Rio de Janeiro Reports

[quote=hungrystud101;1197043]anyone ever rent a car in rio? i want to drive from rio to sampa and drop at the interntonal airport. anyone ever done something like this? hw long was the ride and do the rental car companies nail you with drop fees?[/quote]i have rented cars in rio (from hertz). if you do, make sure you get the insurance. also, make sure that you do not speed. they have plenty of speed traps, which take you picture. then a few weeks later a charge on your credit card appears for that speeding ticket. very hard to fight this one! i also rented a gps with my car, and this sucked big time and even dropped the signal quite often; so perhaps you want to bring your own. and of course parking in sp and rio can also be a major problem, depending on where you want to go.

but why rent a car? the only reason that i rented a car was that i wanted to explore the coastline between rio and sp and to go out to buzios. if you just want to get from rio to sp, this is total overkill. you can get cheap one-way flights from rio to sp on gol airline. last time i did this in january, and it was less than $100 one way. or you can also take a very comfortable air-conditioned bus (which i have also done a few times).

Where do you catch a bus from Rio to SP, at Central station? What is the best bus route to Buzios? Bus from Central Station to Buzios? When you get to Buzios on a bus, what are the best lodging options? Any love motels there, or rental apartments? I see some buzios accomodations listed on some of the Rio apt sites, like gringomanagement.

Obrigado.

[QUOTE=Euro100;1197080]Or you can also take a very comfortable air-conditioned bus (which I have also done a few times).[/QUOTE]

I have never visited prive, but, correct me if I am wrong: looking over the prive websites, I am seeing body types that are pretty much the same as at the termas. Maybe the same bunda has a 9. 5 face at a terma compared to a 7 face, but the difference is 220R v 50R (4x4 v 30min prive) , or even 350R v 50R.

Anyway, with the prives as a "pro forma" base, (ie, get there at 10 AM, for 30 min) , I think a guy goes into a terma at 2 in a much stronger negotiating mindset for a free pernoite with the top terma talent, or maybe a little R like dois cem; get your 10 "no's" for your one "sim"

[QUOTE=Sperto; 1197017]The girls at the privês are of mixed body-types, including slim body-types.

As you speak zero Portuguese and seem a bit unsure I think you better don't bother about the privês and stick to termas like Centaurus, L'Uomo, Monte Carlo, Solarium etc.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PatmarBeleza1; 1197102]Where do you catch a bus from Rio to SP, at Central station? What is the best bus route to Buzios? Bus from Central Station to Buzios? When you get to Buzios on a bus, what are the best lodging options? Any love motels there, or rental apartments? I see some buzios accomodations listed on some of the Rio apt sites, like gringomanagement.

Obrigado.[/QUOTE]The main central [i]bus[/i] Station has buses to SP and pretty well anywhere else (note that 'Central Station' would generally be taken as referring to the train station). If you take a city bus, make sure you get off at the right terminus, as there is a terminus for city buses before you get to the main intercity terminal. Go round the windows in both halves of the terminal (connected by a bridge) and look for the names of the city you want to travel to. Understand the different types of ticket options and choose your seat appropriately when buying. It's quite straightforward though some buses are varying degrees of 'nice,' especially for long haul. That doesn't go for the roads, which are mostly varying degrees of 'shit.'

[QUOTE=PatmarBeleza1;1197103]... I think a guy goes into a terma at 2 in a much stronger negotiating mindset for a free pernoite with the top terma talent...[/QUOTE]That must be nice to arrive at a terma at 2 AM and receive a free TLN with the top terma talent.

It happens often?

2 PM.

That's a plan which may or may not occur.

[QUOTE=Sperto; 1197146]That must be nice to arrive at a terma at 2 AM and receive a free TLN with the top terma talent.

It happens often?[/QUOTE]

Actually, I had two free TLN with a former top terma girl turned freelancer August last year. And actually, the key was getting some lower end from agency daily while working on the higher end. Agency 170R including taxi. The point I was making is if you're doing a 50 Reias prive session at 10AM or 11 AM daily, your mindset for attempting the semi-GFE experience, TLN with the top Terma girl will be better later in the day, starting at 2 PM, or whenever the tier 1 termas open.

And the other part of the daily plan would be to circle back to mosaico at 11 PM or midnight, because if the tier 1 terma GFE doesn't work, you have that as a fallback, which again, helps psychology.

