Ghana

[QUOTE=Global Citizen]I live in Accra and have seen just a bit too much of the truth.[/QUOTE]

Global Citizen:

I completely agree with you! I also 'met' a couple of girls via internet before I came my first time to Ghana. After exchanging two e-mails or so three of them asked straight for 'just a little money' ('my dear, a small amount would be perfectly fine! Send me only 200 USD, ok?') with the well known arguments (house rent, doctor, tuition fees etc.). The last one took the cake. 'If you bring me a laptop and a digital camera for my brother I will marry you'. Wow, what an offer! I felt most touched! :) Really hard to resist, but I did with a heavy heart! :):)

The story for reflection is, makes it sense to contact girls via internet? I would rather doubt it! Too expensive if you are intelligent enough to pay a cutie before you have seen her in person and also not necessary at all. When entering into Ghana you can easily hit on the first girl you run into. Believe it or not, at the end of the day that's much, much cheaper!

Cheers - Hesekiels

[QUOTE=Hesekiels]Global Citizen:

I completely agree with you! I also 'met' a couple of girls via internet before I came my first time to Ghana. After exchanging two e-mails or so three of them asked straight for 'just a little money' ('my dear, a small amount would be perfectly fine! Send me only 200 USD, ok?') with the well known arguments (house rent, doctor, tuition fees etc.). The last one took the cake. 'If you bring me a laptop and a digital camera for my brother I will marry you'. Wow, what an offer! I felt most touched! :) Really hard to resist, but I did with a heavy heart! :):)

The story for reflection is, makes it sense to contact girls via internet? I would rather doubt it! Too expensive if you are intelligent enough to pay a cutie before you have seen her in person and also not necessary at all. When entering into Ghana you can easily hit on the first girl you run into. Believe it or not, at the end of the day that's much, much cheaper!

Cheers - Hesekiels[/QUOTE]I think the internet is a good way or means to contact persons beforehand. Exchanging several messages allows you to feel what is the final drive of the person writing to you and sometimes it is the beginning of a pleasant affair (I expereinced it).

Once you are on spot you can trust your guts to do what is sensible, mind you !!! I haven't said below your guts, as very often if you just trust the emotion emerging from your pants you are likely to suffer from your liver I mean the place where you keep your wallet in your jacket !!!

Besides, letting someone to believe you are stupid enough to believe in such a deal, hoping to gain the lady's heart, is bad for your self esteem.

The site is great for meeting African women IF you are going to an African country very soon. You can line up many women to meet you someplace you are not at a disadvantage. Don't send money EVER! Many of the profiles are fraud. The photos are often from the net or not the author. These women won't meet you and if they do, you can decide if they are worth being conned. When I was in Ghana, just walk down the road and smile. That is all you will ever need to do in most African countries.

[QUOTE=Pat Lem]... allows you to feel what is the final drive of the person writing to you and sometimes it is the beginning of a pleasant affair (I expereinced it).
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Fine, but I am still struggling what the final drive of such an internet cuty might be? If I am not completely mistaken it's firstly money, or other sorts of support. Secondly maybe a kind of prestige (foreign loverboy). Thirdly the hope for emigration including marriage. Last but not least the desire to get a Canadian-, US- or British passport asap. Or did I misunderstand their profiles I read in the internet? Maybe somebody can enlighten me? Anyway, for me no problem at all to comprehend their intentions!

But now another question folks, namely what's the final drive for guys like us? Well, the ideal case would be to have two different girls already on the day of arrival. Then to capture every day as many new cuties as possible, am I right? And all this of course without being ripped off! So, can it be that the concerns are altogether slightly different? :) Maybe it's worth to keep that in mind!?

I am, however, happy to read that Pat Lem had got the chance to start a pleasant affair with an internet girl. Congrats, brother!

IMHO, of course!


Cheers - Hesekiels

As I contemplate retirement to one of these countries, I'm wondering how easy it would be to have the Hugh Hefner lifestyle, which to me is having a big house with a pool and security in Legon. Possibly owning a bar downtown. Nice car and motorcyle , having hot and cold running babes in and out of my home. Can you ex-pats tell me how close this is to reality for a fellow monger living there if he wanted it? It's probably closer to the nightmare of _Outsiders can't own property, not worth the hassle of running a bar due to employee theft and psycho jealous broads hangin on to your every move when you butterfly! I can't make it to Ghana for a few months and it won't be for an extended time to really judge the place. Pls do tell....

[QUOTE=MrCuddles]As I contemplate retirement to one of these countries, I'm wondering how easy it would be to have the Hugh Hefner lifestyle, which to me is having a big house with a pool and security in Legon.[/QUOTE]

Monthly rent: $3,000-$4,000, 1 to 2 years advance payment
To buy outright: $250,000

[QUOTE=MrCuddles]Possibly owning a bar downtown. [/QUOTE]

The bar business will kill you - I used to own a bar/club in North America and it's work, work, and more work. Certainly not the Hef lifestyle you're thinking about.

As for employee thefts and stuff, it happens - just a matter of controlling it.

If you want a bar just to have a place to hang, you'd be better off finding a nice place to go regularily and not have the hassle of actually owning.

[QUOTE=MrCuddles]Nice car and motorcyle [/QUOTE]

Ship your own to Ghana

[QUOTE=MrCuddles]having hot and cold running babes in and out of my home.[/QUOTE]

Way too easy to arrange - your problem will be how to get a quiet day on your own.

