Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=SergeantRay;1653461]Once in Puerto Galera the boatman told the girl I was with all about the girl I had taken on the boat yesterday. All in Tagalog. Of course, if the girl I was with hadn't told me about it, I would have been totally unaware.[/QUOTE]Filipino men have no money & no manners (they blab). Pinays are surrounded by a sea of Pinoy BF's but as soon a they let them shag them, the guy will run all over her barangay blabbing his farking mouth off.

As you just discovered, security guards, doormen, reception staff, wait persons, taxi drivers & any other staff you interact with can reliably expected to tip a can of shit on you every chance they get.

If staying in one place you can mitigate by tipping well, giving little food gifts etc to buy a little discretion from them. Knowing a few rudimentary words of the language & bluffing staff into thinking you can understand what they are saying tends to tone down their big mouths. Lastly, try to vary your routine so that you're not too easily tracked. In the end best to be upfront that you're a busy boy.

AV.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1651949]..." I'm not like the others". Two legs, two arms, two small boobs, long hair. Remarkably similar to all the others.[/QUOTE]Thanks, great work.

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1653193]This is pretty much the definitive guide. I'll add:

1) If the girl asks for a load prior to your meeting time 5 pesos is enough. Give her more then she's surfing the web, checking facebook, and wasting time when she should be getting ready.

2) I always send a link to google map of the meeting place (next door to my condo) and I make sure she confirms she knows where it is and how to get there. For the clueless I send step-by-step instructions how to get to my place.

3) Tell the girl she must text you when she departs for your meeting place. Be firm about it. With first timers I usually send a text a few hours before telling them how excited I am to meet them and to remind them to let me know when they are leaving. If you get no reply after a while that indicates a potential missed meeting. I follow up with another text letting her know that if I don't get a reply soon I will meet someone else instead. That's often a catalyst.

4) When she arrives turn off your wifi.[/QUOTE]Great pointers there Huts.

Nr 1 and 3. Agreed. When its getting close or when I have an idea they should be getting ready I stress the importance of beeing on time (as I have in our precommunication as well). I think in fact putting some stress on them makes them more focused so these days latecommers are not a problem anymore. Combined with my nowadays more loose sched it works out fine. But our sweethearts are easily distracted so shipping huge amounts of pisos around to give them load are pure silly.

Nr 2. I am not that high tech and the fact I mostly choose girls living nearby pretty much excludes this as a factor. But and there is allways a but (t) occationaly I run into a spinner having no clue where Glorietta Mall is. I then give the adress and point them into googling it themself. If they don't have internet I give them the hotels adress or I ask them to get the driver to call me (I encourage them to take taxi) so I atleast can make sure the driver knows where he is heading. So in a way I sometimes use your step by step operation.

Nr 4. Hard for me living in a serviced apt as the hole floor or great parts of it will disconnect. In general speaking I have not had to much trouble regarding this. I have started to use the frase "log off phones (tablets whatever) and lets log on life (lets talk, get down to business)". It works. My hidden motives are ofcourse to draw the focus into what is soon about to happen and start the game. While having a break I don't mind they check their phone and I even allow them making phonecalls. I make it clear they should talk in their native language. I've had speciments bringing their phones into the CR and while I commit a small spyact I can hear some talking in english (mostly I think we know who she is talking to). Well, when they break our agreement and trust I put out a small asshole act and maby hammering the CR door hard and with my commanding voice screaming I need to use the toilet (a bit cruel maby but I hate sneaking and trustbreaking). It allways cracks me up hearing the CR burst into total panic and all sorts of excuses are beeing made to the, most likely guy, at the other end of the line. If a girl is upfront she need to call her BF, husband, sponsor etc, no problem and I will only sit and breath quitly (I am not there to relationship them anyways). This haven't happened in a while now by the way.

I hadn't seen this list before.

At the end it lists 7 free sites that might suit a number of members on this board.

[URL]http://www.filipinodatingsites.com/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1653193]This is pretty much the definitive guide. I'll add:

1) If the girl asks for a load prior to your meeting time 5 pesos is enough. Give her more then she's surfing the web, checking facebook, and wasting time when she should be getting ready.

2) I always send a link to google map of the meeting place (next door to my condo) and I make sure she confirms she knows where it is and how to get there. For the clueless I send step-by-step instructions how to get to my place.

3) Tell the girl she must text you when she departs for your meeting place. Be firm about it. With first timers I usually send a text a few hours before telling them how excited I am to meet them and to remind them to let me know when they are leaving. If you get no reply after a while that indicates a potential missed meeting. I follow up with another text letting her know that if I don't get a reply soon I will meet someone else instead. That's often a catalyst.

4) When she arrives turn off your wifi.[/QUOTE]This is some sort of filipino-speak, I believe. Does this mean giving her money for her cell phone in order that she can chat with you or text?

I know how this is done in Brazil or other parts of Latin America (it generally requires taking the girl to a store and buying some time), but how do you do this in the Philippines?

[QUOTE=Skogis;1653530]I've had speciments bringing their phones into the CR and while I commit a small spyact I can hear some talking in english (mostly I think we know who she is talking to). Well, when they break our agreement and trust I put out a small asshole act and maby hammering the CR door hard and with my commanding voice screaming I need to use the toilet (a bit cruel maby but I hate sneaking and trustbreaking). It allways cracks me up hearing the CR burst into total panic and all sorts of excuses are beeing made to the, most likely guy, at the other end of the line.[/QUOTE]What's CR?

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[QUOTE=Forest;1653700]This is some sort of filipino-speak, I believe. Does this mean giving her money for her cell phone in order that she can chat with you or text?

