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[QUOTE=X Man;1509292]If anyone is still reading, what have you experienced on Craiglist? I use DIA and PL, of course FB, but there seem to be a lot of pros on CL.[/QUOTE]Try putting your own ad up. If nothing else, you will be amused by some of the replies. Mostly from mums in their late twenties and early thirties looking to make a little extra cash but also from a few obvious pro's and the occasional hottie. Also some naughty pics, such as those below, which is fun. I've only to date met one out of the dozens of replies I have received to my ads but I guess I am very choosy and some others are on my 'to do if I ever get around to them' list.

Amongst those who advertise, I would say most were on the game (and there are an inordinate number of chix with dick's but they mostly advertise clearly as such). There are some petty hot babes and they try for premium rates but are negotiable. The real beauts however hold out for a minimum of 5000 for 3 hours and 2 pops. Haven't tried any but as a personal Christmas present from me to me, I've very much got my eye on one absolute knock out stunner that I also know from DIA and is a FB friend. But she is model quality.

Enjoy your trip.

[QUOTE=Slippery;1509349]Some friends opened a bar on Mabini next to City State Tower called Dakota something or other. Its in the same building Café 28 used to be in. Haven't been there yet as I'm in USA until after the holidays. Please stick your head in the door and give us your impressions.[/QUOTE]Seems we have the same social circle. I've been in the place several times. It's in the white building directly across the street from Calle 5, the live music place. There's no sign on the front of the building, but walk in the door, up the short flight of stairs, and entrance is on the right. Gary and his wife have really done a nice job decorating the place, especially if you like an aviation theme. If you're looking for FLs this is not the place to go, but it's near Gpoint, Amazonia and MBC, and if you want to take a girl to a nicer bar this is certainly worth a visit. I've only drank there so can't report on the food. Prices for drinks are similar to the other bars. If you're into 8 ball the table is the newest and best condition one around.

[QUOTE=X Man;1509292]If anyone is still reading, what have you experienced on Craiglist? I use DIA and PL, of course FB, but there seem to be a lot of pros on CL.[/QUOTE]I use CL a lot and have been very pleased with the results. Have posted a few reports about it earlier. The vast majority of the ads posted by women in the casual encounters w4m section are overpriced p4p. You will find some freebie gems here, but most of the non p4p who post are heavy BBWs. My success comes from posting my own ads; some of my most fun partners have been found here. Rarely do I get a p4p girl replying. Most often it's women in their late 20s to early 30s, and many of them are well educated business professionals. Two of the three doctors I hooked up with were responders to my CL ads, and I've met lawyers, accountants, etc. The only downside I've experienced is some replies come from overweight women, but I ignore them. In addition to the hook up the best part for me has been meeting some women who have become genuine friends.

Thank you to those who found time to reply to my earlier post.

I'm in AC at the moment, but in MM I had one MBCafe gal, one DIA gal (not a knockout, but made up for it in personality and conversation) and then a regular. I was able to take in the light show at Ayala triangle. Very nice and also a nice M Bay sunset from MoA.

Ermita seems even seedier than usual. I might have to consider Makati as a new base. Nevertheless, I like the Shwarmma place just half a block from MBC.

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Going into Makati this early January I was trimming Pinalove and started to connect with various "victims". Suddenly one girl is answering my msg to her and all I get is this extremely phonetic writings (lokks, gurl, ryt, nit etc etc). I snapped back at her and wrote in capital letters where the fuck did you go to school. Later ofcourse found out she almost did not. If we add the usual that most pinays only can handle to answer one question at the time (usualy the last one) it didn't get any better. Well I told her I was sorry. I think it is time to take a break so I deleted my account. Anyone else gets irritated regarding pinays sometimes???:-)

[QUOTE=Skogis;1512482]Anyone else gets irritated regarding pinays sometimes???[/QUOTE]Yes, but then I realize the issue is the often the gap between my misguided expectations and the actual social capabilities of the girls. Nothing to do with education or social status. It is just that the girl is probably half (or more) your age. Once I lower the bar of expectations on a 18-19 year old, balance is restored. Enjoy the Philippines, AsianRain

[quote=skogis;1512482]suddenly one girl is answering my msg to her and all i get is this extremely phonetic writings (lokks, gurl, ryt, nit etc etc). i snapped back at her and wrote in capital letters where the fuck did you go to school. later ofcourse found out she almost did not. well i told her i was sorry. anyone else gets irritated regarding pinays sometimes???:-)[/quote]it comes with the territory buddy. when you are scraping in third world countries what do you expect? then too you can't expect a highly-educated, job-having woman to have time to surf the web all day looking for a boyfriend. i'm fortunate that my main pinay only has a sixth grade education, but still has a thorough reading, writing, speaking, and comprehending command of the english language. you find this same thing in the dominican republic where spanish is their native language, however their sub-standard litteracy of written and even spoken spanish is at times atrocious.

Sorry guys just had to blow out some steam. I probably just got into a bad steam with girls commanding english on a lower scale of what is possible (I am by far perfect myself as english is only my 2'nd language but even so). Actually I feel more freedom deleting my pinalove account and I truly believe when small stuffs like this starts to irritate a time out is needed. I have more than enough numbers stored from datingsitegirls I have not yet been able to meet, so in this aspect I will not suffer (I hope).

[QUOTE=Skogis;1512777]Sorry guys just had to blow out some steam. I probably just got into a bad steam with girls commanding english on a lower scale of what is possible Actually I feel more freedom deleting my pinalove account and I truly believe when small stuffs like this starts to irritate a time out is needed. I have more than enough numbers stored from datingsitegirls I have not yet been able to meet, so in this aspect I will not suffer (I hope).[/QUOTE]I have times when I have no interest in " HI I'm from Dipolog, can we friends". Or " I hope you will be a one woman man and will like me till the end of time " (now all know thats neither of them are going to happen ). I guess like all websites, they should be worked on when the energy and interest level is high, the mood is optimistic. Othrewise sometimes we (I) just seem to be going through the routine of chatting to pretty girl that we or may not ever meet.