[QUOTE=PatmarBeleza1; 1197183]2 PM.

That's a plan which may or may not occur.[/QUOTE]

A good friend of mine and fellow monger married a Help girl a couple of years ago. They have known each other 8 years and have 2 children together (allegedly). Well he travels for work and the other day while he was gone he looked on her facebook and a guy had left a message to the tune of "sorry for keeping you up last night, etc." He confronted her about it and she admitted to fucking the guy. To add insult to injury she would not fuck him so he immediately went to get a divorce packet. I think everyone can figure the moral of this story for themselves.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1197630]A good friend of mine and fellow monger married a Help girl a couple of years ago. They have known each other 8 years and have 2 children together (allegedly). Well he travels for work and the other day while he was gone he looked on her facebook and a guy had left a message to the tune of "sorry for keeping you up last night, etc." He confronted her about it and she admitted to fucking the guy. To add insult to injury she would not fuck him so he immediately went to get a divorce packet. I think everyone can figure the moral of this story for themselves.[/QUOTE]that he didn't know how to please her so she had to get that somewhere else. I wonder if he was faithful to her or just left her alone with the kids while he continued with his mongering ways?

I know many former GDPs whom had gotten married, were loyal and really wanted to make it work but their man cheated on them with a prostitute. You know what they say. You can't turn a ho monger into a husband. When are these girls ever going to learn? Sad.

[QUOTE=Exec Talent;1197641]Sad -that he didn't know how to please her so she had to get that somewhere else.[/QUOTE]I have noticed this very 1 dimensional theme develop from exec over the last year. That is if you are well above average in bed, or better still exceptional at pleasing a woman's desire, then she will pretty much be happy and stay with you for ever. Never cheating on you etc.

People are not 1 dimensional, especially Brazilians. They all want / need / desire different things. They want a package of things, not any one thing. However the most important thing a woman wants out of a relationship is security. Sure good sex and being pleased by a man is important in a relationship, but to a woman it is probably like number 5 on the list. They ability to be taken care of is way more important than if someone knows how to lick pussy or not. You can survive without sex but you can't survive without food!

Most Brazilians f*k around, it is cultural. They can get the sex they require outside a relationship, not necessarily a slight on their partner, they just like sex. Hell their partner may be great in the sack, but variety is the spice of life. I was at 502 the other night with Euro and Sex traveler, both good contributors to this board. I asked the girl I was with if she had a boyfriend, just general conversation, and she says "Yes I do, but I always have a little time on the side for 1 more". Sums up Brazilian culture, from the laughing "A's" in Brazil that have everything, right down to the "E's" that have nothing.

This is completely true. I had a mini relationship with a brasileira. She was a freelancer, and before that a top terma girl. After some great per noites in August and December last year, I got to know her whole situation. I could have married her. But here is the whole picture. No career prospects after her previous work, violent alcoholic mother in Reelengo she was forced to live with with her 9 year old son. After seeing her in December, I listened to my friends who said she will only manipulate in her environment, so I steered clear, except for email or video chat. To her credit in July this year she was honest, she said, I have another boyfriend, he helps pay for a place to live for me and my son. I told her to do that, and I told her I was happy for her. She was the best brasileira I was ever with (actually half Brazilian, half Italian). And what could you expect, being a continent away?

I was posting about Class A to Class D a little bit ago. What I was getting at is not that the bunda is actually better with more $R, on the contrary, the doctor in residency that I could have had through Brazilcupid in 2009 was not good at sex (a good indication she was doing real work?). But, the point is, think with your big head, not your little head. You pick a woman to have children with because she is the top stripper at quatroporquatro, and how many men, what job skills, and what kind of family are you picking? If there is a way to do it, to get a namorada for filos why familia, I would try to meet a student from a Class A or laughing A (commodity rich) family. Then if you have kids with her, the kids education is probably endowed.

Anyway, I don't know any of the above from experience (ie being successful with Class A or B brasileiras). I think it would be very hard. I think you could also find a Class C or D brasileira for a family, pretty easily, but not in the places discussed on this website, ie, the termas or agencies.

I think that Bubba Boy guide quote about being completely selfish is applicable.

