Theres a new Kid in the town - aka "wind-up artist" (heh)
my first plans were to be here one week as i had a pre-paid hotel when i come and then head down to the south. now im on my 16th day and probebly will stay even more. it started with 4 star hotel on soi 19, then ll on soi 33, then a 1000/bath hotel and now in a new 700/bath hotel with free (50 bath for all stay) wifi. next stop will be an apartment with my newfound wife and 10 other familymembers?
its been an intersting trip so far with doctors, anxiety, sex (one freelancer and two visits to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord900][CodeWord900][/url]) and a date with a regular thailady. yeasterday i saw this beautiful lady again and i deeply want her. im so attracted to her. she's tall, she is slim, she has big boobs (for be an thai i guess) and are very friendly. if i did not know she has a baby when she was 20 (now 26) i would think she was a lb. because ive been in the place at nana entertainment were they have a ride the bull thing and some lb were looking real great and i could not for one seccond think that they were men, or x-men. btw, if you take the escalator up, go left and in to the first bar you find amazing young woman. i hope they are legal. the bar stands out in the section of young woman. i had a talk inside with 4 older woman that was sitting there and watching the "show". i was so curious about if they were lesbians or people that work against this industry that i had to ask them. and as i thought it was the second thing. they come to this and other places once every month to try to get the girls of the industry. the are running a jewellery factory and try to get the girls to start work there insteed of "dancing". the doorman is lb and mamasan is big. dont remember the name of the bar.
anyway, back to my newfound thaifriend. and i dont know what i have found. a x-bar girl, a real regular lady, a golddigger or a mix. littlebigman has recomended me a book (thailand fever) via pm and im going to try get it, because i dont know what im up with. when we had dinner she get her food first. in my country its a norm (not pizza with beer-friends) to wait until the rest has get their food too (over 6-7 people its okey to start eating before because the food will be coold until all 7+ has got it). okey, i dont care so much if this rule is followed or so but i would not have start eating if i got the meal first and my lady dont, especially on the first date. and after giotto has told me much about how good thailadys is behaving, like they dont drink up the beer/drink before me and so on i was a little disappointed when she started to cut her food.
but, insteed of eating she starts to feed me with her food until my own has come to the table. i was like, damn dont judge so fast kid icarus!! what a great girl!! she did not eat anything before my food arrived (2 minutes).
but then there is other things like, yes i have money, hold hand and kiss first date, worked in a hotel in pattaya (no sex according to her), she say she want a farang, she say she want to work in a bar with many farangs (i did not really get her point there..) and she looked on a thaiboy who is doorman more then one time when we were sitting in a bar yesterday (second date). i did not like that. but she looked on the girls too and thought they were sexy, and that i did not complain about hehe.
ive been at her house one time at 2 a clock in he night, but today when i asked if i could come over she sad that everybody knows her there and that people will think she is a lady for rent if they see me, and she dont whant that people think that. if i were thai no problem she sad. i guess its more people around there at this time at night (18.00). i told her, one lie and im gone without saying even goodbye (like if she has boyfriend and so on).
but she make out with me in the bar (bargirls and farangs) and many people were watching us so.. well, i dont know whats up. i guess we have to take it slow from now on and see what happends. even if my self-confidence is not what it used to be i know im still relative good looking and girls like me for who i am. fact is, yes i want to have sex with her. no, i dont want to get married and have one kid around and support her whole family. if she using me i will use her to. if shes not i have to decide what to do next. for, if she really is a good regular girl, i dont want to mess up her life if it wont be anymore then some nights with her. she is very worried that i have other ladies. i think she is burn from other relations. she say shes been single without any boy for 2 years now. hard to understand because she is in my eyes very beautiful with great body and all.
i think i take it cool, be smooth and just treat her good and dont make any promises i cant live up to. just some thoughts from bangkok.
(i put all reporting in this thread then post in 3 different)
cheers :)
/kid
edit: [quote=mouse1]lol. you forgot to mention:
bangkok where is the cheapest atm? a topic for endless hours of pleasurable discussion :)[/quote]
funny you mention this, i thought all atm charge 150bath, but yeasterday i found one, krungsri atm (yellow), that has no charge. or is it a charge for just small amounts? i will try to take out a small one from this one and see..
Give her a "put out or next" ultimatum
You should still be seeing others in the side, otherwise you will regret not experiencing others. For all you know she could be holding out because she has something unpleasant or having a period.
Trust me on this.