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[QUOTE=Skip Kost; 1498844]IMP,

SNIP.

Filipinos sometimes refer to Westerners as "dirty butt" because of our use of TP. Too much information? Sorry.[/QUOTE]Ye old "push-and-smush" method.

[QUOTE=Skogis;1498810]Great reports. You don't have to make excuses for your mongerstyle as the most important thing is for you having a blast. Though I do purpously commit into different style as to prevent myself into having feelings for these girls (maximum 2 to 3 days but mostly normal LT sessions and new gems every day) I read your reports with interests. Expecially did I chuckle when you saw your money got reinvested into bigger / better electric fan and her pimping granny, haha. Thanks[/QUOTE]It is easy to fall in love with a Phi non working girl. What this guy was looking for is GFE experience. And he got it. It is immaterial how many times he got sex with this girl.

Some mongers like me like lots of sex. Some like less.

Some mongers like me get bored with the same girl after a few days irrespective of how she is. Some like to keep the same one.

Some mongers like me do not like to get close to girl's family. Some like it.

Some mongers like me like to spend more time in bed than out of it. Some like to travel, sight see etc.

To each his own. There is no need to compare with anybody. There are no strict rules which define a monger.

As long as anybody treats a girl nice should be respected by all mongers.

Only comment I can make about his experience is he should not have gone to girl's house unannounced to check on her. Unless you are engaged or married you do not invade her privacy. Many girls do not like guy who is not serious to check on her living conditions,how many people live there etc. If in case he really wants to go and see her home he should ask her first and make arrangements.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1495724]. I have had three other requests; all of them are dodgy since they come from girls who live well outside the typhoon-affected areas.

While not wishing to downplay for a minute that there are lots and lots of genuine cases requiring assistance from east to western Visayas, just be careful guys that scammers are not using this unspeakable tragedy to prey on your generosity.[/QUOTE]On 'Asian Dating' I already found a profile with such a sad story "We lost everything!". I checked all available information on this city far off the 'eye' of Yolanda. All what happened there was a electricity cut-off for few hours for security reasons and some falling trees cutting wires and heavy rain. Some more of these fairy tales will come up in the future, so you better check the path of 'Yolanda' and informations obtainable by search machines.

I came across a gal on Pinay L.

Positives: looks great in pics, in a prime location, says she wants to meet someone who is "in Philippines", . So far so good.

Negatives; has kid, wants 25-40, latter day saint, earlier profile suggested she doesn't want guys who want ONLY sex.

Well I missed the age cutoff by over ten years. I'm 14, BTW.

I put her on my FAV list months ago, but never contacted her until this week. Her reply included her skype contact and a phone number. Ummm, but what is your name beautiful? Anyway, she looks like a definite maybe on the next trip.

Question: I've had one very unpleasant experience with the late day saints in the Philippines, and had written them off. Now I'm thinking I have wrongly stereotyped.

So, those of you who fish the onlie sites, what is your advice and what are your experiences with gals who initially hit all the wrong buttons? X Man

Dude, your hunch about Later Day Saints is on the money. Same thing happened to me 2 years ago. Met and chatted some LDS chic online and hooked up when I got there. Lunch, casino, dinner back to hotel and the only way she was getting on the elevator is if I knocked her out. Complete waste of time. Do what your gut tells you but I would stay far away.

[QUOTE=X Man; 1502676]I came across a gal on Pinay L.

Positives: looks great in pics, in a prime location, says she wants to meet someone who is "in Philippines", . So far so good.

Negatives; has kid, wants 25-40, latter day saint, earlier profile suggested she doesn't want guys who want ONLY sex.

Well I missed the age cutoff by over ten years. I'm 14, BTW.

I put her on my FAV list months ago, but never contacted her until this week. Her reply included her skype contact and a phone number. Ummm, but what is your name beautiful? Anyway, she looks like a definite maybe on the next trip.

Question: I've had one very unpleasant experience with the late day saints in the Philippines, and had written them off. Now I'm thinking I have wrongly stereotyped.

So, those of you who fish the onlie sites, what is your advice and what are your experiences with gals who initially hit all the wrong buttons? X Man[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man; 1502676]Question: I've had one very unpleasant experience with the late day saints in the Philippines, and had written them off. Now I'm thinking I have wrongly stereotyped.

