Relaxed club to take kinky GF
I'm in Jakarta next week (only been a few times and never had time to go out. And will hook up with a local student I've met before. She's has an exhibitionist side she wants to make more of but she's not experienced. So we're looking for a club where we can get really friendly. Maybe BJ or even fuck. In a dark corner. Without too much risk. I don't think she'll want somewhere 'sleazy' (though I'd be happy. If it's clean). So a 'regular' club where no one cares that people go wild? Do you guys have any recommendations?
I'm a 40's white European. She's 20's Indonesian.
I'll post a report.
FR Re Post - 7 nights in Jakarta
[QUOTE=MasterDiverII;1573142]I just noticed that HappilyMarried's FR #8310 seems to have disappeared. Does anyone know why? The title and post is still there but that's it. The actual FR has gone.
MD II.[/QUOTE]This is a repost of my previous FR after it was not migrated across when a software upgrade was done. Originally I thought someone had taken offence to my report because it looked like it was removed. Thanks to Admin (Jackson) for clarifying the situation. I've also fixed up a few typos and some grammar but sure I've still missed some too! There are also a few updates.
Guys,
I've just arrived back home after 7 nights in Jakarta. It's my first proper FR so hope it will be fun to read. Just a bit of background on myself and preferences first. I'm a 40 year old Aussie guy with passable looks, clean cut, and reasonable fitness, in summary, average. After many encounters in different countries I prefer the full GFE versus the spas or brothels. I try to target 28 to 35 year old office worker type girls, ones which can hold a decent conversation with me in English but are not too inquisitive. This usually means that they are divorced single mothers often with current Bule partners or have had them in the past. As far a physical appearance, I tend to go for the more average build with curves. Even if there is a bit of excess, then I do enjoy as I'm getting older and prefer the limousine versus the Ferrari ride these days.
I have a mate (male friend from school days) in Jakarta and this has proved to be a good "excuse" with the girls to move on to my next date. I've used DIA and IndoCupid before with success but this trip I stuck to DIA.
My strategy, which I'm sure has been used in the past by other members here is as follows -.
1) DIA Profile – description of who you are should read that you are polite, respectful, friendly, and open minded and are looking for someone similar. I've found that mentioning "open minded" is more subtle than asking for NSA so it works well. Either the girl will know what "open minded" means or will ask to confirm.
2) Many is better than one – I've found that in general some of the girls are clingy and that even myself if I find a good match then I'm likely to see her again. In fact in my previous trip I spend 4 nights with one girl. Well, that's not really what I set out to do. So, try not to stick with one girl, you can have fun with many more.
3) Lunch Date and Dinner Date – I tried to squeeze 2 dates into one day. It did leave me very tired but I managed this for a few days. The "lunch or dinner with my mate" excuse was used many times to move on to the next date but make sure you mention this to her in advance of your date. She won't mind.
Now, here is my diary of how things went.
Saturday.
After some drinks at FX Harris Hotel Surdiman with my mate we headed to CJs. It was better than I expected with a good band and lots of working girls. They were not mingling looking for business but were there should the mood take us all lined up at the back. After a couple of overpriced beers we headed to Blok M. For some reason it's where I prefer to head to finish the night. We went to MyBar as this is where my mate who is a regular gets well looked after by the staff. After picking a nice very small (I'd say not a touch over 40 kg) girl we had some tequila shots. This was apparently too much for her and she ended up in the bathroom sick. Time to find another girl. As I was lazy I asked the mamasan to get me a girl, tipped her 50 k. The pick was nice with a 170 cm long haired beauty with agreed price of 800 k. When arriving back at FX Harris I got into it. A nice but hesitant BBBJ and I could tell she was new to the game. Following about 20 minutes of pounding she said she needed to go to the bathroom. She was taking longer than expected and then suddenly she came out of the bathroom making a direct exit for the door! What happened? I think it was all too much for her. She asked for no money, just left. This has happened to me on more than one occasion so I'm wondering what it is with me? Anyway, I had a contact from DIA who made it clear she was available at a rate so I hit her up on whatsapp, agreed on 800 k for 2 shots and within 45 minutes she was at my hotel. By the time I finished my second shot, the sun was pouring through the glass windows. A good if not strange night!
