Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

Like Blink, if I was in AC I wouldn't bother with online gals. But, I usually don't spend much time in AC, so....

Different people have different strategies, but I would recommend you go ahead and meet the friends and/or family. In most cases it is just a formality and once you are vetted, things could move very quickly - if you know what I mean.

X

[QUOTE=Blink157]Hello again,

Im back in PI since 2 months and just thinkin about my so called chatgurls contacts and how many of them I meet up during this time..answer is ZERO :D

Whenever they wanted to meet me up with friends etc etc I nicely declined their offer saying things like....baby your late , you think a hunsome guy like me is still alone if he is Angeles city this time, please txt me earlier when you wanted to meet up and come alone I m not interested to meet your friends and family :D

Useless to say I dont get much txt these days from those chatgurls, but I have plenty of sex and good times with other gurls :D

Life is good LG


Blink[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Blink157]Hello again,

Im back in PI since 2 months and just thinkin about my so called chatgurls contacts and how many of them I meet up during this time..answer is ZERO :D....[/QUOTE]

Fully agree Blink, my basic idea too,if they cant come alone then they shouldnt bother. The only exception is of course if they offer to come as a double act, Im always keen on the BOGOF way of doing business too.

Cheers, F/Fifty

But have you ever bothered to meet friends and/or family? What was the result?

X

[QUOTE=Fifty Fifty]Fully agree Blink, my basic idea too,if they cant come alone then they shouldnt bother. The only exception is of course if they offer to come as a double act, Im always keen on the BOGOF way of doing business too.

Cheers, F/Fifty[/QUOTE]

I guess she wants to eat someone... 821300

"""Soon I can cook my husband if I find him already. """

I registered on DIA 2 days back.

In the first few hours, I got several messages from women in the PI and Thailand. Last night, I got a message from a girl saying that she knows me and has seen me before.

I asked her where, and she said "bar 69 soi 6 in Pattaya"

She said that all the girls called me "potato" everytime they saw me because I happen to look like a Thai superstar, who happens to be in the band named "potato". All the way from Soi 6 to DateInAsia.

Small world eh!

Also, got a message from a girl. Pretty damn hot. Blond hair. 23 year old. I asked her to send me another picture, and she sent me a picture of her pussy. Then a little while later, she sends me a nice message, and ends it off with "currently I'm a call ceneter agent now. Hope you can buy one stuff toy for me so that I can hug it everytime I feel frustration, depression and stress. I'm on a graveyard shift. Take care hun ok

Will still see each other"

Is she a scammer? I am absolutely new to all this so can't figure anything out. Some really hot girls asked me out on CB, but I don't have a membership there. Is it worth joining it?

The picture she sent me is attacted to this report.

[QUOTE=X Man]But have you ever bothered to meet friends and/or family? What was the result?

X[/QUOTE]

Yes I admit to meeting the odd girl who asked to bring her friend along, so I took my mate too ;) That sorts em out soon enough.

Not had the priviledge of the often dreaded request to go and meet family (yet) but I know I will have to cross that bridge when I come to it.

IMHO it is each to his own and very ''situation dependant'' as far as I am concerned. Basically I am upfront and tell the girls the truth from day one.
ie.
No I dont believe in love at first sight (lust yes, love no)!
No I am not going to promise to marry you before we can fuck.
No I am not taking your Aunt, Sister, Cousin twice removed for a slap-up meal in a top hotel just because they want to ''meet'' my wallet too.
By getting to know each other I mean it in the biblical sense as well as the YM way :)
etc etc.

Cheers, F/Fifty

Well, ok I had to admit I met some gurl I met before with her sister, now I'm more intersted inher so I called her up to see me in my new home.

She cam with a cab, I told her I paid it, which I did. Damage 200 p.

Couldn't belive my eyes she showed up with her very ugly neighbour fren and her neighbur friends daughter 9 years or so. Her friend had only one shoe, she lost her other one. I was thinking to send them home imediatly. But well, I'm a nice guy, so I didn't.

We went to my condo, tv was turned on, the ugly witch asked if she could change the channel to tagalog soap story. If looks can kill.

The beauty sat next to me, I went to the fridge and gave evrybody a SM light, except the kid, she got some ice tea: D

I stzart cuddling with my fren until she told me that they are hungry. So off I went to order something. 2 chicken with rice and chicken wings. I think all in all 1000 pesos.

