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[QUOTE=Hutsori;1542769]I've found that almost every girl I met used real pictures. One girl I met from a different site was considerably heavier than her photos. <<SNIP>>[/QUOTE]I agree with Huts, and he alludes to the dilemma that we have in trying to decide how recent are the pics.

On Pinalove, some girls will post 20 or 30 photos, some very repetitive selfies with very little difference between them.

Some will mix up photos taken at graduation as well as a succession of photos that might be 5 to 10 years old and then with photos taken recently. They do not necessarily appear on the site in order (succession).

Occasionally (often?) they post a pic with a date stamp and if it says, for example, April 2012 then it gives you a good indication which pics preceded or post-dated the dated one.

The only sure way is to get them on cam. If they offer all sorts of reasons why they cannot go on cam then be suspicious.

LMAO at Tally. That's all I have to say about that!

Thanks for info guys I really appreciate it. Its funny because a lot of girls profiles state that they are not into money, they just want a nice guy. But I know its all BS. And for the most part all I'm really interested in, is to have fun and bang them. I'm mean that why we are on sites like this, Right?

Hey Skogis? You mentioned that you got rid of your DIA profile and found other meaningful sites. Care to share?

Overall I will continue with DIA do the possibility of traveling to the Philippines & Thailand next April.

I'm not trying to create any animosity, but I disagree with the comment that,". Not into money. It is all BS". There are plenty of regular ladies out there who would be happy to have a regular date / relationship / sex / etc. I've had some incredible experiences with regular gals, but have to admit it's getting rarer as I get older.

And "bang them" sounds a bit crude, even though I can't disagree with your point. I've had some fun dates even when I didn't "bang them". You also have to remember that there are some guys out there who want a wife, and the online sites offer some attractive possibilities. Some of these guys are terribly naive, get scammed, and then scream about how evil the Filipinas are. That's another over generalization.

Anyway, you requested info.

There are pay sites: Cherry Blossoms was the first one I used and it served me well. I think another is Cebu something or another. Which I've never tried. Are you going to Cebu?

The others discussed are PinalLove, Tagged, and of course Craiglist.

As for FB, when I get a gal's FB, and I find some Westerner. I peruse his friend list. I've had absolutely no luck in this area. If you are not a "Friend", your message goes to the "other" file, and hot gals probably have too many messages anyway. X.

[QUOTE=Watnow78; 1543063]LMAO at Tally. That's all I have to say about that!

Thanks for info guys I really appreciate it. Its funny because a lot of girls profiles state that they are not into money, they just want a nice guy. But I know its all BS. And for the most part all I'm really interested in, is to have fun and bang them. I'm mean that why we are on sites like this, Right?

Hey Skogis? You mentioned that you got rid of your DIA profile and found other meaningful sites. Care to share?

Overall I will continue with DIA do the possibility of traveling to the Philippines & Thailand next April.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Watnow78; 1543063]Thanks for info guys I really appreciate it. Its funny because a lot of girls profiles state that they are not into money, they just want a nice guy. But I know its all BS. And for the most part all I'm really interested in, is to have fun and bang them. I'm mean that why we are on sites like this, Right?

Overall I will continue with DIA do the possibility of traveling to the Philippines & Thailand next April.[/QUOTE]You might be way, way too far ahead of time prior to your travel. For 'have fun and bang them', I'd suggest you try CL or dating sites just 2 weeks prior to arrival.

[QUOTE=X Man; 1544134]I'm not trying to create any animosity, but I disagree with the comment that,". Not into money. It is all BS". There are plenty of regular ladies out there who would be happy to have a regular date / relationship / sex / etc. I've had some incredible experiences with regular gals, but have to admit it's getting rarer as I get older.

And "bang them" sounds a bit crude, even though I can't disagree with your point. I've had some fun dates even when I didn't "bang them". You also have to remember that there are some guys out there who want a wife, and the online sites offer some attractive possibilities. Some of these guys are terribly naive, get scammed, and then scream about how evil the Filipinas are. That's another over generalization.[/QUOTE]Kind of weird to me. In many of the threads that I frequent guys feel that if they have sex with a woman in a foreign country then they must give her money or gifts afterwards. They have no sense of what a normal date is. Whenever I go to a country that I haven't been to then I use ISG to see what the mongering situation is. Then as I make more trips over time and become more familiar with the place and/or get the language down, I rely less on P4P and more on regular date/relationship situations. I have been back in Thailand for a month now and have only had 3 P4P encounters (all LT chicks from the disco) for a total of $92. If I actually had to give money to every woman that I have had sex with I would be destitute. I will only be 42 next month so I have not yet experienced (it remains to be seen if I ever will) the getting rarer as I get older that X is talking about.

If you are only looking for women to "bang" for a short stay in a major city then there is no sense in even wasting time on a website. There are venues with hundreds of P4P women that you can pick from when you arrive.

