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[QUOTE=Amavida;1627792]You need 'pesonality' & perseverance.

AV.[/QUOTE]LuvAsianTang,

I think he means personality. And Amavida is right. Giving a tip does lead to better results.

[QUOTE=SolidGold;1630671]LuvAsianTang,

I think he means personality. And Amavida is right. Giving a tip does lead to better results.[/QUOTE]He actually wrote "PESONALITY" (without the R), so you guys are being a bit too literal and missed the joke.

Thanks for the clarification RK. We all should remember that this is International SG. The lingua franca is English (lucky me), but we get a lot of great contributions from people who are not native English speakers. I wish the cliches like "LBFM" or "LBFMFOR" and "PesoNality" would disappear but they won't.

[QUOTE=RedKilt;1630851]He actually wrote "PESONALITY" (without the R), so you guys are being a bit too literal and missed the joke.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=XMan;1631001]Thanks for the clarification RK. We all should remember that this is International SG. The lingua franca is English (lucky me), but we get a lot of great contributions from people who are not native English speakers. I wish the cliches like "LBFM" or "LBFMFOR" and "PesoNality" would disappear but they won't.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your considiration X but "pesonality" I chuckled quite a lot from even if I am not a native english speaker. Many of you fine native contributors write with a humoristic pen and even if I don't pick up every small twist I understand the most from the context it is put under. No worries.

Since I run a fake facebookprofile I have not paid so much attention into various settings. Well that is about to come to an end now. Big commotion during my sleep last night as one girl I bedded in my last Makati stay have contacted and befriended almost all girls having made comments in my pics etc etc. Meaning she have realy looked through my account. During the night she atleast found out she was not the only one I did fuck. Some of the other girls have also reacted and asked me "what happens have you met other girls huuuh"? "Huuuh, me so sad now", etc ect. Well I keep quite until this storm passes while I change my settings so no more comments are allowed in my postings. My "friends"(aka fuckbuddies) are allready hidden ofcourse but I fucked up permitting comments. Just a tip if others encounter seemingly simular problems.

[QUOTE=Skogis;1631006]Since I run a fake facebookprofile I have not paid so much attention into various settings. [/QUOTE]In having hundreds of millions of female members, wastebook's ubiquity, accessibility and desirability as a "love connector" is understandable, but it is not the same as a dating site. The dating sites are more like how gmail and yahoo are (or used to be before they sought to become wastebook like) in that messaging is private. Wastebook is about being public, about managing "your brand", about marketing yourself. Yes, it makes some concessions to "privacy", but privacy is not the default, and how wastebook defines "privacy" may be very different from your expectation. Now you'll go through the hassle of figuring out the settings and applying them, and sometime later wastebook will make a change and it'll all be open again. For a single guy the consequences of an info spill aren't too severe, but for a guy who has a partner the same spill could be disastrously life changing.

Since I haven't been abl to use DIA form stupid ass Russia I have been on Badoo the last few days. The hunting there is not bad. I am in contact with a few cute girls and have exchanged wechat / whattsap / viber info. I think I may have some dates lined up too. So all is good.

Had kind of a weird / exciting experience today. Met this girl "Mitchie" on Badoo and she tells me right away to meet her on Viber. She did nto even look at my profile. Asks if I will buy her some perfume. I ask, what do I get in return and she sends me the following pics and even a short video (I'm not sure if I can attach it) I also send her a pic of me in boxers (no head shot) and she says she likes it.

She asked me to buy her a pair of sketchers which I will give to her when we meet in Manila. I'll be in Shanghai soon and figure I an pick up a pair for $20 or less.

So what do you all think? Is it a scam of some sort? Will I end up in a bathtub full of ice with my kidneys missing, and out one pair of Sketchers (LOL).

Has anyone run across her on Badoo? Her account there is still up if you want to give a try. Mitchie, 27, from Manila.

I defer to your experience since these are not waters I've tested before.

Stay horny my friends.

Uncle V.

[QUOTE=UncleVolodya;1631085]Since I haven't been abl to use DIA form stupid ass Russia I have been on Badoo the last few days. The hunting there is not bad. I am in contact with a few cute girls and have exchanged wechat / whattsap / viber info. I think I may have some dates lined up too. So all is good.[/QUOTE]The problem with DIA may not be with the Russian servers (I see you posted elsewhere that you already unsuccessfully tried via a VPN), but with DIA itself. RTTF here a little as many of us have had problems with DIA recently. If I do re-open an account with them, I'll just wait until I arrive and I'll be sure to avoid using keywords in my profile that seem to get people banned/blocked.

[QUOTE]Had kind of a weird / exciting experience today. Met this girl "Mitchie" on Badoo and she tells me right away to meet her on Viber. She did nto even look at my profile. Asks if I will buy her some perfume. I ask, what do I get in return and she sends me the following pics and even a short video (I'm not sure if I can attach it) I also send her a pic of me in boxers (no head shot) and she says she likes it.[/QUOTE]My experience is that a girl who doesn't look at your profile, within the first or second message wants to chat via Viber, YM, etc and starts asking you to buy her something is often a scammer. BUT she could be genuine and doesn't want to waste time (read money) if she's at a net caf.