[QUOTE=MrCuddles]Can you ex-pats tell me how close this is to reality for a fellow monger living there if he wanted it? It's probably closer to the nightmare of _Outsiders can't own property, not worth the hassle of running a bar due to employee theft and psycho jealous broads hangin on to your every move when you butterfly! I can't make it to Ghana for a few months and it won't be for an extended time to really judge the place. Pls do tell....[/QUOTE]

From my experience, you first get a girl that you'd like to keep as a primary source of fun. Bring some clothes, make up, mobile phone, etc as gifts for her. Make it clear to her of your intention to have hot and cold babes running around constantly and she will be able to accept it. Be a little generous to her and give her a monthly stipend of say 1 million Cedis ($110) and she will bring all her girlfriends to come and play with you. Let her assume the role of Mamasan and arrange other girls to take care of you.

Also, tell them you're married and would absolutely never consider divorce so don't even think about marriage or visa to the promise land or anything of a permanent nature.

Once they understand that all you want is fun and the rules of the game, they will cooperate.

Enjoy.

GC

[QUOTE=Global Citizen] Be a little generous ... and she will bring all her girlfriends to come and play with you. Let her assume the role of Mamasan and arrange other girls to take care of you.

GC[/QUOTE]

GC:

That's indeed very interesting news to me! My experience in Ghana was namely that girls are rather jealous! So, what's in your opinion the smartest trick to make her a mamasan, or is it just a matter of price? Next time I intend to choose one cuty, aiming at her mercy to gather a handful girlfriends for my private harem. :) Kindly advice!

Cheers - Hesekiels

[QUOTE=Hesekiels]GC:

That's indeed very interesting news to me! My experience in Ghana was namely that girls are rather jealous! So, what's in your opinion the smartest trick to make her a mamasan, or is it just a matter of price? Next time I intend to choose one cuty, aiming at her mercy to gather a handful girlfriends for my private harem. :) Kindly advice!

Cheers - Hesekiels[/QUOTE]

Oh the girls do get jealous so the trick is to tell them right from the beginning that you are planning to butterfly but want to make her your number 1. Never let them feel that you're falling for her and make sure that let her know exactly what you want. You can even tell her that you want some 3-way action - usually they will object in the beginning but if you tell them that's what you really want, then they will oblige. They may not get into too much lesbian action though but it's still nice to have one BBBJ and the other rimming.

Of course, the monthly stipend helps and the occasional gift as well - A second hand camera phone works wonders !

PM me next time you're in town and I'll get my "mamasan" to bring a nice girl for you.

GC

Purchasing the property is no problem, but I'm constantly on travel, so
I need someone to watch it while I'm gone. I wish all it took was a
cheap cell phone to get babes to start a harem for me at home.
Thanks for the advice GC.

[QUOTE=Global Citizen]Oh the girls do get jealous so the trick is to tell them right from the beginning that you are planning to butterfly but want to make her your number 1. Never let them feel that you're falling for her and make sure that let her know exactly what you want. You can even tell her that you want some 3-way action -

GC[/QUOTE]

Or with my ex Colombian wife for that matter. Just returned form a visit to Thailand with my German GF. Works wonders.

[QUOTE=Global Citizen]
PM me next time you're in town and I'll get my "mamasan" to bring a nice girl for you.

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Dear GC:

Great advice, thanks! You bet your life that I will contact you when I'm back in the promised land!

Cheers - Hesekiels

[QUOTE=MrCuddles]Purchasing the property is no problem, but I'm constantly on travel, so
I need someone to watch it while I'm gone. I wish all it took was a
cheap cell phone to get babes to start a harem for me at home.
Thanks for the advice GC.[/QUOTE]

So if you actually buy a property here but are not here all the time, then I would say be very careful - really pick your caretaker carefully - check out her background carefully - it is very very difficult to find someone trustworthy and just because they go to church every sunday doesn't mean anything. And always have a foreigner friend check in on things occasionally.

GC

[QUOTE=Global Citizen] ... just because they go to church every sunday doesn't mean anything ...
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Yes, indeed they go to church every Sunday and never fail to prove that honesty and Christianity is a different kettle of fish! Truly an impressive experience for an old jew like me! :) In Accra I met once a cuty who did not stop telling me religious verdicts over and over again. However, when I came from the bathroom I realized that 100.000 cedis had swaped all of sudden from my pockets into her handbag (guys, never leave your items unattended!). This must have been either a miracle or witchcraft and wizardry as she swore to God 'my dear, why don't you believe me? I did not even touch it!' So, I could imagine that a number of people in the Third World have a more, let's say, 'flexible' understanding of 'honesty'. Always keep that in mind in order to save yourself from unpleasant experiences! 'And never trust a naked bus driver! Think about it!' IM -and Woody's- HO, of course! :)

Cheers - Hesekiels

hesekiels mate,

truelly, an helarious post. here i am, almost midnighit, and i am almost throwing up my twenty beers of the day.

cheers

speed13

[quote=speed13]hesekiels mate,

... and i am almost throwing up my twenty beers of the day ...

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speed13:

... and after this awkward incident i felt the urgent need to drink at least twenty beers just to deafen my horniness and to flood the deep frustration that haunted in my mind! the worst part was namely that i had nothing to f**k that night! damn, what a waste of time! however, as i do (almost :) ) shower with my pants nowadays i suppose that i have learned my lesson well. so, folks, be a little careful, ok!?

cheers - hesekiels