To make the story short, after they findished eating they wanted to went home and honestly having nightmares of a screaming kid in the morning and the face of the ugly witch I surely were happy to let them go.

As a gentleman I escorted them outside to look for a cab. Don't you have a car? The ugly witch asked me? For 2 secounds I was thinking to kill her and burry her body under a palmtree. It was night and I should get away with it. I didn't, as I, mentioned before, I'm a nice guy.

At this moment it started to rain, no taxi in sight. As a gentleman I escorted them further down the road to look for a cab. Now it was really raining. Cabs came along, but of course didn't saw us. The witch decide to use her jacket as an umbrella and went off to wave a cab. It was a groteske scene, she jump all the time waving with her jacket, yelling taxi. From far she look like a little kobold or poltergeist. None of the cab stopped and I couldn't blame them.

After a while, they told me I could go (swim) home, they be ok, they will just walk along the street and find a jeep or cab to take them home, so I gave them some cab money and left them. The pretty ones promised me to see me again alone. Well. Iwas wondering if she meant to see me this year or next year.

Next day I feel sick, the other day my terrible flue starts, couldn't enjoy AC on the weekend and contineued to be sick the next week until now.

Damage was 1500 p or so, plus 6 sm light, 2 for them, 4 for me: D

So, after this disaster, they could either come alone and if not they can talk to somebody else, not ME!

No more NICE GUY!

Happy hunting

Blink

Well Blink. It brought a smile to my face and I am sure it did for a few others. No doubt that was a crappy experience. But you know what. Its a great story to share with other Mongers while you have a beer at Kokomos or at Margarita Station in A. C. Thats when you will look back and laugh at it and say hey they finally got one over on me.

I agree Blink.. I have been to Phil 10 times now to meet chatmates and its soo interesting that when you chat with them they are SOOO interested in meeting you but when the time comes for a face to face them they are sooo shy and need to bring a couisin,sister,ante,parents of some other hangers on. But in chatting nothing is EVER mentioned about them having company when they meet you.. The ones who REALLY [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] me off are the ones you go to meet in person and they don't even ask or tell you they are bringing someone with them.. Well I used to be Mr Nice guy too and all the hangers on got a free lunch while I tried to talk to the girl even when all her family and friends were talking to her too. Well NO MORE.. When a girl shows up with someone else without even asking me i tell her with a smiling face " how nice you brought a friend without telling me or asking me. I hope you all have a nice lunch ,,BYE BYE " This is usually met with looks of suprise and sometimes apologies but I just say i have to go have a great lunch. After I leave there are lots of texts on my cell phone with apologies and pleas of lets meet again alone..TOO LATE. Too many fish in the sea to put up with these scammers girls who only want to treat their family and friends to a free lunch on me.

[quote=nightrider1]i agree blink.. i have been to phil 10 times now to meet chatmates and its soo interesting that when you chat with them they are sooo interested in meeting you but when the time comes for a face to face them they are sooo shy and need to bring a couisin,sister,ante,parents of some other hangers on. but in chatting nothing is ever mentioned about them having company when they meet you.. the ones who really [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] me off are the ones you go to meet in person and they don't even ask or tell you they are bringing someone with them.. well i used to be mr nice guy too and all the hangers on got a free lunch while i tried to talk to the girl even when all her family and friends were talking to her too. well no more.. when a girl shows up with someone else without even asking me i tell her with a smiling face " how nice you brought a friend without telling me or asking me. i hope you all have a nice lunch ,,bye bye " this is usually met with looks of suprise and sometimes apologies but i just say i have to go have a great lunch. after i leave there are lots of texts on my cell phone with apologies and pleas of lets meet again alone..too late. too many fish in the sea to put up with these scammers girls who only want to treat their family and friends to a free lunch on me.[/quote]
wow, this sounds cold to me. she has never met you in person and she doesn't know if you are a [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord126][CodeWord126][/url], serial killer or whatever. i have met 25 chat mates and i have never had a bad time. i may not have taken them all to bed, but i made friends and they are still in my messenger and sometimes we chat. i always show respect, even if they aren't what i am looking for, or they bring a friend. remember a lot of the ladies on these chat sites are not bargirls and are honestly looking for a boyfriend.

i think sometimes having a friend with them helps me. if i don't feel like getting involved with her, i can leave after lunch and not feel guilty leaving her alone. i always try to meet for lunch, so if it isn't going to work, i can say that i have to go and i will text later. as always ymmv.

stay safe,
robb

its not cold sir..its just that i object to being taken advantage of. if the girl asks if she can bring a friend then no problem with me. sometimes the friend is more fun than the chatmate. i resent it when she shows up with an antorage in tow looking for the foreighner to buy and never even asks my permission. i know life is hard in phil and i am always generous about taking my chatmates to the mall for jeans or a dress after lunch. as far as them not knowing if i am a [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord126][CodeWord126][/url] or serial killer my policy is to always meet for the first time at a mall. this is for my protection. i want to get to know them in a public enviorment before i spend any time alone with them just in case.

