The Cmdr only suggests that individuals learn Spanish
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924350]Learning the local language of a country you're doing business in will greatly enhance your overall experience there..[/QUOTE]Learning the local language of a country you are visiting for any purpose will greatly enhance your overall experience there. Now those who are too lazy or not intelligent enough can get by with Spanglish and the smart phone of their choice.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924350]But here, we talking about newbies coming to the "Puta Pueblo" as you quaintly refer to Sosua.[/QUOTE]That is what you are talking about. I am talking about putting the work in to enhance a skill that will allow you to speak to 16 million people throughout the world. Hit the ground in all Spanish speaking countries running.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924350]Whether a newbie needs to learn conversational Spanish before he / she can successfully hire a hooker in the Sosua is debatable. Certainly not the Number 1 requirement. And certainly not with today's smartphone tech.[/QUOTE]Your debate not mine. I provide information. Others debate. I never said that you need to speak Spanish in order to hire a prostitute in Sousa. But how much time during your trip is actually spent doing that? Might people want to do something else other than that? Might some day they want to visit another part of the Dominican Republic instead of being stuck in a Puta Pueblo of Sosua like you are?
Maybe you can get away with not speaking Spanish while living in a puta pueblo. But if you want to operate in the big city of Santo Domingo not going to happen. In other words if you want to run with the big dogs instead of sitting on the porch, then my suggestion is for new people to learn Spanish. Because knowledge pays dividends over the long term.
It should be noted that if you cannot understand the difference between being able to have a conversation with a person in their native language as opposed to falling back on whatever cheap smartphone you may use (I use a iPhone 15 ProMax 1 T) then a puta pueblo that specializes in serving farangs (oops I mean gringos) is the place you ought to be.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924350]Even the hookers don't speak or write proper Spanish! LOL.[/QUOTE][B]Neither can you.[/B] LOL!
The next time you decide to grace us with a post without or without your leader, remember that ISG was doing just fine without your input:
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924352]I made the mistake of checking in after a long absence to see what the "experts" and "men in the arena" are saying these day. I think I'll once again take his advice and stay away from this same old, same old shit! Give you the last word,[/QUOTE]Last word [B]Oakie[/B], nah [B]The Cmdr [/B]don't need it.
I just like putting out accurate actionable intelligence on having sex with girls. Something most veterans have either forgotten how to do or are simply too lazy to do. Not interested in debating with anyone. If you want respect from me then give respect otherwise if you do not like how I write put me on ignore. You are responding to my message so we know you are not doing that.
Have I responded to you in a respectful enough manner to be considered your brother? [B]LOL[/B]!
It is not the critic who counts
[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;2924181]Appreciate the kudos. [b]Here is a fact: the girls are independent. They do not belong to me or to anyone else[/b]. They also need the money. They get money from me but I can only be with them once or twice (my stay is rarely over a week) and I like variety. So a woman who I believe would not be an issue and indeed be satisfying to another male, is a shoo in.[/QUOTE]Your thinking is rare in this department. While writing this a individual came in challenging you with a poverty mentality of scarcity.
Of those in my harem / booty call girl line up, every time asked one of them if they would be willing to see a friend and they have never said no. It is not the girls that have the problem. It is the small minded individuals that have a poverty mentality and operate from the standpoint of scarcity when there is plenty of pussy available in Sosua and the entire Dominican Republic.
[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;2924181]I appreciate your taking my recommendations and apart from one (you know who), it has worked for you. And it has worked well for another forum mate, who is now based in the Philippines. [/QUOTE]Si, I know which one to which you refer. She is sweetheart. Wonderful personality. I enjoy spending time with her. Sexy as hell in a purely aesthetic. We just are not sexually compatible. That is a rare thing. But I still talk to her and would see her again if I have time while I am in Sosua.
Every other girl has been a "straight drop the bat and watch" walk off home run. Between my regulars and your referrals I can keep myself busy for a week without even hitting the streets. Although I like to try at least one or two new ones off the street that catch my eye and give me the "come hither" look that a girl will give you even if she wants money to fuck.
[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;2924181]I have a feeling that you are having so much fun in Pattaya that you are going to renounce the DR. LOL.[/QUOTE]No renouncement my brother. I really like Sousa for all the reasons I have discussed here and with you personally. If I could have the software of Thai girls with the hardware of Dominicanas and Columbianas that would be perfect.
I am being treated much better in Pattaya than I ever was in anyplace that I lived. But the Kingdom of Thailand and the girls. I will not get into here because it is not the place. But there are individuals posting in the Thailand Country Forum here on ISG that have actually helped me with knowledge that has gotten me pussy. Not just words of brotherhood. Actual brotherhood in the same way that you have shown me.
