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[QUOTE=Coupe66;1124834]So all you experienced Sosua and Puerto Plata mongers out there, is there any chance at all this girl was not looking for pay for play if she was hanging out in the Rumba bar? Is there any chance at all I might have seriously messed up a good thing with a decent girl?[/QUOTE]May be, may be not. I never was in Soshua, reading here before going there for a first look, but I have a lot of expirience in Russia and Ukraine. Working for a couple of years in St. Petersburg, a friend of mine married a working girl from one of the clubs, especially visited by foreigners. That was 9 years ago, now they live in Germany and have two children. And I want to bet for hundreds of sixpacks of good German beer, after marriage (in Russia) she stopped working.

Of course, I know of tens of stories with a different end.

In this respect, I think, women are not so different, whether it is Siberia or Caribbean.

Be a Man, man !

I saw this posted on "another board". This was VRY well written and I thought worth passing on to our members:

Originally Posted by Revolutionrock77

The purpose of this post is to share some simple advice that I think will help you to have a better time on your first mongering trips. YYMV, but his works for me.

When we monger, we take a trip to a place where we can pay to have sex with beautiful women at an affordable price. It is simple.

Many of the problems that I have seen come up, happen when guys try to deviate from that simple formula. The problem is when guys are focusing on chasing bargains, freebies, and hyper-negotiating, rather than just relaxing and enjoying the chicas.

I have been reading the board since 2004, and have learned a lot here. Using that info, out of 10 ten trips I have had few poor chica experiences. I bounce between Sosua, BlackBeards, and new places each trip. Because I got started at BB's, I feel pretty comfortable with 1, 500 ST / 2, 500 TLN pricing structure, and that has always seemed reasonable to me. (around $40/$70). I know what I am prepared to pay, and pretty much stick to that structure. So, I don't have to waste a lot of time worrying about prices or negotiating.

I have travelled with some friends once in a while, and they have had more problems. Most of these can be traced to trying to save a very small amount of money.

For what it's worth, here are suggestions that have worked well for me:

Don't try to save money by:

Lying

Misleading chicas to think that you might be interested in a LTR.

Trying to play the role of a boyfriend.

Giving gifts.

Just like when you are back home, it is best to give gifts only when you want nothing in return. It's not necessary at all. If you really feel compelled to give something, why not just give a small tip for great service, rather than a gift bag full of junk.

Be decisive: don't take up a lot of her time if you don't have the intention of going with her. If you let her hang with you on your lap for hours at the club, you are implying that she will get your business. Don't waste her time or yours if you're not interested.

Pay the going rate; pay what you consider fair. No more, no less.

Know what you want to pay in advance. Be upfront, tell what you are willing to pay. If she doesn't accept, move on.

Instead of gifts, you can improve performance chemistry as follows:

Be clean.

Look and smell good.

Be a gentleman.

Be respectful.

Be kind.

Be fun.

Have a good time.

Don't go on vacation unless you have enough money to do it without too much worry.

You can treat the girls nicely and show them a good time without being a sucker. There is a difference.

Good luck and happy travels.

That all depends on what is in the bag. Cosmetics are fairly expensive here for the chicas but they are a necessary part of their overhead. Because it is something they actually need and want it will be appreciated. Either as part of the payment or as a propina incentive. I have seen guys use it both ways and the chicas are always happy.

I woke up early and went to breakfast. After breakfast I headed to a claro store because I needed a cellphone and I needed to contact my girl coming from santo domingo to spend 2 days with me at the resort. I walked to a claro vendor, run by a german guy, and he wanted to charge me 500 american for a phone! I said no pesos right? He laughed. I walked a little futher down the street and my usual barry saunder jook moves, stiff arm and spin moves to aviod hard puta that wouldn't accept um momento for an answer. Tons of women on the street and ultimately I found my self fustrated because I don't know which one to get. It was like playing thats my car on the porch. I found a claro store in the direction of la passion and CMP. Before I could say yes I need a phone a dark skin beauty walked by the store. I chased her ass down literally! She was smoking hot. Tall dark chocolate, long hair and a real coke bottle shape and a big ass! She took me to her room which was connected to a outside bar / club a few blocks away from the claro store. She bathed and we got to it. SHe did it all head with and with condom, tea bagging, doggystyle, cow girl, missionary style and a hand job. When it was done I gave her 40 american. We never discussed price but I figured that was enough. She laugh and said ten more? She also spoke perfect english. I left and she pointed into the direction of an orange store across from a gas station.

