Great post. BUT: I have an important question.
[QUOTE=Skogis;1653129]The job is not done when you have the girls digits. Many of us have experienced bad receptions, connection cuts, girls don't answer and this ever ending pasaload request. If I clearly sense that a girl are actually out of load I pass on some pisos though my phone (at least for the Smart system it is easy to give out some load). Except from that I am allergic to money request but my girls are well informed about that through precommunication but some try the small amounts anyway. Many girls have many phones and if I find this out I skip them bcs then they most likely are BG or P4 P. Most of the normal girls I try to run after have sometimes enough holding one phone up and running, hehe. For girls in BG category I try avoid them but of course sometimes this fails. To scope for the BG I see when they are logged in FB/Datingsites(no exact science).
The most used frase the day our meet is going to take place is...[/QUOTE]OK. This is beautiful info, and thank you for all the detail.
ALL my experience on these sites is (and this includes from afar, AND while here in the Philippines. I am here now for a month).
Is that ALL the girls would NOT just come to my place for a first meeting. In fact, while I get tons of attention (dozens of emails and likes per day).
They immediately shift into what I call the "suspicious female inquisition" mode of asking how long I am staying, how many girls.
Why do I want to meet right away, am I "serious", etc. Etc. It's been hard enough to get them to meet for coffee.
Let along come RIGHT TO MY HOTEL? ESPECIALLY if you make it clear that money is NOT involved, WHAT DO YOU SAY TO THEM.
To have them come RIGHT to your hotel for a first meeting? Your specifics would be greatly appreciated. I'm fully aware that perhaps.
It is I that am being too cautious, but I certainly don't sense that any of these girls are open to that.
Thanks!
Beautiful! Hope you don't mind someone with less success asking for your advice. . .
[QUOTE=FreebieFan;1657798]Plenty. Phone apps, wechat whatsapp line kakao bee etc. . DIA Pinalove Filipina Cupid badoo tagged hi5 ok cupid and a whole host more, plus fb. New ones pop up every week. Similar to Skogis, I've never had a first date fail (ok, once in ten years is almost never LOL.) got to know your market and set out your strategy appropriately.[/QUOTE]I'm in Phils now, and have loved some of my trip.
And met some cuties too.
BUT, when using the dating sites, while I get literally hundreds of likes, emails, etc.
They ALL make it clear "looking for serious" etc. Etc.
And those who I like, and start communicating with, talk / write in such a way that.
Sounds very clear they are the "suspicious of one night stand type men" types.
Given this demeanor, that seems ubiquitous, what do I possibly say to invite them to my place.
For a first meeting? Those that I HAVE met for "dates" (coffee or just a talk), have resulted in flirtation, and.
A couple of makeouts, but then "I'm not ready" . . .
Am I choosing the wrong girls? Not being aggressive enough?
Would love to hear your advice, as I fully believe that I am sabotaging myself.
Thank you!