So, those of you who fish the onlie sites, what is your advice and what are your experiences with gals who initially hit all the wrong buttons? X Man[/QUOTE]From the dating sites I've met and shagged one LDS girl and a few Jehovah's Witnesses and Iglesia Ni Cristo (INCers?). What they all had in common is that they lived away from home and were no longer active in the church. What I know of these sects is that members are expected to marry within the faith and these churches are far more involved in the social lives of their members than the Catholic church - call it monitoring. That a girl is looking outside her church tells me the hold isn't strong and that she at least entertains the idea of intimacy with a non-member. Just like in your communication with any other girl you need to be direct in your expectations and she needs to acknowledge what is expected. For a few days I was chatting with an Orthodox Jew (her entire family converted) and it was soon clear that she was not down to fuck, thus it was pointless to continue the conversation.

[QUOTE=Mongerer69;1502765]Dude, your hunch about Later Day Saints is on the money. Same thing happened to me 2 years ago. Met and chatted some LDS chic online and hooked up when I got there. Lunch, casino, dinner back to hotel and the only way she was getting on the elevator is if I knocked her out. Complete waste of time. Do what your gut tells you but I would stay far away.[/QUOTE]I think we all know the same can happen with any girl of any faith, which is why being direct in your pre-meeting communication is vital. Seeing that you did typical date activities over the better part of a day I wonder what her expectations were. I think a lot of guys visiting here follow the dating strategies used back home: "Let's do lunch!" Then they hope for the best. Perhaps they believe that since it's the Philippines the fuck is sure to follow. Of course it is the girl's right to back out at anytime. At the very least one needs to suss things out soon after meeting her; even better to suss things out before meeting her.

I want to get advice.

I met a beautiful college student 24 on DIA in Cebu about 2 month ago. We chatted, talk over phone but when I told her I am married man she never answer my call and message.

Just a week ago, She reply me that "I remember you come to Cebu on the beginning of December where are you now"

I was wondering why suddenly she change.

I think whether

1. Christmas is coming, she need quick money.

Or.

2. She find I am good target for honey trap (I am married man).

Experienced guys, please let me know your opinion.

[QUOTE=Kwame Case; 1502831]I think whether

2. She find I am good target for honey trap (I am married man).

Experienced guys, please let me know your opinion.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure how you can be a honey trap unless you allow yourself to be one. Meet her but give her false name, use your second email address, use your pay and load phone, hide everything in the room that could identify you by name and give her a good bang or two. Where's the trap there?

You can drive yourself crazy trying to understand the motive for a filipina's behavior, even if you know her well, which you don't. A "honey trap" scheme is unlikely, especially in Cebu. The simplest explanation is that she stopped responding not because you said you are married, but because you are not in the Philippines. Then later she checked up by asking where you are now.

It is possible that the news of your marital status gave her pause, and she thought about it later and found it did not disturb her conscience after all. Maybe in the meantime she experienced other married men. Take the advice given elsewhere and don't give her any links to your family. Enjoy her and help her in return.

BTW she is a bit on the elderly side, at 24, to be still a college student. Do you have any confirmation of that? If it's important, as in more money due her, ask to see her student i.d. card or semester class list. If you only get excuses, she is not currently a student.

[QUOTE=Kwame Case; 1502831]I want to get advice.

I met a beautiful college student 24 on DIA in Cebu about 2 month ago. We chatted, talk over phone but when I told her I am married man she never answer my call and message.

Just a week ago, She reply me that "I remember you come to Cebu on the beginning of December where are you now"

I was wondering why suddenly she change.

I think whether

1. Christmas is coming, she need quick money.

Or.

2. She find I am good target for honey trap (I am married man).

Experienced guys, please let me know your opinion.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1502932]I'm not sure how you can be a honey trap unless you allow yourself to be one. Meet her but give her false name, use your second email address, use your pay and load phone, hide everything in the room that could identify you by name and give her a good bang or two. Where's the trap there?[/QUOTE]As always sensible advice from FF Kwame. All she wants is cash, her conscious does not bother her that you are married. Most of the pinays I meet don't care at all, some like it and some want to take you way from wifey

24 yrs old is not old for college as many stop and start the course due to financial problems so I would not worry about age.

