FKK FAQ

[QUOTE=Nille Copenhagen;1252662]Our imagination runs wild here. Why is it so hard to say no to a lady, tell her you don't like her and won't pay money to fuck her.[/QUOTE]In my case that is usually not the honest answer. If I was to say it as it is, in many cases it would be "well, I would not mind fucking you at some time given that I had no better options at the time, but right now I am looking to see if I will find someone a bit hotter to spend time with, but if not successful, I would like to use you as my backup plan". Basically this translate into "maybe later", but that reply will often have the girl hunting you later when you do not wish for it. For others they selectevely decide to ignore the "maybe" part of it.

Now, that would not go so well so I usually try to turn it into a "fun" conversation giving me a way in later if things don't go all that well with the rest of the lineup.

Every now and then a girl comes by that I will turn away immedietly with no reservations. Take for example the "italian" girl that looks like a dude at World (the one with the droopie ass and hideous boob job). When I see her approching I just give the "time out". T signal with my hands. I can't stand her breath and do not wish to talk to her so I try to turn her away before she comes to close.

Using some fun lines and getting a quick witty response has actually turned me on number of occasions. I am easily turned on by quick-witted girls as long as they are not hideous.

I try to avoid maybe later, especially if its the real mingers, can get you into trouble later on with the persistant ones.

Out of money.

Only here for the food / music / dancers / dj.

In love with someone else.

Already have a date planned.

Hanging out / waiting for friends.

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[QUOTE=Henio;1253077]Every now and then a girl comes by that I will turn away immedietly with no reservations. Take for example the "italian" girl that looks like a dude at World (the one with the droopie ass and hideous boob job). When I see her approching I just give the "time out". T signal with my hands. I can't stand her breath and do not wish to talk to her so I try to turn her away before she comes to close.[/QUOTE]Oh the monster Sylvana from Venice, since I started going to World I've cursed the fact this citiy wasn't flooded some 50 years ago. No matter how often, and how rudely, I turn her down. With my next visit she doesn't seem to remember me, and I have to go through it all again. *shiver*

There's a very easy way to turn down a girl you're not interested in. Just smile at her and shake your head no. You don't have to say a word. I've done it many times.

[QUOTE=Lorenzo;1253169]There's a very easy way to turn down a girl you're not interested in. Just smile at her and shake your head no. You don't have to say a word. I've done it many times.[/QUOTE]Good tip. Unfortunately, as you no doubt well know, creativity is sometimes required. It doesn't work to smile and shake your head when the heavyweight no-go in question has plumped herself onto your lap, spoiling a carefully cultivated, perfectly decent erection in the process, and rammed her tongue down your throat only to surface two minutes later with "Kino?" But you're right. Generally we make a pig's ear of the job of rejection where polite honesty would be more effective. The trouble is it can be a repetitive chore, which is why we are so keen to find the cure-all. I was approached six times in the first fifteen minutes last time I was at Oase. Spoilt buggers aren't we?

[QUOTE=Toscana;1253287]The trouble is it can be a repetitive chore, which is why we are so keen to find the cure-all.[/QUOTE]Dressing is full drag is usually 100% effective. It does sort of cramp one's style though with the other ladies who one wants to approach.

[QUOTE=Toscana;1253287]I was approached six times in the first fifteen minutes last time I was at Oase. Spoilt buggers aren't we?[/QUOTE]Spoiled yes. I sometimes wonder if this is not cosmic pay back for all the times men have hit on women and refused to take no for an answer despite pretty obvious signals.

Still if the worst of you problems is that too many 20 something hotties are hitting on you in an FKK, I'd say you are doing alright.

AM

[QUOTE=Angus Magee;1253301]Still if the worst of you problems is that too many 20 something hotties are hitting on you in an FKK, I'd say you are doing alright.[/QUOTE]Oh, I'm not complaining. LOL.

Tosc, on his way to Finca tomorrow to suffer a bit more.

Yes.

One of the best insights I have had from visiting all these fkk clubs is that in some ways it is like the reverse of a normal nightclub or bar in the West. Because of just a relatively small financial incentive this shifts the whole power dynamic between men and women, I noticed myself become extemely selective and 'picky' just like women tend to be about who they go home with in a normal club. I also experienced the feeling of sexual abundance for the first time in my life, having multiple options with hot women, so many options that it is just too much and you find yourself in the bizarre situation of having to turn down hot young women for threesomes because you are just too spent! This is a mindblowing reality shift I don't think many men EVER experience except if they are famous or something.

[QUOTE=Monger152; 1257049]Yes.

One of the best insights I have had from visiting all these fkk clubs is that in some ways it is like the reverse of a normal nightclub or bar in the West. Because of just a relatively small financial incentive this shifts the whole power dynamic between men and women, I noticed myself become extemely selective and 'picky' just like women tend to be about who they go home with in a normal club. I also experienced the feeling of sexual abundance for the first time in my life, having multiple options with hot women, so many options that it is just too much and you find yourself in the bizarre situation of having to turn down hot young women for threesomes because you are just too spent! This is a mindblowing reality shift I don't think many men EVER experience except if they are famous or something.[/QUOTE]LOL I hear you buddy. The power of money. If only I had access to FKK clubs in my teenage years. It is all good, will just have to do some catching up.

