Sharing the contact and losing the relationship
Last week I wrote about a housewife contact. And there were a few requests to share the contact and I shared the contact with one member from here. Unfortunately because of the behavior of the person, now she is not responding to me now. I request the members the following in your behavior while you meet up a women. I'm not preaching but simple respect to human beings will get best results.
1. Tastes may differ from person to person. One that looks sexy and cute for me may not look the same for others. But have the courtesy to say that politely and oblige.
2. Though they are behind your money because of 101 reasons, they are also human beings. Treat them with respect.
3. After having planned for everything and if you have to walk out because it was not of your taste at least leave a small amount like 500 (not compulsory). Since they are here because of financial constraints they might have planned for something with what you'll be giving them. A small token amount will really help them and we are not going to loose big. Sometimes we loose much more than this for wrong stuff and especially if we are threatened.
4. Remember the person who referred you. He should not be facing problem because of your attitude. So behave accordingly.
These are not rules. You can do whatever you want. But if you want members to share their hard earned catches with you. Please.
Don't go for free but for Sharing
[QUOTE=ChennaiPari;1723552]We are couple based in Chennai, wife is early thirties, fair, good looking and met few friends through online ads. We are thinking why not mix fun with benefits and want to hear from all experienced folks here.
She gave go ahead but not sure how to start? Tried putting online ads but the mailbox gets filled with free-seekers.
Want to be discreet so do not want to meet many but only select meets with preferably decent professionals for girl friend experience.
How safe is for her to meet alone? Please help.[/QUOTE]Instead of offering for free you can go up for sharing or with small financial benefits first and then she will decide the market for her.
MP near Kodambakkam or Vadapalani
Hi guys,
Could anyone provide MP details were they provide B2B and BJ near Kdmbkm or Vdplni. I will share my MP details which I have for the same.
Thanks,
Rahul
Ready to help. Make an effort
Guys,
I don't want to get into this general topic again but seeing a lot of "Please share contact" requests in open forum without buying a subscription, thought of sharing this write-up. Very well summarized. I go through my inbox, opening the messages I did not reply, to see the members' posts after sending PM. No effort made. Tough to share in such cases.
Report credits: Class Man (Pune).
Newbie finds this site, registers and then just think that now they are eligible to receive contacts without putting any efforts or doing any study by themselves.
Also they don't even bother to read forum rules or even don't read the forum previous pages.
For newbies, there are sufficient clues (locanto etc.) or links already provided by seniors time to time.
Even newbies don't know that they have to activate their PM facility to communicate with other members. Same is the case with you.
Activate your PM.
After all of this also, kind seniors here are sharing their hard earned contacts. Once newbies receives the contacts, most of them goes underground and even don't bother to reciprocate to the members or even don't write report of their experience.
While sharing the contact of girl, we need to share our reference also. If the members misbehaving with the girl, it means we are also losing our rapo or trustworthiness with the girl. So there is the risk present in sharing the contact.
In other words, if we are sharing the contacts of girls with other members then we are also putting our relation with that girl on risk.
We were also newbies sometime and we took our efforts to build the relation with other members.
*It's true. I did lose rappo with Shalini Anna Nagar, Ammu Naturals, Reshma etc. For SPs, I don't care! But with indies, yes. Hope our forum becomes lively with good FRs someday.
Cheers,
JK