She wants cash as it is Christmas.

On another note, yet another really sexy one emailed me asking for help as she lost everything in Yolanda. Was a nice email but then a quick look at her Facebook page suggested she was nowhere near Tacolban / Ormoc etc. Some girls never quite understand the power of the internet, still she is very cute and a part time model so I may pursue for other 'humanitarian' reasons.

[QUOTE=Kwame Case; 1502831]I want to get advice.

I met a beautiful college student 24 on DIA in Cebu about 2 month ago. We chatted, talk over phone but when I told her I am married man she never answer my call and message. Just a week ago, She reply me that "I remember you come to Cebu on the beginning of December where are you now" I was wondering why suddenly she change.

I think whether

1. Christmas is coming, she need quick money.

Or.

2. She find I am good target for honey trap (I am married man).

Experienced guys, please let me know your opinion.[/QUOTE]You have allready gotten some knowledgable advices from senior punters. As a sidenote to the obvious; she needs cash before x mas. These datingsitegirls get tons of mails everyday and mostly from guys never setting foot into the phils(as us these girls dont like to vaste their time). Since you were approx 2 months before entering I think that is the main reason for her quiting up and rather did put you into her notepad for possible meetups under "check him (you) later". From my experience it is not needed to start hitting ladies in datingsites until it is 2 weeks before arriving in pussyheaven. You can also do very well just log on one site while in Phils and after a few lines you can have yourself some pinaypussy. I think this was her major reason and not the fact you are married.

To stay under the radar just use freebies advice.

Thank you for all the guys gave me good advice.

I am now relaxed. I will see her soon with all my identity secretly.

I will give her chocolate and designer's perfume. If everything goes well, is it enough to give her 2500p for taxi in the next morning?

Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=Skogis; 1503191]You have allready gotten some knowledgable advices from senior punters. As a sidenote to the obvious; she needs cash before x mas. These datingsitegirls get tons of mails everyday and mostly from guys never setting foot into the phils (as us these girls don't like to vaste their time). Since you were approx 2 months before entering I think that is the main reason for her quiting up and rather did put you into her notepad for possible meetups under "check him (you) later". From my experience it is not needed to start hitting ladies in datingsites until it is 2 weeks before arriving in pussyheaven. You can also do very well just log on one site while in Phils and after a few lines you can have yourself some pinaypussy. I think this was her major reason and not the fact you are married.

To stay under the radar just use freebies advice.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Kwame Case;1503367]I will give her chocolate and designer's perfume. If everything goes well, is it enough to give her 2500p for taxi in the next morning?[/QUOTE]Of course it's up to you, but a donation of 2, 500p might be a bit too much. 1,200. 1,500p plus tip / taxi fare is enough for the majority of Cebu girls.

[QUOTE=Pip Jaeger;1503865]Of course it's up to you, but a donation of 2, 500p might be a bit too much. 1,200. 1,500p plus tip / taxi fare is enough for the majority of Cebu girls.[/QUOTE]Thanks PJ, I understand the standard.

[QUOTE=Cbea20; 1502949]You can drive yourself crazy trying to understand the motive for a filipina's behavior, even if you know her well, which you don't. A "honey trap" scheme is unlikely, especially in Cebu. The simplest explanation is that she stopped responding not because you said you are married, but because you are not in the Philippines. Then later she checked up by asking where you are now.

It is possible that the news of your marital status gave her pause, and she thought about it later and found it did not disturb her conscience after all. Maybe in the meantime she experienced other married men. Take the advice given elsewhere and don't give her any links to your family. Enjoy her and help her in return.

BTW she is a bit on the elderly side, at 24, to be still a college student. Do you have any confirmation of that? If it's important, as in more money due her, ask to see her student I. The. Card or semester class list. If you only get excuses, she is not currently a student.[/QUOTE]Chat girls play games with you to see how far they can push you. Moment you chat with them they think you are her BF even though you never met her. Also they act annoyed if you say you plan to see other girls.

Generally there is no need to discuss your marital status because you want to meet her for the sole purpose of carnal desire. Of course you want to compensate for her time.