They have answered my questions about Thailand and SEA in general. Other countries where they are experts and I am talking detailed information via PM that I can take in, use and run with. Actual useable intelligence about having sex with girls. Not the (insert profanity of your choice here) that goes on in most threads in the Dominican Republic.
[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;2924181]For me, it is a simple win win, for the guys, as with a referral, you take away the element of uncertainty (risk, if you will). It might be news for some, but women are also afraid to go to an unknown man's place, so they too feel safe with a referral. [/QUOTE]Mr. T you have hit upon an important point. [B]Win Win[/B]. Among all the other things the important one is that brotherhood means nothing if it is not backed up with solid action. That is what most who TALK about brotherhood forget. They need to ask themselves have they ever presented themselves as a brother to me or anyone else.
You know a lot about me. You have not always written things about me here in ISG that are positive. But those interactions were before we had the opportunity to get to know each other in person (IRL). When we had the opportunity to meet in person, you were not hung up on the past nor pining away for the glory days of some fake idea of brotherhood that existed only in our own mind. You took precious time out of your vacation and gave me an audience in person. [B]You are one of the rare individuals that have ever done that[/B]. The growth of our interactions in person have led to much more than just a Win Win when it comes to pussy. It has been a complete win in life for me. It has been a honor and a pleasure to have had the opportunity to know you.
While I am at it [B]Grownman[/B] has been a very valuable brother to have as a resource and took the time out of his vacation schedule to meet with me on many occasions and has assisted me with information and actually bringing me stuff from the United States of America on a couple of trips. True brotherhood has cost. True brother pay it. I have no use for keyboard warriors or brothers. Nor interest in those who are able to give lectures but cannot back it up with actions.
[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;2924181]I do have to say this though: Once I asked someone for a referral in Sosua and this person apparently is a permanent fixture there but he, hemmed and hawed. Some men think they own the women in their harem. Jajaja![/QUOTE]Yes they do and that allows me to segue way deeper into the issue of "brotherhood". Many of those that talk about it, well that is all they do is talk.
When I first arrived in the Dominican Republic and began to post I caught hell from a lot of posters (most of who do not post anymore). But there was one true ISG brother at that time who did not write a thing and yet via PM invited me to a Super Bowl party. I met two individuals at that party but the people at the party were not important. The important person was the host. The handle of the host was BBQRibs (RIP). BBQRibs and I met several times after our initial meeting at his party. I showed him around Santo Domingo este and he showed me around where he lived. He stayed in contact with me and helped me if I had questions. I had information that he didn't have and I shared it with him. We only lost contact when he returned to the United States of America. The next thing I heard is that he died. We had shared a lot. Not always pleasant. But alway kept it real with each other.
If I was really as much as a social misfit as certain individuals claim I am then I would not have individuals from ISG that I have met in Columbia, Dominican Republic and United States of America that have invited me to visit and then in turn I invited other friends to visit base on my recommendation. That is a heavy responsibility because the flight from North America to Thailand is no joke! When they got here I showed them Pattaya. Just like you showed me how to enjoy Sosua on an entirely different level.
Besides, if I die with at least 1 bad mother fucker as a friend. Those who you can call at 2 AM in the morning and they are coming to help you. If I die with just one of those type of people in my life then I will count my life successful in that area. I have a half dozen men that surround me worldwide like that. If you are not one of them that is not my problem. I will never let someone else define me. Those that wish to do so will simply be ignored. Please see the quote at the end of my post.
Those that have something to say to me need to listen up: [B]If you have not acted like brother then dont speak of brotherhood (at least to me)[/B]. Cause I am not paying a bit of attention to you. Because most likely you are a (insert compound profanity of your choice here). I am not paying attention to you because I have no respect for you. I have no respect for you because you have shown no respect to me. Chuck Brown (RIP) said one time at the end of a live CD performance I used to own: "If you want to make a friend, then you first have to be a friend. " The same thing applies to brotherhood. If you are not acting like a brother, then don't expect me or anyone else to treat you like a brother.
[B]I do not give respect to those that do not first give it to me[/B] Those who wish to take issue with me first need to check themselves, take a look in the mirror and ask: "During the trips I made to the Dominican Republic did I ever take the opportunity to meet with SubCmdr and make an assessment of him in person?" [B]I lived in the Dominican Republic for 10 years straight[/B]. I have picked people up from the airport. From the bus station. Taken them to the airport SDQ and POP. The Grand Jefe mobile was always available to be fueled up for anyone that made a respectful request. Some have ridden with me. Have you? Something to think about.
[B]I have no interest in being a part of a brotherhood that is one way[/B]
[I]"It is not the critic who counts: not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is [b]actually in the arena[/b], whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming, but who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself in a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat. [/I]".
[B]Theodore Roosevelt[/B]
Have you seen revenge of the nerds 3? I haven't and I don't plan too
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924352]Like me he thinks this lonely hearts club pissing match has become boring.[/QUOTE]Then why are you participating in the forum?
