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Here is my conundrum, I am making my arrangements to meet old and new girls for my upcoming trip, whilst doing some research on one of my contacts I find she has been advertising her need for a discreet gentlemen. Now do I tell her I know about her other services she provides and risk a rate hike or act dumb and just leave the usual rate for the job done. It is a tough life
[QUOTE=Col Law;1457694]Here is my conundrum, I am making my arrangements to meet old and new girls for my upcoming trip, whilst doing some research on one of my contacts I find she has been advertising her need for a discreet gentlemen. Now do I tell her I know about her other services she provides so it cuts down on the be / s and risk a rate hike or act dumb and just leave the usual rate for the job done. It is a tough life[/QUOTE]My advice is do not control her life unless you plan to marry her or keep her on monthly support. Just enjoy your time with her and leave.
These girls do whatever they want to survive a tough life.
Some girls have shown me pictures of who they met and fucked once I get friendly with them. It is of no consequence to me what they do.
[QUOTE=Amanut;1444375]In preparation for my next trip I have been chatting with a few ladies on FC.[/QUOTE]Sorry, I'm a little rusty. What's FC?
[QUOTE=Orangevale Rob;1459157]Sorry, I'm a little rusty. What's FC?[/QUOTE]Filipinocupid, a dating site.
Following advice in the Manila thread as a means to find some 18-22 year old Filipinas to spend of my well earned time with, I am setting up a profile on DIA FC and whatever good sites I can find.
I notice that DIA needs a photo before you can send messages. Hmm, thats a problem. I have a gf here in the US and I don't want her to come across my picture on a dating web site.
I was wondering what other members do in similar circumstances. Any suggestions?
[QUOTE=I'm Punter; 1466634]Following advice in the Manila thread as a means to find some 18-22 year old Filipinas to spend of my well earned time with, I am setting up a profile on DIA FC and whatever good sites I can find.
I notice that DIA needs a photo before you can send messages. Hmm, thats a problem. I have a gf here in the US and I don't want her to come across my picture on a dating web site.
I was wondering what other members do in similar circumstances. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]Unless your GF joins DIA she is not going to find out, I have a wife andI am on DIA since 3 years it is tedious work to chase on DIA but rewards can be wonderful, it is a nice feeling that a woman 1/3rd of your age falls in love with you and wants to spend some money on you. (not that I let her spend it)
[QUOTE=Pagal Chacha;1466719]Unless your GF joins DIA she is not going to find out, I have a wife and I am on DIA since 3 years. It is tedious work to chase on DIA but rewards can be wonderful.[/QUOTE]You are tempting fate Pagal C.
It's not a matter of your wife or any GF being on DIA but more a risk that one of her friends or a friend of a friend will see it and report you.
Pinays in particular (but most women anywhere in the world) love to discover a man playing around and then reporting it far and wide.
I suggest you should be waiting for the day when the (wife or GF) confronts you with a "Why are you on (insert dating site)?"
[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1466947]You are tempting fate Pagal C.
It's not a matter of your wife or any GF being on DIA but more a risk that one of her friends or a friend of a friend will see it and report you.
Pinays in particular (but most women anywhere in the world) love to discover a man playing around and then reporting it far and wide.
I suggest you should be waiting for the day when the (wife or GF) confronts you with a "Why are you on (insert dating site)?"[/QUOTE]DIA girls you meet love to do a systematic search for you in facebook. I have had one girl somehow got on to my facebook page and posted her family picture there to show me. This was caught on by my other DIA conquests and they were asking who is this girl? I had to tell this girl to stop putting anything on FB. I tell all the girls that FB is a open forum.
I believe once they know your real full name it maybe easy to locate you in FB. They do it partially to gloat their hooked men to show their friends and family on FB.
It is extremely hard to hide your real name if the girl is staying with you in the hotel for a few days.
DIA is not known widely by western girls. DIA is almost 99% philippino girls as you can see.