Back on my 8. 13 visit a spent a few hours with a gal I met on dia. The profile implied she was naughty, and she delivered. She came directly to the hotel and sat on the bed with her legs spread unusually wide, and a come hither look on her face.

She had a baby belly, but made up for that in effort. She liked to be pounded hard and also suggested anal. I'm not into anal, but I gave her a good hard fking. I was exhausted.

The dia profile is closed, but I recently came across her FB profile. Surprise. Back around the time I met her she was reporting her marriage plans. The Western guy in the pictures looks as pleased as punch. All's I can say, sir, is thanks for sharing your fiance. X

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational; 1544185]Kind of weird to me. In many of the threads that I frequent guys feel that if they have sex with a woman in a foreign country then they must give her money or gifts afterwards. They have no sense of what a normal date is. Whenever I go to a country that I haven't been to then I use ISG to see what the mongering situation is. Then as I make more trips over time and become more familiar with the place and / or get the language down, I rely less on P4P and more on regular date / relationship situations. I have been back in Thailand for a month now and have only had 3 P4P encounters (all LT chicks from the disco) for a total of $92. If I actually had to give money to every woman that I have had sex with I would be destitute. I will only be 42 next month so I have not yet experienced (it remains to be seen if I ever will) the getting rarer as I get older that X is talking about.

If you are only looking for women to "bang" for a short stay in a major city then there is no sense in even wasting time on a website. There are venues with hundreds of P4P women that you can pick from when you arrive.[/QUOTE]Not that it is very important I can easily admit I am one of those allways giving money or gifts to girls I nail internationaly. Not because I have to (as most will never ask for a cent) but bcs I want to. I exclude ofcourse girls picked from FL venues where it is more or less atleast expected some money will shift. I have been into this game long enough on many levels to be well qualified to know what a proper date looks like. And I enjoy having them as well. A bit intensive I admit my dating are, especially in Makati, but even if we have only a few hours together (me and the girl) I pride myself into also give them a good time. Hell, sometimes we even go out to eat and drink before the fun part starts. I tend to alternate between Tony Ramos and Outback Steakhouse (very close to the Glorietta 4 entrance). Dealing with pinays, the greater part comes from a rather large fleet of datingsite contacts (all walks of life is met here but I would asume most of them atleast are not hardend P4P's one way or another) and on occation I pick a FL girl from mall, MBC or Havana. Ofcourse I have not many but a few rather hi so girls also here in Makati who I meet from time to time (these gets good qualitydates incl wine and dine and clubbing in designated clubs where they usualy operate like Prive). But whatever they are or what we call them they will have one thing in common, they will get money and gifts from me. Atleast it makes me feel good as I enjoy that arrangment. I know some of the women would like to develope relations with me a bit further but since I can not do that as I have gf back home it feels good to compensate. I am not tight with money at all but try to keep compensations to a decent level.

And when you like me have a large fleet of girls through datingsites there will allways be a 2/3 girls willing to meet almost anytime of the day. Me and my mr Johnson seems to be the limitation here. So in that regard to me it is almost as effective as run down to Havana to pick one girl up. Instead I can sit back in my comfy apartment and wait the girl, have a drink and watch Two and a Half Men.

[QUOTE=Skogis;1544476]But whatever they are or what we call them they will have one thing in common, they will get money and gifts from me.[/QUOTE]Did you do the same with women you would go out on dates with back home before you had your girlfriend and your kid? I just personally can't see taking a woman who I know is not a hooker back home the day after we have gone on a date and she has maybe spent the night then giving her money and/or gifts, especially when 80% of the time I have paid for the date anyway.

And I think most normal women that I go out with would flip out if I tried to hand them money afterwards. Me and my girlfriend (Thai) just got back from Maldives two days ago. She didn't even want to go because it is so expensive and she didn't want me to spend money like that. I told her that life is to be enjoyed. She wanted something from the gift shop at the resort and everything there goes on the total bill that you pay upon checkout. She said that she would give me the $40 back in Thai baht once we got back to the room. Even when we got back to Thailand she wanted my bank account number and insisted on depositing 20,000 baht/month to help pay for the trip.

Back home I always pay for dinner, movie, or what ever. Maybe even flowers the next day. I do the same when I am on a date in other countries. I try to give them a fun experience and because I know money is very hard for most girls. I always try to pay more than a taxi fare home and I call it taxi money. I went out with a DH in Hong Kong for a couple days while I was there on business. I didn't give her any money but I paid for dinner and activities, a little small phone case she wanted, and at the end of the trip I gave her a Metro card that had a lot of money on it. Because "I couldn't use it anymore". I think it is a little more than I would do for a girl back home but she needs it more than a girl back home. I agree that just giving a girl some cash after a date and saying "thank you" would be offensive, but I think you can do some things to help her out and say thanks.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational; 1544506]Did you do the same with women you would go out on dates with back home before you had your girlfriend and your kid? I just personally can't see taking a woman who I know is not a hooker back home the day after we have gone on a date and she has maybe spent the night then giving her money and / or gifts, especially when 80% of the time I have paid for the date anyway.

