Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[QUOTE=MongerMama;2582209]Penning this down before these events move out of my memory. I am sure this won't.

So, I got the leads for the hw mentioned off late. Thank you at CrazyGuy1918.

This one is going to be long and hell yes, I miserably failed For those who are in a rush.

WIR: Yes. Undoubtedly, the best hosts. I did not get such respect and behavior seen even at my in-laws!

How is she? My Little master did not even wake up. She tried her best. No fault of hers. I have a problem and I realize something about myself. More details below.

Can I go? Yes, if you have the leads.

Will you share the details? No. This is not my contact. And after the conversation with these fellas, I would stick to the rule and shall not share the lead with and without permission. If you want leads, sincerely request you reach out to others who have written details.[/QUOTE]Firstly it helps hugely mentally to speak out on such things, so well done on that part!

It is a common concern for men these days and I too have gone through this.

Yes, going through no fap mode etc helps but I would also suggest you to get a checkup done and take the best course of action.

As them said Viagra helps, but your body will become resistant to these drugs (any drugs for that matter) after certain period of time. So act before that happens.

I have gone through some series of tests to understand the underlying issue and following the right course, so suggest you to do the same. You can ping me if you need more details.

I understand you bro. This could be temporary.

I was in a similar situation once. I went to meet a girl in a hotel. But the first hotel we went to was rude and both me and her decided to move to a diff hotel. I had to walk for few blocks good 20 minutes and finally we found a diff hotel. We were about to start deed and Johnny was not responding. Tried hard but not working. Paid her and left.

Realized, This was with all the walking I was tired physically and mentally and body needed rest including Johnny too.

As per your FR, you got tired mentally riding for a 90 km distance though we sit in same position. And with other activities in the day, your mind and body needed good rest. The short sleep was not sufficient. May or may not be the case with you but could be a possibility based on what I experienced.

Take care. Stay strong bro.

[QUOTE=MongerMama;2582209]Penning this down before these events move out of my memory. I am sure this won't.

So, I got the leads for the hw mentioned off late. Thank you at CrazyGuy1918.

This one is going to be long and hell yes, I miserably failed For those who are in a rush.

WIR: Yes. Undoubtedly, the best hosts. I did not get such respect and behavior seen even at my in-laws!

How is she? My Little master did not even wake up. She tried her best. No fault of hers. I have a problem and I realize something about myself. More details below.

Can I go? Yes, if you have the leads.

Will you share the details? No. This is not my contact. And after the conversation with these fellas, I would stick to the rule and shall not share the lead with and without permission. If you want leads, sincerely request you reach out to others who have written details.[/QUOTE]

Hi,

I am less than 35, and due to issues in marriage; I opted in for porn and self gratification.

However, the itch or say the longing has never let me get out of thoughts to be with someone. So, after a lot of searches, found this and finally had sex in Feb this year.

While I did not get hard initially, the lady with whom I was took things in control and once I was in, there was no questioning of coming down. So, I thought everything is normal.

But, this porn and masturbation thing continued and finally I am kind of believing that porn and self gratification has ruined my ability to become harder.

While viagra or something might be a quick resort, I don't want to go that route atleast for now and give others a try. So,

Took up a nofap challenge and started eating healthy. Started with the breakfast today. And I am sure I will continue. Whenever there is a mental block about watching the sexy moves or anything, I get to the cold showers.

A little bit of excercise is what I would add soon.

Apart from this is there anything else I should be doing?

Any suggestions are appreciated!

Thanks,

MM.

[QUOTE=MongerMama;2582317]Hi,

I am less than 35, and due to issues in marriage; I opted in for porn and self gratification.

However, the itch or say the longing has never let me get out of thoughts to be with someone. So, after a lot of searches, found this and finally had sex in Feb this year.

While I did not get hard initially, the lady with whom I was took things in control and once I was in, there was no questioning of coming down. So, I thought everything is normal.

But, this porn and masturbation thing continued and finally I am kind of believing that porn and self gratification has ruined my ability to become harder.

While viagra or something might be a quick resort, I don't want to go that route atleast for now and give others a try. So,

Took up a nofap challenge and started eating healthy. Started with the breakfast today. And I am sure I will continue. Whenever there is a mental block about watching the sexy moves or anything, I get to the cold showers..[/QUOTE]Doing the same thing porn has damaged my metal, physical health. I have failed in Nofap steak every 5-7 days. Urges go out of control after that point. Even smallest stimulation gets me hard damn. My current steak is 2 days and going.

[QUOTE=MongerMama;2582209]Penning this down before these events move out of my memory. I am sure this won't.

So, I got the leads for the hw mentioned off late. Thank you at CrazyGuy1918.

This one is going to be long and hell yes, I miserably failed For those who are in a rush.

WIR: Yes. Undoubtedly, the best hosts. I did not get such respect and behavior seen even at my in-laws!

