments please LOL[/QUOTE]WR,
Very funny! Perhaps, all mongers can benefit by looking at themselves from the girl's point of view. There is something about the Philippines that makes all mongers feel like they are young handsome men. Your comment is poignant reminder of the reality of what the girls see, elderly balding fat men with worn wrinkled leathery tools and lots of pesos.
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger; 1421677]WR,
Very funny! Perhaps, all mongers can benefit by looking at themselves from the girl's point of view. There is something about the Philippines that makes all mongers feel like they are young handsome men. Your comment is poignant reminder of the reality of what the girls see, elderly balding fat men with worn wrinkled leathery tools and lots of pesos.[/QUOTE]Correct, and most important thing they see, when they look into your eyes, dollar signs!
I think that the notion of honest talk and "letting it all hang out" is an American / Western trait.
I believe that Filipinos are incapable of a let-the-chips-fall-where-they-may conversation.
I would also venture that blunt, direct talk is seen as hurtful rather than helpful, and so conversation is directed toward smoothing over relations. See "pakikisama."
[QUOTE=SergeantRay;1421840]I believe that Filipinos are incapable of a let-the-chips-fall-where-they-may conversation.[/QUOTE]Try being married to one for 25 years. My sweet little wife can light into me as good as my ex-American wife. Some say that Filipinas have short memories, again, my wife remembers every one of my screw-ups from day one.
But and there is always a but, I would not change a thing. Even though, I used to kid her about swapping her out for two twenty-year olds when she hit 40, she is a keeper. ;)
Slim
Had a minor chat with a cute faced young lady on a website. Next day she sends me " Hi Freebie, my prayer group is heading to Pakistan and I'm wondering if you could go with me". Hmm that ranks as this years most unusual request. Suggested Pakistan wasnt the right place for a cute young girl who would be kidnapped and never released by those heathens there.
She said she agreed. Since then the little prayer singing lady in Cavite has shown me all her 18 year old charms including a rather fine body, and told me rather delightfully that she's bored with prayer and wants to try "real life". She's also suggested that my camera would be a fine idea to capture our romps on the bed (is my instinct trying to tell me to beware, I can't hear it) , and that if I hear a popping sound it might be the sound of her cherry bursting. Why does all this sound to good to be true! Chatting to these ladies sure beats working.
Few years back and every girl who send you her YM details. These days, YM seems to be dead in the water. Now its all skype and fb details.
Soon we hope its will be whatsapp / viber / wechat details. Much easier.
[QUOTE=FreebieFan; 1423104]Few years back and every girl who send you her YM details. These days, YM seems to be dead in the water. Now its all skype and fb details.
Soon we hope its will be whatsapp / viber / wechat details. Much easier.[/QUOTE]Because they know that on Skype you can only do one on one chat. YM, you can multitask. FB chat work over Skype too.
Recently I saw this one.
"Are you telling to me a LAYER?"
Actually, I hope you are a "layer."
I wonder if she really meant "Liar" or "Lawyer," but what's the difference?
I recently joined Filipino Kisses. They have a feature in which the girl is asked to rate her interest in sex ----high, medium, or low.
I've been using the sex interest as a filter. Any girl who responds "low" sex interest I avoid. If she leaves it blank, marks everything high or medium, okay, but anyone who marks low I skip.
Has anyone had any experience with this? Any thoughts?
[QUOTE=Mbsl65;1423203]Because they know that on Skype you can only do one on one chat. YM, you can multitask. FB chat work over Skype too.[/QUOTE]And many of the girls have smart phones where they can also Cam2Cam via Skype, which I don't think you can do via YM on a cell phone.
[QUOTE=Pip Jaeger;1424451]And many of the girls have smart phones where they can also Cam2Cam via Skype, which I don't think you can do via YM on a cell phone.[/QUOTE]I know IOS YM will let you do cam2cam