Sunday.
1 pm.
DIA date "Vera" who was a nice Chinese girl was first cab off the rank. Beautiful white skin and nice tight body but not so "solid" as some Chinese girls tend to have making them look more manly then they should! She came to FX Mall at 1 pm and we had lunch. Without me knowing, she'd made plans to see her friend who was leaving the country. Oh well, lucked out on her but kept her warm just in case as she made it very clear in words she was ready to jump in bed with me "next time" Seems like she was doing the interviewing rather than me. Not the way it should be! She was msging me from 9 pm onwards that night asking to come to the hotel. Ended up I'd never see her again because I would be too busy with other dates including that evening.
6 pm.
Date was set with my DIA girl "Ellen" She was a 36 year old, never married, no kids professional girl with good English. Definitely a nice chat in the pub under FX (Bloemberg? And then I prompted subtly to go upstairs and she latched on. I love it when a chic brings her overnight bag with her on the first date. So, after the first round we went for dinner downstairs and then back to the room for another round before a good sleep together.
In the morning, we had a quick romp before she went to work. After my flight and late night on Saturday, I think I slept more than she was hoping I would! We still keep in touch and she will be visiting me here in December.
Monday.
1 pm.
Date set with DIA girl "Fitri" (not her real name). Now I knew this one was going to be hard work and would probably amount to nothing but I thought I'd try anyway. Even though I made it clear I was not looking for anything serious I don't think the message got through. A nice lunch followed by a movie (my first 4 D movie and it was awesome! Captain America). Nothing much more to write about here. Don't know why I bothered other than some "pleasant" company over lunch and the movie. Kept up the nice guy image.
Update. Just the polite occasional Hello, every couple of weeks on WA.
10 pm.
On my previous 2 visits I have made contact with a girl called "Hanny" - indo Chinese. I help her with her English homework so in my mind, she kind of owes me. The first time I was in Jakarta she was not up for anal but the second time I made it a condition for her to see me. She is 39, super tight body as she's at the gym everyday, and she doesn't say no to anything. It's gotten to the point where I'll probably not see her next time as there is no challenge or resistance anymore. She stayed over and again in the morning the same was had. Update. Don't keep in touch with her and she does her own homework now.
Tuesday.
3 pm.
Looking back, this was my most interesting experience. 32 yr old office girl, in Thamrin Residence Level 3. Her DIA "status" said "complicated" which translates to her only looking for NSA fun – perfect. She made it clear what she wanted from the time we started chatting. She has a guy in Canada who apparently just doesn't deliver for her. She liked to play "rough" We met out the front of family mart, got the beers and other essentials and made our way up to level 5 pool area at which point the tornado ripped through Thamrin that afternoon. We finished our beers, she was very frank with what she wanted. She was indeed rough getting to the point of choking me and also asking me to hit her. Whilst I didn't quite meet that request fully I did play rough with her. Two shots during a full on 2 hr play session like I've never had before.
Once finished, she took me on her motorbike to meet my next date in Kota Casablanca Great service.
Update. Still keep in touch and will pay for her to come to Sing next time I am there. She wants to film us next time on the condition of us wearing masks. Now if that's not incentive enough to upgrade to become a senior member on this forum I don't know what is!
6 pm.
DIA date "Ulfa" 38 yrs old who I actually developed a nice relationship with over the last year via whatsapp I finally met. Very shy small girl, not much over 40 kg. Terrible teeth but could forgive her as body was dark and tight. Again, as with the others, I made my conditions of seeing me clear. In case you haven't figured it out I do like to do anal with the girls. Picked up my bag and travelled to Kemang FavHotel for just one night. A nice dinner at the mediteranian resto there with not much chat due to her limited english and her shynesss. Back to the hotel and I've never met a more horny girl than her before. She struggled with back door but kept to her promise and took it. The same again in the morning and she left.
