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Thanks for the security tips, especially for Face Book. I think it's really important stuff not because I believe most of us are scammers and liars, but because it's more of a don't ask don't tell thing. No one wants to loose face. My gf in my country probably knew what I was up to, but it would have wrecked her having it smeared in her face. Like for example if some pissed off chick would have written shit on her wall for her whole family to see.
[QUOTE=Pip Jaeger;1468291]And some will meet you just to take a few pics so can post photos of themselves with their new "foreign bf". I even had one make up a new FB page using my last name (fake one) with her first name, she thinks we're married! And all that was only after a few hours of shagging.[/QUOTE]Gadfuckinzooks!
The let's-take-a-couples-photo situation is a dilemma. I can explain well the reason why they can find nothing about me when the google me. I've yet to find a convincing enough reason to her why I don't want to take photos together.
If anyone has a winning answer I'd appreciate it.
I guess you could be honest and tell her about how Interpol is looking for you. I guess that the GAnoREA data base privacy line wouldn't be good.
If it's your camera, there is the delete button. Duh,"Put away your phone away and use my camera. We can get a better quality picture."
[QUOTE=Hutsori; 1468772]Gadfuckinzooks!
The let's-take-a-couples-photo situation is a dilemma. I can explain well the reason why they can find nothing about me when the google me. I've yet to find a convincing enough reason to her why I don't want to take photos together.
If anyone has a winning answer I'd appreciate it.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=X Man;1468841]"Put away your phone away and use my camera. We can get a better quality picture."[/QUOTE]I've used that line a few times and told them I'd email the pics later. You'd think the next response would be: "ok hun, here's my email". But, most of them never offered it; short attention span, LOL.
Another tactic I've used if they grab their cell phone for a pic. I put my hand up over my face and say: "I'm shy!". That usually gets them giggling and again the short attention span kicks in so we can move onto more enjoyable things.
I signed up with FC using my hobbying gmail and a prepaid visa. Got a Platinum membership. Wrote a profile looking for a girl 18. 25 to show me around Manila and casual dating etc. The profile was approved. I start searching and even favourited a few possibilities. Next time I logged in there was a message saying my profile has been removed and cannot be reactivated An email to FC but didn't get a reply. The fee for the premium membership appeared on my burner Visa card.
WTF
[QUOTE=X Man;1468841]If it's your camera, there is the delete button. Duh,"Put away your phone away and use my camera. We can get a better quality picture."[/QUOTE]Other than what's in my mobile I don't have a camera. Can't be bothered to carry one.
[QUOTE=Pip Jaeger; 1468857]I've used that line a few times and told them I'd email the pics later. You'd think the next response would be: "ok hun, here's my email". But, most of them never offered it; short attention span, LOL.
Another tactic I've used if they grab their cell phone for a pic. I put my hand up over my face and say: "I'm shy!". That usually gets them giggling and again the short attention span kicks in so we can move onto more enjoyable things.[/QUOTE]It may bring giggles but I suspect the I'm-shy gambit raises red flags in her mind. They may have short attention spans, which I think comes from a need to be non-confrontational, but I've found they have incredible memories.
[QUOTE=I'm Punter; 1468858]I signed up with FC using my hobbying gmail and a prepaid visa. Got a Platinum membership. Wrote a profile looking for a girl 18. 25 to show me around Manila and casual dating etc. The profile was approved. I start searching and even favourited a few possibilities. Next time I logged in there was a message saying my profile has been removed and cannot be reactivated An email to FC but didn't get a reply. The fee for the premium membership appeared on my burner Visa card.
WTF[/QUOTE]That's rough. Once FC edited my profile and removed almost everything. I knew something was awry when there was a huge spike upwards in messages and interests received. I put it all back it and the FC editor was more judicious, just removing the words "pussy","clit" and "cum".
[QUOTE=Hutsori;1469150]It may bring giggles but I suspect the I'm-shy gambit raises red flags in her mind. They may have short attention spans, which I think comes from a need to be non-confrontational, but I've found they have incredible memories.[/QUOTE]You're right, I should've quantified my statement to say that tactic would be best used with a one time meet as opposed to a regular / steady "gf". And yeah, they do have long memories. Funny how they always seem to "remind" you of the things you've said / done that's pissed them off; I think it's genetic, LOL.
Genetic as in female? LOL.
[QUOTE=Pip Jaeger;1469210]You're right, I should've quantified my statement to say that tactic would be best used with a one time meet as opposed to a regular / steady "gf". And yeah, they do have long memories. Funny how they always seem to "remind" you of the things you've said / done that's pissed them off; I think it's genetic, LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=I'm Punter; 1468858]I signed up with FC using my hobbying gmail and a prepaid visa. Got a Platinum membership. Wrote a profile looking for a girl 18. 25 to show me around Manila and casual dating etc. The profile was approved. I start searching and even favourited a few possibilities. Next time I logged in there was a message saying my profile has been removed and cannot be reactivated An email to FC but didn't get a reply. The fee for the premium membership appeared on my burner Visa card.