[QUOTE]She asked me to buy her a pair of sketchers which I will give to her when we meet in Manila. I'll be in Shanghai soon and figure I an pick up a pair for $20 or less.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't waste my time, just give her a "donation" and let her buy her own. I never buy shoes for girl unless we're together; even if she tells you her shoe size they may not fit or they may not be the exact style she wants (WR will disagree as HE often buys one size fits all FMP's, but that's another story, LOL). Plus who needs the aggravation of lugging them around. If I bring any gifts at all, then I keep it to smaller items like inexpensive perfume, chocolate, etc.

[QUOTE]Will I end up in a bathtub full of ice with my kidneys missing, and out one pair of Sketchers (LOL).[/QUOTE]Nope, that only happens in Moscow and Brighton Beach (New York), LOL.

[QUOTE]Has anyone run across her on Badoo? [/QUOTE]I don't use Badoo, but don't rely solely on pics (from any dating site). Get her on a site like yahoo messenger where you can cam2 cam with her.

[QUOTE=UncleVolodya;1631085]
I defer to your experience since these are not waters I've tested before.[/QUOTE]First rule is: Always see the girl on WEBCAM LIVE and call her cell phone and speak to her at the same time you are looking at her.

This will filter out the vast majority of scams and problems which are usuallycoming from nigerians or ladyboys using fake photos. You will be amazed at the excuses for not getting on webcam with you.

[QUOTE=UncleVolodya;1631085]Met this girl "Mitchie" on Badoo...[/QUOTE]It is not the same person on all of the pictures, unless she made a hip replacement and surgery on her fanny. Fake.

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[QUOTE=Hutsori;1631070] <SNIP > Now you'll go through the hassle of figuring out the settings and applying them, and sometime later wastebook will make a change and it'll all be open again. For a single guy the consequences of an info spill aren't too severe, but for a guy who has a partner the same spill could be disastrously life changing.[/QUOTE]Facebook depends for its success on every post being magnified 100's of times.

The only way you can be sure that your posts will be safe is to have the security settings set to such levels that you are virtually the ONLY person who can see anything which, of course, defeats your purpose.

You have very little way of controlling how anyone with whom you have sent or received a message cannot see posts by other people.

As Huts says, if you want to be discreet, FB aka wastebook is not for you. Use dating sites instead.

Other then for viewing I rarely use WB, I have my privacy settings set to max, have 0 friends and use a photo of someone else who resembles me. The few times I've used it to contact a girl I've only used the "chat" feature to send them a message, which, as far I know, is completely private (am I wrong?). As soon as possible I move the conversation to another venue like YM, Viber, etc.

If girls I meet via other methods ask for my WB info, I'll give it to them, but I tell them that I never accept friend requests as there's too many hackers on WB and that I also like to keep my private life just that; private.

[QUOTE=PipJaeger;1631407]Other then for viewing I rarely use WB, I have my privacy settings set to max, have 0 friends and use a photo of someone else who resembles me. [/QUOTE]But you are easy to find on FB / WB Pip as your photo is easy to spot as looks so much like you LOL.

First of all me adressing my concerns regarding commotion in my Facebook (wastebook) account did not have anything to do about my personal privacy. That is well taken care of as my account is fake and except a few pics of a lookalike of me. Only girls able to find eachother through commenting my rather lame postings in this fake account was my main concerns. I am just waiting out the storm and if I loose some girls due to their findings, no big deal realy. As a mongerer you win some and loose some (the mongrial circle of life).

Anyway I have may have adressed this problem before (I am not sure) and I am realy curious if others have some insights or if this girl is a rare speciment of the phil breed. Lets say we have been chatting and by now fucking (repeat girl due to special bedskills) for quite some time. She know I am norwegian. What in the beginning amused me but now irritates me is that she still can not figure out the timedifference Norway vs Phils. It is 6 hrs differense (midnight my country, 6 am in phils). Almost everytime we chat, after initials "how are you", "did you eat your lunch", "howz your day" and "huuhs", she ask me "what time you have your place now". No I have started to just ask her to figure it out herself and she can contact me when she got the time right. Is she stupid (I think so)? Bcs I have had other femalecontacts managing this quite well. I can understand it is easy to mix up at times as long as many of our girls chat or entertain guys both from americas and europe.

To her defence she knows almost nothing except from shoesize, nailpolish and tablets. Thanks God I am only fucking her.

[QUOTE=Skogis;1631439 asked is she this stupid? Hi Skogi I can relate to what you are saying. These girls are not known for their intelligence (even tho I'm certain RK works with some fairly bright Pinays) but I have found this (simplicity thing) to be an advantage when concocting stories of my whereabouts and whoabouts. You are going to have to settle for a Western mate for any deep conversation. Just my. 02.