[QUOTE=Pcpc1688;1759087]I know you must be insecure and prolly alittle over weight Caucasian male huh??? Oh yea with receding hair line too [/QUOTE]Dammit. Have we met? Haha.
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[QUOTE=Pcpc1688;1759087]I know you must be insecure and prolly alittle over weight Caucasian male huh??? Oh yea with receding hair line too [/QUOTE]Dammit. Have we met? Haha.
Yes, it looks and sounds like English, but it isn't.
[QUOTE=BeachBoy46;1759140]
G. Almost there.
[/QUOTE]Means she's on the same planet as you. And hasn't left yet.
[QUOTE=BeachBoy46;1759140]
G. Huh?[/QUOTE]Means she has just awakened from a nap.
[QUOTE=BeachBoy46;1759140]
It is my personal opinion that they don't listen to a single word we say. In one ear and out the other then back to dreamtime.[/QUOTE]Because...
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Of course I weakened...[/QUOTE]Voilą!
And who says it's a man's world? ;)
[QUOTE=Hutsori;1759123]<SNIP>
There is a point in the evening when a line is crossed. On one side of the line it's the girl is inconsiderate; on the other side of the line it's I'm a fool for accepting this. That line was 8:30 pm.[/QUOTE]Huts is correct. I am amazed that so many guys bang on and on here on the forum about girls being late etc but then admit that they still accept their arrival 3 or 4 hours later and it's business as usual. I have lost count of the number of meetings that I have cancelled because the girl was 30 minutes late and gave me no reason why. That's my limit, UNLESS I get a very feasible reason for the delay. I just cancel. End of story.
These girls are treating guys with exactly the same indifference and lack of consideration that has driven most of these guys to visit the Philippines thinking they are escaping similar treatment from their partners in the home country. Isn't being treated like sh*t at home why most guys travel and seek filipinas as companions?
If a girl is 3 hours late and the guy still meets her, shows her a good time and rewards her as well, then, as Huts says, she will do it again and again, and probably make it 4 hours next time.
[QUOTE=RedKilt;1759201]Huts is correct. I am amazed that so many guys bang on and on here on the forum about girls being late etc but then admit that they still accept their arrival 3 or 4 hours later and it's business as usual. I have lost count of the number of meetings that I have cancelled because the girl was 30 minutes late and gave me no reason why. That's my limit, UNLESS I get a very feasible reason for the delay. I just cancel. End of story.
These girls are treating guys with exactly the same indifference and lack of consideration that has driven most of these guys to visit the Philippines thinking they are escaping similar treatment from their partners in the home country. Isn't being treated like sh*t at home why most guys travel and seek filipinas as companions?
If a girl is 3 hours late and the guy still meets her, shows her a good time and rewards her as well, then, as Huts says, she will do it again and again, and probably make it 4 hours next time.[/QUOTE]Word man. For every punter putting up with delays the girls get used to this. They have a sloppy view of time anyway so no need to put up with this. This was actually why I started to book girls on a frequent schedule in the first place. As in if a girl arrived late and I cancelled on her I did not have to wait more than 2 hrs maximum for the next girl. As I developed my mongering and communication with them girls I moved more towards only fixing me up with close by living girls and girls who I got a nice vibe with. Still, as in my earlier postings, I stress time, time and time again (not the way Huts do it but my way seems to work fine as well to me).
Sometimes like other seasoned punters here I can put up with latecomers if they inform me upfront and their excuses are reliable. This goes only for overnighters as if they arrive 11 pm or midnight really does not matter as I have no more schedule that day anyway. Overnighters are always well screened girls and worth fucking big time.
I have been heavily into phils the last 3-4 years now with 10-15 visits each year. I've met loads of girls (exact numbers will be tough to confirm but calling it loads is not lying). The most stupid girl I've ever met must have been this one:
Met her first staying at the New World Manila Bay (former Hyatt) and our first meet went smooth as clockwork. She arrived on time and we had a bedblast out of another dimension. I ticked her into my repeat list before she left.
Two days later we made arrangements to meet up (what a lovely pukie). I told her same place, same arrangements as last time. She was more than happy to meet me again. Please be advice it was only 2 days ago she met me at the hotel mentioned above.
We communicate as she's on her way. Everything seems to go according to plan. She text me she's in the lobby, I go down to the same in lobby pick up spot we met 2 days earlier. No girl to be seen (at least not the one I was looking for). I text her and she claims she is in the lobby and I get many "where are you now?" This goes back and forth several times until I ask her "which hotel are you at? She tells me she's at the Pan Pacific. By now I have maybe mentioned the name of my hotel like numerous of times, I just had to sit down and breath as in calm myself down before trying to, in a nice way explain: "you are at the wrong hotel dear".
2 days prior to this she arrived here as the mentioned clockwork, no worries. 2 days later she has no idea where I am at bcs I did not mention the hotel I just said I stayed "same place" and she told me the usual phil "ok, see you soon dear / honey". Be aware when a phil girl goes all "OK", the OK can mean the following: No, I don't have a clue, yes, I understand, I have no idea what you talk about etc etc. So to you all fine gents in here and I guess most of you have gotten replies to your questions being the "OK". I will hereby underline to confirm with the girls what is OK? An OK answer simply isn't enough in phils. In Norway it never failes but here it can.
