Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

Dear all,

Don't be so rude! Why so skeptic? I hardly can tell that I believe in love or people, who can devote themselves to others. But. Who are we if not humans? Isn't love a feeling worth experiencing? We're just afraid to be open and sincere. That's rather a miracle. To be in love in our world. I'd just like to change that. That's all.

[QUOTE=ImAGuy;1704600]I've been trying to hit up some girls on online dating sites with little success.

Tried DIA, FC and PL.

The only ones into me are usually older than me, not attractive, or have a kid.

Is PH much better in person or what?[/QUOTE]I haven't been to the Phil yet, but if you guys know me, I've been around the game for a long time. My stash of non-P4P girls is the best it has ever been and I've become extremely picky, which makes it even better. But I like big tits, so I have different standards. No tits = no Muta.

Age should not be a problem. Younger girls are 100 x easier to find than older ones. I don't know what you are doing, but you are doing something wrong. You should be able to find many girls in the 24-28 year old range no problem. Most of my current crop is around 26-28 with some being in their 40s, because I like my milfs.

Attractiveness is subjective. Most of the people here prefer thin spinners. I hate thin spinners. I like big titty girls and like my girls thick. Girls without big tits are barely even girls to me.

Girls with kids is the bad side of Filipino girls, but that's what makes things the way they are. Most filipino girls have kids ASAP. If they didn't have kids, they'd have BF's or husbands already. It really don't matter how many kids they have unless you are marrying them though. Tons of my girls have kids, but I ain't their kids father and I'm never going to be. As long as they send me the naked pics and fuck me on demand, I don't care. Hot girls are still hot after having kids.

I just recommend doing what I do. Always keep looking, never settle for substandard quality, find as many as you can, use every website you can and make it more of a lifestyle than a hobby. Girls don't care what you look like there nor what your age is. Oh and don't even try to be honest or expect them to be honest.

And totally random and out of the blue, but I need to find me a pimpette. Finding big tits takes time.

Geez I don't know how you can give advice on the PI if you have never been there. You are right, though, about finding big boob Filipinas. They are there but they are rare. It's my preference, too (obviously). For Imaguy: ya, a lot of the DIAs have kids and that's why they're working part-time P4 P. There are some real gems if you keep looking online and go there to see for yourself.

[QUOTE=GreatMuta;1711421]I haven't been to the Phil yet, I like big titty girls Finding big tits takes time.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=DCups;1711432]Geez I don't know how you can give advice on the PI if you have never been there. You are right, though, about finding big boob Filipinas. They are there but they are rare. It's my preference, too (obviously). For Imaguy: ya, a lot of the DIAs have kids and that's why they're working part-time P4 P. There are some real gems if you keep looking online and go there to see for yourself.

.[/QUOTE]D-Cups, you the man and you are an inspiration to me along with WestCoast and DS(and I ain't got shit on y'all), and you're not wrong on me not being there. I'm young, just got my first real job and spend most of my time tracking down new big titty girls online or keeping the ones I got.

DIA is cool, but I usually end up messaging a brand new girl or 10 everyday through other sites. All I can say is that if it has people on it, it's a good site to use.

Chat rooms & Pen Pals has been unusually quiet lately.

She writes on her profile: "I'm back!! I try to block my account HERE!!bec. I THOUGHT I finaly found my special someone here but!!I think he is not serious. ".

Can anyone enlighten me? What on earth do they mean by "serious"? I translate it very loosely to mean, "I'm serious about going to the Philippines. " Good enough for me. Does it work for you? X Man.

[QUOTE=XMan;1718511]Chat rooms & Pen Pals has been unusually quiet lately.

She writes on her profile: "I'm back!! I try to block my account HERE!!bec. I THOUGHT I finaly found my special someone here but!!I think he is not serious. ".

Can anyone enlighten me? What on earth do they mean by "serious"? I translate it very loosely to mean, "I'm serious about going to the Philippines. " Good enough for me. Does it work for you? X Man.[/QUOTE]I always meet my Filipinas from chats on either DIA or Cherry blossoms and from my experience in 30 trips to Phil since 2004 what they mean by " serious " is a guy who wants to have an exclusive relationship with them and not meet or be interested in anyone but them. Of course this flies in the face to any monger who wants to bed as many girls as possible. What I do right from the first chat is admit I do meet other chatmates on my trips and from force of habit I will continue to do so. But I tell them I would still like to meet them and see how we bond and nobody knows what the future will bring. This seems to placate 90% of the chatmates and they appreciate my honesty. So far this has worked for me.

Well I am serious about meeting them and banging them. After that my seriousness depends on their bangability, boob size and my availability. I'm very serious about that.

[QUOTE=Nightrider1;1718582] . Of course this flies in the face to any monger who wants to bed as many girls as possible. [/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=XMan;1718511]Chat rooms & Pen Pals has been unusually quiet lately.

[/QUOTE]You're right. I think I read the same profile you posted on DIA. The I'm-back-cuz-I-got-fucked-literally-and-figuratively profiles kind of sadden me. But sometimes they are bait, used to lure a guy to rescue them.

