Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1471301]Pip, let me ask you this: you read the "nice girl" profile, one where she is looking for an LTR and includes "no play" or "not for fun only" in it, what is your approach? Something like this: "Hi, I'm Pip. I really enjoyed reading your profile. I especially liked reading ________. It seems to me we're kindred spirits / share similar interests / whatever. I'd like to get to know you better, and I'll be in town from _______ to _________. I want you to know I'm looking for adult fun at my hotel, and if you're interested in having a great time together I want to continue this conversation with you. Looking forward to your response." Or is it something somewhat or entirely different?[/QUOTE]Hut, generally I do use a similar approach to what you've written although I'll start with a compliment about her silky looking hair, pretty eyes, cute smile, etc. Or make a comment about something in the background in one of her pics; something that will make them smile and get a positive "vibe" going. If a girl is emphatic in her profile about "not for fun, no players, only serious" (and if her favorite book is the bible) , then I usually move on; although even with some of them I'll hit the interest button and see what happens.

Don't forget, a lot of these girls copy and paste their profiles; especially the 18-21 year olds and those with a poor education. I've had a few who've written "no players" later tell me that they meant they wanted guys who were really coming to visit and not "online" players. And some who've written "serious" tell me basically the same thing; they wanted guys who were serious about seeing them in person and that they didn't necessarily mean serious when it came to a LTR.

Well, I finally got a profile up in DIA. Its like being a kid in a candy store. So many beauties. Even the self professed LB's are good looking (not that I lean in that direction).

I did chat with a few potentials, although I suspect its too early. Other comments on this board seem to suggest its best to establish your line up shortly before your visit. It's hard though (no pun intended) when all the candy is in front of you not to start working on the short list.

My profile is now somewhat innocent looking for friends type of thing no mention of adult entertainment.

I did have one 24yo sweetie respond to me with "be my lover". As I chatted with her, she asked my budget. I asked her what she meant, and its 5K for 24 hours. I guess she is either a scam or a professional working girl.

I chatted with another 19y / o who volunteered to "tour me". No mention of adult entertainment, should I broach that in the chat before we meet.

Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?

Anyway, this is fun all by itself. Hard though (pun intended) knowing its a few weeks before I go.

[QUOTE=IM Punter;1474100]Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?[/QUOTE]Have come across several who don't mention so in their respective profiles, yet do so in the messages quickly enough. Make the most of the opportunity; thank her for the interest, let her know you're not bent that way, and ask her to introduce her "real girl" friends to you.

You may want to add a sentence to your profile stating you're not looking to meet ladyboys.

[QUOTE=IM Punter;1474100]I chatted with another 19y / o who volunteered to "tour me". No mention of adult entertainment, should I broach that in the chat before we meet.[/QUOTE]My most successful methods have been to ask them what is is their fantasy of the first thing they want to do when they get to your room. I have reported before that a mature lady who I had only met in chat said she wanted to go straight to the shower with me and make love in the shower as she had never done that before. She was true to her word. I had been delayed in my arrival so when I met her at the gate of the resort we likely only exchanged two sentences on the way to the room. She stripped down straight off and we went directly to the shower which broke the ice nicely. It was her fantasy so I suffered through letting her live it out. LOL.

On a side note, when they offer to "tour you" don't expect them to have been to the places they have in mind let alone explain it. They will likely want to go to places they have only heard of so you may want to ask if they have been to these places then do your own tourism reading. Boracay is a big one they have all heard of but most can't afford so they see it as a chance to see someplace new and relax in an air conditioned room with a soft bed.

Once I am totally comfortable and we have agreed to meet and sleep together I ask them to calculate their cycle so we be able to properly plan and both be able to enjoy ourselves. This may seem silly but you would be surprised how many Filipinas have no idea how to calculate their cycle. Hell a forty three year old well educated woman who worked in the heath sector told me she thought she was too old to get pregnant. I asked if she still had her periods. She responded yes.

[QUOTE=IM Punter;1474100]Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?[/QUOTE]

This is a tough one. I do state in my profile I am not interested in LBs. I tend to shy away from the very very attractive ladies suspecting they may be LBs. If I do respond I say you are very attractive, I am surprised you aren't married and have children already. If they are coy I then gently pursue whether they want to have children and if not why not. I also lead into the discussion that I have had a vasectomy so can't get them pregnant. If they still are coy I may eventually ask the question straight out.

One of the big hints that I have picked up on is any reference in their profile to no discrimination. My experience has been that it seems LBs often reference discrimination.

Just my thoughts.

