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Hi Everybody,
Had a urge to revisit the cats at the Quoz grounds. Could not help but Select the favorite Lina, had a great quality time with her, nice kissing and a sensual experience, finished with visits to both the doorways, what a great time and service.
Left with a reasonable tip towards the good performance.
BB
[QUOTE=My Kapitan]This is a joke yes?
1 yes
2 never
3 rough (note spelling, as in goal not ruff)- yes an open prison for her not you.
4 none
You must have read this forum. Get real.
I am finding myself adding more to this reply.. IMHO u must be mad endorsing a move to dxb for her.
You claim to know the girl - if so - May it be on your conscience forever.[/QUOTE]
That poor girl can look forward to having to suck her Arab master's cock on a daily basis. Her three holes will belong to him for the next three years. And she can look forward to being beaten by his jealous wife. Anyone reading the news knows what fate awaits a young Filipina domestic worker in Dubai. She is selling herself into indentured servitude. The only sex she'll get is what her master and his friends give to her during her enslavement.
[QUOTE=Bionicman]You seems a bit impatient or too horny...your two only posts happened in a bunch of a few hours with the same question.
Or you scheduled a sting operation that risks now to be delayed?:))
For immediate answers try Yellow Pages.
..by the way, you have subscribed to ISG, haven't you?[/QUOTE]Yes just subscribed and didn't see my first message posted so fired another.
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]That poor girl can look forward to having to suck her Arab master's cock on a daily basis. Her three holes will belong to him for the next three years. And she can look forward to being beaten by his jealous wife. Anyone reading the news knows what fate awaits a young Filipina domestic worker in Dubai. She selling herself into indentured servitude. The only sex she'll get is what her master and his friends give to her during her enslavement.[/QUOTE]
When I first started meeting Filipinas in UAE/Dubai I was amazed at how much their lives suck in that country. The ones that are working square jobs are making peanuts( which they have to share with their families back in PI) but more peanuts than they could make back home. Constant harassment from the locals. Passport seizures by employers, no vacation time not to mention 3-4 of them living in two bedroom apartments.
Incredible.
[QUOTE=Chocha Monger]That poor girl can look forward to having to suck her Arab master's cock on a daily basis. Her three holes will belong to him for the next three years. And she can look forward to being beaten by his jealous wife. Anyone reading the news knows what fate awaits a young Filipina domestic worker in Dubai. She selling herself into indentured servitude. The only sex she'll get is what her master and his friends give to her during her enslavement.[/QUOTE]With all due respect - what a load of bullshit. Of course there are some cases of abuse, just like there are cases of domestic abuse in any country. Filipina and maids of any nationality can and do report abuse to their embassies or labor offices, and the cases are taken seriously by the UAE authorities. I know many maids, and they are happy working in Dubai, for both the conditions and the salary, relative to their lives back in their home countries (which often involve very little or no salary and plenty of domestic abuse). Yes, there are some sad exceptions.
Interestingly, even in Saudi Arabia the authorities are cracking down hard on mistreatment of domestic staff.
[QUOTE=Piper1]With all due respect - what a load of bullshit. Of course there are some cases of abuse, just like there are cases of domestic abuse in any country. Filipina and maids of any nationality can and do report abuse to their embassies or labor offices, and the cases are taken seriously by the UAE authorities. I know many maids, and they are happy working in Dubai, for both the conditions and the salary, relative to their lives back in their home countries (which often involve very little or no salary and plenty of domestic abuse). Yes, there are some sad exceptions.
Interestingly, even in Saudi Arabia the authorities are cracking down hard on mistreatment of domestic staff.[/QUOTE]I am completely in agreement with Piper1.
I, along with many of my friends have maids and I certainly do not multreat mine and my friends don't either. All the maids I know in this circle are pretty happy. They have their own rooms and bathrooms (not shared at all with any body). They all tend to have a day off per week (often Fridays). We treat them well, they eat the same food as we do and they are allowed to help themself to the fridge/freeze and cupboards for anything they need. What is the point keeping an unhappy employee in your house?