I got this charming message: "It took me 1 hour to get the guts to ask this of you and you can say no, don't worry I won't take it against you. Can you be my "friend with benefit" guy? I'm sorry if this is a very forward request, but as I have said earlier you can say no."

She writes, "I don't wan to tmeet for sex because I have done that in the past".

Prior to my next Manila arrival I have "worked late at the office" and arranged 45 dates (no I will not go through with them all ofcourse as I think I can only stay 5 days). What hit me this time, as I changed my MO slightly, was that I provided the girls with my exact fake arrival info (in my latest visits I have kept that a secret and only made contacts whith feet on phil soil). Then the funny thing happened as 13 of them did have their bd 1 or 2 days after my arrival. Statistically that has to be a new world record as in with 365 days to choose from I managed to meet 13 out of 45 with bd right after my arrival, hehe.

What most of them forgot was to update their FB's accounts and beeing confronted (only two gems) they claimed that their bd in FB was just artificial. One girl does actually have her bd one day after my arrival but she did not mentioned anything. What a world but it is all good fun.

What I did not tell the girls is that my arrivaldate are all fake and I will put in a delay with the greatest intention. I was actually just doing my small private research for fun and they will be provided the actual arrivaldate at a later stage which will be after their "bd's". Our small pinays realy loves their gifts, that's for sure.

[QUOTE=XMan;1724265]She writes, "I don't wan to tmeet for sex because I have done that in the past".[/QUOTE]Must be a 'berjin'.

That's interesting. Which online site are you using? I haven't experienced this online so much.

A few years ago in AC I remember that many bargirls gave the birthday line. It was kind of silly after you heard it repeatedly over the course of a few hours of bar hopping. It had mostly disappeared the next time I visited. What's really sad is Christmas. I don't need taxi drivers or anyone else to remind me that it is Christmas. I tell them that I'm agnostic, which seems to disgust them. X.

[QUOTE=Skogis;1725846]Prior to my next Manila arrival I have "worked late at the office" and arranged 45 dates (no I will not go through with them all ofcourse as I think I can only stay 5 days). What hit me this time, as I changed my MO slightly, was that I provided the girls with my exact fake arrival info (in my latest visits I have kept that a secret and only made contacts whith feet on phil soil). Then the funny thing happened as 13 of them did have their bd 1 or 2 days after my arrival. Statistically that has to be a new world record as in with 365 days to choose from I managed to meet 13 out of 45 with bd right after my arrival, hehe.

What most of them forgot was to update their FB's accounts and beeing confronted (only two gems) they claimed that their bd in FB was just artificial. One girl does actually have her bd one day after my arrival but she did not mentioned anything. What a world but it is all good fun.

What I did not tell the girls is that my arrivaldate are all fake and I will put in a delay with the greatest intention. I was actually just doing my small private research for fun and they will be provided the actual arrivaldate at a later stage which will be after their "bd's". Our small pinays realy loves their gifts, that's for sure.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=XMan;1726078]Christmas. The time of you giving me something.[/QUOTE]Yowza! I saw your comment's title, thought I lost three months, and now the Xmas season was upon us.

Came across this profile in PL. Refreshingly honest. Empathically so.

[QUOTE]I am serious. I need man can support me. I don't need love!. IF YOU ARE FAT OLD I DONT CARE IF YOU CAN UNDERSTAND ME THAT WILL BE GREAT TO LEARN LOVE WITH YOU.[/QUOTE]

This, my previous report, comes out from my fakebook account and its messengerservice. It was only a funny observation. Except from that I strongly agree with you that prior to last x mas was terrible with countless "remember my x mas gift, ok". Other observations will be directed to requests following when they smell you arrive by air and the, once again, countless "remember to by me taxfree perfume" and ofcourse the hints "I love chocolate". In most cases I just ignore even if I bring some gifts given to girls putting in an extra effort in the pleasing department. But they are only randomly handed out and with no system behind it.

Ok, so I'm going to take the plunge, and just move to the Philippines cold turkey.

I guess it's time for me to live through my mid-life crisis, and it feels freaking sweet.

I already had my Filipino Cupid account set up. Already paid, and waited for fish to come my way, but now I'm taking a proactive step.

I sent a shitton (that's the scientific name for it, haha) of messages to girls in the parts of the Philippines that I'll be in. It's a bit early, with it being a few months away, but I read from some members that some Filippinas have rules that they have to chat with the guy for some months before they make sweet love to him, so I'm trying to get my introductions and the chit chat part out of the way.

True also that some members said that if you chat with Filippinas for too long, they think you're a "long distance relationship" and start asking for money. So I've already prepared my answer: "I only help the girl I'm in love with. " so that they know that fun and sex comes before the payments.

Of course, in my selection process, I'm focused mostly on girls with big tits, but I guess I love the tits bigger than what is easily found in the Philippines: Girls with the cups or more that I have found after looking through hundreds of profiles I can count them on one hand, and I hope I'll meet at least one of them.

I guess I'm also in the headspace of online dating from other countries because I have the reflex of expecting a few girls to be interested, and feel self conscious about how I look, etc.

Hey, time will tell, this is just that first baby step.