How is she? My Little master did not even wake up. She tried her best. No fault of hers. I have a problem and I realize something about myself. More details below.[/QUOTE]Sometimes you get ED due to mental / physical stress. You my friend, definitely need someone who can spend sometime to talk and listen to you. The HW rightly said. Its not always about sex. Once a similar instance happened to me when I visited Netherlands. Due to physical stress of travelling for more than a month I had ED, when I visited Privehuis Diane's Secret in Den haag. I was feeling very bad about it. But believe me the lady who attended me was soo kind. She made sure that I don't get more embraced.

Hi,

I had similar experience with my gfs and pros. My jhonny used to get soft while having sex. I thought there is an issue with me even though it gets rock hard while watching porn. Later I realized it is all about what you like in the girl. I am mainly attracted to women with big ass, butthole and some kinky stuff. It turns me on. Rest all face however hot she is, boobs, etc won't turn my jhonny on. Just find what turns you on most in a girl, what kinda girls are you into and go for it.

[QUOTE=MongerMama;2582209]Penning this down before these events move out of my memory. I am sure this won't.

So, I got the leads for the hw mentioned off late. Thank you at CrazyGuy1918.

This one is going to be long and hell yes, I miserably failed For those who are in a rush.

WIR: Yes. Undoubtedly, the best hosts. I did not get such respect and behavior seen even at my in-laws!

How is she? My Little master did not even wake up. She tried her best. No fault of hers. I have a problem and I realize something about myself. More details below.

Can I go? Yes, if you have the leads.

Will you share the details? No. This is not my contact. And after the conversation with these fellas, I would stick to the rule and shall not share the lead with and without permission. If you want leads, sincerely request you reach out to others who have written details.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=EcstasyHyd;2582261]This used to be me. It was horrible for me. It's porn plus prone masturbation for me. It was hard for me to switch from prone to hand. Almost a year. I couldn't stop porn. I resorted to viagra. This will work but I was worried about it's side effects. I still use it. I feel it's better to use it than having mental breakdown.

I still watch porn but only reluctant porn. You can find few videos in czechcasting and woodmancasting where the girl is reluctant at the start and gives in after sometime. It's not completely hardcore so it also worked for me. This is the only porn I watch now. Porn induced ED is real.[/QUOTE]I am facing this from 4 years. I used to get erections like a rock stone and used to make me feel like hero and too much over confident. Been to masturbation while watching porn as well. 4 years back I did heavy masturbation like I did it even Jhonny is not waking up. It gave me too much pain to my jhonny as well as back. From that day I am a different person (like I stopped talking with women even with anyone and lost confidence on me too much) and my jhonny didn't wake up for three or four months. My back is hurting like anything and it is holding me and not making me to walk properly, it's like when you want to walk but somebody is pulling you back. At the same time I am not earning and I can't tell this at home. Luckily I got job. I started earning money first thing I did is. I went to doctor (urologist) and I told about the entire incident with lot of tears and my porn and masturbation habits. He heard patiently and he is a good doctor. That's the first time I heard and understood about ED. He gave medicine (Tadalafil) along with some other medicines. Within one day Jhonny wake up and morning woods are coming naturally. I am happy and reported to him. He is happy and he told one bad suggestion that watching porn and doing masturbation is ok. Even though I felt something odd. I trusted him too much. Then in the mean time I went to orthopedic and told my symptoms about my back pain but not about the incident as my ED doctor told If there is something wrong with jhonny it won't wakeup for these medicines too. He (orthopedic) saw the symptoms and told nothing much bad happened. He suggested physiotherapy and within one week I came out of ED as well as a great relief from back pain. No medications at all. I got my confidence back again. I am doing well in career (which I did with too much hard work) . Suddenly one day I felt too much sexual urge from that day I started watching porn and masturbation again after 8 months as I got assurance from ED doctor. Things are happening quite good till some months. After that problems started, suddenly I am not getting morning woods and even my erection strength is becoming less. If I watch porn it is coming ok but not that stronger. So I went to ED doctor again he told it is natural for every man it will happen like that only. He told I am feeling stress and anxiety. I do agree on that because I will do lot of work in office and I really don't follow the timings at all. If I sit on work means I have to complete that and I am quite a workaholic too. Like this every time I get this ED problem I will go to him he will repeat the medicine it will be ok again I will start porn to make me feel good and to get a feel that nothing wrong is happening. But this year I took resolution and followed properly all the guides about porn addiction and want to quit from it at any cost. I am trying and tried so hard as I want to marry properly and get involved in sex with real partner properly. So I stopped watching porn and masturbation from almost two months. Really I am feeling very good that I quit porn and doing masturbation by watching porn. When I am edging also I am not concentrating / remembering the images / videos which I used to watch on screen. I am remembering all the touches (just touches) with women happened accidentally in my life and how they made me arose like that.