No cellphone without your passport was the word of the hour and I began my walk by to casa marina to bathe and retrive it. I saw the gucci girl and she took me to claro and put the phone in her name. Phone was 640 pesos. She then pulled me into the nail salon across from new garden. I went with them. Got a manicure and a pedicure. She told me her life story and how much she liked me and wanted to be with me. Thats cool. She wanted to cook for me. I said I need to run back to my hotel and she made me promise to only be 30 minutes. 45 minutes later I was still laying on my bed and she texted and called me a 100 times. I jumped on motochonco and headed towards la passions. Her friends spotted me sneaking by :P

La Passions has set prices and refuse to budge. I had 2250 pesos and they would only offer a BJ and massage. FUck that! I left and headed back towards CMP. Nope! Not open until 4pm saids the really cool older white guy at the bar. Tons of women on the street but who. I'm like a dog chasing his tail. I'm not getting anything accomplished. I see one I like talk to her but before I can finish a sentence I see a better. I repeated that nonsense for about an hour! I eventually headed back to the salon with the gucci girl. New garden's selection of chicas were disapointing. I only found the same two. Gucci girl wants to be in love and she doesn't want me to leave so her friends were assigned to trail me. I went back to the resort and ate lunch. Can't trail me there. Quick nap then it was about 4 so I headed to la passions again. This time with 2250 pesos and 20 american which is 740 pesos when converted. Well She wanted to offer 30 pesos per dollar. GOodbye la passions! CMP was open. Remember the light brown cutie that lost out to the lite skin beauty? Well she was back but in a skimpier dress and man. I was in heaven! 2200 pesos for the service. TOns of fotos and video she also BBJCIM. She was the best. Big soft cotton booty. She was young maybe 19? I climaxed and left. No propina mami.

My santo domingo girl was 2 hours away and I was ready for another round. Extendz you have a spokes person. I walked home. Washed ate and watched Scarface. Gucci girl called me and we met up at her house. She told me what she did for a living. She was a puta. Surprise! A woman that lives in sosua was a puta! I told her I wanted to make love to her but she changed her lovey dovey attitude to 2000 for 2 hours and 3000 pesos for all night. I was shocked! She also spent 40 minutes telling me how she like me and I'm handsome but she got rent due. Well I honestly didn't want to pay her. Oddly enough I felt a connect with her so I kissed her hand and left. She was silent. Rushed to Casa marina to eat and chill before my santo domingo chica arrive. My gucci girl called and said I can always come to her house and be with her, money or no money. Went to the receptionist and told him that I had a girl coming to the resort to be with me and he asked was she dominican. After I said yes he freaked out like I said there's a bomb on the plane. He went on for 20 minutes about how she's my responsibility and that dominicans are fast and that once I pay I can get the money back.

Did any of you guys have girls come and out at casa marina? I saw older white guys with hot girls and no one argued with them. I'm 28.

She arrived with smiles and hugs. Very petite cutie with a big smile. The receptionist lectured her as I went to get the money out the safe. When I returned she was alittle upset so I gave him a piece of my mind and he didn't open his mouth again. She unpacked and we ate dinner. Then walked around, had some drinks held hands. I remember what I think BBQ ribs said. If you try to hold her hand and she hesitate then you got to work for the booty. Well she held my hand and I still worked for the booty. Went to bed, tickled, cuddled, biting each other but no sex.

Coupe66 I had the same experience with the gucci girl. Wait for my final day report. But yeah the samething happened to me dude. Meet a chica she was sweet then bam. I don't know what happened?

