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Finally Getting to the Point
[QUOTE=Hoof Hunter] But just ask a taxista about TLN prices, a few have told me that I'm being robbed on those prices. A couple offered to negotiate for me, and they could have the difference as a commission.[/QUOTE]This idea is certainly intriguing to me, and I want to try it out on my next trip. Thanks man, I love it!
Hey guys, I appreciate your responses and comments. No offense taken at all. In fact, for the most part I agree with what you’ve said!
I have been slowly yet inexorably marching towards making a particular point, which will come later in this post. I realize that I have strung the whole thing out like a novela, but that is part of the fun for me.
First, let me address my friend’s behavior. He knew exactly what Ariana looked like from the moment she came over. He had every opportunity to opt out – immediately, after drinks, before dinner, during the negotiations at dinner, and before returning to the apartment. Nonetheless, he showed interest every step of the way, until it was after 1 AM. So, I do feel some empathy for the girl being hung out to dry.
Although she wanted 500,000, which is unconscionable, she was willing to take 200,000 and that was known all along.
The next day, I told him that Tatiana and I were going out together and he was on his own. He decided to call a chica from Casanova’s that he spent the entire evening buying drinks for on first night that I had met Tatiana. To his credit he called her himself, and tried to talk to her in Spanish. She couldn’t remember who he was, which he chalked up to the language barrier while handing the phone to me.
After just a few words, she asked if I was “the gordito who was with Tatiana.” Yeppers, that would be me, the gordito. Although she had never spoken a word with me previously, my reputation had grown to the point that she knew exactly who I was.
Even though she couldn't remember my friend who had bought her numerous drinks and sat talking with her for hours just a few nights ago...
I think there is a lesson here.
She said it was her night off, but agreed to meet my friend in 30 minutes, for two hours of sex. When I told him, he said that he wanted to go to dinner with her first, so he could judge if she would be a GFE. (As if hours together at the club wasn't good enough.) She said that she was planning to spend the night with her family, but would meet him early for two hours, or after midnight for two hours, but did not want to go to dinner.
He decided that she must not be a GFE, and turned the offer down.
It was then I tried to help him see that he was creating an impossible situation for himself. Just as we are afraid that the chicas won’t give us what we want, they are afraid that we gringos will take advantage of them.
She was offering him two hours out of her night with her family, and he wanted to turn it in to at least four, without any additional compensation. Sure, she would get dinner, but that is not money in her pocket. And she wasn’t really looking for a date that night, like he was. She was sacrificing time she had planned for other things.
Now if she had agreed to dinner, there was no possible upside for her. He wasn't going to pay her any more than if they went straight to bed for two hours, and just maybe he would change his mind. She would be out the time and get nothing in return. That is exactly what had happened to Ariana.
My friend wanted a GFE so badly that he placed demands and set up too many hurdles and tests for the chicas. Then when they became wary and failed his tests, he took that as proof that there was no GFE to be found.
Now, I will agree that Tatiana is not the most beautiful chica in all of Colombia. She should take some of the money I gave her and make a down payment to fix the overbite that Ricker commented on (a couple times), but I doubt if she will. She lives for the moment, and probably does not think much about the future.
Nonetheless, I thought she was cute, and craved her tiny little body. I loved how she moved in on the dance floor, and on top of me in the cama. But most of all, from the moment I laid eyes on her, I saw that everything she did was with good intent. She was driven towards making me want her.
Tatiana was totally focused on attracting my attention, making a connection, winning my affection, and pleasing me to perfection.
How do you put a price on all that?
Now, I have no qualms about a good roll in the sack with numerous chicas for 60,000 or 35,000 or so like I could do down in Centro. But I also love to have a great “simulated relationship” for a few days with a classy chica who especially appeals to me. Since I have vowed to never get involved with another American woman, I seek to experience the emotional highs that I am missing at home by romancing the Latinas who live thousands of miles away from me.
I like to tell my family and friends that it is far better to leave behind a beautiful woman and return home with all the wonderful memories, than it would ever be to return home with a beautiful woman only to leave all the wonderful memories behind….
I sized up Tatiana as someone I could have that kind of “simulated relationship” with for a few days. One who could stir up some strong feelings in me which I could treasure forever.
But of course, she could not possibly have known that at the outset. So I had to invest some cash up front, and make it appear that I was well worth her while, in order to gain the opportunity to show her what could possibly be in store for us over the next few days.