[quote=nightrider1]its not cold sir..its just that i object to being taken advantage of. if the girl asks if she can bring a friend then no problem with me. sometimes the friend is more fun than the chatmate. i resent it when she shows up with an antorage in tow looking for the foreighner to buy and never even asks my permission. i know life is hard in phil and i am always generous about taking my chatmates to the mall for jeans or a dress after lunch. as far as them not knowing if i am a [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord126][CodeWord126][/url] or serial killer my policy is to always meet for the first time at a mall. this is for my protection. i want to get to know them in a public enviorment before i spend any time alone with them just in case.[/quote]so true.

[QUOTE=Marconista]After learning here on ISG I used DiA before going to Manila last time. I was to stay for some weeks, so I thought it would be fun to try.

When becoming member a lady hit on me right away, telling me not to ignore here even though she did not have a pic in here profile. We chatted and I saw her online, she sent me tons of photo's.

In my profile I say that I am married outside of phils, and that i am lonely when in Manila and i like to cuddle. Hmm.

When I arrived I got myself a globe-sim card, and she came to my hotel on the agreed day and even before the agreed time. She had to travel with jeepney for 2 hours to see me.

She was naked with me within the hour and we had a good time. After the deed I took her to the new Aqua Park and then for lunch at Robinson Mall in Ermita, and back to my hotel for another thrust. I walked her to the Jeepney at about 8pm. I gave her some money for transport, but she got mad about it at first, but accepted finally. Only about php1300 to cover her expenses. It was to much of cause, covering the transport, but I feel less guilty when paying a little.

I also met another lady from DiA.. Same thing...

BUT... One was 27 the other 30, but sooo unexperienced. Almost starfish in behaviour. Not much fun. The 30 yo said afterward that she was not good in bed. I told her that all she needs is more practise, and that I will be back for more, and then we could practise also. And she was sooo happy that I would be her coach, since she had a few other guys coming to Manila soon :D

As I was busy with work I lined up only two ladies from Dia and both came to meet me. But I have a FuBu there and I pick up a few at EDSA complex, so I left Manila happy as always.[/QUOTE]DiA? I assume this is a web site, but which one?

Thanks

[QUOTE=Ronin63]DiA? I assume this is a web site, but which one?

Thanks[/QUOTE]

[url]http://www.dateinasia.com[/url] although DIA, to me, always means Died In Action which is appropriate as it I imagine it is the old mongers preferred exit ;)

hi to all,
glad I made you laugh, but its a true story :D

Robbaf, you know I think I was like you before, but now that Im living on site, no more of this. From all the online ladies I met, they all pros, looking for a sugar daddy. If you have money ,they stay with you, if not, they gone in that moment your money is gone. I could tell endless storys of this. YOu not the only one they gona meet. Those "ladies" are all somehow involved in some red-light-district-p4p business, so if you really looking for a potantial wife or similar to that. Look somewhere else.

Exceptions are those gurls you met in person and in real and get to know them better and whats more important, get to know their family better.

How to meet them? Its easy. PI is full of them and as long you not looking for upperclas hi society gurl (but even that can work ) you will find yourself spoiled with so many offers of real working gurls.

My buddy here has together with his GF now for 8 years. He broought her tru university and now she has her own job and all her money went to her family. She wont ask my fren for any extras or so. Thats one of the reason Im dated her sis which is now one of my GF :D...a nice innocent student who loves me as the person I am.I was her first REAL boyfren...

Not sure if Im back next weekend in ac, cause I have a busy week. I will let my AC gf come over to see me, then my other GF will come on SAT, hope by this time my AC GF is back home. We have birthday party on sunday and my friends GF invite her office mates. We tell them only to bring gurls, if any guys come, I just put them in my room and they can watch basketball while Im vieing a victoria secret lingerie show with my buddy, cause thats one part of our party. specially those "normal" gurls like to drink Tequila.

Life is good! LG!


Happy hunting

Blink