Day 2 was awesome but not as many girls as I wanted

[QUOTE=Oakie;1125039]... now I send money (within a strict budget) on a regular basis and she stays in her home town with Bambina, Momma and a host of family ... finding an island girl who is totally devoted, just like in the movies![/QUOTE]Is this post supposed to be a joke?

The bars are flowing with girls, and they are asking 2500-3000 pesos average. So when you take them they all say "no leche poppi, I tired." The best girls I find are the haitians. Fuck the dominican girls and their lazy ases!

[QUOTE=Charles Pooter;1125107]Is this post supposed to be a joke?[/QUOTE]Nah, not at all!

It's the same relationship I have with the makers of Presidente, or my cell phone company.

They provide a product and a service, that I'm happy to pay for and enjoy immensely.

It's a win / win.

If the product goes bad, I switch brands.

(If some folks want to complain all the time about what they get for their money, that's their problem, not mine)

Maybe you don"t quite understand capitalism?

My chica sure does :)

[QUOTE=Coupe66; 1124834]Hi guys, I have been in Sosua since the start of February, with a 5 day break in between in Santago. I will make a full posting of my trip here and all my exploits when I go home in a week. In the meantime I would like to ask some advice from all you mongers more experienced than me in the ways of these Dominican girls. On Monday I came back from Santiago, pretty tired from the Metro bus throwing me around. I had a nap in the early evening to get some energy back, then headed downtown at around 10pm. Instead of going into the usual bars, I went accross the road to Rumba Bar. After a quick scan of the place I saw a girl, who in my eyes was absolutely gorgeous. She was sitting rather shyly further back in the bar with her cousin. Anyway, I summoned up the courage to go over to her to say Hi, and she was quite friendly back to me. Anyway, I have to say that I have never had such a fantatic 'first date' with a girl in my life, we got on like a house on fire, she spoke some English with the cutest accent, and we talked for almost 4 hours with never a mention of money, going back to my hotel or whatever. We had some incredible chemistry. She eventually left with her cousin at around 2 am, I had of course got her contact details. By the way, she was 22, paler skinned, petite, curvy, and looked more Columbian to me than Dominican. I could hardly sleep as I thought I may well have met the woman of my dreams. The next day I did not get up until 2 pm, and had missed both a text and a call from her. Anyway, I stumbled around the afternoon in Sosua half asleep and punch drunk on love, with images of her as my future in my mind! I eventually pretty stupidly texted her back, saying we should both think about it a bit, because I was totally nuts about her etc, instead of just casually putting her off for a day. She texted back saying she did not believe I was alone, which kind of annoyed me because I was alone and had been totally honest with her the night before, ie had told her how many women I had been with here, but was looking for a serious girlfriend, and was not married etc. All of which were true. Anyway, by the following day I had turned it all over in my mind a bit and decided I had to see her again, so phoned her up. She was driving to Sosua by car to go to a girlfriends house, and said she was tired from a long day but agreed to meet me at a small restaurant / bar in Sosua where she used to work.

Anyway, I was slightly nervous meeting her, as you would meeting any girl on a second date after such a fantastic first date. However, when I met her, it was like meeting another girl, she was totally different from our first meeting, pretty distant, indifferent and casual, she said things to me like all the guys here say they adore a girl just to get her into bed, and then go home and forget about them, which again really annoyed me because like you may have guessed I really liked this girl! Her cousin also seemed pretty distant and bored, when on the Monday night she was also great fun. Anyway, we then headed down to Rumba bar again where I bought us drinks and then seriously felt like just dumping them as I was so crushed by how she was acting towards me compared to the first meeting, and even mentioned as much to her. This seemed to regain her interest level, and our evening improved somewhat afterwards, but she was much less tactile than on the first date and would not let me even give her the smallest kiss. I told her if she comes out again to please be more open-minded and open hearted, as she was on the Monday, which she agreed, and as I walked them over to a taxi, which they paid for, she was checking with me, 'So when are we going to meet tomorrow' etc, like she was really interested. She also said for us to meet alone, and somewhere else than Sosua.

