Good that you point out the danger
[QUOTE=Dan7373;1409847]Using a numbing cream for anal sex is very risky, because it can hide a serious injury, until it's too late to prevent it.[/QUOTE]I wasn't advocating the use of numbing creams. I was pointing out that what is depicted in a porn video is extensively edited and not representative of what happens on the set. Guys who use porn videos that feature rough anal sex as an example of "how a woman should be fucked" are way out of line and should be called out by responsible mongers. Guys who abuse the SW spoil the game for everyone. I offer the recent posts about Apple at Cherry as an example.
The lining of the anus is much thinner and more easily damaged than the vagina. The ass was not designed to have a hard cylinder with a circumference of three and one half to four inches rapidly thrust back and forth inside of it.
I for one enjoy a little a-level from time to time, but I use plenty of lube, make sure my partner's ass is ready to be penetrated by my cock and slow down or stop if my partner appears to be experiencing pain. I also stimulate her clit unless she is doing it to herself. There are many nerve ending at the anal sphincter and stimulating these with the nerve endings in the clit, lips and G-spot will enhance the pleasure of a willing woman. Only the sick fucks enjoys hurting women; normal guys find the sex much more enjoyable if the woman is really getting into it as well.
I could also have added that many people working in the porn industry have serious substance abuse issues that effect their "career decisions" and the women are paid a premium for appearing in scenes with rough sex, anal, DP, gang bangs, etc.