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Just a small observation I don't know if have been discussed amongst BM's before (sorry for not taking the time to check myself). I have come to the conclusion that some girls in datingsites have birthdays relatively often. Maby this is to boost their hits and hoping to meet someone generous out there willing to do some WUing as she can buy herself a "gift"?
In most datingsites you can change your date of birth relatively easy.
Been to the phils, like the women I have met many and fucked many. Despite the low morlaes of most of them I wish to actually marry one and bring her home. Of course I am not interested in a Bar Girl or a DIA pro or pro / am. I seek a proper smart educated hard working woman who can withstand the rigours of western life and expectations. I am fing tired of sleeping alone here.
I simply spend to much time meeting interviewing and engaging these girls on my frequent trips and want to know 2 things:
A. Is it worth it to marry one, I am talking about an educated mid 30 smart woman, even with a kid cause she aint getting one from me (vasectomy is scheduled).
Be. How can I have some success in this pursuit? Where to look?
PP.
[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;1570240]Been to the phils, like the women I have met many and fucked many. Despite the low morlaes of most of them I wish to actually marry one and bring her home. Of course I am not interested in a Bar Girl or a DIA pro or pro / am. I seek a proper smart educated hard working woman who can withstand the rigours of western life and expectations. I am fing tired of sleeping alone here.
I simply spend to much time meeting interviewing and engaging these girls on my frequent trips and want to know 2 things:
A. Is it worth it to marry one, I am talking about an educated mid 30 smart woman, even with a kid cause she aint getting one from me (vasectomy is scheduled).
Be. How can I have some success in this pursuit? Where to look?
PP.[/QUOTE]I think you have made a wise decision. There are some great educated and nice Pinays out there. As far as to find them, I am not sure where to begin. Maybe in the banking or financial field if that is what interest you or the medical field. I am sure you will be getting some good points on how to find her. Good luck.
[QUOTE=Skogis;1570200]Just a small observation I don't know if have been discussed amongst BM's before (sorry for not taking the time to check myself). I have come to the conclusion that some girls in datingsites have birthdays relatively often. Maby this is to boost their hits and hoping to meet someone generous out there willing to do some WUing as she can buy herself a "gift"?
In most datingsites you can change your date of birth relatively easy.[/QUOTE]Good observation... Yes some girls have indeed been known to have several birthdays in a year...if they can get a few guys to do the WU dance more than once a year why not.
[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;1570240]Been to the phils, like the women I have met many and fucked many. Despite the low morlaes of most of them I wish to actually marry one and bring her home. Of course I am not interested in a Bar Girl or a DIA pro or pro / am. I seek a proper smart educated hard working woman who can withstand the rigours of western life and expectations. I am fing tired of sleeping alone here.
I simply spend to much time meeting interviewing and engaging these girls on my frequent trips and want to know 2 things:
A. Is it worth it to marry one, I am talking about an educated mid 30 smart woman, even with a kid cause she aint getting one from me (vasectomy is scheduled).
Be. How can I have some success in this pursuit? Where to look?
PP.[/QUOTE]LOL. I had these exact same thoughts over 10 years ago when I met my future pinay wife. I shit you not I met her online in a yahoo chatroom. I just kind of randomly started talking to her, she was an OCW working in Hong Kong and shortly after we met she moved to Montreal. I visited her up there and she was able to get a US tourist visa after being in Canada for a short time. We will be married 10 years this coming June.
Anyways there is no good rhyme or reason when dealing with Pinay's or females from any other culture. My wife was fairly well educated before she left the Pinas' and continued her education (medical field) when she arrived here and we were married. We have our ups and downs but I will be damned if I could ever find a better woman. With that said I have seen just as many fucked up educated Pinay's who make terrible housewives. I have a childhood friend who married a LBFM he met in the Top Gun bar outside Subic Bay Naval base back in the 80's and they are still together 30 years and 3 kids later. So in his case he was able to "turn a working girl into a housewife"LOL. Fuck if I was you I would just go over there and start trolling and see who you can meet. In has been my experience and YMMV but I always put alot of stock into the circle of friends a Pinay keeps and also there family life. I have generally found that if friends and family are fucked up then the sweet and innocent Pinay will usually end up causing issues. I lucked out in that area as I am the fucked up one in our relationship.