I know how this is done in Brazil or other parts of Latin America (it generally requires taking the girl to a store and buying some time), but how do you do this in the Philippines?[/QUOTE]Several ways. You can take a girl to a store (or places on the street) and buy her time.

Or you can 'pasaload' directly from your phone to hers; which will deduct the same amount from yours as you are transferring to hers. I think this only works from one SIM card provider to the same SIM card provider (ie, Smart to Smart). She must have the same brand of SIM card in her phone as you have in yours. Gents is that correct? You find that 'pasaload' option in your SIM card settings.

[QUOTE=JamesBond1;1653830]What's CR?

[b][u]EDITOR'S SUGGESTION[/u]:[/b] [blue]There is a link labeled "[u]Abbreviations[/u]" in the menu bar at the top of this page. This will take you to the Forum's Glossary where you will find a chart with most of the Terms & Abbreviations used in the Forum. [i]Thanks![/i][/blue][/QUOTE]A CR is the abbreviation for "comfort room," which is what Filipinos call a restroom or bathroom. By the way, CR is not among the ISG list of abbreviations.

RG.

[QUOTE=Forest;1653700] Does this mean giving her money for her cell phone in order that she can chat with you or text? [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;1653831]Several ways. You can take a girl to a store (or places on the street) and buy her time.

Or you can 'pasaload' directly from your phone to hers; which will deduct the same amount from yours as you are transferring to hers. I think this only works from one SIM card provider to the same SIM card provider (ie, Smart to Smart). She must have the same brand of SIM card in her phone as you have in yours. Gents is that correct? You find that 'pasaload' option in your SIM card settings.[/QUOTE]The girl does not have to be with you, you can just go to about any sari sari / convenience store and have them send a load to her. Most of them will charge about 3 pesos extra for the service.

The "pasaload" option is a feature only for Smart users, I don't think it or anything similar is offered by Globe, Sun or any of the other Telco's.

I normally only send smaller amounts, say 20-50 pesos, but I have sent larger amounts to a few regular girls in the past. Sometimes the sari sari's will balk at it as they often only have small balances on their own accounts. So, for amounts over 200 - 300 pesos, it's easier to buy a prepaid card, scratch off the pin number on the back and text it to her along with the number that she has to call (no balance is needed to call the special toll free number). She can then load her phone herself.

[QUOTE=PipJaeger;1653846]The girl does not have to be with you, you can just go to about any sari sari / convenience store and have them send a load to her. Most of them will charge about 3 pesos extra for the service.

The "pasaload" option is a feature only for Smart users, I don't think it or anything similar is offered by Globe, Sun or any of the other Telco's?[/QUOTE]Both Smart and Globe offer the pasaload service though the procedures for sending are slightly different. It's quite easy to do however, for either company.

GE.

[QUOTE=GoodEnough;1653849]Both Smart and Globe offer the pasaload service though the procedures for sending are slightly different. It's quite easy to do however, for either company.

GE.[/QUOTE]Just goes to show you how much Pinay's know about their own stuff here. I just asked one of the girls who's riding out the storm with me about it and she told me it's only offered by Smart, thanks for the correction GE.

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;1653831]Or you can 'pasaload' directly from your phone to hers; which will deduct the same amount from yours as you are transferring to hers. I think this only works from one SIM card provider to the same SIM card provider (ie, Smart to Smart). She must have the same brand of SIM card in her phone as you have in yours. Gents is that correct? You find that 'pasaload' option in your SIM card settings.[/QUOTE]I believe that you are correct. You do not need to go to a sari store.

In 2013 I was able to:

1. transfer load from my own phone to girl's phone

2. buy load directly from Telco (can't remember whether Smart or Globe), for her phone

3. use 3rd party companies who would do the load transfer for me, even when I was not in PI.

Ikksman

[QUOTE=Ikksman;1653865]...3. use 3rd party companies who would do the load transfer for me, even when I was not in PI.

Ikksman...[/QUOTE]Yeah, try to google "send load to the Philippines", I also use it to load my own cell if I run out of load outside from the Philippines".

[QUOTE=Ikksman;1653865]I believe that you are correct. You do not need to go to a sari store.

In 2013 I was able to:

1. transfer load from my own phone to girl's phone

2. buy load directly from Telco (can't remember whether Smart or Globe), for her phone

3. use 3rd party companies who would do the load transfer for me, even when I was not in PI.

Ikksman
[SUP][i]"No need to expose fools. They expose themselves!"[/i][/SUP][/QUOTE]You can transfer load from any company carrier to any phone. There are some numbers to push and there are limits as well as you will loose some load on transfer. Girls are adept at this.

[QUOTE=Sammon;1653883]You can transfer load from any company carrier to any phone. There are some numbers to push and there are limits as well as you will loose some load on transfer. Girls are adept at this.[/QUOTE]In addition, there are websites such as [URL]www.aryty.com[/URL] (sounds a bit like alrighty). You make an account there with your credit card. You enter in your pinay's phone number. You can then transmit preset amounts to her. For instance, I think if she has Globe, you can send p115, p300, p550 (or similar), and you must choose one of those amounts. P115 is about $2. 63 USD. [URL]Aryty.com[/URL] takes a cut, by adding a bit, to the sale. Usually my credit card gets hit for about $2. 78 (about 15 cents, or p7, above the actual exchange rate). You can create an address book in aryty with multiple girl's names and phone numbers (pinays can often have two SIM cards in their phones at once, one for say Globe, and one for say Smart), and you can enter both numbers into Aryty. You can then load either SIM card from any internet connection.

On occasion I surprise one of my repeat "good-to-me" girls with a load out of the blue (easy there) from across the pond. $2. 78 sure does carry some good girl / bad girl / good will.