Yes; I have heard cases of abuse and the common saying that often the locals/Arabs are more demanading from their maids and the westeners are far more linient and compasionate.
I guess it all boils down to finding a good family to work for.
[QUOTE=Piper1]With all due respect - what a load of bullshit. Of course there are some cases of abuse, just like there are cases of domestic abuse in any country. Filipina and maids of any nationality can and do report abuse to their embassies or labor offices, and the cases are taken seriously by the UAE authorities. I know many maids, and they are happy working in Dubai, for both the conditions and the salary, relative to their lives back in their home countries (which often involve very little or no salary and plenty of domestic abuse). Yes, there are some sad exceptions.
Interestingly, even in Saudi Arabia the authorities are cracking down hard on mistreatment of domestic staff.[/QUOTE]I agree with you Piper....I mean the post from this guy should be moved off the forum.
Since when is the fate or rights of domestic home help in Dubai a main point of discussion in a MONGERING forum!
Tell the guy goto 7days.ae or gulfnews.com or dubizzle.com or even better expatwomen.com. and not to come here on this particular forum and expect civilised debate on the matter
[QUOTE=Reefski]ROTFLMFAO!
And that's on a GOOD day....
Reef[/QUOTE]
Yes Reefski, and that's if she has a good day! These Filipina domestic labor contracts have something unwritten in the fine print to the effect of, "And all of your holes shall be at the sole disposal of your master at all times during the term of this contract."
I know that human rights organizations have pushed for some reforms but reports show that most girls don't use those resources out of intimidation, and when they do it's a last resort. A Filipina servant's word doesn't carry much weight against that of her master and she knows it. Most will do whatever it takes to keep the master happy. Things are much simpler that way. With all of their holes constantly occupied in keeping the master happy they soon forget about any boyfriends they had before. In fact, some lucky concubines may even be well rewarded for exceptional service and devotion.
[QUOTE=Piper1]With all due respect - what a load of bullshit. Of course there are some cases of abuse, just like there are cases of domestic abuse in any country. Filipina and maids of any nationality can and do report abuse to their embassies or labor offices.[/QUOTE]
I tend to agree with this.
If things get rough, there are many ways out.
The labour dept. has a helpline and I know a few people that got out of bad situations with dickhead employers simply by reporting these guys to the labour department.
Also the Philipines embassy and OFW associations are pretty good with helping in these situations.
Also.. its true.. there are many happy maids here and a lot of families I know treat them very well and with a great deal of respect. Almost like a family member rather than a servant.
But back to the original poster... You are still an idiot to let her come here and work as a maid for many many reasons that others have already mentioned. (Although exaggerated slightly I must say).
Plus.. your questions tell me that you and she both do not know anything about this place. Always better to learn as much as you can before making these types of decisions.
She will be lucky if she earns 1200 AED a month (around 15 - 17 thou pesos).
Sounds like a lot.. but in Dubai.. does not go far.
Some maids only get 800 a month.
Even if she does not get abused.. its still a pretty miserable experience even with a half decent family.
She is better off working at Hardees or Burger King or KFC. She will earn a little more, get to stay with other filipinas in the company accommodation and will get 1 day off a week. plus vacation time every year and a free ticket home every 2 years.
Shes also free to do whatever she wants outside of working hours.
Only qualifications she needs are a bit of experience working at a resteraunt and passable English.
You should tell her to get some waitressing experience at home and then help her get a job here. No real qualifications are required for that type of job and come October, resteraunts, hotels etc. will start to increase headcount to cope with the busy season.
A lot of people were let go over the slow summer period and they will need to increase staff for sure.
So before she condemns herself to what could possibly be 3 years of hell, let her think carefully about other options.
Dubai aint all its cracked up to be and even now.. many people seem to think of it as a land of opportunity.. sure... lots of opportunities for them to get exploited.
