Saigon Bar Disappointment Confirmation
First of all, many thanks to Wandella for his contributions to the sport in Saigon! Especially the guidance posted 05 Mar 15 and subsequent post yesterday (01 Aug) for which I received with assurance and sadness. . and you know what they say, 'Everything after Bangkok is a disappointment' - I thought I had just been spoilt and lost the mongering touch!
The bars are indeed a disappointment if one wants a quick and assured takeaway. Saigon is not that place (except for Apocalypse Now). It looks as though the girls in bars such as '5', 'The Office', 'Voodoo' are students (with a few sweeties) and 'rinsers' (London term for rinsing the cash out of your wallet) where one would have to invest the time and energy to establish a 'relationship' before any pink is availed.
Apolypse Now always has a few diamonds in the rough. I frequent every weekend and see the same-same faces, a few new faces and the usual entourage of 'hippo-crock-pig' expats and grungy backpacker things. Even the prettier Vietnamese girls, the diamonds in the rough, who have exploited my male weaker side (ie. Accompanied me in the past and allowed me to continue with my addiction to the game!) seem to come back for more. Even staking claim to me being 'their customer' and friend and getting a little spikey when I turn them down in favour of a new girl. The diamonds are pushing the envelope and ask for $200! A few, the real lookers, when compared to the other markets (Abu Dhabi, London) are certainly worth it. But, you can see the trend. The asking price is being pushed up due to 'supply and demand' as there are only a handful of real winners and far too many 'also rans'. Even some of the 'also rans' are trying it on for $200! Except for the real lookers, the also rans are usually gratefully the $100 offered after a little huffing and puffing.
How I wish I had visited Saigon when there were the bars Wandella alluded to in his posts. Ah well, it is what it is!
CTFO (Carry the f*ck on!
Bill.
Ditto on the disappointment, but.
I wasn't surprised to see this thread start to lose activity. Afterall, the bars in Saigon aren't quite what they used to be. But still, I hoped times would suddenly change in our favor. The magical day someone posts 91 has re-opened! Sadly I don't see that happening but a man can still dream.
Wendella summed it up for me with the "warm-up". There's something about going to a familiar bar, ordering a drink, and anticipating the attention from multiple girls. Whether this attention is genuinely warm (usually followed by lots of touching and kissing) or business-like, you still walked into the bar knowing you had options. And soon, that option would be decided based on which girl convincingly seduces you right there in the bar. Some may argue Apocalypse Now has a plethora of tits, asses, holes, etc. But I personally seek a little more "connection" via instant attraction, which I haven't found at Apo in years. While I've seen one or two gems at Apo, the ratio wasn't favorable enough for me to continue going there, especially when bars like 91 were booming.
Today, it seems like you need lots of cash to even get in the mood to step into a bar and expect a "good time". But I find this challenging, in a positive way. The HBT scene made me somewhat lazy and I knew I had to fix my mentality or else I would start to loathe this city. I once met a girl at Apo around 12 am. It was too early in the night to "pick her" but she was attractive enough to game. Once eye contact was established, I walked towards her. She asked me the generic questions: where I'm from, where I'm staying, are you here on business or holiday, etc. She then mentions money before her name. I immediately go cold on her and begin shifting my attention to other girls. I wasn't trying to make her jealous. I was trying to show her I'm a fun guy and I just lost interest in her. In doing so, I hoped she would slowly become attracted to me. I played random drinking games with a few girls and tossed around a few lame jokes just to get a laugh. Every once in a while I looked over to see if she was watching. On any other night, I would've been drunk in an hour and probably give in to her initial offer. But on this particular night, I was short on cash which luckily affected my drinking habits. I was sober enough to gauge her reaction and every once in a while, even throw a smile or wink in her direction. Naturally, she flirted with other customers but at some point, she would eventually realize she was either going home alone or have a second chance with me. Shortly after, I stood across from her at a table and waited for her to strike up a conversation. She looks in my direction and laughs, but doesn't say a word. I stand firm and wait for her to earn my attention. She makes a pouty gesture with her lips which I thought was cute. Then she starts talking money again. Once a hoe always a hoe. I respond with "I only have half that amount, I'm leaving right now. Meet me outside". I've tried this many times. When it failed, I simply got in a cab and went to a different bar. But this time it worked. And in the cab ride, she let me play with her tits which brought back lots of memories of HBT, particularly 35, 49, and 51.
(In my best dos equis commercial voice). Stay positive my friends.