Update. Now this is funny, she "accidentally" created a viber group with all her "guys" on it. There were about a dozen and I just stood back and listened to them all have a nice chat about their experiences with her. Not such a nice girl after all.
Wednesday.
By this time I'd moved to Kemang Icon.
1 pm.
28 yr old DIA date Jenny. Another stunning Chinese girl and plenty of chat on whatsapp indicating she was up for it but when it came down to business, no dice. We went to Pizza Murano in Kemang and had a good chat. She had taken the whole day off work, went to the spa in the morning, had her hair and nails done and her skin was glowing white. I thought it was a sure thing after all her "preparation" for the date. Conversation flowed well, we went back to the hotel. Inside the room we kissed, fondled etc but she was hesitant to let me touch her anywhere else. She then apologised and said she couldn't go through with it. I said "no worries, we will keep in touch. " A shame, this girl was a stunner and I'm sure if I'd stayed longer or been working in Jakarta longer term I could have got her.
6 pm.
DIA date "Riskia" (27 yrs) promised to be an interesting one. The more I got to know her on whatsapp the more worried I became! Pics of toys, her in bondage gear. I was thinking I'd find myself a specialised working girl which I did not really want. She came from her office in Thamrin and picked me up along the way from my hotel and headed to Vin+. She was a nice girl in person, a vivacious chatty office girl. Vin+ was a great place, cheese platters etc. And free flowing wine from 6 to 9 pm. I'd recommend Vin+. Cost was 300 K each but waived by her marketing friend at the door. After 9 pm I purchased one more bottle and after that we went back to the hotel on her request. As with Tuesdays Thamrin Residence girl, this one was just as wild. She didn't bring here toys but took it every which way I gave it to her including the back door. She wasnt a small girl, I'm guessing just shy of 60 kg but was so much fun. I used the zip ties I had for my luggage on her and used her properly in every hole. She left in the morning after I fucked her in the ass one more time. "You naughty" is the phrase I'll remember from her.
Update. Keep in touch regularly and will definitely see her next time I'm in Sing. Such a cute and pretty face.
Thursday.
5 pm.
Joice picked me up from her work near "Karet" busway station. She was a DIA date I didn't get around to last year and to be honest was thinking of skipping her this time around too. But, I'm glad I didn't. She's a 33 yr year old girl and our personalities clicked immediately. We had dinner at "trattoria" in Kuningan outside as she's a smoker (each to their own but I prefer non smokers). I wasn't sure where the night would go as it was a last minute decision for us both to meet. I asked if she wanted to stay with me but she said she couldn't as she didn't have a change of clothes. She offered to take me back to Kunginan and I graciously accepted. After some gentle pressure / convincing her to come to my room she was persuaded. Some shy contact with her but I had her interest. I had a shower because I'd just spent the day at Manga Dua shopping. Offered her a shower too and she came out fully clothed as she was before. At this point I'd given up. I thought to myself, at least I got to meet her after over one year of whatsapp chat, even if it comes to nothing it was nice. After a bit more gentle kissing on the bed I felt around to her ass. What. No knickers! Perfect. She asked if I had a condom and I broke open the new pack of 12 (of which I hadn't used at all this trip yet, very bad of me and I need to watch myself as I'm getting too relaxed with this). Some very gentle love making as it was clear she hadn't done for quite a while and I finished off with good strong doggy on her. She immediately dressed and said she needed to go home. The perfect date but I did feel a bit used.
Update. Keeping her warm for next time.
Friday.
3 pm.
