Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

Hey folks,

So I've been actively following the SA forum the past few months and it's heartening to see the sharing that's been going on off late and kudos to all brothers contributing. But alas, that does not change the incorrigible situation that has become the hallmark of SA India off late.

Everyone's talking about GPS girls nowadays and for a very good reason because when I spoke to a few brothers who use SA in Europe and North America, they told me that they could meet much hotter girls in Europe for €300 (8377;27 k) for the whole day which is actually equal to, if not less than what mediocre BLR GPS girls are quoting for a mere 4-5 hours.

I took a subscription in Jan end and goodness gracious did I regret it and how!

From girls exhibiting a supercilious disposition to not responding promptly to DM's to quoting GPS rates to dealing with WG's to nearly getting scammed, it was basically the whole shebang!

I did notice a few good profiles and connected with them but it was just mostly one sided convo from my end with little to no interest or reciprocation from their end.

I'm honestly exasperated with the downright Machiavellian and deceitful demeanour of SA birds in Blr and the subscription I took was a complete exercise in futility (I've already made a post about how two girls tried to scam me by asking me to buy them stuff).

Then I asked myself "If I had a plethora of options like people do in Europe / NA, would I be upset about chasing these girls to no avail? It was obviously a rhetorical question as I would have just ignored them and moved on to better profiles if I had the options.

That's when I had an epiphany and realized the odds were never in our favor to begin with! Acceptance of the situation is the only option we guys in India have.

It's just better to meet few good indies / SP girls and have our fun.

Sure, SA girls are classy, well educated and someone you can take on a date with and also go on vacations with. Sure SA girls are someone who you have an amazing bond and connection with that goes beyond just the sex and blossoms into a meaningful friendship with and hey, that's why we are all on this platform in the first place!

But when the situation in India is this woefully abysmal, it's better to just satisfy our physical needs and move on.

Peace out!

Any review on her? Pics look hot, ask is 15 k for a few hours but not sure how she is in bed.

Don't care if she is a WG or can't hold a conversation, only want good hot sex.

[QUOTE=MadHatter;2911297]So my Bombay adventure continues.

After a long day of meetings I had a couple of options lined up.

I was planning to meet A 37 yr old MILF.

Part 2: The night gets better.

I have a regular. A British MILF in Bombay. During this shitty meeting with the above. I texted her and told her I am in town as a surprise. She was free that evening so she quickly came over to the hotel and she went to the bar to have a drink and wait for me.

[/QUOTE]Buddy, care to share that 37 yrs old MILF sa link?

And the british MILF is she a companion for hire or just your friend and can't be shared?

[QUOTE=SeductiveChip;2911344]
That's when I had an epiphany and realized the odds were never in our favor to begin with! Acceptance of the situation is the only option we guys in India have.

It's just better to meet few good indies / SP girls and have our fun.

Sure, SA girls are classy, well educated and someone you can take on a date with and also go on vacations with. Sure SA girls are someone who you have an amazing bond and connection with that goes beyond just the sex and blossoms into a meaningful friendship with and hey, that's why we are all on this platform in the first place!

But when the situation in India is this woefully abysmal, it's better to just satisfy our physical needs and move on.

Peace out![/QUOTE]Totally agree. The last time I met someone really nice on SA be'lore, was back in 2019. Met just 2 since, then whom I've seen multiple times.
To find one classy well educated attractive one, requires us to message 200 (literally) girls, chat with 50+. I have found a few over my 10 years on SA India, but the effort is no longer worth it.

If one has to only satisfy a physical need, SA is not the platform for us.

[QUOTE=SeductiveChip;2911344]Hey folks,

So I've been actively following the SA forum the past few months and it's heartening to see the sharing that's been going on off late and kudos to all brothers contributing. But alas, that does not change the incorrigible situation that has become the hallmark of SA India off late.

Everyone's talking about GPS girls nowadays and for a very good reason because when I spoke to a few brothers who use SA in Europe and North America, they told me that they could meet much hotter girls in Europe for 300 (8377;27 k) for the whole day which is actually equal to, if not less than what mediocre BLR GPS girls are quoting for a mere 4-5 hours.

I took a subscription in Jan end and goodness gracious did I regret it and how!

From girls exhibiting a supercilious disposition to not responding promptly to DM's to quoting GPS rates to dealing with WG's to nearly getting scammed, it was basically the whole shebang!