Honey, its called Date in Asia. Not [url]www.marry[/url] Me and live happily ever. Com." oh your not serious on me ". LOL

A lot of guys copy a girl's profile here to make fun of it. A friend has given me her password and I'm amazed at what these girls have to put up with. Here is an example, so sorry if I'm taking up too much space. I just couldn't believe this guy, who also sent really nasty messages to the girl:

REAL MEN STILL EXIST!

Who am I? How does a person explain themselves in a few sentences? Well, here is what I am told most often by friends, family, and business partners. Be prepared, this is long!

I am honest, sincere, loyal, and hold very high standards of integrity, morals, and ethics. I am very articulate and successful in business. I am well groomed, polished, and exceptionally superb dresser when it comes to clothes. I am as comfortable in a tux and black tie as I am in my shorts, t-shirt and flips. I look and act much younger than I am which is why I like younger women. I have a very high level of energy and love to always be active whether it is in sports or travel or anything. I consider myself adventurous and love to try new things. (I love to scuba dive and snow ski! I also was a competitive swimmer for 20 years and tried to make it to the Olympics but in the end I just wasn't world class.) I like to socialize with friends, even travel with them. Sometimes we take our children, sometimes it's just an adult trip. I am a blast to be around and seem to always bring out the best in people. I can make a grumpy person smile in less than a minute. Give me a week and I will make Scrooge a good friend to everyone. I have a positive outlook on life and love every day. I constantly read self improvement and motivational books so I can build a shield around myself and not let negative people get through that shield. Life is too short. I can be emotional and I'm not afraid to shed a tear for something beautiful as well as something terrible. I have a soft spot for the underdog, for people less fortunate than others, and I always step in and protect them from bullies. I am very protective of those close to me. I believe men and women are equal partners in a relationship with the man being the head of house. I am masculine and not afraid of anything that stands to inflict harm on my family. I will stand up and always fight for what is right. I will be a shoulder for you to lean on, and my strong arms will always be there to wrap around you and make you feel safe and warm. I am a great listener and am told I'm one of the few that has the gift of four ears and one mouth. I am going through a divorce right now that should have been done years ago. I was verbally abused for the 15 years being called awful names that I won't say on this site. It was a good marriage at first but I didn't know she would turn into a gold digger. She spent over. 000 per year just in shopping and eating out. So I know what heartache feels like and I don't want to feel it again. So this is a quick shout out to any ladies who are looking for a rich USA husband to live the glamorous high life. I am not your guy. I live a good life and make plenty of money but I am a family man who loves children and who will stay at home to be with his wife and children before anything else. I do NOT like being around women who pout or act like babies if they don't get their way. I do not like negative, vicious, greedy, closed minded people. As long as my woman is devoted to me always and forever, I will do the same for her. And she will always be protected and safe under my roof and never feel fear, loneliness or heartache. The love for me must be in your head and your heart because I am not the jealous type. If I see men staring at you my gorgeous wife, it doesn't bother me. It makes me proud because you're with me! If you look at a man because you think he is handsome, that is ok too. But if I catch you flirting with another man, I won't start a fight to stop it. I will pack your bags and send you on your way.

I am asked often who wrote this? Is it really me? There are no men like this! You're too good to be true and the cliché says 'if it's too good to be true then it probably is'. Well it is true, believe it. I wrote it, and I am truly the person described above. Yes the pictures are real, accurate, and recent too. I know what most men are like and I am not like them. I don't belittle or beat my wife, I build you up stronger. There are other men like me here in USA, including all of my friends. The only difference is that I am the only one divorced who is looking for an Asian wife. Why? I may be wrong, but I think you are brought up to be much more polite and appreciative of the little things in life, including love, and that is what I want. Most USA women are spoiled from birth and expect a huge house and expensive car given to them automatically. They don't appreciate their men. It's not their fault, it's the American society. They are born into the most powerful country in the world and free to do as they choose. They don't realize how the rest of the world is so different.

Would you like to explore life and the world around us with me? Would you like to make passionate love often? (fair warning. I have a very high sex drive so you'the better have one too! If you are embarrassed to be naked around me unless the lights off, then you are too shy for me.). Will you move to USA with me? If you want to grow old and die with a smile on your face, then we should talk. Love P.

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I saw a preview for this program recently and thought some might be interested. The upcoming season will include women from the Philippines, Brazil, Colombia, Russia, and Ukraine:

[url]http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/tlc-goes-international-90-day-665840[/url]

I find it an interesting trend on pinalove. com that more and more women, especially the more attractive and single ones, are now specifying a much more restricted age range for the men in which they are interested.

Around mid 2013 most profiles said "All ages" for Age Range, but now I observe that many women aged 20 to 30 are specifying interest in men aged 25 to 40 or at least a range which is nearer to their age.

My observation is based on a sample of 80 women aged 24 to 35 conducted yesterday and today.

As I said; it is different to last year when a large majority of women on the site were not fussy about age. Any age was OK as long as you were a foreigner and breathing.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1518530]I find it an interesting trend on pinalove. Com that more and more women, especially the more attractive and single ones, are now specifying a much more restricted age range for the men in which they are interested.

Around mid 2013 most profiles said "All ages" for Age Range, but now I observe that many women aged 20 to 30 are specifying interest in men aged 25 to 40 or at least a range which is nearer to their age.[/QUOTE]For sure, I got that impression too and not just pinalove but quite a few other dating sites as well.