Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=Knowledge;3077987]It's a question of mutual respect. It would never occur to me to tell a girl to meet me then leave her waiting while I do whatever including going with some other girl then show up later. I would of course put up with it if there were no other options. If I'm honest I prefer a girl be hustling and getting money from some other guy before showing up than just blowing me off for no reason.[/QUOTE]That is not how the younger girls think. It is just that they treat it like a social event where it is common for everyone to show up late. They don't see it as respecting you or not respecting you because they treat their friends the same way.

It is not unusual for a girl scheduled at 7 pm to message me at 7 pm saying that she is getting ready to go without any recognition that she is supposed to be here at 7 pm. Her usual response when I get angry is what's the big deal? Because time is not a big deal for these girls. They have plenty of time. They just don't have any money.

At the same time, there are girls who show up on time. But as some have said, some of those girls who are constantly late and unreliable are sometimes some of the hottest girls out there who will treat you right when they arrive. That is why I put up with it. But if they are not at that level and they are very late, I probably won't see them again.

[QUOTE=ChicoBonito;3077978]Thanks for sharing your report. Glad you had fun on your trip and found some chicas worth repeating with. In my experience, the timing with finding them online tends to vary by a wide range. Yes, some of them want to meet the same day you match with them, and the connection / urgency to meet can die off quickly. While others sometimes take days or more to reply. Totally depends on the chica, so same-day meets are totally possible, but starting your search a week or two before a trip pays off too.[/QUOTE]Appreciate the feedback and you're right. So this past trip I actually started Seeking and Tinder 2 weeks before I landed and you're right with some girls you match right away and others probably don't check their messages or open the app until a week or two later and then match with you 2 weeks later. Thinking back on it, I think a hybrid way of doing it would be best, where you start 1 to 2 weeks out with Tinder and matching with girls on there since I think that takes the longest. Then a day or two before you land, start messaging girls on Seeking and collecting Whatsapps and negotiating on there.

[QUOTE=MoonShot;3077871]If you apply a strict 15 minute grace period, you will be missing out on a lot of good girls. Latin America generally has a more laid back attitude about time. Just watch some porn or sports while you're waiting.[/QUOTE]Crazy to listen to you guys that cater to this nonsense. I give chics only a 15 minute grace period and I tell them that upfront. Pussy got some of you guys confused. If they don't value my time then I don't value theirs. I've had chics play with my time and I told them while they were in the taxi to go back home. There are thousands of chics in medellin selling pussy. I don't care how good she looks she gets 15 minutes. I use Facebook and network with these chics weeks in advance so they have plenty of time to make sure they are there on time. If for some reason I call a chic the same day then I will make exceptions but I won't if they know way in advance of what time they are supposed to be there. Your mentality is why they show up late. You tolerate the nonsense. I don't just fuck chics there, I do other stuff so I set a time to see them. You guys don't understand that it's a buyers market not a sellers market. They need money. You don't need sex you just want it. When you understand that concept then people won't be paying more than 200 k. But if you are unattractive, don't speak the language and have no social skills, then I understand why people have to cater to these girls. Fuck that. It's a job for them. Be on fucking time like you would for a job. If the pussy is free then they can get there any time they want but if I'm paying then I set the rules.

[QUOTE=TheCane;3078008]It's a cultural thing. It really annoys the hell out of us. Not as big of a deal with them, especially if younger. The thing that really used to piss me off with Colombianas, is I set a date with one, and she shows up with some other chica in tow! Didn't tell you they were going to do that, didn't ask if it was OK or anything if they bring their cousin or a friend! And expecting you to pick up the tab for the other one too. Just plain rude! Cultural difference or not, I decided from the beginning I wasn't playing that shit! I wonder how often they pull that shit with their own men?[/QUOTE]I actually think it's more of an age thing. I know when I was 20 year old, I was habitually late just about everywhere.

There's an easy solution. If you know ahead of time that you're not willing to wait, tell here if she doesn't arrive by time x, you will be gone. When I have time constraints, this has always worked for me.