WTF[/QUOTE]I've used DIA and CB (paid) on / off for a number of years. Years ago I had the standard vague profile. I said the standard vague things in online chat, ala what X-Man described in the Manila thread. Then one time in AC, my wingman suggested that I try the direct method. We were sitting having ice tea in Margarita, and I remember him saying "I don't have time to treat them nicely to see if a bargirl is interested in me. I treat them nice when we leave the bar, but I don't want to chit-chat some bargirl." Later in Body Shop we were sitting on the wall having a drink, and he insisted we move down to the chairs directly in front of the dancers. He said to me to watch what he did. He crooked his finger to a girl and she leaned over to us, and he told her he was looking for a girl who could both f*ck and take a good spanking. I was rather surprised by his up-front-ed-ness, and before I could bat an eye the girl said: "Yes I will be the one who will do that for you." Ring up one barfine. Not only that, he insisted he never tipped, and I saw his repeaters (the method was not driving anyone away in AC). It would take a while, but not only did I start adopting this 'in your face list my needs' things to bargirls, but extended it a bit (10 seconds: "Can you swallow, ass f*ck, do pictures, leave your phone off in the room, and stay till 10am? Or find me a gal that does?").
Later I extended this to my dating site profiles. Finally I went to an extreme: "I like traveling asia and meeting ladies (only). I like an afternoon of fun in my hotel room, or a night of drinks, appetizers, and live band, followed by an evening of fun in my hotel room. I'm not interested in meeting your family or spending more than one or two nights with you. I'm not interested in marriage or any kind of relationship. If you don't want to have fun in my hotel room, don't contact me."
That's pretty blunt. As my profiles iterated towards this kind of thing, I kept waiting for one of the dating sites to delete it, or contact me in some way about the crudeness. Still waiting for that to happen. This method obviously eliminates a lot of vagueness, but its not for everyone. I can't believe the profile itself gets past CB's initial screening process (if they have one at all).
I'll PM you about that burner CC.
I've had great DIA results in a number of different countries, to include the Phils, but recently got tossed for a reason that surprised me. I'm quite specific about 18-23, my advanced age, good time and stay with me, all that's never been a problem. But sometimes I get nagged by "girls" who are 50+. First response is a polite no thank you, second is a read my profile and third is that I'm not interested in grandmothers. That often pisses them off. I'll never know for sure but I think one or more may have complained about the "grandmother" thing. Annoying because of new account rules; so be polite to the grannies no matter how persistent they are or simply ignore their frequent messages.
[QUOTE=Nice Guy 99;1469780]I've had great DIA results in a number of different countries, to include the Phils, but recently got tossed for a reason that surprised me. I'm quite specific about 18-23, my advanced age, good time and stay with me, all that's never been a problem. But sometimes I get nagged by "girls" who are 50+. First response is a polite no thank you, second is a read my profile and third is that I'm not interested in grandmothers. That often pisses them off. I'll never know for sure but I think one or more may have complained about the "grandmother" thing. Annoying because of new account rules; so be polite to the grannies no matter how persistent they are or simply ignore their frequent messages.[/QUOTE]It's better just to ignore the ones you don't want.
[QUOTE=D Cups;1469866]It's better just to ignore the ones you don't want.[/QUOTE]Or ask if they have a sexy granddaughter.
[QUOTE=D Cups;1469868]Or ask if they have a sexy granddaughter.[/QUOTE]You, sir, are the real deal. Well played.
[QUOTE=WestCoast1; 1469685]Later I extended this to my dating site profiles. Finally I went to an extreme: "I like traveling asia and meeting ladies (only). I like an afternoon of fun in my hotel room, or a night of drinks, appetizers, and live band, followed by an evening of fun in my hotel room. I'm not interested in meeting your family or spending more than one or two nights with you. I'm not interested in marriage or any kind of relationship. If you don't want to have fun in my hotel room, don't contact me."
That's pretty blunt. As my profiles iterated towards this kind of thing, I kept waiting for one of the dating sites to delete it, or contact me in some way about the crudeness. Still waiting for that to happen. This method obviously eliminates a lot of vagueness, but its not for everyone. I can't believe the profile itself gets past CB's initial screening process (if they have one at all).[/QUOTE]That's great WC that you have not been deleted.
I would guess that it passes through the automatic screening process OK and the site owners have not seen it.
I had one much tamer than yours on DIA (2 years ago now) that was deleted simply because a woman obviously complained to the administrator and he / she must have read it.
I received a rather polite "personal" message telling me that I had offended a member, and that I had 3 days to rewrite it and repost otherwise my IP number would be banned.
You are doing very well with the balancing act.