[QUOTE=Bubba Boy;1197709]People are not 1 dimensional, especially Brazilians. They all want / need / desire different things. They want a package of things, not any one thing. However the most important thing a woman wants out of a relationship is security. Sure good sex and being pleased by a man is important in a relationship, but to a woman it is probably like number 5 on the list. They ability to be taken care of is way more important than if someone knows how to lick pussy or not. You can survive without sex but you can't survive without food![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PatmarBeleza1;1197764]... the doctor in residency that I could have had through Brazilcupid in 2009 was not good at sex (a good indication she was doing real work?)...[/QUOTE]IMO sex with regular brazilian girls are normally better than with pro's.
Of course, some of the regular girls might not have the same BJ-skills etc but still provide hotter and better sex.

[QUOTE=Bubba Boy;1197709]Most Brazilians f*k around, it is cultural. They can get the sex they require outside a relationship, not necessarily a slight on their partner, they just like sex. Hell their partner may be great in the sack, but variety is the spice of life. I was at 502 the other night with Euro and Sex traveler, both good contributors to this board. I asked the girl I was with if she had a boyfriend, just general conversation, and she says "Yes I do, but I always have a little time on the side for 1 more". Sums up Brazilian culture, from the laughing "A's" in Brazil that have everything, right down to the "E's" that have nothing.[/QUOTE]This makes me say hmmm. I was supposed to go see my ex-girlfriend the end of last month. She is from Rio, but now works in Canada. About a week before I was supposed to go she told me that she was seeing a guy there now. I said okay. I just will not go then. (I really didn't want to go in the first place, so it was a great excuse for me.) She said no it is not a problem, I just wanted to let you know. I told her that I didn't want to cause any problems so I thought it would be best if I did not go. She hoped that I had changed my mind back before the time came but I made alternate plans to go to the Dominican Republic. The other day she sent me an email saying that she misses me and I replied telling her not to worry about me because she has someone else to miss now. She wrote back Sunday with,"however, still I miss you! Come to see me please! Beijos." Now she is a pretty trustworthy person (and of course I am a bad/cool mf) but it makes me wonder if she may have done the same with someone else when we were together.

[QUOTE=Exec Talent;1197641]You know what they say. You can't turn a ho monger into a husband. When are these girls ever going to learn? Sad.[/QUOTE]I agree with you, but the converse is true as well: you can't turn a ho into a housewife, in spite of many opinions to the contrary on this forum. As we used to say in Nam 40 years ago, you can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl.

[QUOTE=Exec Talent;1197641][b]Sad[/b] that he didn't know how to please her so she had to get that somewhere else.[/QUOTE]This statement is oversimplifying relationships to such a point that I wonder if you chuckled when you wrote it. If you really believe that all you have to do is sexually please your women and she will stay faithful to you, then you are setting yourself up for a really big heart ache.

Sex can be as great as you want, but people also want variety and perhaps even danger. That is, after all, why most of us are on this board. A member of this board that I hung out with last Saturday at L'uomo told me that he used to have a girlfriend that was a dead ringer for Halle Berry, but after a while he cheated on her; and he cheated on her with a less attractive girl. Why? Because that's the way we are wired, I think. And I have to confess that I have done the same. Three or four times I had really attractive girlfriends / wives that my friends were drooling over, and each time I cheated on them. (Not right away, of course. I tried being faithful, sometimes for a very long time, but then the beast inside reared its head again.) You really start to miss the tingle of the conquest, and it can be an addiction like a drug. Doing p4p, by the way, is only a mild version of that drug, suitable to overcome withdrawal symptoms.

Most people, of course, are not like that. They stick with their partners and never cheat or engage in p4p. (Note that I make a difference between the two!) But I would suggest that they stay faithful partially because they cannot image what it would be like if they did not. Many guys wonder, but do not do it. Instead they order pay-per-view porn in their hotel rooms and jerk off. (That business is bigger in revenue, by the way, than all of mainstream Hollywood movies combined.)

But once you stepped over the line, then that tabu is gone. Obviously, a former gdp has stepped over that line previously, as has anybody who bought their services. Deep down you know then that there is opportunity everywhere for those who look, and you should equally know that no relationship is safe. The same is true for males and females; it does not make a difference. Feeding yourself the line about just pleasing your partner in bed the right way and everything will be OK is just like whistling in the dark.