Bangkok Reports

There are reports how we all manage to get a freebie and have great sex with her but here is a story from last week of "Freebie gone bad".

Met this girl (G1) online. She added me to facebook and was really friendly. We met Wed evening for a few drinks. Turns out she was only one Soi away from me in Sukumvith. I was staying at Soi 1 and she worked in Soi 3. We met on Soi 3 and went to Gullivers. Had some finger food and couple of cocktails. I told her I had a conf call I had to get back to but I had Vodka in my room we could drink the next day. She immediately wanted to come over. I had to politely say No as I had another girl (G2) lined up for 8 pm. After our drinks our ways parted and suggested she come over the next evening to my hotel lobby as they have happy hour from 6pm to 7pm. I met the G2 at 8pm; light dinner (no drinks) back to my room and had three rounds with her before she left in the morning at 6am for work :)

Met the G1 from the previous night again; she was at my hotel by 6:15pm. We had 2 beers each and then migrated to my room for Vodka/Juice. Poured ourselves a nice strong one. Chatted for about 45 minutes while sitting on the sofa in the room. She was soon straddeling me cow girl on the couch and her top was off. Kissing and nipple sucking. We were really getting into it. Picked her up and dumped her into bed naked. I stripped as well and we were kissing all over. She asked if I had a condom and I pointed to the sealed box that is provided by the hotel. I did not want to reveal the mega pack I carry with me ;)

So we are caressing each other. I did not want to go down on her as her pussy was a little to hairy for me. I wanted her to give me a BJ to get me just hard to start to fucker her. I asked her if she could suck me.... she said no. Asked her again and she said no. I didn't say anything after that. A minute later she gets up and says: what are you doing!. why are you doing this to me, I thought you were a nice guy. I dont like it when a man controls me. I look at her stunned. WTF???

Then she goes on repeats the same stuff and says, "Why did you grab my hair, I dont want a man to control me". Grab her hair!!! I do that all the time playfully with a girl. Apparently the hair grab ticked her off for some reason. It was about 10pm now, she got dressed and left.

Yheesh! what a turn of events. I SMSed her right after; said sorry twice. She replied and said: I want to forget about and and I think you were really drunk, so its ok.

We chatted the next day. It was like it never happened. We met for lunch and chit chatted and did not mention the previous night at all. She wanted to party on Friday night with me. I declined as one of my freebies from Jakarta was going to be in town Friday night and want to go hang with her.

You win some, you loose some. Will let her pull my hair next time ;)

-JM

[QUOTE=JoseMarti]
So we are caressing each other. I did not want to go down on her as her pussy was a little to hairy for me. I wanted her to give me a BJ to get me just hard to start to fucker her. I asked her if she could suck me.... she said no. Asked her again and she said no. I didn't say anything after that. A minute later she gets up and says: what are you doing!. why are you doing this to me, I thought you were a nice guy. I dont like it when a man controls me. I look at her stunned. WTF???

Then she goes on repeats the same stuff and says, "Why did you grab my hair, I dont want a man to control me". Grab her hair!!! I do that all the time playfully with a girl. Apparently the hair grab ticked her off for some reason. It was about 10pm now, she got dressed and left.[/QUOTE]
I have a few comments.

Unfortunately guys that have not been in Thailand a long time, can get into trouble with Thai customs. Happens to us all. Touching a girl's head or hair is a risky one due to Thai custom considering the head as sacred. So not a great idea on a girl you don't know well. But often no problem. Just depends on the girl.

P4P girls will routinely give blow-jobs but not all. Non P4P are not guaranteed. There are girls who don't like it especially if uncircumsized and did not shower to clean perfection beforehand. Some will only do covered BJs.
She probably had some bastard come in her mouth with no warning/permission on a previous date and is now vary wary.

You didn't want to do DATY and got no blow-job. That's sort of justice.

Would be better approach to focus on getting the girl very turned on first and then accept whatever she wants to do for you. After all, you are not paying for it!

In the end, you probably met a difficult and touchy girl. I knew a gorgeous problematic girl who worked at Long Gun. Never managed to have a really great time with her, sexually, no matter how hard I tried to fit in with her ways. There are always plenty of other girls that will be no problem.

After spending an morning with the freebie MP girl and the afternoon with the ex TGF, went out last night, did not see much that made the little rabbit jump up and down. Could easily take any girl and screw them of course. Went to a few bars and ended up getting a call from the 23 year old from before that only was in town short time. She went home, we had a few sms back and forth and she came back to BKK and wanted to come over to see me.

So obviously she ran home, spent the money, now is back for more but what do I care she was a nice kid and we had fun, she knew what to expect from me, so why not. Told her to come to Shark at Cowboy where we were and she did. Talked to her a little and heard about what she did at home and what she wanted to do for the night and deal was struck.

Saved me the bar fine (but I could care less about that), she was a cute kid, she knew what I enjoy and do not enjoy (not much I do not enjoy :D ) and this time I got more "specials" out of her then the first time and more shots on goal then last time.

It is always refreshing to be with a young new girl in the game with some energy. Taking her to breakfast this morning, spending time with her, you can tell she is not in the game at all as she has no clue on hotels how they operate, locations, names of places in bangkok, etc... I'm being more of a guide to bangkok for her then she knows even the bars on soi cowboy she has no clue about other then the one she worked at for a few days.

She wants to see me tonight but some ISG guys have appointments this afternoon at the flower shop, then don't know what will come up next tonight. Would not classify this girl as a freebie as I pay her cash still and we negotiated the bottom line, but with the specials she provided (two specific ones come to mind) I would say she is not far from being in the gik category. Especially with the reaction to doing those "specials" :D

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]...some ISG guys have appointments this afternoon at the flower shop...

