Some deserve our empathy...
You are right, philosophically, of course. But, I do not judge her because I am no better than she is. I am worse. She is doing what she does out of a need to make a decent living, primarily for the benefit of her family members, whether we decide she has a legitimate need or not, or whether society decides she is the lowest of the low for making her kinds of choices or not...In that, you are correct. We really can't know the depth of her despair for choosing to suck strange to support her family.
I have been fucking literally hundreds of girls for my own pleasure and enjoyment, all of them unknown pussies.
I suppose we can all fool ourselves that our's are legitimate needs too, but they don't come close to the need associated with one's subsistence, and certainly not with respect to her sacrifice, if indeed she is as responsible for the well being of others in her family as I believe she is.
Besides, I do not see her arriving at work in a BMW like the hos in the US do. I don't see one ounce of greed in her, none for she choosing to do what she does, and none with me in our interactions. Fact is, were we to actually look in the mirror together, I suspect that my comparison with her would not neccesarily fare any better in the eyes of a benevolent God.
And, the fact that I can not really imagine her having to endure the extent of her work environment is exactly the source of my empathy for her. I see a virtue in her personality that transcends her assignment by society as a ho, and I sense a sacrifice in her, not an opportunistic or mercenary component to her personality.
I am way beyond not being "involved" anyway. Although, your's is exactly the advice I have been known to spout as well. The advice is sound. But, once your "involved," you're "involved."
I can't just turn my back on her, or discount her merely on account of her choices so far in life. Even if she is sometimes disengenous for her own selfish reasons, which I doubt, I still care about her, just as I care for all my friends. I will not treat her badly by ignoring her attributes, ones that hugely transcend her detractors, or imagine that I am somehow better than she is. I am not.
I am now wearing my body armor...let the Skittle Gauntlet begin :D
For the sake of the ISG community, and the sensitivities of "Regular" Members, I offer to continue this discussion in the USB section where it belongs.
By the way, at the rate of growth, the USB section will surpass the Monterrey section in very short order. It is currently growing at a rate of 10:1 according to the number of posts in the same amount of ammortized time, it will contain more posts in less than one year, than the MTY section has amassed in five years.
[QUOTE=Carlos Perez]Your reference to your adventure in PI exactly touches the point.
You just don't know what really happened, do you? you can only suppose.
And again, as I told the good Wasted, you are getting into things that go way beyond your comprehension because you can only suppose what their life is, extrapolate a lot and end in knowing nothing.
I don't believe will ever understand what they go thru unless we are in their shoes, getting picked by an unknown stranger and getting paid money for blowing a penis.
Get it?
You can only imagine... truth defies any explanation.
Again, what I told Wasted on his X girl... stay away and don't get involved.
Have fun, but just don't get involved.[/QUOTE]