And I think most normal women that I go out with would flip out if I tried to hand them money afterwards. Me and my girlfriend (Thai) just got back from Maldives two days ago. She didn't even want to go because it is so expensive and she didn't want me to spend money like that. I told her that life is to be enjoyed. She wanted something from the gift shop at the resort and everything there goes on the total bill that you pay upon checkout. She said that she would give me the $40 back in Thai baht once we got back to the room. Even when we got back to Thailand she wanted my bank account number and insisted on depositing 20, 000 baht / month to help pay for the trip.[/QUOTE]Lets not be mistaken here. I am a no offensive guy and ofcourse I don't hand out money like in donating hooker money. I do it with a swift breeze of finesse and give them a good idea this is meant as a gift. As I deal with a few ladies having more than enough cash to easily manage themself I still, dealing with this segment of girls, choose to pay for our activities the old fashion way. Having a nice time, have fun and bang them are important to me. And since I hate shopping (most girls in repeat knows this by now) the girls have no problem accepting money as a gift (they are just not turned into shoes yet). But on rare occations as in they have to get up early to go to work i have been more asleep than awake and simply forgot about the "gift" and ofcourse that have been totaly fine by them as in it never been mentioned since...

In my country women and men are brought up to split everything 50/50, and that is fine by me. But even so I would say I for the greater parts in my life have been the one picking up the check in dating situations. When I started dating my gf of today (half pinay / norwegian) , we did it the same way, she paid a little (maby the taxi) and I paid the larger checks.

I travel extensively and since I don't plan to hang around to long I choose to pay them girls as it makes me feel good. When dealing with the datingsite segment of girls I feel obligated to do so (even if most of them never mention anything about money) as it would be unfair to them me earning maby in one day what they earn in one month. I know the money will come in handy. But even here I don't donate the money as in a P4P situation but more gently like in"here sweetie, I want you to have this little something so you can go have yourself something nice" (most likely 3k piso)

I always like to give a small gift, usually 1k. Because A, any of the girls I see are absolutely broke even if they have a job. I don't generally take them to eat where I do cause it's a waste of money. So I just call the gift lunch, I think it's the humane thing to do and they are always very appreciative. B, it rewards that kind of behavior so whenever they have vacant time they know a good place to spend it. Occasionally even with a best friend, sister or cousin.

I usually stop by any SM mall and buy a few of the 500 peso gift cards. Instead of cash I occasionally hand them a card or hide it in her purse to find later. The cards have always be appreciated and never turned down. The cards are almost as good as cash because SM malls sell 99% of anything they would need.

Got some real dejavouz today hitting up a few datingsitecontacts. Beeing awhile since I actually actively used them sites myself I today forgot and asked more than one question in a row? If doing so, atleast this is my observation, you will only get answer on your last question and never the prior ones.

Same if you send 2 or more mails in a row only the last one is answered? Quite irritating but all in all my fault and I should know better doing this some years now (but only happens in phils).

Anyone?

[QUOTE=Skogis; 1545040]Got some real dejavouz today hitting up a few datingsitecontacts. Beeing awhile since I actually actively used them sites myself I today forgot and asked more than one question in a row? If doing so, atleast this is my observation, you will only get answer on your last question and never the prior ones.

Same if you send 2 or more mails in a row only the last one is answered? Quite irritating but all in all my fault and I should know better doing this some years now (but only happens in phils).

Anyone?[/QUOTE]For the most part same experience. However, they do sometimes answer a question you asked earlier, but usually by then you have no idea what they're talking about.

Me: you working or going to school?

Her: big family. 5 sis. 4 brothers.

Me: 0h! Your dad really loves your mom, hehehe.

Her: yeah, marry now many years much love.

Then about 2 hours later:

Her: how are you? Don't forget to take your lunch (smiley faces followed by other unintelligible symbols)

Me: thanks, am good.

Her: I stop, financial.

Me: Huh? What you stop?

And so it goes, LOL

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1544185]Kind of weird to me. In many of the threads that I frequent guys feel that if they have sex with a woman in a foreign country then they must give her money or gifts afterwards. They have no sense of what a normal date is.[/QUOTE]Its a good and valid point, and one where the lines very often blurt between whats a date, a date with sex, and a paid date.

There are many girls that I "think" I've dated, in various Asian countries, and I know they have good jobs, maybe car. We have dinner, go home / hotel for sex and I don't give anything except a smile.

Others who maybe are students or clearly have no money, we have dinner, go home for sex and maybe they get a gift in the bag as they are going " buy yourself some thing nice" knowing she will or maybe will give to her mom, or buy her dad some tanduay etc.

Those who want money just for sex arent my target.

Most of mine are always happy for repeats, so somethings must be going right. But I agree that its hard to define what a date really is. In the old traditional sense of the word.

I was really and happily surprised recently when I booked a May vacation with a girl and she insisted on giving me her airfare costs before I even booked. I like those kind of girls!