But I digress as we leave tomorrow for 3 weeks in Bacolod City and our little boy will celebrate his 8th birthday while we are there. I can just picture all those fucking tree creatures acting like a bunch of cockroaches when his birthday party starts. Nothing like throwing a party for a crowd of people who don't know each other.
Good luck I am sure you will do fine in your search, not hard to meet women while in the Pinas'.
There was a period in Angeles city where gals were trying this trick. I haven't seen what you noticed Skogis. What dating site are you using?
X.
[QUOTE=Skogis;1570200]Just a small observation I don't know if have been discussed amongst BM's before (sorry for not taking the time to check myself). I have come to the conclusion that some girls in datingsites have birthdays relatively often. Maby this is to boost their hits and hoping to meet someone generous out there willing to do some WUing as she can buy herself a "gift"?
In most datingsites you can change your date of birth relatively easy.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;1570240] How can I have some success in this pursuit? .[/QUOTE]PP, they are everywhere and nowhere. I think it is a myth that there is only one woman for each man. Perhaps I am jaded having never tied the knot but all of my married friends are either bored or unhappy; and jealous of my bachelorhood. Should you decide to marry a Pinay I highly recommend you NOT bring her to live in the Western world. She will become quickly tainted by Western ways and turn into the greedy, selfish, unpleasable motor mouth that characterizes Western woman. Certainly there are exceptions but rare. The only intelligent reason to even get married IMHO is if you want kids and you have already decided not to do that. If you prove me wrong I will certainly be happy for you.
[QUOTE=DickBump;1570356]. Fuck if I was you I would just go over there and start trolling and see who you can meet. In has been my experience and YMMV but I always put alot of stock into the circle of friends a Pinay keeps and also there family life. I have generally found that if friends and family are fucked up then the sweet and innocent Pinay will usually end up causing issues...[/QUOTE]This is 100% true as I too found out one too many time.
If the relatives all are employed, or working on their businesses, requests for loans etc will be almost NIL or money borrowed will be returned.
Else forget it. You will be the family ATM.
[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;1570240]
A. Is it worth it to marry one, I am talking about an educated mid 30 smart woman, even with a kid cause she aint getting one from me (vasectomy is scheduled).
Be. How can I have some success in this pursuit? Where to look?
PP.[/QUOTE]I'll weigh in on this one since I'm on a search myself.
A. Is it worth it? If you're just looking for a loving companion to grow old with and don't care much about looks, an educated mid 30's with a couple kids would probably be easy to find. I say don't care about looks because anywhere I've been at least, it's going to be extremely hard to find one that's not, well lets just say chubby. Furthermore, probably due to the diet, most of them age hard. So at 40, she may look 55. As opposed to say, an Indonesian. Who at the age of 40 may look 28. I know because I was with an Indonesian from her age of 28-40 and met her whole family and friends. I just got invited to a Pinay's house by her father. I was eying her in the supermarket and her father invited me. Well, she's really hot and her younger sister is unbelievably hot. Her mother looks like something you would see in National Geographic. And your wife may have lolos and titos and cousins and all kinds of emergencies, the same type of thing 19 year old's have.
Also she may get sick before you do. Then you will be taking care of her. But all this is from a relatively newb point of view (less than 2 years) and a purely selfish one which may not be yours. And of course if you do your due diligence, you can be like many guys that have very nice partners that are over the age of what I have in mind, which is 18-21. In fact, I've heard a thousand times that I'm being unrealistic. Separately, I been meaning to inquire on the whereabouts of that discussion on the supposed age gap law. That was really interesting and may be something for guys like me to consider.
Be. I would just say choose a place you wouldn't mind living, a place that has the things you like. Just set up camp there and let God's will work the rest out. That's the advise I get, and there's my two cents worth. Hope it's of interest.
Sam your observations are correct in my experiences. I would only be interested in superior woman there are a few about 1 in 5000 and she would have to be 15 years younger at least. We agree totally on your observations of diet and health, I can lose a few lbs but still can hike 10 miles with a pack and do 40 pushups.
The cups I also sort of agree but I am tired of sleeping alone, and I have 2 I am negotiating with where I have EXPRESSLY advised them I plan to sleep around do they agree or not, some don't agree my last livein agreed to it and she was a Latin of extreme education and prowess.
I think we can protect them form the shit of the west with a prenup. Fuck up and you get a ticket home!
Keep those thoughts coming!
PP.
