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[QUOTE=Wiseblood 213]An example warning sign would be when she sends you messages asking if you ate your lunch... :)
Again a classic tactic. (I wonder if they get taught this stuff in school)
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hahaha I just had to laugh. Every morning, lunch and evening my GF (Fili of course) asks "did you eat yet".
If I say no, then an incredulous "Why not?"
It's instinct, not learned, I'm sure.
Be careful out there.
Steamer33
[QUOTE=Steamer33]Every morning, lunch and evening my GF (Fili of course) asks "did you eat yet"....[/QUOTE]
Could this be a harmless cultural thing? In Chinese, "Did you eat yet?" means, "How are you?"
[QUOTE=Steve Dubai]Good Report. Which Ratsky's where you at - the Karama or Ramada?[/QUOTE]Or the one in Bur Dubai?
[QUOTE=One Eyed Man]Could this be a harmless cultural thing? In Chinese, "Did you eat yet?" means, "How are you?"[/QUOTE]
Maybe. You could be on to something. :D
Be careful out there.
Steamer33
[QUOTE=Wiseblood 213]You don't need to run for the hills, but you might need to "curb your enthusiasm" a bit.
By far, some of the best experiences I have ever had have been with filipinas. Just need to be careful how YOU set the rules and expectations.
Be a nice guy, be fair, have fun but always keep your wits about you and stick firmly to your rules.
This will also earn you more respect and you will not be seen as a sucker with more money than brains.
That applies to most WG's. But filipinas are pretty good at making you think it was YOUR idea to spend too much money on them and not the other way around.[/QUOTE]WB,
Great post and I wish you have done it a couple of months ago. This kind of a practical guide to Filipinas psychology and cultural traits is priceless knowledge especially at the start of the experience.
Yeah, I'm well past all the warning signs and more and I'm learning all what you've learned already.
Short of running for the hills and turning into a jerk, what would be your advice on re-setting the rules and getting back to this delicate point in time where it was just arms-length fun without drama? I did not recognize this point and now it tipped over so I'm trying to find a way to find that balance again.
What would be the best approach and angle based on your experience?
I'm sure that others would appreciate the advice as well. If they don't need it now, they will need it sooner or later if they are hooked on Pinay flavours.
JJB
Hi guys,
Would appreciate your advice on this. I'm a first timer in this. Going to Dubai to on way back and stayin there for 2 nights.
Never done it with a WG, so was wondering what is the risk of getting any kind of illness. Obviusly I'm nt looking for a 100% guruantee bt just a general view from you guys how safe it is to "do it".
I rly wanted to get some DATY and french kissing. I dnt have much medicine background. Bt probably you done some research urself and share your views whether that should be fine or nt.
Thanks
[QUOTE=One Eyed Man]Could this be a harmless cultural thing? In Chinese, "Did you eat yet?" means, "How are you?"[/QUOTE]
similiar in a couple other languages
[QUOTE=Poonhound69]similiar in a couple other languages[/QUOTE]
Yes, in Thai it is 'ghin khao mai krup/ka'- literally 'have you eaten rice yet?' and is a polite, if old fashioned, way of asking 'how are you?'.
Hi,
Can one of the senior members or anybody PM me contact info or directions to the Jumeirah AMP? I have asked several times in these forums with no response. I don't see why I pay for a membership if nobody will share information. So please can somebody help?
Thanks in advance
[QUOTE=Double Shooter]Or the one in Bur Dubai?[/QUOTE]
The one in Bur Dubai is the suckiest one IMHO.
At least it was when I was there a month ago.
Maybe it was my mood that night, but the band was really irritating.
Also, there were a couple of girls (friends of my GF) at our table that seemed to know everyone in the place and this was attracting a lot of unwanted attention.
I don't like when random strangers come up to your table and shake hands with you as if you were an old friend. Even worse when a lot of these guys looked very dodgy and decidedly unsavory.
And I felt that LE vibe a lot in there if you know what I mean.
The one in Deira is my favourite but its a bit out of the way for me so I dont go too often.
Karama one is off limits for me these days, although that IS where my filipina adventures began some years ago.
Reason its off limits is because the Eye of Sauron has its gaze firmly fixed there. Damn spies!
Its the most obvious in terms of available girls. The other two are a bit more low key.
WB
[QUOTE=B Summers]Hi,
Can one of the senior members or anybody PM me contact info or directions to the Jumeirah AMP? I have asked several times in these forums with no response. I don't see why I pay for a membership if nobody will share information. So please can somebody help?
Thanks in advance[/QUOTE]
Mate,
4 posts = 3 questions.
I think fellow members would like to see some contributions from you before sharing information with you.I think it is pretty normal this happens.
especially in a place like UAE, where mongering is always on the edge of legality (well... it is certainly not approved by the local authorities)
You pay for the membership to have the privilege of PM (and something else) not necessarily to acquire information from other subscribers who are not (correctly) getting any stake of the membership.
The membership goes to Jackson to support the technicalities to run ISG.
[QUOTE=Brownian] her full time job is being a waitress/shop assistance.
I like her and will be good and fair to her but I still want to bone her friends.
Will keep y'all posted.
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Good man!
(The Force is strong in this one... :) )
Another thing to watch out for.. If she has a full time job, it's highly unlikely that she has a "manager".
The way these managers usually operate is that they hold on to the girls passport for security until they get their payment in full. (Usually for a new girl this is anywhere between 12 to 20 K AED depending on how gullible she is)
Of course.. she may have taken a loan from her old manager. This is not uncommon. Just be careful you don't see her too often because then you will become her sole source of funding and she will guilt you into bailing her out.
As long as you make it clear to her that you intend on seeing and boning as many other girls as you can and that she is free to do the same, you should manage to stay out of trouble.