I am aware of the points you mentioned, but for me part of the thrill is the risk, I have been married for three decades and sexually my marraige is dead so subconciously I am taking risk, besides I go through phases when I am addicated to DIA and find it as better option than p4p
The way I nearly got busted is by setting up a separate FB page under a different name and a different email account. The 2 names, though different were close enough to be matched. It will "suggest" other names to people along with the picture. In the beginning I thought you had to be accepted as a "friend" to have access to someone's page. Now you don't, so they have direct access to you or any of your friends and family. So a chick in the Philippines asked me who this other guy (me) was, and who the chick (my girlfriend) was. Now the Pinay chick knows all about my personal life and if she wanted to, she could have blown up my life with my girlfriend.
I never let anyone know my real name here, not even my property manager knows, only the Bureau of Immigration and the airline.
[QUOTE=Sammon; 1466994]DIA girls you meet love to do a systematic search for you in facebook. I have had one girl somehow got on to my facebook page and posted her family picture there to show me. This was caught on by my other DIA conquests and they were asking who is this girl? I had to tell this girl to stop putting anything on FB. I tell all the girls that FB is a open forum.
I believe once they know your real full name it maybe easy to locate you in FB. They do it partially to gloat their hooked men to show their friends and family on FB.
It is extremely hard to hide your real name if the girl is staying with you in the hotel for a few days.
DIA is not known widely by western girls. DIA is almost 99% Filipino girls as you can see.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Pimpin Sam;1467978]In the beginning I thought you had to be accepted as a "friend" to have access to someone's page. Now you don't, so they have direct access to you or any of your friends and family.[/QUOTE]Facebook privacy is very complicated and they make it very hard to find the right menu to make changes. Also they constantly change the rules so you are probably correct that at one time you had more privacy but at some point they changed things so what was private became public until you find the right page to make it go back to the behavior you desire. Google the privacy you want and you will likely find a guide that will explain how to get to the setting you want to change.
[QUOTE=Sammon;1466994]DIA is not known widely by western girls.[/QUOTE]May be true. But google image search and other sites offering the same are good and continue to improve. Don't be surprised to one day find a vexed partner who dragged and dropped your photo into the search field and one of the results was your photo in DIA. The match result is even more likely if you use the same photo in both FB and DIA (or other dating site).
Given how keen a Pinay is with photo-documenting every aspect of her life don't be surprised to find photos of you in her FB page. You reckon she's attentive to the privacy settings?
[QUOTE=Hutsori;1468206]Given how keen a Pinay is with photo-documenting every aspect of her life don't be surprised to find photos of you in her FB page.[/QUOTE]And some will meet you just to take a few pics so can post photos of themselves with their new "foreign bf". I even had one make up a new FB page using my last name (fake one) with her first name, she thinks we're married! And all that was only after a few hours of shagging.
[QUOTE=Hutsori;1468206]May be true. But google image search and other sites offering the same are good and continue to improve. Don't be surprised to one day find a vexed partner who dragged and dropped your photo into the search field and one of the results was your photo in DIA. The match result is even more likely if you use the same photo in both FB and DIA (or other dating site).[/QUOTE]Not forgetting that DIA also partners with some other dating sites as in they all share an affiliated owner. Thats how I found my phot was on a Kenyan Dating site. Never put on there and have never been there. But someone did a little intrepid searching and there I was waiting for Kenyan beauties. The internet is darn scary place at times.
[QUOTE=I'm Punter; 1466634]I notice that DIA needs a photo before you can send messages. Hmm, thats a problem. I have a gf here in the US and I don't want her to come across my picture on a dating web site.
I was wondering what other members do in similar circumstances. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]Although a good quality pic helps, any will do. Throw on a ball cap and a pair of sunglasses, snap a few low quality pics (try indoor and low light) with your cell phone, select a decent one (or a few if your allowed to post multiple pics) and post. Photo recognition software has a harder time finding matches if you are wearing sun glasses, hats and if you have facial hair. Then delete the photos (or archive them in a password protected folder for future use) and you're good to go. You can go one step further and use a program like Photoshop to soften the photo (don't over do it) and remove any scars, dimples, laugh lines, etc.
If your US gf ever comes across the photo on a dating website (unlikely) , then you can always deny and say someone must have snapped a pic of you and is using it. And if you Photoshop it a little bit, then you will also some plausible deniability;"Gee hun, you're right (cause they always are, LOL) , he does look like me, but see, I have a (insert distinguishing mark) and he doesn't", LOL.