Anyway, from the moment I walked off I was pretty pissed off with how she had treated me in general that night, that I had spent all my energy and efforts trying to convince her that I am a good guy, and telling her my life story, which was pretty draining. I walked back to Classico's, had a beer to drown my sorrows, checked out some of the chicks there with no real interest in them though, and then headed home alone. The next day I decided not to call her, as she did not deserve my attention after the previous night. Anyway, come about 9 pm I was feeling pretty guilty, so decided to e-mail her instead, saying that meeting her had been amazing, but that she was so indifferent to me on Wednesday, and she acted like she did not even want to be there, so that I did not see the point in going out again if that was the case. I also said that she was always questioning me and my intentions, but that I never questioned her's but that maybe I should.

It is only now a couple of days later that I am beginning to look at what happened in another light and with a bit more realism. When I met her I never dreamt she was a working girl, she did not look like one or act like one, and she did not seem to want anything from me. She told me she had even been to church that day, and that her and her cousin were both bored sitting at home in their appartment, so she decided to come to Sosua for the night. But then again, let me try to look at it from the perspective I do not really want to. Firstly I have never seen her or her cousin in either Classico's, the Merengue Club or Latino's. However in the last 4 days she came to Sosua twice, she worked here before, knows the bar staff in Rumba bar, had a very short denim skirt on, she has no job at the moment, but has money to pay for Taxi's and drinks in relatively expensive bars, has two cell phones, and would only give me her e-mail address after I asked for it several times, which is not even in her name, and I cannot even find her on Facebook! When she came out on Wednesday they were also both mysteriously visiting a girlfriend in Sosua. She said she was tired on Wednesday from shopping all day and getting her hair done, but to be honest looking back, she acted more like she was tired and somewhat depressed from getting shagged all day for money! Anyway, she did not call me either or reply to my e-mail from yesterday yet either, I don't know what I expected.

So all you experienced Sosua and Puerto Plata mongers out there, is there any chance at all this girl was not looking for pay for play if she was hanging out in the Rumba bar? Is there any chance at all I might have seriously messed up a good thing with a decent girl? Should I bother calling her again, or will she just mess up my head worse than it is at the moment? I am not sure what to do or say if I run into her again at the Rumba bar or elsewhere, ignore her or tell her she is amazing?

I am sorry this story has little to do with sex, but it is about Sosua and what this place can do to your thoughts. I can imagine some of you guys feeling totally horny in the cold wastelands of Noth America and Europe just associate this place with sex and more sex, and are thinking 'What is this guy talking about? ' But when you are here for several weeks with as much sex as you like, stange things can happen to your thoughts here in paradise. I certainly did not go out on Monday night looking to fall in love, that is for sure! Anyway, I will have plenty of exploits to post on my end of trip report. To be honest, I am embarrased to say that since I met her, I lost all interest in shagging any other ladies since Monday, until today when my loins independently decided they finally needed some action despite the state of my thoughts. So I called over a sexy lady I had met before at Classico's for some afternoon action at my hotel. This was fun, but I eventually even told her about this girl I had met and even asked her what she thought! Anyway, I would be happy to find out anything that will help me get my head sorted out about this girl, from her being a total angel to someone telling me they know her and that she works all day at Blackbeards! Sorry to be such a sad case in this mongering paradise! [/QUOTE]I recommend this movie to all mongers:

