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[QUOTE=Amavida;1577754]Jesus, that's disgusting. Sounds like Cebu is not a place I'm going to be visiting any time soon with that level of stupidity happening. The Dutch guy was fully within his rights to go ballistic. Before I let it rip (if I am within my rights) I usually go for the the laser beam stare with a quietly threatening statement of the facts leading to involving their superiors.

AV.[/QUOTE]Come to Cebu you will have fun AV. Just don't go through passport control with a cutie LOL. Takes a load of patience to stay calm but it can be done and it really annoys them more when you remain calm.

Was a story of a guy at Clark went a tad over the top when the officers would not let his wife out initially but on his return found himself 'banned' from entering the country. He fixed this problem only because he knew key people but be careful what you do in the Philippines as these officials can be spiteful and nasty when hey are pushed and lose face.

Your description reminded me of a gal I met last year. After a fairly ordinary date, I got her back to my room and into the bed. Some light kissing and touching did NOT result in "recoil", but things weren't going smoothly. I jokingly asked the "virgin" question, and surprisingly the answer was "yes" - which I thought was bovine manure. I tried to keep it relaxed, but eventually tried to get her to go home. She didn't want to go. I eventually, and reluctantly, had to get a bit rude. She left. The next day she begs to meet again and tells me I can have my way and she'll even have my baby. No marriage req. Umm, no thanks.

Even if I had agreed, I doubt that she would have come. As Sammon says, "playing a game".

[QUOTE=Sammon;1577633]
SNIP, blah, blah, she wants to wait and get to know me before we have sex. I asked her if she was a virgin to which the answer was no. Remember she agreed to sex on cam but now she is playing a game to which I have no patience.

I told her she can leave but she wanted to stay. Now what do you do? I simply said there is no chemistry between us and she has to go. Reluctantly she left after I gave her 500 for taxi fare.

These things happen also. Nothing is guranteed when you are trying DIA girls.[/QUOTE]

I thought I might just share this cute little event happening whilst me and a 19 yo spinner was having in between session break. Just from coincidense while zapping through the channels I saw "A Haunted House" was about to begin so I asked if she wanted to watch it. Ok by her. I remind you that this is only a parody from all the "Paranormal Activity" movies out there (spoof? And suppose to be funny.

I give the 19 yo credit for actually watching and paying attention to the whole movie just hiding behind sth when some scary shit happened. Many of her phil sister and older ones too are only able to focus for 5 minutes before they loose interest.

Anyways after the movies finished (very very bad one and not either scary or funny) my spinner told she had to go toilet. She went towards the toilet but suddenly she froze, turned around and leaned herself toward the wall facing me. I realy did not pay to much attention at first. After a couple of minutes I saw she looked ancious as she wanted to say sth so I asked her if something was wrong and "thought you had to hit the toilet sweetie?

Her answer cracked me up as she wanted me to join her not only into the hallway and to the toilet, no, she wanted me infact to join her inside the toilet while she did her biz as she was scared shit from this crappy movie, hehe.

Pinays never stops surprising me in some odds way. But somewhat cute as well, hehe.

[QUOTE=WickedRoger;1577601]I have also seen, in Cebu, a Dutch husband with wife with kids in tow be asked to sign an affidavit for his wife and kids saying he would bring them back and he was not a human trafficker.

Now that was fun to watch while the Dutchmen angrily berated the officers along the lines of "she is my wife, these are my kids you idiots". He was actually on his way home to Holland after a holiday in the country. Sort of made everyone look silly but it did brighten up my day when he stood his ground and asked to see the supervisor.[/QUOTE]I really can't understand what the immigration folks could possibly hope to gain from an affidavit. Even if he was a human trafficker, and failed to bring them back, how could an affidavit be used to enforce anything? Makes no sense.

RG.

[QUOTE=Amavida;1577762]Have'nt needed a DIA account for a long time but just for fun tonight I created one. Within 10 minutes I had a very nice little 22 year old texting me & its all yes yes Another 25 yr old accountant hit the show interest button on my profile. She had the usual very serious good girl profile. 10 minutes later texting furiously about what when how. So as not to frighten her off I take things diplomatically, she skilfully steers the conversation toward ahem. Shall we say. Reward for services rendered. I reassured her that I'm not cheap Charlie. Ahem. That's number two lined up. Shooting fish in a barrel.

So my point to the guys asking, keep your profile vague, play it by ear politely with each woman & don't be afraid to go for the win when the opportunity presents itself. Dump the time wasters & zero in on the girls who are ready to play.