[QUOTE=Belisaj;3078068]you're right with some girls you match right away and others probably don't check their messages or open the app until a week or two later and then match with you 2 weeks later..[/QUOTE]I do not think you understand how many messages these chicks get. It probably takes them 2 weeks to get to yours. That is why it is best to be ready right then and make your first message like let's meet today or tomorrow, not that Hello, how are you shit. You know how many guys are telling her they will arrive in 2 weeks and never show, just wasting her time?

[QUOTE=MisterJam;3078077]But if you are unattractive, don't speak the language and have no social skills, then I understand why people have to cater to these girls. Fuck that. It's a job for them. Be on fucking time like you would for a job. [b]If the pussy is free then they can get there any time they want[/b] but if I'm paying then I set the rules.[/QUOTE]The free ones come on time.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;3078180]I do not think you understand how many messages these chicks get. It probably takes them 2 weeks to get to yours. That is why it is best to be ready right then and make your first message like let's meet today or tomorrow, not that Hello, how are you shit. You know how many guys are telling her they will arrive in 2 weeks and never show, just wasting her time?[/QUOTE]That's why it's a good strategy to try to get their numbers and move the conversation from the apps to Whatsapp as soon as you can, even if you're still weeks away from arrival. When you're already in each other's contacts, it becomes much easier to get a hold of them and pick up again in the future for a meet, rather than trying to keep pinging them with messages in the app.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;3078180]I do not think you understand how many messages these chicks get. It probably takes them 2 weeks to get to yours. That is why it is best to be ready right then and make your first message like let's meet today or tomorrow, not that Hello, how are you shit. You know how many guys are telling her they will arrive in 2 weeks and never show, just wasting her time?[/QUOTE]I do understand. You underestimate me. They've shown me their Seeking messages from the girls' perspective and yes they have a ton of time wasters and bottom-of-the-barrel dudes who message them the usual "Hi how are you" so yes you have to stand out. That's why my profile already says "Beneficios Mutuos," I have professional photos, and mostly they are the ones messaging me, not the other way around.

A 15 minute grace period is fair and reasonable. I'm not going to judge guys who are willing to sit around with their thumbs up their asses waiting for girls to show up. It's just not for me.

[QUOTE=MisterJam;3078077]Crazy to listen to you guys that cater to this nonsense. I give chics only a 15 minute grace period and I tell them that upfront. Pussy got some of you guys confused. If they don't value my time then I don't value theirs. I've had chics play with my time and I told them while they were in the taxi to go back home. There are thousands of chics in medellin selling pussy. I don't care how good she looks she gets 15 minutes. I use Facebook and network with these chics weeks in advance so they have plenty of time to make sure they are there on time. If for some reason I call a chic the same day then I will make exceptions but I won't if they know way in advance of what time they are supposed to be there. Your mentality is why they show up late. You tolerate the nonsense. I don't just fuck chics there, I do other stuff so I set a time to see them. You guys don't understand that it's a buyers market not a sellers market. They need money. You don't need sex you just want it. When you understand that concept then people won't be paying more than 200 k. But if you are unattractive, don't speak the language and have no social skills, then I understand why people have to cater to these girls. Fuck that. It's a job for them. Be on fucking time like you would for a job. If the pussy is free then they can get there any time they want but if I'm paying then I set the rules.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Knowledge;3078223]A 15 minute grace period is fair and reasonable. I'm not going to judge guys who are willing to sit around with their thumbs up their asses waiting for girls to show up. It's just not for me.[/QUOTE]We can multitask. I am perfectly capable of sticking my thumb up my ass and getting other things done at the same time. I have two hands, after all.

[QUOTE=Combo;3078179]I actually think it's more of an age thing. I know when I was 20 year old, I was habitually late just about everywhere.

There's an easy solution. If you know ahead of time that you're not willing to wait, tell here if she doesn't arrive by time x, you will be gone. When I have time constraints, this has always worked for me.[/QUOTE]I have three Latina friends I have known for over 20 years, an argie, a paisa and a chapina. All were in their early twenties when I met them. All were constantly late and it really irritated me. Now, all three are in their mid forties and guess what? They are all still constantly late and it still really irritates me. But all have been good friends over the years anyway.

