Lima

Water Boy, I have a great suggestion for you: Stop asking so many questions. Stop trying to figure everything out in advance. Stop trying to plan and anticipate so much. Just GO, and you will have a good time. Go have fun, go make mistakes like all of us, and allow uncertainty and ambiguity into your life. Enjoy it. You suffer from analysis paralysis - Just do it.

[QUOTE=Water Boy]
Clarification #2:

I have read from other members in this forum how it is possible in Lima to have several non-pro girlfriends and sleep with a different one every nite of the week. One needs only to have a good game, good spanish and play ones cards right. I find this hard to believe - I assume that the Limenita is like every other woman in the world: jealous and possessive.

True or false - is it possible to have several non-pro girlfriends and sleep with a different one every nite of the week ??[/QUOTE]

It's true, you just have to keep them from finding out about each other ;)

Same applies to the US as well.

Hello Waterboy, let me tell you about my experience and then you can make your own opinion. I'm originally form Lima, decent looking, but I have been away for 22 years and now at 39, I'm coming back for the first time. in January

Since I'm basically a tourist, I decided to get some dates ahead of time and used Badoo and Latin Love Search to make some friends. I made about 60 dates for a three week period. basically if I wanted I could do two dates a day, however that is when I realized that I was an idiot for thinking like that. I like some girls better than others, most of them now know where and when I'm going to be around and without me even being there they are already putting pressure on me to spend lots of time with all of them, some of them have callked me in the US and some have introduced them to their mothers. On top of that I was planning to go to some mongering spots and try some peruvian delicacies ;) .

You may say what is the problem with that, but it is a big problem. What if I really like a girl? what if one sees the next? What if I want to do my own thing? What if I meet someone on the street? Basically I'm now married to the dates I have setted up. Next time I wil at the most set up about three dates and go from there.

I hope that this helps a bit about you making your own decisions and plan of action.

If anybody else is around January 17 th - Feb 4th, send me a PM I would not mind to say hello....

Happy mongering,

Gabriel

[QUOTE=Water Boy]Hi Elberto,

I go to Lima for the first time early next year, so I do not have any experience with Limenitas. So I am reading the posts here to make my trip a successful one.

I shared your theory above, until I travelled to other LA countries. I am not disagreeing with you, I am just testing my own "theories" about SA/LA women.

Question: you meet two women. Both look identical, they are beautiful, healthy human beings. One is from the new human colony on planet mars. The other hangs out at XYZ Bar in downtown Lima. You've dated other women from XYZ bar and they are generous, courteous and pretty level headed.

Which one are you going to go out with first ?[/QUOTE]

Thanks Captain Napalm, you confirmed my suspicions. I am getting a good image of how this peruana psyche works.

GabrielM. 60 dates? Man, that is ambitious. You are one hard core dater, my hat is off to you. Little too extreme even for a "numbers guy" like me.

Me, I prefer to do some touristy stuff (for which I am roundly criticized for seeking), do a little chongos of course, and do a little dating. Thanks to the guys who suggested online dating sites.

If I could only make one suggestion to GabrielM, my experience in other SA/LA countries tells me that "even the best plan or schedule evaporates on day one. " Take along a chongo list just in case.

...sleeping with different girls each night in Lima? BS, unless you have tons
of $$$$.Your white ass won`t be enough!

To all our Lima Friends, wherever they may be!

Those of you in town may have seen the new designated ¨streetwalker zones¨ which are easily identified by the universal street signs.
LB

hi guys,

i’m on way to lima and i’m just wondering if you guys know a spa where i can get a real massage (from a real massage therapist). i know there is r&v (which i will visit for sure), but i just want to get a real massage, i don’t even care if the massage therapist is a guy

thanks,

jimbox

If I may interject a question that is completely nonsexual: Does anyone know of a good Spanish school that one could attend for a week in Lima? LB?

A lot of discussion about Eclipse here. It is an expensive night out like most of the strip clubs, depending on your activities, but the talent level was way up when I visited last month. A favorita formerly of Club69 now works there, she yelped for joy and practically jumped me when she saw me! You really can find girls in these places who are not only hot but, unlike the high volume low budget places, still have hearts and remain Peruana friendly while delighting in being top-notch, super-sexy desireable girls who genuinely enjoy stripping and phucking. But always put your experience in a little box, you could really fall in love if you're not careful!