AV.[/QUOTE]I set up cupid account to troll for some action while in PI. WIthin an hour I had set up 5 meets with some very tight little spinner pinays. One in particular was all to eager to meet. The catch was she "Is searching for serious relationships" Ha ha, that didn't last. 20 minutes after meeting her in public, we were making out in the elevator going to my room. She was just a horny pinay and I guess my bearded charm was good enough. NO charge for the services and an open invite for more as often as I want. Luckily the other 4 were more or less the same. Pinay girls amaze me how they love the American men and want to do whatever it takes to become the GF. All it takes is a sincere aproach and promise you want the same as they do. Promises made none kept right fellas? As we only like the game and rewards.

TheDude

[QUOTE=WickedRoger;1578038]Come to Cebu you will have fun AV. Just don't go through passport control with a cutie LOL. Takes a load of patience to stay calm but it can be done and it really annoys them more when you remain calm.

Was a story of a guy at Clark went a tad over the top when the officers would not let his wife out initially but on his return found himself 'banned' from entering the country. He fixed this problem only because he knew key people but be careful what you do in the Philippines as these officials can be spiteful and nasty when hey are pushed and lose face.[/QUOTE]G'day WR. I've been super busy lately but I'll definitely drop down to catch up. I won't be bringing coals to Newcastle LOL Agree the best approach is to stay frosty & get THEM into the shite. I have phone numbers of senators in my cell. Fuck I love to see them go pale when I pull it out of my pocket and start dialing. : the Catch ya soon mate, Ingats ha?

AV.

[QUOTE=Amavida;1578399]G'day WR. I've been super busy lately but I'll definitely drop down to catch up. I won't be bringing coals to Newcastle LOL Agree the best approach is to stay frosty & get THEM into the shite. I have phone numbers of senators in my cell. Fuck I love to see them go pale when I pull it out of my pocket and start dialing. :

AV.[/QUOTE]Yeah I used to love that " want me to call this number. The one that says Jejomar Binay" way back when he was Mayor of Makati and some MMDA leech was harassing me for turning left or right etc.

They always backed down and said " No Sir you don't need to call that person ".

Thankfully my bluff was never called, as it was the phone number of one of his assistants.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1578436]Yeah I used to love that " want me to call this number. The one that says Jejomar Binay" way back when he was Mayor of Makati and some MMDA leech was harassing me for turning left or right etc.

They always backed down and said " No Sir you don't need to call that person ".

Thankfully my bluff was never called, as it was the phone number of one of his assistants.[/QUOTE]That's a two-edged sword that I would never draw for a trumped up traffic violation. I've got numbers on my cell phone as well, for some "very important people," and they're real numbers. If I tried to bother them for so trivial a problem they would lose most of the respect they have for me. I'd grin, pay the fine, and forget about it. I'll save the VIPs for when I really need some help on a matter that's important.

GE.

[QUOTE=GoodEnough;1578484]That's a two-edged sword that I would never draw for a trumped up traffic violation. I've got numbers on my cell phone as well, for some "very important people," and they're real numbers. If I tried to bother them for so trivial a problem they would lose most of the respect they have for me. I'd grin, pay the fine, and forget about it. I'll save the VIPs for when I really need some help on a matter that's important. [/QUOTE]Follow GE's advice.

It's my MO too. Some of us long-stayers have got REAL numbers. Thankfully I have never needed to use them yet

You might get seriously burned if you start "crying wolf" over trivial matters. Some people have already been in trouble recently over claiming connections with VIPs in order to get off the hook, and they weren't foreigners either.

[QUOTE=TheDude865;1578175]Promises made none kept right fellas?
[/QUOTE]That's not my SOP whatsoever.

My dating site profiles and my communication with them is about sex and nothing about promises of exclusivity, relationships, the future, yada yada. I've found that being upfront is well received by the girl; she thinks I'm honest and doesn't fear being fooled. One of the first girls I met told me this: most guys seem like princes in the beginning and then I get to know them I realise they're frogs; when I read your profile I thought you were a frog so I wasn't expecting you to be a prince. Flattering, eh? Being upfront also allows me to end things with her without guilt for me; she started meeting me knowing full well it's a basic nsa / fubu arrangement. Lastly, and I feel most importantly, her understanding of our relationship allows her to keep looking for her Mr. Right, if she's so inclined. I'm Mr. Available. That's all. I would hate knowing that a girl gave up a legit chance with a guy because I led her to believe I'm offering something that I'm not. I've had several girls try to evolve the arrangement to a direction I didn't want to go, but most have accepted things for what they are.