...she is not far from being in the gik category...[/QUOTE]Appointments at the flower shop? Is that code for something?

GIK definitely is, but I haven't heard that one before

[QUOTE=Wendella]appointments at the flower shop? Is that code for something?

GIK definitely is, but I haven't heard that one before[/QUOTE]I hate defining thai words but will do my best as really OTH or others are better for this.

GIK started out as boyfriend girl friend, then over time it evolved to a Gik being someone other then your girl friend, could be a part time lover, and some take it to mean someone only for sexual pleasure.

It is not a mia noy (second wife, mistress) as there is an exchange of mutual needs between a guy and his gik. A dinner, a show, going to movie, and she gives the guy sex. A mia noy is more dependent upon the financial aspects from the guy to support her fully and she is literally his second wife. A gik is more a part time and occasional get together type relationship and they can fade in and out of your life for a while.

For example there is an girl I knew from a long time ago and she called me up to see if I have time for her. I know taking her out will involve me buying her some items and I am sure she will perform sexual favors for me in return. That is a gik. If you break it down, I am paying her for sex but not in cash in her hand. She is looking for something and I am looking for something so we use each other to get what we want.

OK you experts of thailand and thai culture... how was the description was it defined properly?

Flower Shop = yeah read the forum it's pretty easy to figure out. It is a MP shop. That should solve it for you :D

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]When I come into Bangkok I try to bring various items, chocolate, perfume, teddy bears (animals and the night clothes), etc.... simple items, nothing massively expensive. But the girls like it and I give some chocolate to housekeeping (and tip them well :D ).


So now on this simple act that cost me little, she will remember forever, she gave me great sex out that. And I will guarantee that I got a girl for the rest of my life to take care of me in BKK.

Just my POV.[/QUOTE]I've found the little unexpected gift works wonders specially for the ladies who don't tend to get gifts.

A second hand phone, to a gal in Manila is still ensuring me pleasure from 18 months back. The "free gift" digital cam from Natl Geographic had same effect. Chocolates are ok but something with the girls name on (embroidered panties once) have a David Copperfield effect. Cheap and easy to do, but it always seems to get to the girls heart. And somehow quickly to her warmer parts.

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]...Taking her to breakfast this morning, spending time with her, you can tell she is not in the game at all as she has no clue on hotels how they operate, locations, names of places in bangkok, etc...[/QUOTE]
Hahahahaha ... and you believed that?

[QUOTE=JoseMarti]There are reports how we all manage to get a freebie and have great sex with her but here is a story from last week of "Freebie gone bad".

.....We chatted the next day. It was like it never happened. We met for lunch and chit chatted and did not mention the previous night at all. She wanted to party on Friday night with me. I declined as one of my freebies from Jakarta was going to be in town Friday night and want to go hang with her.

You win some, you loose some. Will let her pull my hair next time ;)

-JM[/QUOTE]

Interesting story! Bit of a weird excerience:
Seems she has some problems in discerning things and better go with a more safe date.
So next time you will let her pull her hair, but also you will refuse to DATY her!

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]I hate defining thai words but will do my best as really OTH or others are better for this.

GIK ...........
.... A gik is more a part time and occasional get together type relationship and they can fade in and out of your life for a while.

....:D[/QUOTE]
but the key question is: do you tip her? LOL

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]OK you experts of thailand and thai culture... how was the description was it defined properly? [/quote]

YEs sir, you have, however a gik relationship is not always based on sexual needs. For example, in my office, a lady calls her "GIK" the guy she eats with. She just tells that she hates eating alone so she has a Gik for eating company.

For the Flower Shop.... see attached

[QUOTE=Wendella]Appointments at the flower shop? Is that code for something?[/QUOTE]Indeed :):
[url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=812976&postcount=334[/url]

Hello guys,

Every body know akane x2 and sazanka

But some of you know this one:

[url]http://jjbkk.client.jp/[/url]

And as it's all in japanese:

Is it good? (need update advice)

(here an old post see paragraph 3.3)

[post]659351[/post]

What is their offer?

Do they have an english website?

Happy hunting

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]YEs sir, you have, however a gik relationship is not always based on sexual needs. For example, in my office, a lady calls her "GIK" the guy she eats with. She just tells that she hates eating alone so she has a Gik for eating company.[/QUOTE]

You mean she has sex with some guy just so he'll eat with her?

[QUOTE=Opebo]You mean she has sex with some guy just so he'll eat with her?[/QUOTE]Once upon a time, in a land far far away.

OK, ok, not that many years ago. In Chiang Mai, and all of Thailand in general: If you fed a nice meal to a friendly girl that you had known for a while, (gik), she literally bent over backwards to make you happy. She served you, spoon fed you, etc. If you were cavalier enough, this normally included a quickie trip to a cheap drive in 'bungalow' (motel), w/private garage and a sliding door hastily closed by a well greased attendant (making absolutely sure that your car wasn't seen.) This was SOP. (Those of you who have lived here long enough know exactly what I mean and the places I am talking about, they are still everywhere. And, for those who haven't been here since then. You should have been here yesterday, you REALLY missed it.)

And they all lived happily ever after.

The End

Now, ramp up your imagination, this is not a part of normal Western mentality. 'Gik' has a connotation similar to kissin' friends, not really a "love" relationship per se. But, you play your cards right, you get freebies all the time. Thai style.

[QUOTE=Opebo]You mean she has sex with some guy just so he'll eat with her?[/QUOTE]
Yes, she'll have sex with some guy just so he'll eat her!