Of course if shes lucky... it could all work out just fine and her employers might turn out to be really nice folk that treat her very well...
Find out what nationality they are, how old, how many kids etc.
You never know.
After all that... I just realized that you never mentioned where she was from.
Dont know why I just assumed Filipino. Wherever she is from though... its pretty much similar.
If she is only 19, and filipina I am surprised that she is even being allowed to come here. The Philippines government is pretty strict about girls that young coming here to work as domestics. Way too many cases of abuse.
Make sure she didn't get this job through an illegal recruiter that wants her to pay a 'commission' to find her a job. Those bastards are evil and her life will be miserable for a long time... the debt never seems to clear up because the interest plan is designed that way.
I tell you all this from personal experience and I have helped my fair share of young naive girls in similar situations before. And no.. I didn't bonk all of them.. only 1 or two... i swear!
:)
WB
[QUOTE=Wiseblood 213]I tend to agree with this.
If things get rough, there are many ways out.
The labour dept. has a helpline and I know a few people that got out of bad situations with dickhead employers simply by reporting these guys to the labour department.
Also the Philipines embassy and OFW associations are pretty good with helping in these situations.
....
I tell you all this from personal experience and I have helped my fair share of young naive girls in similar situations before. And no.. I didn't bonk all of them.. only 1 or two... i swear![/QUOTE]I totally agree with WB and Piper. I don't have a maid as I travel too much but my relatives have one. I can confidently say that they are treated nicely and with respect. This conclusion is not just based on few hour visits to the relatives' home but when I have stayed there i observed.
Abuse can vary from person to person. You cannot say that everyone is filling holes of their maids.
BUT still the best option is to work at hardess etc... I second this. Try to work in those lines.
Hope someone can help me out. I stumbled across your site and I'm now visiting Dubai, staying at the Royal Ascot. Does anyone have any suggestions as to where to find some working ladies in the evenings during Ramadan? PRC or hot little Filipinas would be my preference. From browsing some of the posts in here, it appears that since I'm not a paying member (yet), I don't have a pm function. I do however have a phone number where I can be reached, but a post here would do just as well. Any help you fellows could provide would be VERY much appreciated! It figures I get sent here on business during Ramadan. Please help!
Pete
[QUOTE=Wiseblood 213]I tend to agree with this.
If things get rough, there are many ways out.
The labour dept. has a helpline and I know a few people that got out of bad situations with dickhead employers simply by reporting these guys to the labour department.
Also the Philipines embassy and OFW associations are pretty good with helping in these situations.
Also.. its true.. there are many happy maids here and a lot of families I know treat them very well and with a great deal of respect. Almost like a family member rather than a servant.
But back to the original poster... You are still an idiot to let her come here and work as a maid for many many reasons that others have already mentioned. (Although exaggerated slightly I must say).
Plus.. your questions tell me that you and she both do not know anything about this place. Always better to learn as much as you can before making these types of decisions.
She will be lucky if she earns 1200 AED a month (around 15 - 17 thou pesos).
Sounds like a lot.. but in Dubai.. does not go far.
Some maids only get 800 a month.
Even if she does not get abused.. its still a pretty miserable experience even with a half decent family.
She is better off working at Hardees or Burger King or KFC. She will earn a little more, get to stay with other filipinas in the company accommodation and will get 1 day off a week. plus vacation time every year and a free ticket home every 2 years.
Shes also free to do whatever she wants outside of working hours.
Only qualifications she needs are a bit of experience working at a resteraunt and passable English.
You should tell her to get some waitressing experience at home and then help her get a job here. No real qualifications are required for that type of job and come October, resteraunts, hotels etc. will start to increase headcount to cope with the busy season.
A lot of people were let go over the slow summer period and they will need to increase staff for sure.
So before she condemns herself to what could possibly be 3 years of hell, let her think carefully about other options.