[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;1570240]Been to the phils, like the women I have met many and fucked many. Despite the low morlaes of most of them I wish to actually marry one and bring her home. Of course I am not interested in a Bar Girl or a DIA pro or pro / am. I seek a proper smart educated hard working woman who can withstand the rigours of western life and expectations. I am fing tired of sleeping alone here.
I simply spend to much time meeting interviewing and engaging these girls on my frequent trips and want to know 2 things:
A. Is it worth it to marry one, I am talking about an educated mid 30 smart woman, even with a kid cause she aint getting one from me (vasectomy is scheduled).[/QUOTE]And just how many women of that caliber do you think are actually interested in leaving home following behind some foreigner? And bringing a woman to your land is really asking for it. When she changes on you you will be kicking yourself in the ass.
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[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;1570730]I would only be interested in superior woman there are a few about 1 in 5000 and she would have to be 15 years younger at least. ...where I have EXPRESSLY advised them I plan to sleep around...
I think we can protect them form the shit of the west with a prenup. Fuck up and you get a ticket home!
[/QUOTE]April Fools was last month! You have big dreams brother. Ain't no prenupping a woman you bring in from overseas. You are expressly saying to the government that she is your prime responsibility. In other words, YOU are responsible for making sure she has a place to stay, food to eat, and clothes on her back. Ain't no just kicking her out when you get tired of her.
[QUOTE=Skogis;1570200]Just a small observation I don't know if have been discussed amongst BM's before (sorry for not taking the time to check myself). I have come to the conclusion that some girls in datingsites have birthdays relatively often. Maby this is to boost their hits and hoping to meet someone generous out there willing to do some WUing as she can buy herself a "gift"?
In most datingsites you can change your date of birth relatively easy.[/QUOTE]Weird to us but (probably due to poor education) they often share online accounts (email, dating) with other relatives. A lot of what westerners attribute to malice or criminality is often just Pinoy goofiness, nothing more. Its not uncommon.
AV.
Wish you hadn't have given that second paragraph of advice to PP. Sounds like his fantasy would be good fodder for years of posts and laughs. I don't wish misery on anybody but sometimes it has great entertainment value.
the old days are gone. there is a lot of hustle out there.
if you feel a hole in your life and think importing an alimony recipient will fix this, think again.
if you really, really, really must go down this route then listen to this advice.
1) just don't.
2) still determined to? spend some money on a good therapist to deal with your own issues to get your head 'straight' before having to deal with another's peculiarities.
3) still want to? look at your personal wealth & make an honest assessment of how much it will really cost you to find, import & setup your future alimony recipient, including losing 50% when she leaves.
4) seriously you're still wanting this? ok, set aside enough funds to come to the pi to live for 3 - 6 months. stay completely & totally away from bars & dating sites. make friends with people & get introduced to decent educated girls from good families.
5) spend 3 - 6 months getting to know her personally. avoid sex immediately, get to know her & her family first, these will be the recipients of most of your personal wealth.
6) points to look out for: don't marry women from large families, 2 or 3 siblings is your limit. do not marry into a poor family. not wanting children will be a big issue for her, its expected in her culture. she will lie and agree to a childless marriage but when she gets an alimony ring on her finger this will come back to haunt you. you have been warned.
7) see #1.
av.
[quote=amavida;1570769]the old days are gone. there is a lot of hustle out there.
if you feel a hole in your life and think importing an alimony recipient will fix this, think again.
if you really, really, really must go down this route then listen to this advice.
1) just don't.
2) still determined to? spend some money on a good therapist to deal with your own issues to get your head 'straight' before having to deal with another's peculiarities.
3) still want to? look at your personal wealth & make an honest assessment of how much it will really cost you to find, import & setup your future alimony recipient, including losing 50% when she leaves.
4) seriously you're still wanting this? ok, set aside enough funds to come to the pi to live for 3 - 6 months. stay completely & totally away from bars & dating sites. make friends with people & get introduced to decent educated girls from good families.
5) spend 3 - 6 months getting to know her personally. avoid sex immediately, get to know her & her family first, these will be the recipients of most of your personal wealth.
6) points to look out for: don't marry women from large families, 2 or 3 siblings is your limit. do not marry into a poor family. not wanting children will be a big issue for her, its expected in her culture. she will lie and agree to a childless marriage but when she gets an alimony ring on her finger this will come back to haunt you. you have been warned.
7) see #1.
av.[/quote]i wish you had been my good friend many years ago!