So to check myself with proper women before marriage as I don't have GF's.

1st step: I have tested myself with Roja (forget about looks I just need cooperation and little bit love) whether I am getting erections properly with women or not. This I passed. Even though I didn't get strong erection I am ok with that erection that too with touches of purely from person not from any porn / nude images / videos.

2nd step: I want to check myself sexually with someone who can cooperate (any MILF or girl) and looks good. So that I have some confidence that I can happily marry and satisfy a woman properly.

I got lot of spa contacts from kind souls. But I tried for Siri (MILF from P. Nagar) as I read FR's about her more positive. I got the number but the guy who shared me didn't give me any reference. So when I am calling her I am not getting any response from her properly. I am still understanding this group and people as we can't take anything for granted maybe they have their own problems. Only worry is I will leave Hyderabad within this week after that I don't get any chance to monger. I can't go to bglr as well due to work from home restrictions are there still.

So, Porn Induced ED is true and recovering from it also can be possible and I am experiencing it. I know that people can judge me (may not believe me too) as much as they can, but even though I feel that I didn't recover properly but I can assure that recovering is possible (it is making me believe) by stopping porn and doing masturbation by watching porn. You will feel so much life around you. You will do more work and gets more focus.

I am in same boat, I had some interest in sex when I married, before that I was a virgin. The * I married was not interested in sex even in the first 2 months of marriage, I got used to watching soft porn on YT and jerking off, it was there before marriage as well but for some reason watching after marriage had an impact on my brain, maybe its due to the way how we get pleasure not from sex but from watching something else. Now I hardly get erect in sex, one of my friend thought it was anxiety and suggest brute force 50 MG, I took this and I can perform with wife. Brute force doesn't arouse but with little arousal it can keep you erect. This worked out of me for some quite time until wifey caught me one day and did Randi rona in front of in-laws. Now I had to justify before them I don't have a problem. Being in India means they thought I had a problem and tortured, but these tabs worked out and she got pregnant. So all good for now.

But I tried going to escorts, I got aroused and erect as soon as I saw but when it came to the deed little Johnny goes limp, unless again I take brute force.

I posted in this forum sometime back on this problem, someone suggested to stop jerking off to porn. I have to try this now, thanks for bringing up nofap, I read when I was in 20's, I am 32 but in 20's men jerk off like 5 times in a week, so I laughed when I read nofap at the time but I think I need to try this out. As soon as I see a punani I go soft, I fucking cannot understand. My T levels are all normal. So docs said its psychological.

I will try nofap, honestly my sexual desires are also absent due to me addicting to soft porn which was shocking to myself.

I will share my experience on focusing just work, I think you will completely lose sexual desire, this is just my experience, maybe I am wrong. I forgot about sex and desires completely, at least previously I had temptation to watch soft porn, now with just focusing on work I lost that interest. So not sure if that's the right approach.

[QUOTE=MongerMama;2582209]Penning this down before these events move out of my memory. I am sure this won't.

So, I got the leads for the hw mentioned off late. Thank you at CrazyGuy1918.

This one is going to be long and hell yes, I miserably failed For those who are in a rush.

WIR: Yes. Undoubtedly, the best hosts. I did not get such respect and behavior seen even at my in-laws!

How is she? My Little master did not even wake up. She tried her best. No fault of hers. I have a problem and I realize something about myself. More details below.

Can I go? Yes, if you have the leads.

Will you share the details? No. This is not my contact. And after the conversation with these fellas, I would stick to the rule and shall not share the lead with and without permission. If you want leads, sincerely request you reach out to others who have written details..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MongerMama;2582209]I said my story on how I have not had sex for long, and my addiction to porn and masturbation. And that followed with a conversation, with her lying by my side and that felt good. That closeness and conversation was worth it, atleast for me. Each to his own brother!

Cheers. Stay safe and stay happy![/QUOTE]I think I have been suffering from PIED too. Think why. I am single, no GF. Went out with a girl almost 2 years back and I was literally done in 30 secs after that johnny failed to get up after multiple attempts. Felt so embarrassed and low of confidence that I haven't been with anyone since then. I have tried my best to avoid porn but after a few days, I always succumb to the guilty pleasure.

I have been contemplating on contacting the famous lady doc, not because of any fetish of getting checked by a woman but because I feel more comfortable talking about my feelings with a woman than a man. However, her fee is way too high compared to other doctors.

Anyone here consulted her and / or can share feedback about her? Is she really worth the humongous fee?

I am open to suggestions for other doctors also.

PM is not active.

Appreciate help from seniors and other mongers!!