Dubai aint all its cracked up to be and even now.. many people seem to think of it as a land of opportunity.. sure... lots of opportunities for them to get exploited.
Of course if shes lucky... it could all work out just fine and her employers might turn out to be really nice folk that treat her very well...
Find out what nationality they are, how old, how many kids etc.
You never know.
After all that... I just realized that you never mentioned where she was from.
Dont know why I just assumed Filipino. Wherever she is from though... its pretty much similar.
If she is only 19, and filipina I am surprised that she is even being allowed to come here. The Philippines government is pretty strict about girls that young coming here to work as domestics. Way too many cases of abuse.
Make sure she didn't get this job through an illegal recruiter that wants her to pay a 'commission' to find her a job. Those bastards are evil and her life will be miserable for a long time... the debt never seems to clear up because the interest plan is designed that way.
I tell you all this from personal experience and I have helped my fair share of young naive girls in similar situations before. And no.. I didn't bonk all of them.. only 1 or two... i swear!
:)
WB[/QUOTE]
Well, to answer your questions, She is from Zamboanga, Philippines.
It is her decision to do this although I was supporting her. She is not the studying type which I was eager to help. Not really from a very poor family. Own some land and her family in the province lives off the land. She was living in zamboanga as a maid helping her aunt she says who has two kids.
I believe she has a friend who is working in Dubai and she got recommended by her friend. Not really a money hungry girl maybe because of her young age and being naieve. Our relationship started online and proceeded to this stage for one year now. She gave me the impression that she wants to make a life for herself rather than be a maid in PHI. Whatever her reasons are I do respect her decision. Coming from U.S. I was just surprised that she told me she may not get any time off during her three year contract. I am sure she will make friends with other Philippino people in dubai and who knows , may find a Phi guy to marry her.
I am sure if things get unbearable she will go back and I will support her. While I know very well domestic sexual, physical and mental abuse can occur any place in the world including Philippines for domestic servants, I believe she is probably better off working in a foreign country. It will give her self confidence and maturity to handle situations. Known or unknown abuse situations maybe there but all I can do this stage is make her aware of the situation. I am sure her friend who is working in dubai will definitely help her and teach her and possibly has already explained everything to her before she made the decision to go. She is not sure of the days off and holidays situation and that is why I asked my questions here.
[QUOTE=Psy Read]I can make directions on google map and send it to you, but for that your PM should work.
Can you do something about it or let me know your email address some how.[/QUOTE]Dear Psy Read
Could you please just put (lat / long) of the place on the forum.
Everybody can use this to find the place easily.
[QUOTE=Sammon]Well, to answer your questions, She is from Zamboanga, Philippines.............
I am sure her friend who is working in dubai will definitely help her and teach her and possibly has already explained everything to her before she made the decision to go. She is not sure of the days off and holidays situation and that is why I asked my questions here.[/QUOTE]
I am not flaming but I have read some sort of contradictions. She might have a friend but if she is not going to ahve days off how can she meet her and be "helped"?
How did she know this friend?
Again I do not want to depict hell, but how many times we read friends calling a girl to a foreign countries and then the hairdresser job is mainly
devoted to observe the "lower" hair of men?
It is good that you ask here on the forum but as you saw you got many different opinions (and a few wise advices), but the utlimate response on your questions (days off etc) can onluy come from the family, from the deal she is going to do (or accept)
Others have been elaborating lots of other issues better and jsut before me. So I do not repeat those concepts.
Admirable how you want to help her, but how much do you know her in reality?
I am always skeptical of these web romances...
[QUOTE=Psy Read]I can make directions on google map and send it to you, but for that your PM should work.
Can you do something about it or let me know your email address some how.[/QUOTE]If I could give you my email address it would be my name as it appears in the forum at the g spot for mail.
Sorry guys, a payment taken off my credit card would certainly raise the wife's eyebrows. I would love to be a paid subscriber but don't know how to get around it without getting busted.