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[QUOTE=Coupe66; 1124834]Hi guys, I have been in Sosua since the start of February, with a 5 day break in between in Santago. I will make a full posting of my trip here and all my exploits when I go home in a week. In the meantime I would like to ask some advice from all you mongers more experienced than me in the ways of these Dominican girls. On Monday I came back from Santiago, pretty tired from the Metro bus throwing me around. I had a nap in the early evening to get some energy back, then headed downtown at around 10pm. Instead of going into the usual bars, I went accross the road to Rumba Bar. After a quick scan of the place I saw a girl, who in my eyes was absolutely gorgeous. She was sitting rather shyly further back in the bar with her cousin. Anyway, I summoned up the courage to go over to her to say Hi, and she was quite friendly back to me. Anyway, I have to say that I have never had such a fantatic 'first date' with a girl in my life, we got on like a house on fire, she spoke some English with the cutest accent, and we talked for almost 4 hours with never a mention of money, going back to my hotel or whatever. We had some incredible chemistry. She eventually left with her cousin at around 2 am, I had of course got her contact details. By the way, she was 22, paler skinned, petite, curvy, and looked more Columbian to me than Dominican. I could hardly sleep as I thought I may well have met the woman of my dreams. The next day I did not get up until 2 pm, and had missed both a text and a call from her. Anyway, I stumbled around the afternoon in Sosua half asleep and punch drunk on love, with images of her as my future in my mind! I eventually pretty stupidly texted her back, saying we should both think about it a bit, because I was totally nuts about her etc, instead of just casually putting her off for a day. She texted back saying she did not believe I was alone, which kind of annoyed me because I was alone and had been totally honest with her the night before, ie had told her how many women I had been with here, but was looking for a serious girlfriend, and was not married etc. All of which were true. Anyway, by the following day I had turned it all over in my mind a bit and decided I had to see her again, so phoned her up. She was driving to Sosua by car to go to a girlfriends house, and said she was tired from a long day but agreed to meet me at a small restaurant / bar in Sosua where she used to work.

Anyway, I was slightly nervous meeting her, as you would meeting any girl on a second date after such a fantastic first date. However, when I met her, it was like meeting another girl, she was totally different from our first meeting, pretty distant, indifferent and casual, she said things to me like all the guys here say they adore a girl just to get her into bed, and then go home and forget about them, which again really annoyed me because like you may have guessed I really liked this girl! Her cousin also seemed pretty distant and bored, when on the Monday night she was also great fun. Anyway, we then headed down to Rumba bar again where I bought us drinks and then seriously felt like just dumping them as I was so crushed by how she was acting towards me compared to the first meeting, and even mentioned as much to her. This seemed to regain her interest level, and our evening improved somewhat afterwards, but she was much less tactile than on the first date and would not let me even give her the smallest kiss. I told her if she comes out again to please be more open-minded and open hearted, as she was on the Monday, which she agreed, and as I walked them over to a taxi, which they paid for, she was checking with me, 'So when are we going to meet tomorrow' etc, like she was really interested. She also said for us to meet alone, and somewhere else than Sosua.

Anyway, from the moment I walked off I was pretty pissed off with how she had treated me in general that night, that I had spent all my energy and efforts trying to convince her that I am a good guy, and telling her my life story, which was pretty draining. I walked back to Classico's, had a beer to drown my sorrows, checked out some of the chicks there with no real interest in them though, and then headed home alone. The next day I decided not to call her, as she did not deserve my attention after the previous night. Anyway, come about 9 pm I was feeling pretty guilty, so decided to e-mail her instead, saying that meeting her had been amazing, but that she was so indifferent to me on Wednesday, and she acted like she did not even want to be there, so that I did not see the point in going out again if that was the case. I also said that she was always questioning me and my intentions, but that I never questioned her's but that maybe I should.

It is only now a couple of days later that I am beginning to look at what happened in another light and with a bit more realism. When I met her I never dreamt she was a working girl, she did not look like one or act like one, and she did not seem to want anything from me. She told me she had even been to church that day, and that her and her cousin were both bored sitting at home in their appartment, so she decided to come to Sosua for the night. But then again, let me try to look at it from the perspective I do not really want to. Firstly I have never seen her or her cousin in either Classico's, the Merengue Club or Latino's. However in the last 4 days she came to Sosua twice, she worked here before, knows the bar staff in Rumba bar, had a very short denim skirt on, she has no job at the moment, but has money to pay for Taxi's and drinks in relatively expensive bars, has two cell phones, and would only give me her e-mail address after I asked for it several times, which is not even in her name, and I cannot even find her on Facebook! When she came out on Wednesday they were also both mysteriously visiting a girlfriend in Sosua. She said she was tired on Wednesday from shopping all day and getting her hair done, but to be honest looking back, she acted more like she was tired and somewhat depressed from getting shagged all day for money! Anyway, she did not call me either or reply to my e-mail from yesterday yet either, I don't know what I expected.

