[QUOTE=Fac50; 1111108]As always. Thanks to everyone for your advice, it has always been helpful.
I'm still relatively new to the p4p and not fully comfortable yet. You can do a search on my posts for the backstory on that.
I'll try to give some brief info on my situation:
Anyway, I feel like the girl I met from princess meets my requirement that I'm attracted to her, she at least has me believing that she's interested, and (again) she at least has me believing that she's in the relatively low (er) risk STD category. Believing is key for me even if the truth is different.
She knows I'm leaving town on Friday and wanted to meet my for lunch before I left (she works nights). If this was a kabakura girl, I know it's just paying to be with her. My question is, since this girl works at a more questionable type place, is it possible to negotiate p4p with her? Or even close the deal as a non p4p? Or is this just a free lunch?
When we were talking at the club, she told me her other job was a 'waitress at a kabakura in roppoingi'. I'm assuming based on where we were when we were talking, if she was a sex worker, she would have just told me at that point and tried to meet up when the club closed. (As an aside, I'm not sure why she'd be a waitress and not a hostess. It probably pays better and has to be better than working at princess).
So any thoughts on what strategy I should use? Since I've already made out with her (I was a little surprised I crossed that line) and felt her up, do I still have to start all over and go nampa since we're not at that club? If she's not a sex worker, and I bring up price, would that kill the mood? I'm guessing the best thing to do is use some of the nampa techniques like go to lunch at one of those private room places and try to be flirty and see where she goes with it.
Sorry for being a rookie, this is definitely not my strong suit. Hopefully at the worse it can provide some comedy for the forum. [/QUOTE]Well working in a questionable place and still not being into the P4P game is possible in Japan. There are all shades in Japan. Met a girl like this once as well, but in my case she just became a friend as I was not the type of guy she wanted as a boyfriend (she called me o-ni-san). I did hook her up upon her own request with a co-worker of mine later, though.
As for your girl you met. As she suggested to meet you fir lunch, I'm pretty sure she likes you and wants some kind of relationship. She either wants you as a friend or a (part time) boyfriend. I suggest you simply ask her which it is.
If its friend she might know other girls who are interested in a relationship with benefits.
If its boyfriend she will still expect presents or money. The thing to be worried about (or not) is that this usually is not a short term thing.
