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Me too. But not many ladies (from any country) are wanting to show off their bodies in a first conversation. That can wait until later (sooner is better in my mind). The mistake many men make is to [I]never [/I]get the girl on cam before deciding if he wants to meet her. Worse, many men never get the girl on cam prior to a first meeting.
There is an assumption here: That you too are willing to turn on your cam right away (if you are asking her to do so). Not all gents are of that mold. I never turn on my cam right away (and for good reason). Like you, I'm wanting to keep the chit / chat to a minimum, and get to the cam ASAP, but never in the first contact.
[/QUOTE]Heed this advice. I want to add that if you have the time play it a bit cool. Don't ask to cam with her until you've established you're a "good guy" through a few messages or texts. In fact many girls will ask you first to go to cam. On the dating sites there are tons of guys who demand skype from the get go; this is why you'll see in many girls' profiles complaints about guys waving wangs and pumping penors at them. I think one can judge a body without having the girl strip for you. A pudgy face, thick neck, and doughy forearms will tell you she's a plumper. For stretchmarks ask if she has kids. If she does then it's highly likely she's got 'em; yes, there are some whose bodies haven't been ravaged. You can always ask a girl about that if it's a concern.