So all you experienced Sosua and Puerto Plata mongers out there, is there any chance at all this girl was not looking for pay for play if she was hanging out in the Rumba bar? Is there any chance at all I might have seriously messed up a good thing with a decent girl? Should I bother calling her again, or will she just mess up my head worse than it is at the moment? I am not sure what to do or say if I run into her again at the Rumba bar or elsewhere, ignore her or tell her she is amazing?

I am sorry this story has little to do with sex, but it is about Sosua and what this place can do to your thoughts. I can imagine some of you guys feeling totally horny in the cold wastelands of Noth America and Europe just associate this place with sex and more sex, and are thinking 'What is this guy talking about? ' But when you are here for several weeks with as much sex as you like, stange things can happen to your thoughts here in paradise. I certainly did not go out on Monday night looking to fall in love, that is for sure! Anyway, I will have plenty of exploits to post on my end of trip report. To be honest, I am embarrased to say that since I met her, I lost all interest in shagging any other ladies since Monday, until today when my loins independently decided they finally needed some action despite the state of my thoughts. So I called over a sexy lady I had met before at Classico's for some afternoon action at my hotel. This was fun, but I eventually even told her about this girl I had met and even asked her what she thought! Anyway, I would be happy to find out anything that will help me get my head sorted out about this girl, from her being a total angel to someone telling me they know her and that she works all day at Blackbeards! Sorry to be such a sad case in this mongering paradise! [/QUOTE]Go for it, Galldarn! Stop playing those pretentious games that you've read somewhere on the net or something, just be yourself and go see what is there in it really.

Asking questions to the whole world but her won't give you answers to the questions that REALLY matter to you right now; it counts for fuck-all actually; also, fast forward a bunch of years from now you don't want to be in the position of "what if?" so don't waste your time and go for this girl already.

Remember we are not here forever, and neither are you going to be in Sosua forever, and even if you do, she ain't going to leave the door open for you forever (especially if you keep on playing stupid games without proper cognition of cause regarding the ins and outs of what you do; keeping the cool and keeping the girl on her toes is all good, but how much you can push it all depends on what kind of grip have you got on her already; it is natural for human beings to kinda "step back" a bit at a certain stage of knowing each other to check whether or not the potential partner is REALLY interested, but try not to fall victim of this!) so long and short of it is try and get in and find out yourself what the girl is about.

Be yourself, judge the situation and follow your gut feelings.

Oh yeah, and Good Luck to you!

Keep us posted!

Bless

woke with my santo domingo chica and we proceeded to breakfast. after breakfast she wanted to go to the beach. beach towels, changed into swim trunks and lets go. we had fun. diving into the huge waves, getting wiped out sand all on our clothes it was great. i laid there and let the waves crash into me a few times. it was this moment when it felt like a tropical vacation. we couldn't stop laughing. we went to the pool side shower and rinsed off why ahora para la piscina. this is where it really got fun. splashing each other. she jumped on my back and we swim around giggling. everyone there noticed how fun we were having and started laughing with us. she wanted to sun and i needed to all gucci girl. there are too many mofo at these resorts trying to sell memberships to exclusive clubs that aren't that good. why the hell would i pay 8 thousand dollars for the ability to come there 2 times a year when the whole trip is 900 american for me? the hook is you take take your novia to america. the embassy grants the visa and passport for two weeks no question asked. well i wasnt sold but the shit held me up from seeing gucci girl and my santo domingo chica.