I think the fact that the girls at $80 and up for take-out are priced for tourist consumption really works so much to the benefit to the one who can easily afford it - the local who is willing/able to pay that amount for mere sex is a scarce specimen. And these girls are happy with a single phuck or less each night, making some of their money in other ways, so they don't get burnt out so quickly. I imagine these high-priced options will be less and less affordable to many americans as the dollar falls over the coming years, but the market will always balance itself out, and these women will always have a supply of men able to tap them and happily pay a premium for the privilege. Hopefully I can be one of them for a while longer.

[QUOTE=Doc Bill]If I may interject a question that is completely nonsexual: Does anyone know of a good Spanish school that one could attend for a week in Lima? LB?[/QUOTE]
Bill,
I would recommend El SoL .
They have a website that you can find through [url]www.expatperu.com[/url] if you can not google it.
LB

[QUOTE=Doc Bill]If I may interject a question that is completely nonsexual: Does anyone know of a good Spanish school that one could attend for a week in Lima? LB?[/QUOTE]
Hey Doc - I went to El Sol school for a week in November and they were excellent. I also stayed with a host family and thoroughly enjoyed my time with them. It is a great way to get connected to people, to immerse yourself in spanish, and to do it inexpensively. This worked well for me for the first week of my visit. I still could explore the city in the afternoons and evenings. Then the second week I was familiar with Lima and could be more extreme in my evening activities. By the way, don't miss Relax Y Vida while you are there. I went and quickly became a fan of this place.
CB

Thanks guys, I'll check it out.

Clodbuster - I've been to Relax y Vida many times - One of my favorites. I actually started a relationship with one of the girls there that I'm going to be seeing when I'm there in a few weeks thanks to a fellow member of this Forum who I'm sure prefers not to be named. Cheers.

I just found their website, in case anyone else is interested. It looks pretty good.

[url]http://elsol.idiomasperu.com[/url]

[QUOTE=Little King]A lot of discussion about Eclipse here. It is an expensive night out like most of the strip clubs, depending on your activities, but the talent level was way up when I visited last month. A favorita formerly of Club69 now works there, she yelped for joy and practically jumped me when she saw me! You really can find girls in these places who are not only hot but, unlike the high volume low budget places, still have hearts and remain Peruana friendly while delighting in being top-notch, super-sexy desireable girls who genuinely enjoy stripping and phucking. But always put your experience in a little box, you could really fall in love if you're not careful!

I think the fact that the girls at $80 and up for take-out are priced for tourist consumption really works so much to the benefit to the one who can easily afford it - the local who is willing/able to pay that amount for mere sex is a scarce specimen. And these girls are happy with a single phuck or less each night, making some of their money in other ways, so they don't get burnt out so quickly. I imagine these high-priced options will be less and less affordable to many americans as the dollar falls over the coming years, but the market will always balance itself out, and these women will always have a supply of men able to tap them and happily pay a premium for the privilege. Hopefully I can be one of them for a while longer.[/QUOTE]
It is nice to see more guys coming to town who can appreciate the other options in Lima. Having a lot of friends down at tequilas that are ¨good hearted¨ girls, I do not like to put the place down like some others. But the club scene although more expensive and difficult to navigate has some amazing talent. As Polvo reported Cassanova is a viable option on Sunday´s for those getting into town late and the girls at Emmanuelle,Suites & 69 are smoking. Eclispe is considered to be a step down in price and quality, but if you hit it on the right night,you understand why it is so popular with some of the reg travelers. Which brings up the ¨main problem¨! Weither it be Tequilas or any other club, the talent can vary from night to night as the hot ones have regular clients,Travel or just want to go out at night to party at a regular club. This is more common on the weekends as the wealthy married Peruvians do not have the work excuse and can´t play. The girls all know this and go out to Aura on a Sat night. Again Polvo is the resident expert on these high end club girls and if he was not so busy every night,would have time to share his knowledge here. I have learned alot from his private club tours but do not want to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] on his parade as he has invested alot more time and money gaining his knowledge and contacts.
LB

Personally I believe Spanish helps cause you can venture out of Lima and the fact that you are from Lima or a foreigner is more than enough to get some poontang !!!