I may get my chance to try an FKK this May, and have been dutifully doing my due diligence, but some Google translations leave me puzzled.

Samya appears to be in a convenient location and from what I have been able to determine, there is a good chance of having a fun time there. The problem is in the description of what the girls will do. With each girl on their website there is a description of acceptable activities. The following is typical: "Kissing, massage, cuddling, licking, no French, French-mouth." I associate French with French kissing, but what is the meaning of "no French, French-mounth"? My reading of the clubs is that French kissing is essentially a standard activity.

Would someone be good enough to clarify this for me, please?

Of course, updated comments on Samya would also be of use / interest.

Thanks

[QUOTE=SensualSixty; 1257838]I may get my chance to try an FKK this May, and have been dutifully doing my due diligence, but some Google translations leave me puzzled.

Samya appears to be in a convenient location and from what I have been able to determine, there is a good chance of having a fun time there. The problem is in the description of what the girls will do. With each girl on their website there is a description of acceptable activities. The following is typical: "Kissing, massage, cuddling, licking, no French, French-mouth." I associate French with French kissing, but what is the meaning of "no French, French-mounth"? My reading of the clubs is that French kissing is essentially a standard activity.

Would someone be good enough to clarify this for me, please?

Of course, updated comments on Samya would also be of use / interest.

Thanks[/QUOTE]French in German (with regard to sexual acts) stands for oral sex, so either blowjobs or DATY. The desciptions on Samya's site aren't always correct though and I personally suspect that they just copy and paste the info when a new girls info gets put online. Especially for DFK you shouldn't assume every girl is up for it. Next to the entrance they have a list which shows which girls do extras like CIM (quite few actually) and anal, I got the feeling this list is more useful. French mouth could stand for CIM...which is called Fransosisch Total in Germany.

Come to think of it, the 'French no' pobably means BBBJ, so French without condom.

[QUOTE=Free Dude;1258012]Come to think of it, the 'French no' pobably means BBBJ, so French without condom.[/QUOTE]Französisch Ohne (FO) would be BBBJ.

Französisch Total (FT) would be BBBJCIM.

Französisch gegenseitig would be 69.

The first two are usually charged as extra the last should not be charged extra. Well not quite true for in an FKK FO is customarily included. At a bordello often BBBJ is charged.

AM

[quote=angus magee; 1258083]französisch ohne (fo) would be bbbj.

französisch total (ft) would be bbbjcim.

französisch gegenseitig would be 69.

the first two are usually charged as extra the last should not be charged extra. well not quite true for in an fkk fo is customarily included. at a bordello often bbbj is charged.

am[/quote]here is an almost complete list of abbreviations.

3g get in. get off. get out.

amp asian massage parlor.

around the world (1) rimming. oral sex on the anus of either sex. (2) three acts in a session: oral, vaginal, and anal.

asian oral sex on the anus of either sex (aka rimming or around-the-world)

asian cowgirl cowgirl with girl squatting, instead of on her knees.

atf all time favorite.

bbbj bare back blow job fellatio without a condom; aka "french without" or "un-translated french."

bbw big beautiful woman a woman, asp, who caters to clientele that prefer overweight women.

body rub a massage or massage like service. used instead of "massage", usually to indicate sexual stimulation (usually manual) is included and the person performing the service is not licensed as a massage therapist.

btw by the way.

cim cum in mouth.

cowgirl girl on top.

doggie style rear entry position.

daty dine at the "y" cunnilingus.

dfk deep french kissing kissing with deep tongue contact.

ee erotic enema.

fbsm full body sensual massage a massage ending with a hand job.

french oral sex."translated french" refers to oral sex with a condom.

fs full service intercourse to completion.

ftf fun to fuck.

gfe girl friend experience a frequently used but utterly nebulous term. it refers to a session that is more like lovemaking with a girlfriend than a commercial service, whatever that means!

greek anal sex.

half & half a combination of both oral sex and intercourse.

hj hand job masturbation

hme honeymoon experience better than a gfe, and even more nebulous. it refers to a session that is comparable to the intensity and passion of lovemaking while on one's honeymoon.

incall meet the asp at her location.

iso in search of a post looking for something.

msog multiple shots on goal the asp allows you to climax multiple times during the session.

missionary man on top.

nqns not a quitter and not a spitter oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.

otc oral to completion.

outcall the asp comes to your location.

pse porn star experience a session that gives the feeling of being in a porn or xxx movie. a date with a porn star.

pv private viewing session that is most often limited to a striptease and self-service.

russian stimulation by rubbing one's penis between a girl's breasts.

sensual massage indicates a massage with sexual stimulation (usually manual).

utf un-translated french oral sex without a condom.

ymmv your mileage may vary may do things with one person, but not with another. often used as a caveat,"don't accuse me of a false report if she doesn't do the same with you."

[QUOTE=FKKclubs;1258085]Here is an almost complete list of abbreviations.[/QUOTE]I believe the issue is finding German abbreviations and / or translations. If you can come up with that list many would be in your debt.

AM