well claro's service went down and i couldn't recieve or make calls. kcuf you claro! my santo domingo chica and i went back to the room showered and bam! it kicked off. i had to tickle her a bit. she likes to be chased. i began giving her oral and domincan women are extremely spicy so her libido kicked into high gear. multiple orgasms? she was moaning and jumping around like crazy. he oral game on me was wow. doggstyle? yep and she took it like a trooper. when it ended my condom was soaked in her ejaculation. i flushed it and she showered. bam right to sleep. i silently showered and got new condoms and money and proceeded to gucci girls house. she was in the shower so i hung around. she came out in a towel. we talked but she had a cilent to go see and she wanted me to stay. he actual words" i'm sorry j your a handsome guy and all but i got bills to pay ok. i'm a get 2500 pesos for 20 minutes of work watch. i'll call you later." she left before me and jumped a motochonco. i walked back to the resort and my chica was sleep. woke her up and we went to an internet cafe. facebook time! before we could make it to the cafe two hard dominican puta's trapped me in one of the haitian shops and molested me right infront of my santo domingo chica. i damn near had to crawl over the table to get out. leaving the shop wasnt no better. hard puta swarmed me like i was the punt returner. i said um momento and snapped a picture of one of them. and said tarde nosotros hacer la amor ok. got her number. oh she grabbed some ass before i could escape lol. afterwards lunch, more tickling and more sarface in spanish! what a funny as movie! how could you get a scar like that eatting pussy?

i told her i had to meet my migo and i needed a minute. she was cool with that. i took a motochonco to to their usual spot and spotted ice la fox. she said she in the bathroom. i waited she aproached and ignored me. i lifted her up and said come on lets go to your house. she stressed that she needed 10000 pesos to pay her rent. i had 2000 on me. go to her house and the fight begun. can i wash my pussy? go head! can i brush my teeth? sure. these generic condoms dominicans use are fucking cheap! i had magnums. tossed her's. she wanted to see what pictures of her i took or she would delete them. she making threats? fine you see? now she's online msn'ing it up. then she got a call. i'm leaving good bye. kissed her hand. speed walked to a store for a 50 pesos for a liter and a half cola and headed to the resort. my chica was ready to eat. mingled chilled, saw a magic show, ate relaxed. she wanted to model for me. 40 pictures in various outfits. fun! lets go to classicos. ok at 11. i passed out watching king of ny. what a dark violent movie. i couldn't remain sleep because walken and fishburn were gunning someone day every 5 minutes.

10:30 I'm up lets shower and go. Where's classicos. The streets were empty. Found Latinos and we entered. 1000's of women there. EYeballing me, watching, waiting, like lions LOL. Some 8's and 7's. Well we left and found classicos. 150 pesos to enter? We went back to latinos. More women have arrived. THe DJ was from NY and asked if I wanted to hear some hiphop sure. RIck Ross was playing. A few older black guys but no men in latinos. My chica had a few drinks and texted me that she was ready to go home. Dropped her off. I had to meet my buddy at classico. I arrived at latinos first. No 9's just a hard puta that the DJ recommended. Why did he do that? She trailed me all night. WTF! I dashed out of latinos into classicos. THere she was again and even harder puta. Tons of them. SOme 8's a 9 here and there no stunters! Well I ran to the bathroom to avoid all the hard puta and remain there for ten minutes. Guess what? They were waiting for me. WTF! Took my drink pass and she used it. I sat down and she whispered 1000 pesos papi. Um momento. I move another puta grab me. Even rougher. Um momento. Ass slapping and grabbing, hand grabbing, being felt up. I'm not a piece of meat! I sit down again. More hard puta jeez! I spot a blonde cutie check out time! She wanted 2000 pesos. No. Spoted a tall cutie 1000 pesos ok um momento. She disapeared with an older white guy. Damn. I walked out side to catch my breathe and I saw something. WHAT DID I SEE?

The Dj gave me some advice. Ok. I went back finally I grabbed a Gabrielle Union looking puta and 1800 pesos and we are doing it. I'm rushing to make it back to my chica at the hotele. Finished. She was pretty stiff bbj and cow. I masterbated and she cleaned me up. A few pictures and motochonco to casa marina. Scarface put me to sleep.