Thus, the overpriced offer (in my eyes, but certainly not hers) of 200,000 for two hours, was to make sure that she saw me as someone worth spending time with.
Next, I spent the first 90 minutes of our two hour encounter focused totally on providing a BFE experience for HER. I oiled her, massaged her, tongue-bathed her, sucked her toes, pampered her body, and made her cum over and over again with the Pocket Rocket.
How many men are willing to give up three-fourths of their allotted time and devote it totally for the pleasure of the chica?
Not many. Not many.
And yet, in return, she rarely left my side over the next three and a half days. Except for four hours each afternoon to go home to see her son, change her clothes, do her hair, and probably stop somewhere to blow the money I had given her, she was at my side 20 hours a day for the rest of my trip.
I had great sex available to me any time I wanted it. And just as important, I had a fun, intelligent, delightful chica to keep me company throughout my stay.
Did I keep paying Tatiana 200,000 for every two hours that we were together? Of course not.
Basically, after the first encounter, I just paid her what I felt like when I felt like it. Sure, I bought the meals and the drinks, but she stayed with me for the rest of the time (probably over 75 hours) for a grand total of 700,000 (which includes the initial 200,000 fee). So this worked out to less than 100,000 for each time that we had sex, with all the rest of our time together just thrown in for gratis.
Oh, I want to tell you about my favorite moment of all: One afternoon I had given Tatiana 20,000 for roundtrip taxi fare home and back. When she returned, she handed me 6000 change.
Such a simple gesture on her part. But it sort of made me feel appreciated and respected. It felt like she cared about me. It was as if Tatiana had reached inside my chest and massaged my heart.
I was touched.
I believe that it is a blessing that I have had the opportunity to live in Latin America for a year, and I found that this BFE method would turn many of the most expensive chicas into freebies for me over time. Even on a short stay, I often turned an expensive chica into a far less expensive one than she ever thought she would be.
So, throughout these missives, I have tried to compare and contrast my friend’s approach to securing GFE through his high expectations, unrelenting standards, and unyielding demands, all of which only kept him from ever getting laid, to my own softer approach.
I claim no genius; it is just that I had the opportunity to learn what works, at least for me, through trial and error while living in the midst of chicas.
I’ll sum it up, step by step:
1. I always want to remember that attitude is far more important than looks.
2. Invest some decent cash up front to gain her interest.
3. I always put her physical needs before my own. Pamper her in that way.
4. Make everything fun, fun, fun.
5. I strive to make the chica feel that she is incredibly special to me, so that in turn, I become even more special to her.
6. Be ye DIFFERENT than all other gringos!
7. Then reap the rewards of free or reduced price sex and companionship, which just might turn into a true GFE experience. Because you've EARNED it.
DB
I can't beleive some of you guys are hacking on Dodge
The guy lays out a perfect gameplan that you can follow to get a great girl to hang out with you for a few days in a row at a rate cheaper than three or four regular LT sesions. To me, that is valuable advice. At the very least, it gives you another negotiating tactic to use when you find someone to have a GFE session or sessions with. We don't have that type of option in that states.
As far as her looks, to each their own. I would much prefer a solid 7 or 8 with great skills and personality as opposed to a 9 or 10 that was simply business like. That being said, I think his girl is very attractive, with a great body and if you throw in a great personality it's all for the better.
Anyway, that's just my .02.
Ferolga in bogota -- aka jason argos
I´ve been here a week.
Not a bad city, too much traffic polution, but not bad at all.
Hello to Ricker, Chewbacca, Soorfer and all the experts.
Quick update on the scene.
At the places I will mention, no one speaks english. And you gotta play it smart.
Charlotte´s Bar doesn´t exist anymore.
Most people I talked to prefer El Castillo. It is a place that has the feel of a regular nightclub.
Acapulco Modelos is a decent choice for a massage place.
ACAPULCO MODELOS CLUB
Cr 16 64-23
COLOMBIA - Distrito Capital, Bogotá
Telefonos: (57)(1)3463888
Oz is a tiny stripjoint in a somewhat sketchy part of town. It was mentioned in the book, Bogota Bizarra. Girls dance naked and sometimes have sex on stage with a lucky young man.
OZ 74
Cll. 74 No. 16 – 79 Tel: 2173438
Lunes a sábado de 3 pm a 2 am
I didnt like Iwha for the reasons expressed in other posts.
two more weeks to go.
ferolga