[QUOTE=LustMonkey;2582523]I am facing this from 4 years. I used to get erections like a rock stone and used to make me feel like hero and too much over confident. Been to masturbation while watching porn as well. 4 years back I did heavy masturbation like I did it even Jhonny is not waking up. It gave me too much pain to my jhonny as well as back. From that day I am a different person (like I stopped talking with women even with anyone and lost confidence on me too much) and my jhonny didn't wake up for three or four months. My back is hurting like anything and it is holding me and not making me to walk properly, it's like when you want to walk but somebody is pulling you back. At the same time I am not earning and I can't tell this at home. Luckily I got job. I started earning money first thing I did is. I went to doctor (urologist) and I told about the entire incident with lot of tears and my porn and masturbation habits. He heard patiently and he is a good doctor. That's the first time I heard and understood about ED. He gave medicine (Tadalafil) along with some other medicines. Within one day Jhonny wake up and morning woods are coming naturally. I am happy and reported to him. He is happy and he told one bad suggestion that watching porn and doing masturbation is ok. Even though I felt something odd. I trusted him too much. Then in the mean time I went to orthopedic and told my symptoms about my back pain but not about the incident as my ED doctor told If there is something wrong with jhonny it won't wakeup for these medicines too. He (orthopedic) saw the symptoms and told nothing much bad happened. He suggested physiotherapy and within one week I came out of ED as well as a great relief from back pain. No medications at all. I got my confidence back again. I am doing well in career (which I did with too much hard work) . Suddenly one day I felt too much sexual urge from that day I started watching porn and masturbation again after 8 months as I got assurance from ED doctor. Things are happening quite good till some months. After that problems started, suddenly I am not getting morning woods and even my erection strength is becoming less. If I watch porn it is coming ok but not that stronger. So I went to ED doctor again he told it is natural for every man it will happen like that only. He told I am feeling stress and anxiety..[/QUOTE]Don't feel bad. Let me know if you need any good references. Ping me your preferences. I will hook you up.

[QUOTE=SkinDoctor;2582210]Hey guys, I've been trying to buy Viagra online for the last few days. But all sites are asking prescription from a doctor. How do I get one? Anyone of you have a prescription in jpg or pdf format that you can share? Or please suggest a way guys. My pm is open. I'd really appreciate the help. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have orders manfore stay long tab. Please let me know how to have it. And this is my first time and I'm 33 yrs with PE problem.

Hello brothers,

I am in urgent need of PEP medicine. Today is the third day and I have not found pep medicine on regular chemists. Kindly help me out with medicine name and from where to buy it in Noida or south Delhi.

TIA.

Dear,

Struggling with PE and have ordered manforce stay long. As it's a mild MG with combination of both. So thought of trying it for first time. As I'm 33 now. Just need to know when I need to take. Do and don'ts things. If I take in morning will the impact will have for the whole day sessions or for one shot alone. Because my friend was said it's about blue pill and got a signal every time he aroused in within 48 hrs of having pill. Just want to know about this mankind stay long.

Please guide me friends.

[QUOTE=HornyJohnny;2582107]Exactly 10 days after receiving oral, I spotted a sore / boil on my private tool. Its been a week since and the boil doesn't seem to go away. I'm panicked like hell.

Since the symptom has shown up, now what all tests should I take?

I'm confused about the window period.

Any Doctors and good souls kindly help me ASAP please.[/QUOTE]Could be syphilis or herpes bro, compare urs with images on the net. Herpes is never serious, syphilis is easily cured.

But there are a thousand types of boils and rashes, no one can really diagnose anything on the internet. If you are worried go see a doc. Or get a full STD panel done. Or donate blood, they will check and inform you of HIV / Syphilis.

[QUOTE=Rathinirvedam;2582538]I am in same boat, I had some interest in sex when I married, before that I was a virgin. The * I married was not interested in sex even in the first 2 months of marriage, I got used to watching soft porn on YT and jerking off, it was there before marriage as well but for some reason watching after marriage had an impact on my brain, maybe its due to the way how we get pleasure not from sex but from watching something else. Now I hardly get erect in sex, one of my friend thought it was anxiety and suggest brute force 50 MG, I took this and I can perform with wife. Brute force doesn't arouse but with little arousal it can keep you erect. This worked out of me for some quite time until wifey caught me one day and did Randi rona in front of in-laws. Now I had to justify before them I don't have a problem. Being in India means they thought I had a problem and tortured, but these tabs worked out and she got pregnant. So all good for now.

But I tried going to escorts, I got aroused and erect as soon as I saw but when it came to the deed little Johnny goes limp, unless again I take brute force.[/QUOTE]My dick went limp multiple times with WGs. This happened just before the lockdown, my dick gets hard but when I start entering her hole, everything goes limp like what I heck. It is still a huge mental issue and I realized my grip was way too tight during masturbation.

I have stopped watching porn from that day onwards and masturbation frequency is reduced to once every 7-8 days. Nowadays I don't even let my hands get near my dick except during pee time.