Yes, the sex with a regular is usually way better and can get addictive because it will only improve over time, but make sure you find the right regular .
I got lucky with my most recent one, but I've had my share of disasters as well.
WB
[QUOTE=Johnjohn Bob]WB,
Great post and I wish you have done it a couple of months ago. This kind of a practical guide to Filipinas psychology and cultural traits is priceless knowledge especially at the start of the experience.
Yeah, I'm well past all the warning signs and more and I'm learning all what you've learned already.
Short of running for the hills and turning into a jerk, what would be your advice on re-setting the rules and getting back to this delicate point in time where it was just arms-length fun without drama? I did not recognize this point and now it tipped over so I'm trying to find a way to find that balance again.
What would be the best approach and angle based on your experience?
I'm sure that others would appreciate the advice as well. If they don't need it now, they will need it sooner or later if they are hooked on Pinay flavours.
JJB[/QUOTE]
JJB,
Thats the trade off for the GFE thing I guess.
I suggest you cool it for a bit with any girl thats getting too clingy or dramatic.
Be nice about it but no need to make excuses. They are big girls and can handle it. Just say you feel you are becoming too close and that you are not really looking for a girlfriend. Only fun.
Also, look outside the current group for fun. If you get too caught up in a particular circle, there is a tendency to get involved in all their issues. It happens even if you try to stay out of it.
If you see a particular group too many times its normal for them or you to develop some feelings or simply become too involved. If that is not what you want, then expand your options. It makes it easier to keep things simple and, just look around you... There is PLENTY to go around.
Best to have 2 or 3 unrelated regulars if you can manage it. Ive had lots of success with waitresses, shop girls, office girls etc. And its not only the ones with problems. Even the middle class girls with reasonably good jobs and no big problems are up for a bit of fun.
If you are looking for NSA fun, avoid any personal discussions.
If you encourage that kind of thing, you only have yourself to blame if a girl falls for you or starts to think there is more to your relationship than just fun and financial contribution for services rendered.
Make it clear what you want and expect. You can still be a nice guy about it and not offend anyone.
Filipinas fall in and out of love easily. This is true. But if they REALLY love you... they are in for the long haul, so best not let it get to that stage if thats not what you want.
It can be very dangerous and painful.
You might be surprised at how practical and tough these girls can be.
Once they get past the good girl act (I'm not like other girls), they will realize that you are only setting them straight in order not to hurt them later.
Filipino guys are very good at all the romantic crap and know how to get a girl in bed easily. They are also good at running away. This is why most girls will be ok if you tell them very honestly what you like or dont like and what they in turn can expect from you. Your rules. Its a personal thing and different for everyone. Your rules and mine might be very different. Whatever works for you.
And stick to them.
Whilst you ought to always treat them with kindness and respect, remember that they probably have been through stuff that you or I cannot begin to comprehend. You might initially bruise some egos or hurt some feelings at first, but give them some space to cool down and think and they will come back to you and tell you you were right and that you are a good friend.
Usually, your honesty will be appreciated even though by nature, filipinos do not like confrontation and in general will always try to avoid the direct approach.
Its frustrating at first, but you get used to it after a while and learn to read between the lines and understand the looks, silences moods body language etc.
Hey, I just learnt that "Did you eat" means "How are you?"
Go figure!
TIP: Visit the Philippines forum on ISG. Much to be learned from the guys there and can be applied here also.
:)
WB
PS: Sorry if this post was too long-winded and rambling.
I'm at home with the flu today and I have nothing better to do till my "nurse" gets here.
[QUOTE=Hanz Martin]Hi guys,
Would appreciate your advice on this. I'm a first timer in this. Going to Dubai to on way back and stayin there for 2 nights.
Never done it with a WG, so was wondering what is the risk of getting any kind of illness. Obviusly I'm nt looking for a 100% guruantee bt just a general view from you guys how safe it is to "do it".
I rly wanted to get some DATY and french kissing. I dnt have much medicine background. Bt probably you done some research urself and share your views whether that should be fine or nt.
Thanks[/QUOTE]
DON't DO IT!!
kidding...:)
For me, kissing and going down on a girl depends on her personal hygiene and how comfortable I feel about it at the time.
Seriously, if you don't feel right about it, don't do it. Simple.
The risk with a WG is no higher or lower than sex with any regular non WG you might pick up at Barasti on a Thursday night. Some of them are bigger ho's than many WG's I know.
4 years of serious action in Dubai and so far I haven't caught anything, but maybe I'm just lucky.
Question: Where do you intend to go hunting?
If its your first time, it will be interesting to hear how you plan on landing your first WG.
:)
WB
EDIT: I DID actually get Chlamydia once and that was from a non WG. See what I mean... Could have been avoided if I'd used a rubber, but I naively thought she would be "safe".
[QUOTE=Wiseblood 213]DON't DO IT!
Question: Where do you intend to go hunting?
If its your first time, it will be interesting to hear how you plan on landing your first WG.[/QUOTE]seriusly the past days I was just looking through this forum where the best pick up places are. I am looking for girls at 6-7 range (using the terminology being used here.) and budget is around 1800 AED for the 2 nights.
Having "researched" the forum somewhat It seems I am planning to start with the less expensive ones first and then work up my way to expensive ones. In case I find a reasonable but good looking one in cheaper one. And if not I'm guessing at the expensive bars I shud be lucky. Though happy to take any advice on board.
I'll probably start of with:
1. York. Reading through reasonable prices but not great talent
2. Rattlesnake. Reasonable to more expensive but more 6-7 rated girls
3. Premier. Apparently good talent their but 1000AED hr or something
4. Cyclone?. If I'm nt lucky with any of the above that should be the last resort.
What you think? If you got your "newbie guide list" that be appreciated
HM