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924352]How many ways can you argue about "to each his own", and what's a good price for a good fuck? Counting the ways "a fool and his money are soon parted" LOL.[/QUOTE]You better be careful. Your [B]Social Interaction Regulation Committee[/B] is going write you up for being disrespectful. You up in here calling people fools.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924352]I made the mistake of checking in after a long absence to see what the "experts" and "men in the arena" are saying these day.[/QUOTE]Really?! How many posts did it take for you to realize you made a mistake? You didn't realize that you can read the forum and get up to date without making a post? You are a smart man, you knew this. You came back and posted to throw shade. You didn't realize that a new day has arrived on ISG. When you got push back much harder than you were used to. You realized your time in Sousa had made you softer than a marshmallow. You called in [B]SIRC[/B] for back up. Just watch how I handle that crew! It is going to a classic lessons interpersonal relations and how to deescalate a conflict.
[B]You don't know me. Neither do most of my detractors[/B]
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924352]I think I'll once again take his advice and stay away from this same old, same old shit![/QUOTE]He has and always has been your leader. I found the Dominican Republic on my own. I did not goto the puta pueblo known as Sosua for over two years after moving here. I don't need leadership. I am independent. I think different than the majority of people that find fault with me.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924352]Give you the last word, Subsy![/QUOTE]Once [B]SIRC[/B] is going to write you up for being disrespectful.
Advice for those that don't like how I write my responses to them: [B]Keep my handle out of your mother fucking posts[/B]. Don't start no stuff won't be no stuff.
[B]Enough said[/B]
Have I responded to you in respectful enough manner for you to call me a brother? LOL!
The Cmdrs view on referrals
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2924376]Not a win win at all. You also add elements of uncertainty. You do not know the wake of destruction this person could leave behind with someone or something he was referred to. I have been burned before by referring someone from this site to a chick. Hell, I have been burned by mfs I knew in real life, so you can just imagine what someone I do not know may do.[/QUOTE]I have respect for Mr. E. But I do not agree with him. We often agree to disagree. What Mr. E has never done is stick his nose into issues among men here on ISG nor try to impose his views on how he thinks I should write, post or behave. [B]There is a moderator to do that[/B]. LOL!
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924405]But in my time, I've had more grief from mongers than the putas.[/QUOTE]If this is the case it is not about making referrals, it is about the quality of individuals or the lack thereof to which you made them.
[B]Mr T continues to have the right idea[/B]:
[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;2924181]Appreciate the kudos. Here is a fact: the girls are independent. They do not belong to me or to anyone else. They also need the money. They get money from me but I can only be with them once or twice (my stay is rarely over a week) and I like variety. So a woman who I believe would not be an issue and indeed be satisfying to another male, is a shoo in.
For me, it is a simple win win, for the guys, as with a referral, you take away the element of uncertainty (risk, if you will). It might be news for some, but women are also afraid to go to an unknown man's place, so they too feel safe with a referral.[/QUOTE]
The Cmdr is tired of Oakie and his Pom Pom crew
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924518]Inspiring words to be sure.[/QUOTE]Yes they are. That is why who used to be in the arena (such as yourself) retire to Puta Pueblos now isn't it? The ideas an principles are world wide. You do not get to define the meaning or purpose of those great words Oakie.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924518]It's not that complicated where you need to read up on 10 years of rants from some anonymous poster on an obscure web site. And look in the mirror and ask yourself if you've had the rare honor of an audience with him, or actually ridden in his car![/QUOTE]You are correct. Read the [B]Sosua Reports[/B] thread and you will understand the context of my comments. But that is what happens when you stick you nose into the man business of others.
Oakie, [B]You are that anonymous poster on an obscure website[/B]. No it is not that complicated to hire a prostitute in Sosua or any other part of the Dominican Republic. At least during the time I have spent there.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924352]Like me he thinks this lonely hearts club pissing match has become boring.[/QUOTE][B]If you (and your leader) find ISG boring, then I ask: Why do you continue to post?[/B]
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924518] Bring money and choose your chica from the hundreds available. If you get ripped off, YOU made a bad choice. Own it and learn from it.[/QUOTE]This is clearly not directed at me. I have never had negative things to say about Sosua. Is everything positive in Sosua? No.
But we are in agreement that you can have fun in Sosua. You can have fun if you arm yourself with basic knowledge and exercise common sense.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924518] Like the millions of tourists that come back every year, manage to make it work for them without the drama, or the necessity of checking in here here at the Sosua complaints department! LOL.[/QUOTE]It is has never been necessary for anyone to read the [B]Sosua Reports[/B] section of ISG or ISG in general in order to get pussy there or to get pussy anywhere in the world.