I'm a big fan of Pinays so I try not to harden their hearts. A girl who runs across the bait and switch often enough is going to be jaded. Spoilt even.

I'm of mixed feelings of your gambit; I neither condemn nor approve it. It's a very common one that most fellas develop as teenagers. Girls with a bit of time on the dating sites see it often enough. But many girls do start out as inexperienced newbies and some of the stories they've shared with me of past "boyfriends" who have fooled them have been gut wrenching. Perhaps I empathise too much. Yet, I do benefit from these fellas' scams because it's quite easy for me to differentiate myself from the herd.

[QUOTE=RedKilt;1578511]Some of us long-stayers have got REAL numbers.[/QUOTE]I have NO numbers! Huhuhu. :'(

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1578541]

< SNIP >. . . Being upfront also allows me to end things with her without guilt for me; she started meeting me knowing full well it's a basic nsa / fubu arrangement. Lastly, and I feel most importantly, her understanding of our relationship allows her to keep looking for her Mr. Right, if she's so inclined. I'm Mr. Available. That's all. I would hate knowing that a girl gave up a legit chance with a guy because I led her to believe I'm offering something that I'm not. .. . . . < SNIP> . . . . Yet, I do benefit from these fellas' scams because it's quite easy for me to differentiate myself from the herd.[/QUOTE]I am 100% with Hutsori on this. Like these comments a lot. Many more girls these days are much more discerning than before about a guy's true intentions.

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1578541]That's not my SOP whatsoever.

I've found that being upfront is well received by the girl; she thinks I'm honest and doesn't fear being fooled. I do benefit from these fellas' scams because it's quite easy for me to differentiate myself from the herd.[/QUOTE]I agree with this. I am a dating site guy, not a bar guy. While I have only been to the Philippines a few times, I have always been upfront that I am not looking for a wife or girlfriend. Instead I just say it would be nice to know someone when I arrive as well as on an ongoing basis when I come back. This has served me well as I do keep in infrequent contact with them from home, but also make a point of getting together with them when I am back in the Philippines. If your up front and they accept this type of relationship no one has hurt feelings. If they don't want this, then simply move on without ever meeting.

As I have said before, I will take well preserved mature professional ladies in their early thirties to early forties over a twenty two year old ten times out of ten. They know their way around town as well as the bedroom. They know what they like in the bedroom and are excited to try new things that they have always fantasized about but did not have an opportunity to try with their former conservative Filipino ex husbands or boyfriends. This makes for some really good comfortable reunion sex when I come back for repeat trips.

As I result I tend to plan spending a few days with them before moving on to the next set of petals. I always have a business meeting I have to be at in another town, but let them know that if my schedule changes and I drop back into town I can make a call and have them join me again no questions asked. This allows me to meet a mix of new and repeat dating site ladies on each trip. It really is more fun in the Philippines.

[QUOTE=TheDude865;1578175]I set up cupid account to troll for some action while in PI. WIthin an hour I had set up 5 meets with some very tight little spinner pinays. One in particular was all to eager to meet. The catch was she "Is searching for serious relationships" Ha ha, that didn't last. 20 minutes after meeting her in public, we were making out in the elevator going to my room. She was just a horny pinay and I guess my bearded charm was good enough. NO charge for the services and an open invite for more as often as I want. Luckily the other 4 were more or less the same. Pinay girls amaze me how they love the American men and want to do whatever it takes to become the GF. All it takes is a sincere aproach and promise you want the same as they do. Promises made none kept right fellas? As we only like the game and rewards.

TheDude[/QUOTE]It appears that you haven't read much on this thread, and / or probably know little or nothing about Filipino culture. A normal girl IS NOT GOING TO ASK FOR MONEY BECAUSE IT MAKES THEM LOSE FACE. I don't know which is worse; the fact that you are being a kuripot cheapskate and actually thinking that they they are with you because they "love the American men", or your strategy of leading them on saying you are looking for a serious GF. Serious GF = sponsor. Of course they will give it up to a liar who is promising a better future. I think you are piling up the bad karma and may lie to the wrong girl one of these days and face the consequences.

[QUOTE=TheDude865;1578175] As we only like the game and rewards.

TheDude[/QUOTE]Pay up MAN!

They are not there satisfying you for your charm or false promises. They could not care less if you are American or not. Firstly they are looking for relationship leading to marriage or at least a steady BF who supports them.

Do not be a cheapskate and play games with them. If they refuse money buy good gifts but I am sure very few refuse money if offered.