I did notice a few good profiles and connected with them but it was just mostly one sided convo from my end with little to no interest or reciprocation from their end.

I'm honestly exasperated with the downright Machiavellian and deceitful demeanour of SA birds in Blr and the subscription I took was a complete exercise in futility (I've already made a post about how two girls tried to scam me by asking me to buy them stuff).

Then I asked myself "If I had a plethora of options like people do in Europe / NA, would I be upset about chasing these girls to no avail? It was obviously a rhetorical question as I would have just ignored them and moved on to better profiles if I had the options.

That's when I had an epiphany and realized the odds were never in our favor to begin with! Acceptance of the situation is the only option we guys in India have.

It's just better to meet few good indies / SP girls and have our fun.

Sure, SA girls are classy, well educated and someone you can take on a date with and also go on vacations with. Sure SA girls are someone who you have an amazing bond and connection with that goes beyond just the sex and blossoms into a meaningful friendship with and hey, that's why we are all on this platform in the first place!

But when the situation in India is this woefully abysmal, it's better to just satisfy our physical needs and move on.

Peace out![/QUOTE]Couldn't agree more. I moved to SA because I wanted a more meaningful connection with classier girl (s). I did meet a couple such. But to meet them one has to sift through almost 100 profiles. The efforts required to separate the wheat from the chaff is too much.

In my opinion all is not lost. But the ROI is extremely poor.

If you are reading this, here is what I wish you understood.

1. Based on our incomes (if you have a real job), our time is worth a lot of more than yours. Don't waste it by keeping us waiting. The same goes for replying to texts.

2. Don't play silly power games like 'you text me first' or 'I don't have tg, you download xyz'. You'll just piss us off, before we even start chatting.
It's the same when your profile has a list of things you don't want, but not why we should message you. Trashing men is not a good way to earn a lot from us.

3. There are 400 of you to choose from in Bangalore. It would be nice if you give me one reason to choose you. Like a sentence in your profile.

4. I know you can travel to me. It's because I'm paying and you don't have anything else to do. It costs me a lot less to meet people in my city.

5. When there are a large number of people texting me, I can't remember what you look like, based on a 5 second pic.

6. I can understand hiding your face in the profile, but if you are successful on seeking, I'm going to see you naked, so send your own private pics without enhancing them.

7. My membership is costly. My time is valuable. We both know why we are here. I like to get to the point. It saves our time if I know what allowance you expect, early in the chat.

8. I am paying you because I want to de-stress, not hear your personal problems.

9. Asking to be paid for the first coffee meet, is like asking to be paid to attend a job interview.

10. It not a good idea to be rude or sarcastic. Men dislike being insulted more than lost money.

Someone pin this post, can't agree more, women needs to understand just like you have so many options we men also have so many options in SA especially the ones who travel regularly and the nicer you talk to us the more you earn, no matter how hot you are we don't tolerate the quirky behaviour.

[QUOTE=Phil50;2911404]If you are reading this, here is what I wish you understood.

1. Based on our incomes (if you have a real job), our time is worth a lot of more than yours. Don't waste it by keeping us waiting. The same goes for replying to texts.

2. Don't play silly power games like 'you text me first' or 'I don't have tg, you download xyz'. You'll just piss us off, before we even start chatting.
It's the same when your profile has a list of things you don't want, but not why we should message you. Trashing men is not a good way to earn a lot from us.

3. There are 400 of you to choose from in Bangalore. It would be nice if you give me one reason to choose you. Like a sentence in your profile.

4. I know you can travel to me. It's because I'm paying and you don't have anything else to do. It costs me a lot less to meet people in my city.

5. When there are a large number of people texting me, I can't remember what you look like, based on a 5 second pic.

6. I can understand hiding your face in the profile, but if you are successful on seeking, I'm going to see you naked, so send your own private pics without enhancing them.

7. My membership is costly. My time is valuable. We both know why we are here. I like to get to the point. It saves our time if I know what allowance you expect, early in the chat.

8. I am paying you because I want to de-stress, not hear your personal problems.

9. Asking to be paid for the first coffee meet, is like asking to be paid to attend a job interview.

10. It not a good idea to be rude or sarcastic. Men dislike being insulted more than lost money.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SeductiveChip;2906448]Gemini agreed for 20 k for me for 3-4 hours (started with 25 k), which is the standard allowance nowadays.[/QUOTE]Gemini now asking for 45 k. That too without BJ. LOL [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/85c1abb6-15f3-47d8-b3be-e969ae001201[/URL].

