BBS prices and observations
Recently there has been some discussion about prices. So I wanted to make some observations, and ask some questions about bbs mongering. I've been in SH for two years now and have used bbs's on average once per week.
The price two years ago was pretty standard at 200 RMB. Also the package was standardised: BBBJ (occasionally CBJ) followed by covered sex (sometimes uncovered offered as well).
I did once negotiate the price down to 150 RMB. This was Spring 2012. But the plan backfired because the girl – who was incidentally nice looking and young – immediately started complaining that it was too little. She kept telling me to hurry up (she could speak some English which is unusual for a bbs) and told me that the guy in the next booth had paid 400 RMB. That may have been true because I heard an American voice say. 'that's about the best I can do' to his girl! My girl heard it too and began shouting in pidgin English to the guy. Just nonsense talk really but it put me off my stroke.
So since then I've paid 150 for BJ and 200 for FS. Occasionally (maybe three or four times) I've gone to 300. But the last three months I've been quoted 300 on a pretty regular basis. I have to point out that this is at new places (or new girls) where I wasn't recognised. I won't pay it. But it leads me to a question: where, how, and with whom do you negotiate?
Normally I walk in the shop, take the first girl on offer, go to the room and then negotiate. In fact I think I've always done it this way. But on this site I have read that some guys ask about services and prices in the shop. I'm not sure how this works. Sometimes people talk about a mamasan or papasan with whom they negotiate. I have only rarely seen a papasan. Maybe three times (and I inferred from their presence that there were some potential LE problems) and when I walked in the shop they never raised their head or offered to engage in any way. There is one shop on Pu Dong Nan Lu (near to the junction with Tan Qiao Lu where there seems to be a mamasan and she will mediate on any problems (she is also available for sex which I personally find quite arousing).
As stated on this site previously, knowledge of prices is the most powerful weapon on a monger's armour. Hence this appeal for further views.
The second pearl of wisdom is that in mongering, as with all things Chinese, personal relationships are important. If you go to the same girl regularly, the service and the price will be much better. Problem is of course that girls tend to move on but using the same shop helps a lot. The providers realise you know the craic and don't try to exploit you. The disadvantage with this approach is that you may become a familiar face with the locals. My method is to regularly use two or three bbs's in different streets.
Threesome good experiences
[QUOTE=OldAsiaHand; 1515202]IMHO, the FFM experience described above is pretty accurate. Worst case: I have even been in situations with one girl waiting in the bathroom until I finish the first one and then switching places. It is never like anything you see in the porn movies.
The disinfecting and condom changing kills the mood for me. I do understand their POV. For them, it is the same as BBFS.
All that said, you can try to make the best of it. Letting one girl pick the second is sound advice. Girls that have experience working together provide better service. What I usually do is focus on one girl I want to stick it in and use the second girl as a supplement to play around with like a starter and the main course.
Just my POV.
OAH[/QUOTE]I must have been lucky over the years with threesomes from Thailand to China to Australia.
There are ways of fucking 2 women at once.
My most recent experience was in Wenzhou. 5 months ago, when my mates took 3 hours to organise a threesome for me. Total cost to my mates 1,000rmb.
To my delight they were absolute stunners who were trying to outdo themselves.
They were trying to see who could do the:
- best deep throat.
- the longest gag.
- the longest fuck pounding.
These girls never left my cock for an hour. Having 2 girls suck your cock who really enjoy it is something.
Double DATY required some work but can be done.
They were happy to have me fuck one girl while I was almost fisting the other and then swaps.
Just amazing stuff.
Alas contacting them since has been unsuccessful since but I will keep trying.
Red Shanghai Massage Outcall Service
Hey all,
I'm a follower of this post, thanks to all for your detailed reports! Props to SamCan for the constant relevant info, thank you. I thought it best to contribute something so here goes:
I'm a frequent business traveler to SH, have gone to various spas and soapy joints with great experiences. HaiLang / Waves is a sure-shot, I always have a good experience there. I'm not ashamed to say that I'm a big fan of prostate massage, which they don't do at Waves, but which I've gotten many times at the little place on 484 Xikang Lu, until, to my dismay, they shut down about 2 months ago. So I went online looking for prostate massage in shanghai and came up with a bunch of outcall services. One had a good website with a great description of prostate massage, so I thought hey, that's exactly what I'm looking for. It's called Red Shanghai Massage. 137-6113-2926, I call the number, and go into detail of what I'm looking for: 90 minute massage, body-to-body, with prostate rub and HJ. The lady confirms all, in decent English so I knew she understood. Price is 1000+100 taxi money. I know that's a lot from reading this forum. But Waves is 900 + my taxi money (and no prostate, and I don't do the full service part) , I don't know any spas that for sure do this, and my hotel is legit (owned by the gov't I think) so I don't want to bring back a girl from Manhattan's late at night.
Anyway, girl shows up, extremely confused and paranoid. She's like 20, 8/10, but the worst attitude ever. She spends 2-3 minutes texting as soon as she gets in, I figure OK, she's being safe, that's cool. She says:
Girl: "just massage?"
Me: "Massage and prostate. 90 minutes."
"Just massage 800. No HJ, and with clothes."
"No, I confirmed with lady no clothes, prostate. 90 minutes"
"This much more money! You give me 1500 and taxi money OK la!"
So I show her the website, it's open on my computer, show her prostate massage is 1000, I will pay 1100 total, or she can leave right now. She final agrees, with this sour look and roll of her eyes. This is like a 15 minute process. So we undress, she leaves her bottoms on, didn't want to keep arguing with her so OK. Gives me the weakest massage ever, stopping every 2 minutes to either take a call, make a call, or send / receive text. After 10 minutes I'm like OK, U-turn off your phone, call your friend later. She starts telling me this whole thing in broken English (at best) about a problem with her bank, like I give a shit. I'm like let's just continue. So after the first 10 minutes, every 3 minutes she asks if she can start prostate massage. Like no ST, nothing to get me in the mood. I tell her no, keep going, she rolls her eyes, and goes another 3 minutes. Finally she just rips open a condom, puts it on her finger to start the prostate massage. She has clearly never done this before. Tries to ram her finger with condom up my bum with no lube, I tell her to use lube, which I provide. I have to show her exactly what to do, and no sensual interaction whatsoever. She goes "you like man?" I say no, I only like lady."Then why you like this?" Most awkward exchange ever. I have her go on for like 10 minutes, and she's had enough. She's still fielding calls and texts every couple of minutes.
So I turn over, I want to feel her body, and she's like all skittish about it. But we find a medium, like PG-13 rated (but nude). Starts the HJ, and I'm hard but taking my sweet ass time. She keeps like rolling her eyes every couple of minutes as her hands get tired. Finally after like 10 minutes I decide alright, F-it, and go.
"You finished?"
"Yea."
"OK"
She cleans herself up, puts on her clothes, goes "Good Luck" and walks out.
15 minutes arguing + 20 minute massage + 10 minute HJ = 45 minutes total, in and out.
By far the worst mongering experience I've ever had. But it could be worse, I could have gotten scammed, sorry for all you out there who have experienced that and thanks for helping me avoid it. Now I've blown my budget, heading home in a few days. Lesson learned. Thought I'd share the above with the crew here, sorry so lengthy, but thanks for reading my rant!
Safe travels everyone.