ISG can be a useful tool to find out useful intelligence on having sex with girls. Check out what an anonymous poster on a obscure web site wrote. This is funny.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924405]The latest was this March when an acquaintance from my Toronto bar came down for his third annual week. He needs a lot of help with the basics of dealing with the money, the phones, and the locals. I do what I can, but Sosua doesn't work for him. He's fucked me up twice before, and I've put the report on here, both times as a caution. One time he fucked my regular's baby sitter without giving her even a propina. Ego, or what? I had to call him out.
This time he got into a fix with a bar puta I know from the local bar, he was spending a lot time with her but not pulling the trigger and she was getting impatient. She eventually got tired of the bullshit and blasted his ass and demanded he give her something for her time, etc.
It wasn't a referral, she was a bar hooker I knew and introduced him to. He comes to me shows me his WhatsAPP, and say's what can I do about your friend? I finally cracked and said, look, you should know the game by now, you're 60 years old fer chrissakes, and I'm not your pimp OK? [b]Now fuck off[/b].[/QUOTE]At this point I am left confused. Is it actually as easy to get laid in Sosua as Oakie says it is? Or is it like the story he related about his acquaintance. Enquiring minds want to know.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2924412][b]Relax nobody is hating on you[/b]. Life's too short![/QUOTE]You sure about that Oakie?
[QUOTE=CoolieHigh;2924356][b]And yes SubCmdr the last statement was talking specifically about you[/b]. YES, you'll get the last word like you always do, but before you do I have one more post specifically about you in the stupid, rants section BUT in the Sosua board.[/QUOTE]This was posted in the Thailand country thread. So he must be in a SR-71 Blackbird or some shit. Maybe it is the magic of the internet. I'm still trying to figure out why he is trolling [B]The Cmdr[/B] in two different countries. One which I doubt seriously that he has ever visited.
[B]I gotta troll on my six and no wingman[/B] So I push the throttle into afterburner, switch to guns and start evasive maneuvers until I can shake the troll off then I turn and burn. Usually, this time I am just walking away from the encounter. Gots nothing to say to a individual preaching brotherhood but who has never shown a bit of it to me. That same individual who when we had a personal disagreement he began to drag those disagreements into the public sphere of ISG. I have asked him privately to stop doing that. My words have fell on deaf ears.
The problem with the [B]Sosua Report[/B] section is that it has become Sosua Veterans Social Club [B]SVSC[/B]. Where individuals make posts like the one above instead of sharing actionable information on having sex with girls in Sosua or reports on doing so.
[QUOTE=IronQuinn;2924517]We're all brothers on here just trying to do our thing. Just keep it simple, follow the basics, and enjoy fantasy island. It was brought up that Spanish is the number one factor to doing well. [b]Spanish does help immensely[/b], but I would say even more important is your ability to read what's in front of you. In other words be a judge of character. Sit down and have a drink with her before doing the deed. Just that little bit of time spent can give a lot of insight.[/QUOTE]Excellent insight. This is what the [B]Sosua Reports[/B] thread is for.
[QUOTE=IronQuinn;2924517]I just finished up tonight with a gorgeous 21 yr Dominican who I had told good performance gets a good tip. Girl put her heart and soul on the BJ, even attempted to DT. Girl was so damn tight I could've used a shoehorn. Right after we finished she spun around and sat up perky asking, "Did I do good?" All I could do was smile laying there covered in sweat still breathing heavy. Bless her little heart. My best session of the trip so far. Keep it simple, and enjoy the natural beauty of the island.[/QUOTE]This is what the [B]Sosua Reports[/B] thread is for.
Problem is we have individuals who are much to much into their ego, preferring to pat each other on the back and talk about the glory days and spend far too little time actually sharing information on having sex with girls. [B]Which is the actual purpose of ISG?[/B].
No one needs to listen to me or read anything I have ever wrote to have a good time in Sosua. They don't have to listen or pay a bit of attention to you either Oakie. Funny how that works now doesn't it. LOL!
The Cmdr answers a question from IronQuinn
[QUOTE=IronQuinn;2924517][b]Sub, one question for you[/b]. Why do you refer to yourself in the third person? I'm just asking.[/QUOTE]You can call me The Cmdr; you can call me Cmdr; you can call me SubCmdr; but please do not call me Sub. LOL!
I am not being pegged by my chicas or letting them carry my money and important documents around. I like being taken care of as much as the next person but I am still a man.
[B]Why do I refer to myself in the third person[/B] For the same reason I had "Hail to the Chief" Placed before the entrance of me and my second wife at our wedding reception.
[B]Because I choose to and I can[/B] Please don't tell me you are going to give me instruction on how to write the King's English on a mother fucking fuck site. Asked and answered.
Your post was excellent by the way and serves as an example to newbies and veterans alike. It is what the [B]Sosua Reports[/B] thread is for.
