On party girls, club queens, and players.
[QUOTE=Mystery77; 1161094]I met some diamonds in Kiev. You are 100% Some real cool working girls / hookers.
Also I find ultimately even though strippers they want a holiday, or more cash. In the end they in general prefer more alpha or masculine traits come end. Some action, someone to adventure with, someone that won't take to much shit. Though seekings holes in your armour is literally a game to some more experienced negative based strippers. & the main weapon they have against you in the end, is the emotional connections that have been placed over time.
Eliciting emotions is a key characteristic when dating experienced players, actually falsely making an argument. Or crying. Nobody loves me, or what the fuck ever. Getting you invested emotionally seriously. While on her part it is but an act. So you have this big fight & think thats it I'm out of here! Then the flip comes just before the door closes, follows you down the street. Crying I'm so sorry I love you, please don't leave me, it's not me! The boss sends me out, or its his fault her fault. You get the idea.
& this is key people. Never argue with an idiot, they will drag you down to there level, & then beat you with experience. & that also goes for educated idiots as well, I lost but I was right. I don't understand. It does not compute. [/QUOTE]Too many stories from guys thinking with their d*ck, instead of their big head, and then being surprised when things turn to sh*t. PAY ATTENTION to the woman in front of you and stop gushing over her physical appearance. There's an American saying,"Fool, act like you've been here before." Some guys turn stupid when an attractive woman is talking to them and they fail to notice what's ACTUALLY happening. If you don't have the "stones" to totally control that interaction when dealing with party girls / strippers / professional players, then you are IN OVER YOUR HEAD. The guys they choose to f*ck in their personal lives (smile) are not following them around like love struck puppy dogs hoping to get a piece. The guys they CHOOSE to f*ck are the type of men that can replace them with minimal effort, while still being charming, fun, cool mother f*ckers.
Guys, you're in a strip club. They are PROFESSIONALS at flirting. It's what they do. Why on earth would someone think eye contact from a STRIPPER means she's totally into you? WTF! She's into you when she's already f*cked you twice and is pushing for more. They've had more experience than most men can even fathom and are master manipulators (strippers, club queens, professional sugar babies, etc.) They're VERY good at doing just enough to get a guy to jump through hoops if he isn't already; which is one reason why the interaction can turn cold quickly. They're also masters of the "takeaway". (Poor guy is thinking,"if I do more for her, then maybe she'll give me what I want".) Nope. These girls do it so often that the behavior is on autopilot. (I've had to verbally smack more than a few women for treating me like a "mark". Shuts down autopilot so then they appreciate "fun, cool, and charming". Consequently, if you behave this way with "normal" women without the autopilot B. S, you come across as an arrogant jerk.
Ultimately, if she isn't putting in the effort on some level to move the interaction forward, then you're S. O. L, just a means-to-an-end.
Advice needed for new guy
AAARGH! I just lost a long post because "I wasn't logged in"! Crap! Oh well, here it is again:
PLEASE lend me your experience. I have a lot of questions and just don't want to be ripped off or disappointed. Here is my situation:
I live one block off K Street and will be here on business for months. I'm working on my Russian but that will take some time. I'm English only for now. I can spend maybe $1500 a month on this comfortably, so I have to make my money count!
Here's my questions:
Where to find girls? You all seem to like clubs. I don't, but I'll go there if that's the best place to troll for girls. Is the consensus here that is where you will find the best girls and the best sex? How about just finding a reliable cab driver? Or (my preference) a web site like Mamba? Is Mamba the best website? Last, what about Escort services? Which one is best? I'm looking for advantages / disadvantages here.
Where to do it? I'd prefer my apartment, but is that wise? She could bring her friends to rip me off. Is security an issue? How about of she spends the night with me? Some of you have done this and I guess you weren't ripped off. Is it a good idea, though?
What? I like oral to completion (swallowing). Is that hard to find? Can I ask for it up front, or is considered rude? What is the best way to ask? How much should it cost?
When? Is it cheaper on weekdays? How about during the day? Some of the escort services seem to drop prices in the day.
How long? Is one hour not enough? Obviously the longer the better but let's be honest I'm not going to fall in love. Yet I don't want to feel rushed. You all seem to think 1. 5 hours is minimum. When does the clock start? DO you say when she walks in your room, OK, it's 1AM, my time starts now?
How much? I asked before, but someone posted don't pay until service is rendered. I agree, but do girls object to this? Is it customary?
Thanks for any advice in advance. I will reciprocate when I get some experience of my own. I will be calling a girl from Mamba today who says she will swallow for $100 unless I hear someone give me the red flag here.
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Greetings Gentlemen,
I strongly suggest to everyone who is writing a long report that they write it in a word processing program first, then proofread and spell check, then save it as file on their computer, [u[AND[/u] [u]THEN[/u] copy and paste it into the forum.
With this method, there is no danger of losing your work, and besides, it's easier to write in a real word procession program first. Even if you're in an Internet Cafe computer with no word processing program installed, you can always use Notepad or WordPad.
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