[QUOTE=Amanut; 1474236]SNIP.

On a side note, when they offer to "tour you" don't expect them to have been to the places they have in mind let alone explain it. They will likely want to go to places they have only heard of so you may want to ask if they have been to these places then do your own tourism reading. Boracay is a big one they have all heard of but most can't afford so they see it as a chance to see someplace new and relax in an air conditioned room with a soft bed.

Once I am totally comfortable and we have agreed to meet and sleep together I ask them to calculate their cycle so we be able to properly plan and both be able to enjoy ourselves. This may seem silly but you would be surprised how many Filipinas have no idea how to calculate their cycle. Hell a forty three year old well educated woman who worked in the heath sector told me she thought she was too old to get pregnant. I asked if she still had her periods. She responded yes.

SNIP[/QUOTE]Great comment Amanut.

I agree with everything you said.

Re the Boracay comment. Yes; many girls have not been there before but just as an aside 60% of all visitors are actually locals ie filipinos (from Tourism statistics) , so it would not be too difficult to encounter a woman who already knows the ropes.

Re the absence of sex education;

I have been banging on about this here for ages. I hope guys reading your comment take notice of it.

Ask a lot of questions before doing the deed uncovered. If you are vasectomised then no worries (apart from the STD risk) , but it's still an interesting topic to explore. Guys will be amazed at how little most women know about their own bodies.

For the sake of accuracy, what she said is basically true. The chances of getting pregnant nosedives in the late 30s. Some infertility clinics won't even accept women over 40.

[QUOTE=Amanut; 1474236]a forty three year old well educated woman who worked in the heath sector told me she thought she was too old to get pregnant. I asked if she still had her periods. She responded yes.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man;1474280]For the sake of accuracy, what she said is basically true. The chances of getting pregnant nosedives in the late 30s. Some infertility clinics won't even accept women over 40.[/QUOTE]

LOL. For the sake of accuracy my mother had three babies after age 40. My father was a frisky fart LOL.

My point was that this is a woman who works in the health field and still has her periods, but who emphatically stated that she could not get pregnant because she was too old. This is simply not true.

Because I have had a vasectomy I really don't care if they can get pregnant, but part of how I try to organize where I land and when is by making sure that lady I am meeting will not be in the middle of their period when I arrive. In fact the more fertile the better. None of those pesky spotting issues. I landed in CDO unannounced and called the shower lady a couple of weeks after our first meeting. She is also mid forties. She came straight to my hotel room horny as hell. Yup, I didn't call and landed in the middle of her period. I still I did her, but with her on top and made her clean me up before I moved or looked down. I am grossed out by the sight of the aftermath. It feels good, I'm just grossed out. It wasn't all bad though. We went to Camiguin Island the next day and for the next couple of days she learned how to do BBBJ with CIM while I played with her clit. She had never done CIM before and said "tastes good". Some lucky man is going to owe me a trainers fee. lol

Unlike the medical lady, she knew how to calculate down to the minute. In fact in our first meeting she asked me to wear a condom as she was fertile. Yes I did her in the shower with the appropriate shower cap on. She said her concern was that my vasectomy was twenty years old and may give out. In hindsight I think that was her way establishing if she could trust me as on my last two trips she has not brought the subject up again.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1474241]Re the Boracay comment. Yes; many girls have not been there before but just as an aside 60% of all visitors are actually locals ie filipinos (from Tourism statistics) , so it would not be too difficult to encounter a woman who already knows the ropes.

Re the absence of sex education;

I have been banging on about this here for ages.

Guys will be amazed at how little most women know about their own bodies.[/QUOTE]Have had the Boracay chat many times and when you say there are better places to visit IMHO than an overpriced commercialized place they look in wonderment and ask where etc. As RK said most visitors are locals and I would prefer take the cuties to Palawan, Camiguin etc than Boracay

RK. You have been banging on for years and the girls still want to see you LOL.

As for knowing little about their bodies etc, this is generally true IMHO and I see it as the duty of a concerned visitor (ie me) to the country to ensure greater education of their bodies. RK know I am doing this in a small way whenever possible LOL.

[QUOTE=IM Punter;1474100]Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?[/QUOTE]Many of those profiles states something similar to: "Looking for some-one open-minded, who accepts me for who I am"

I sometimes ask them "do you take it in the ass" if they say say yes without hesitation, they are most certainly ladyboys.