The whole Colombian culture is about not being on time. It's tiempo paisa for a reason. If you want to meet at 7 pm just say 5:30 or 6 pm. Not that hard, I have girls come in 1-2 hours late, but they stay for 4-5 hours and party with me, many times till morning because I'm a party animal I drink and do the pink with them, BBFS everything uncovered for 200 mil plus taxis in Bello, 18-21 yr olds fresh chicas not parque lleras or casa chicks that's been in the game for years and charge per hour. The girls know when they with me it’s minimum 3 hours por el parche and sexo. I have my own place and it’s always stocked with food, liquor and all the vicios hehe IYKYK hehe. Been living in Bello for past 5 years and been coming to Medellin for more than 13 yrs so I know what I'm talking about. And I'm a chino and speak fluent Spanish and know the paisa culture which makes it easy mode. I'm glad Medellin is getting a bad rep, I hope it gets even worse because it keeps getting better for me.

Free Advice for Party Guys: Buy that Smirnoff Vodka TAMARINDO, these paisas love that shit. I just went to D1 and cashed them out and took all the bottles jajaja.

[QUOTE=MisterJam;3078077]Crazy to listen to you guys that cater to this nonsense. I give chics only a 15 minute grace period and I tell them that upfront. Pussy got some of you guys confused. If they don't value my time then I don't value theirs. I've had chics play with my time and I told them while they were in the taxi to go back home. There are thousands of chics in medellin selling pussy. I don't care how good she looks she gets 15 minutes. I use Facebook and network with these chics weeks in advance so they have plenty of time to make sure they are there on time. If for some reason I call a chic the same day then I will make exceptions but I won't if they know way in advance of what time they are supposed to be there. Your mentality is why they show up late. You tolerate the nonsense. I don't just fuck chics there, I do other stuff so I set a time to see them. You guys don't understand that it's a buyers market not a sellers market. They need money. You don't need sex you just want it. When you understand that concept then people won't be paying more than 200 k. But if you are unattractive, don't speak the language and have no social skills, then I understand why people have to cater to these girls. Fuck that. It's a job for them. Be on fucking time like you would for a job. If the pussy is free then they can get there any time they want but if I'm paying then I set the rules.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RiceRocket99;3078492] I'm glad Medellin is getting a bad rep, I hope it gets even worse because it keeps getting better for me.[/QUOTE]Same bro. I hope prices keep rising and bad rep keeps happening. Keep these dirty gringos away! I never have had a bad time in meddy. Not sure how that is even possible.

[QUOTE=RiceRocket99;3078492]The whole Colombian culture is about not being on time. It's tiempo paisa for a reason. If you want to meet at 7 pm just say 5:30 or 6 pm. Not that hard, I have girls come in 1-2 hours late, but they stay for 4-5 hours and party with me, many times till morning because I'm a party animal I drink and do the pink with them, BBFS everything uncovered for 200 mil plus taxis in Bello, 18-21 yr olds fresh chicas not parque lleras or casa chicks that's been in the game for years and charge per hour. The girls know when they with me its minimum 3 hours por el parche and sexo. I have my own place and its always stocked with food, liquor and all the vicios hehe IYKYK hehe. Been living in Bello for past 5 years and been coming to Medellin for more than 13 yrs so I know what I'm talking about. And I'm a chino and speak fluent Spanish and know the paisa culture which makes it easy mode. I'm glad Medellin is getting a bad rep, I hope it gets even worse because it keeps getting better for me..[/QUOTE]I had the same experience in Argentina when I was there many years ago. People are casually late when meeting times are discussed and agreed upon.

[QUOTE=RiceRocket99;3078492] I have girls come in 1-2 hours late, but they stay for 4-5 hours and party with me, many times till morning because I'm a party animal I drink and do the pink with them, BBFS everything uncovered for 200 mil plus taxis in Bello, 18-21 yr olds fresh chicas not parque lleras or casa chicks that's been in the game for years and charge per hour. The girls know when they with me its minimum 3 hours por el parche and sexo. I have my own place and its always stocked with food, liquor and all the vicios hehe IYKYK hehe. .[/QUOTE]You guys that live down have a whole different world of opportunities.