Throughout the week, a LINE contact I'd met on Tagged earlier in the year (January) kept on pinging me but not in a persistent way that I really don't enjoy. She was subtle but just asking for coffee and at least to meet. I almost did not agree to meet her, I was stupid. Her name was "Windy" 20 year old student who lived in Kuningan. We agreed to meet each other at Pacific Plaza and within 45 minutes she was there. Wow. Absolute stunner, the best of the week. I was in awe of her and I think she was also pretty happy to see me. It was really like a shy first date. She was dressed in a one piece red dress with a zipper down the back and a nice set of heels which she could really wear with style and confidence (many women cannot). Her body was not not small, but it was really shapely. The best I've heard indo women described and it's so true is "the Latinas of SE asia" - and this was Windy. Tits, Ass, Legs, and long flowing hair on a 20 yr old tight ripe body. Give her another 5 years and I'm sure she will blow out. I asked what she was doing all night and weekend and she said she's totally free but has to be home at 11 pm. Perfect I thought to myself, a good time to hit Blok M should nothing eventuate with her.
We saw a movie in Blitz where they have the "beds" and some action was had there to show she was very keen. Following the movie she agreed straight away to come back to Kemang with me. Immediately the obvious happened and her words "nice to finally meet you and fuck" still ring in my ear! I was thinking. The pleasure is all mine but of course played it cool After that we hit Murphys for some music and then to EP for dinner. She was keen to meet my friend and it was a bit awkward as we were meeting at Blok M. So, I suggested to him we meet at Everest, the only non working girl bar there I know. She was not impressed with the place but still went up to sing with the band. At 1 am she excused herself and I walked her out to get a taxi near the bus station. We agreed to meet the next day.
Friday / Saturday 1 am.
My mate and I hit the regular "MyBar" in Blok M. I have to say, on the occassions I've gone there we get very well looked after as far as table service but the selection of girls is not so impressive. I had to delay my urges for a couple of hours as his workmates (some female) were there – I guess they are pretty open minded going to a place like that. So, I crossed over to Top Gun. Whoever said the girls there are not good I would say half of them I'd be happy to take home with me. Ok, maybe my standards are not high but there was definitely a good picking of girls there. I picked a taller (170 cm) 23 yr old Chinese looking girl and took her over to MyBar. After a couple of drinks settled on 800 K with agreement that a morning session would be had. Service was pretty good but nothing like the "dates" I'd had during the week. The "dates" were a lot more fun and heaps better in bed. In the morning another session was had and money handed over.
Saturday.
2 pm.
I checked into Condotel at Thamrin Residences as my flight was a midnight flight back home. I wanted somewhere cheap and closer to the airport than Kemang. I met "Windy" (20 yr old student) at Festival Plaza where we had Padang food (I love the stuff). After having my fill of Rendang she wanted to take me around her neighbourhood. Walked around EpiCentrum Plaza, saw where Liquid Exchange Bar is and then she took me to the apartment complex where she lives with her sister and brother in law. At this point I was thinking she is taking this all a bit too serious but I played along with it. She wanted to show me all the places she took pics of for me and sent via LINE app. Walked around the pool area and introduced me to her nieghbours she met as her "boyfriend" I thought it was kind of sweet and I was weary of getting reeled in as still to this day I'm not sure if she's in the game with many others or really I was her sole focus for the last few months. I had a feeling the later was true but I've been around Indo women long enough to know it's hard to trust them Anyway, we headed back to CondoTel for one last round and when it was time for me to go she actually started crying! I didn't know what to do or think but at this point she was really doing my head in! I dropped her home in Kuningan with the semi promise of seeing her in her Uni holidays in September but it's unlikely.
Update. The occasional Hello, from her and question of why I don't keep in touch with her so much. She was perfect but high maintenance emotionally so I won't see her again.
Well, that ended my one week in Jakarta.
My total was exactly 10 girls bedded (8 DIA and 2 P4 P) and 3 dud dates which were Chinese girls. Not bad for 7 nights in Jakarta. I do really enjoy the dating scene a lot more than P4 P. I figure, if the girl likes you well enough to make her own mind up to sleep with you then the sex is always better and it definitely was. I had no dud starfish girls and if I had to rate them then the P4 P would come in the last 2 positions but even they were pretty good.
Jakarta just keeps on getting better and better.