[QUOTE=IM Punter;1474100]Any tips on ruling out the LB's who don't admit it in their profile?[/QUOTE]As has been advised before, you should chat and cam with them prior to making any arrangements. Seeing them and hearing them tends to be a giveaway. If they say they have no cam bite the bullet and don't meet them, you may miss out on a cutie (but there are plenty around) but you (worse case scenario IMHO) invite one back to your room and then find out your date is LB.

Been building a short list of girls I want to keep contact with over the next few long weeks, I have some phone numbers, Skype ym and fb. I am amazed at how easily the 18-21 why / o give out their contact info. Anyway ill keep the list alive and clarify my intentions (bed, fun, bed, fun. With some companionship thrown in)

I wish DIA had a way of searching women who you matched their search parameters. Ie I only want to see profiles of girls looking for 18-80 (or 50. 80). Also it would be nice to save your search parameters in DIA

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I'm not goint to argue since I wasn't there, but what was presented earlier, has somehow changed. Earlier it was stated that a 43 yr old female health professional didn't think she could get prgnant. I suggested that her observation was accurate. Amanut has changed the story to read that she "emphatically stated that she could not get pregnant.". Blah, blah.

I roll my eyes and wonder, did Amanut learn his debate skills on the Interenet?

[QUOTE=Amanut; 1474302]LOL. For the sake of accuracy my mother had three babies after age 40. My father was a frisky fart LOL.

My point was that this is a woman who works in the health field and still has her periods, but who emphatically stated that she could not get pregnant because she was too old. This is simply not true.

Because I have had a vasectomy I really don't care if they can get pregnant, but part of how I try to organize where I land and when is by making sure that lady I am meeting will not be in the middle of their period when I arrive. In fact the more fertile the better. None of those pesky spotting issues. I landed in CDO unannounced and called the shower lady a couple of weeks after our first meeting. She is also mid forties. She came straight to my hotel room horny as hell. Yup, I didn't call and landed in the middle of her period. I still I did her, but with her on top and made her clean me up before I moved or looked down. I am grossed out by the sight of the aftermath. It feels good, I'm just grossed out. It wasn't all bad though. We went to Camiguin Island the next day and for the next couple of days she learned how to do BBBJ with CIM while I played with her clit. She had never done CIM before and said "tastes good". Some lucky man is going to owe me a trainers fee. LOL.

Unlike the medical lady, she knew how to calculate down to the minute. In fact in our first meeting she asked me to wear a condom as she was fertile. Yes I did her in the shower with the appropriate shower cap on. She said her concern was that my vasectomy was twenty years old and may give out. In hindsight I think that was her way establishing if she could trust me as on my last two trips she has not brought the subject up again.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=I'm Punter; 1474890]Been building a short list of girls I want to keep contact with over the next few long weeks, I have some phone numbers, Skype ym and fb. I am amazed at how easily the 18-21 why / o give out their contact info. Anyway ill keep the list alive and clarify my intentions (bed, fun, bed, fun. With some companionship thrown in)

I wish DIA had a way of searching women who you matched their search parameters. Ie I only want to see profiles of girls looking for 18-80 (or 50. 80). Also it would be nice to save your search parameters in DIA[/QUOTE]As I prepare for my next trip, I have noticed many of he ladies shifting from yahoo messenger to Skype. I guess it is time for me to bite the bullet and download Skype and learn its functions.

[QUOTE=Bob Bowie;1475482]As I prepare for my next trip, I have noticed many of he ladies shifting from yahoo messenger to Skype. I guess it is time for me to bite the bullet and download Skype and learn its functions.[/QUOTE]That's because Yahoo has bought Skype and plans to close YM and move all the functions to Skype.

The girls would have seen that message and so joined Skype instead of YM.

So far there has been no further notice about this switch happening.

Anyway BB, Skype is easy and user friendly and can function in exactly the same way as YM

[QUOTE=Red Kilt;1475501]Anyway BB, Skype is easy and user friendly and can function in exactly the same way as YM[/QUOTE]What are other people's experiences in skyping between the Phils and other, more technologically-equipped countries? Mine have not been very good, regardless whether I'm in the states trying to skype with others in the Phils or in the Phils trying to skype back to the states. Attempting to participate in meetings back in the states, I have on some occasions given up and called in by phone and had my stateside partners tune me in via speaker phone. Cameras freeze up, odd static background noises cut into the sound, and sometimes the connection just totally quits. I have surmised that the internet service on the Philippine end is just too unreliable to sustain the fairly wide bandwith required for streaming video. I'm convinced distance is not the problem, because connections to and from Korea, Taiwan, and China seem to work okay. Others' observations?