Woke up next day. Some very good sex with the santo domingo chica and I made a call to gucci girl. Can I see you before I go? She didn't answer the phone and we never saw eachother again. After sex we had breakfast cleaned up and it was 11. She gave me a hug and kiss and walked off into the sunset. I watched until I could no longer see her motochonco anymore. I walked down to Gucci girls house. No answer. Went back to casa marina and my taxi was there. Choked up. Goodbye Sosua!

[QUOTE=Mr Gogo;1125050]Bravo Oakie, its your life and deniro. Besides, what anyone else thinks about your happiness doesn't matter. I see alot of old grouchy guys mad because they never found happiness. Keep living your dream. You and your girl can always double date with Noami and her huband LOL. If I see two couples riding around Sosua on new shinny bikes, with a transvestite blowing a whistle, I will wave Hello, to you (not Noami) LMAO.[/QUOTE]Thanks GG, you guys have schooled me well!

I think it works because what we give to each other is voluntary, I make no demands of her personally. She knows she is totally free do whatever she wants."Usted es libre", I'm always telling her. When I go down there I tell her I'll call her when I get checked in, but no, she insists on meeting me at the airport (at least a 9 hour publico, bus, publico then bus, publico again, ride from where she lives). Same when I leave. She could take a lot of shortcuts and still get my money, but no.

Although I ask nothing of her directly, I know what I want from a relationship, and what I don't want. Reliability, trust, no lies or excuses. I like to include guys in our circle of friends as well as women, and I don't want her flirting with guys that want to F*k her. When she's with me, she mine and its always naturally understood by everybody. If she did get caught up with anybody else, I'd be happy to walk away and wish her well, and thank god for those two years.

She understands these things instictively, it comes naturally, and there's absolutely no effort involved on both our parts. That comfort level makes for a fun week's vacation for both of us, with no reservations about where we can go, or what we can do.

Shit, if even one of my wives or long term relationships had as much savvy as her, I would still be married. I remember if we partied usually only one of us would have a good time, and the other would usually be wanting to leave, or be pissed the next day.

A guy knows instictively if a relationship is working, if actually she's enjoying the time together or just going through the motions. The signs are usually everywhere, even if some guys choose to ignore them. So, we have no reason to argue and the only thing she's ever done is go quiet if I pay too much attention to one of her hot friends or relatives. But in the main, I treat her with the respect I expect from her, and she always rises to it.

I'm under no illusions, and she's coming up for a month in May, which will be a deal maker or a deal breaker. If it doesn't go smooth, as I've said before that will be my exit strategy, and I'll be back in beautiful Sosua looking for pussy, but no more relationships!

And you mongers won't have to put up with my "Dear Abby" shit anymore.

I'll be in Boca Chica in March, and I'll try to post something informative and on topic about the general scene there.

Enjoy the pictures. Gucci girl and friends can be found directly across from el flow and Latinos at that open bar / restaurant.

THe hard puta I see usually on the corner of the baseball field down from new garden.

Oakie. I have a similar relation in Rio de Janeiro. 10 years ago I met a student which was working as a semi-pro to ear money to survive. After she finished her training as a dentist she started to work in a clinic . But our relation survived all this time and I see her 5 - 6 times a year when I am in Rio. I usually stay with her (if I am not busy somewhere else) and it is a wonderful and trusted friendship. She knows I have also other relationas and she had other relations on and off. But when I am in Rio she is there only for me. Strange? Yes. But we have no intention to stop this.

During the first two years I helped her out with some small payments (small for me at least) but later she was never asking again. We go out together. I pick up the restaurant bill, but I do not have to rent a car, I take hers, I do not have to rent an apartment etc.

For sure in life you meet Piranhas and also decent ladies. I was obviously lucky.

Keep on going and have a look what life has in store for you.

Carlos Primeros

[QUOTE=Oakie;1125123]It's the same relationship I have with the makers of Presidente[/QUOTE]So you send a cheque off every month to the brewers even though you may be in the States and not drinking their product? I don't think so.

[QUOTE=Oakie;1125123]Maybe you don"t quite understand capitalism?[/QUOTE]This is nothing whatever to do with capitalism. Prostitution and scams have been around for thousands of years before capitalism evolved.