[QUOTE=MadHatter;2911300]I understand that you don't want to spend the money. But if 10 K subscription is too much, then this is not the game for you.

I will not share TG or numbers of seeking girls. Contact them yourself through seeking.

And most of all, I will not contact profiles on your behalf and get their TG / numbers to share with you. I am not your pimp.[/QUOTE]Well said. I had to turn off my private messages because of this. If one cannot afford a SA membership once or twice a year then there is no point dealing with these girls. No matter how good looking you think you are or how good your bargaining power is, this isn't the place to be.

Get a membership, talk to the girls and make a deal with them. That's part of the fun of SA.

[QUOTE=JPoppen;2911487]Gemini now asking for 45 k. That too without BJ. LOL [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/85c1abb6-15f3-47d8-b3be-e969ae001201[/URL].[/QUOTE]I talked to her a couple of weeks ago and she was ready for 25 k, without much bargaining.

[QUOTE=Phil50;2911404]If you are reading this, here is what I wish you understood.

1. Based on our incomes (if you have a real job), our time is worth a lot of more than yours. Don't waste it by keeping us waiting. The same goes for replying to texts.

2. Don't play silly power games like 'you text me first' or 'I don't have tg, you download xyz'. You'll just piss us off, before we even start chatting.
It's the same when your profile has a list of things you don't want, but not why we should message you. Trashing men is not a good way to earn a lot from us.

3. There are 400 of you to choose from in Bangalore. It would be nice if you give me one reason to choose you. Like a sentence in your profile.

4. I know you can travel to me. It's because I'm paying and you don't have anything else to do. It costs me a lot less to meet people in my city.

5. When there are a large number of people texting me, I can't remember what you look like, based on a 5 second pic.

6. I can understand hiding your face in the profile, but if you are successful on seeking, I'm going to see you naked, so send your own private pics without enhancing them.

7. My membership is costly. My time is valuable. We both know why we are here. I like to get to the point. It saves our time if I know what allowance you expect, early in the chat.

8. I am paying you because I want to de-stress, not hear your personal problems.

9. Asking to be paid for the first coffee meet, is like asking to be paid to attend a job interview.

10. It not a good idea to be rude or sarcastic. Men dislike being insulted more than lost money.[/QUOTE]Spot on as always Phil.

For once I am wishing women are on this forum. All your points are spot on especially point # 9.

[QUOTE=YoungBanger;2911472]Someone pin this post, can't agree more, women needs to understand just like you have so many options we men also have so many options in SA especially the ones who travel regularly and the nicer you talk to us the more you earn, no matter how hot you are we don't tolerate the quirky behaviour.[/QUOTE]+ 1. This post was so relevant.

[QUOTE=JPoppen;2911487]Gemini now asking for 45 k. That too without BJ. LOL [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/85c1abb6-15f3-47d8-b3be-e969ae001201[/URL].[/QUOTE]Well I came across the mother of GPS women today and attained enlightenment, Adira of SA asked for 3 lacs for a meeting. Yes that's 3 followed by 5 zeroes.

Seeking keeps teaching me new things.

[QUOTE=Phil50;2911404]If you are reading this, here is what I wish you understood.

1. Based on our incomes (if you have a real job), our time is worth a lot of more than yours. Don't waste it by keeping us waiting. The same goes for replying to texts.

2. Don't play silly power games like 'you text me first' or 'I don't have tg, you download xyz'. You'll just piss us off, before we even start chatting.
It's the same when your profile has a list of things you don't want, but not why we should message you. Trashing men is not a good way to earn a lot from us.

3. There are 400 of you to choose from in Bangalore. It would be nice if you give me one reason to choose you. Like a sentence in your profile.

4. I know you can travel to me. It's because I'm paying and you don't have anything else to do. It costs me a lot less to meet people in my city.

5. When there are a large number of people texting me, I can't remember what you look like, based on a 5 second pic..[/QUOTE]This is great advice for people in general. Just in terms of life. Respect people's time. And be a good person.

[QUOTE=FunToosh6045;2911363]Buddy, care to share that 37 yrs old MILF sa link?

And the british MILF is she a companion for hire or just your friend and can't be shared?[/QUOTE]The British MILF is turning out to be a unicorn.

I met her on seeking more than a year or so back. She has gotten off seeking now. I think she has one other SD other than me.

The good thing is we enjoy each other's company in a genuine way.