Phil defenders; once again this isn't complaints towards the general population. I just want mongers to be aware as in a heads up what might happens. And of course i know the fact maybe she has so many punters so her mind goes all into overload mode at times or she just delayed the hole event bcs she happened to have a punter she just did at the Pan Pacific, who knows. Even so stupid:-)
[QUOTE=RedKilt;1759201]Huts is correct. I am amazed that so many guys bang on and on here on the forum about girls being late etc but then admit that they still accept their arrival 3 or 4 hours later and it's business as usual. I have lost count of the number of meetings that I have cancelled because the girl was 30 minutes late and gave me no reason why. That's my limit, UNLESS I get a very feasible reason for the delay. I just cancel. End of story.
These girls are treating guys with exactly the same indifference and lack of consideration that has driven most of these guys to visit the Philippines thinking they are escaping similar treatment from their partners in the home country. Isn't being treated like sh*t at home why most guys travel and seek filipinas as companions?
If a girl is 3 hours late and the guy still meets her, shows her a good time and rewards her as well, then, as Huts says, she will do it again and again, and probably make it 4 hours next time.[/QUOTE]Fil woman are not like Western women and thank god for that. They are different VERY fucking different, until they are taught that being on time is relevant and IMPORTANT and means respect then they will not be on time because it simply doesn't matter to their culture, tomorrow today what the heck.
I am amazed at how a Filipina will wait for anything and it never ever bugs them, some one being 5 minutes late makes me crazy (I think we need to change a little) but to a filipina being a day late is the way things are. They don't plan they don't anticipate they just ARE! And they are happy with this.
Annoying as it is it has some desirable traits, it is indeed a double edged sword! They are not treating us poorly they are treating us like we are the same!
PP.
[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;1759436]
I am amazed at how a Filipina will wait for anything and it never ever bugs them, some one being 5 minutes late makes me crazy (I think we need to change a little) but to a filipina being a day late is the way things are. They don't plan they don't anticipate they just ARE! And they are happy with this.
PP.[/QUOTE]Cultural differences regarding the value of time notwithstanding, my standard rule--be it for business or any other scheduled meeting--is never to wait more than 15 minutes for anyone. I've adhered to this precept for years, and have walked away from several scheduled meetings here and elsewhere when the person with whom I was supposed to meet did not show up. The most recent application of the rule was last week, though that was for business and not pleasure. I won't accept "traffic" as an excuse either.
GE.
[QUOTE=David_33;1759118]I don't understand.[/QUOTE]Let me clarify this statement.
Getting ones shoes shined and take their word for it merely means that ones belly is too large or overlapping waistline and that he cannot see his feet.
PC out.
[QUOTE=Skogis;1759357]I have been heavily into phils the last 3-4 years now with 10-15 visits each year. I've met loads of girls (exact numbers will be tough to confirm but calling it loads is not lying). The most stupid girl I've ever met must have been this one:
Met her first staying at the New World Manila Bay (former Hyatt) and our first meet went smooth as clockwork. She arrived on time and we had a bedblast out of another dimension. I ticked her into my repeatlist before she left.
Two days later we made arrangements to meet up (what a lovely pukie). I told her same place, same arrangements as last time. She was more than happy to meet me again. Please be advice it was only 2 days ago she met me at the hotel mentioned above.
Phil defenders; once again this isn't complaints towards the general population. I just want mongerers to be aware as in a heads up what might happens. And ofcourse i know the fact maybe she has so many punters so her mind goes all into overload mode at times or she just delayed the hole event bcs she happened to have a punter she just did at the Pan Pacific, who knows. Even so stupid:-)[/QUOTE]This sounds about right Skoggie LOL.
BTW, who are the Phils Defenders as it seems at least in the last few pages they haven't said anything to this issue?
PC out.
[QUOTE=WestCoast1;1759147]Dammit. Have we met? Haha.[/QUOTE]One day Westie in Cebu maybe at Js. LOL.
PC out.
[QUOTE=Skogis;1759357]Phil defenders; once again this isn't complaints towards the general population. I just want mongerers to be aware as in a heads up what might happens. And ofcourse i know the fact maybe she has so many punters so her mind goes all into overload mode at times or she just delayed the hole event bcs she happened to have a punter she just did at the Pan Pacific, who knows. Even so stupid[/QUOTE]Nothing to defend. That's why the local women are loved by mongers across the globe due to their low intelligence which is translated to hospitality and caring. Even Filipino men who write into Dear Abby columns with drippy dricks will tell the author they acquired the drippy dick from a "hospitable" woman.
[QUOTE=Hutsori;1759123]Really? You did all that, eh? You sent her a text long before 8 pm canceling the meeting? You didn't mention that. Why then were you still texting her over several hours throughout the evening whilst sitting alone in your hotel room? Something entertaining on the telly you couldn't bear to pull yourself away from?
If you did all that and were still waiting at 1130 pm for a 8 pm hookup then it seems to me you are at peace with or perhaps enjoy waiting around, you were just not yet conscious of it. Now you are. Ah, enlightenment. Or maybe you're a compulsive eccentric, enthusiastic about texting "Where r u?" frequently.
If you have a high tolerance for a girl's passive-aggressive bullshit you will find plenty of it. Yes, some girls are genuinely forgetful or even stupid. Many more smartly play the role when it suits their purpose - consider it a ruse. Maybe she's a juggler; I wouldn't be surprised to learn to she was hooking up with some other fella whilst you sat in your room. That girl now knows that you're the type who will simply wait for three and one-half hours. She might shoot for five next time.
There is a point in the evening when a line is crossed. On one side of the line it's the girl is inconsiderate; on the other side of the line it's I'm a fool for accepting this. That line was 8:30 pm.[/QUOTE]I did not cancel the meeting. Maybe this threat works better haha.
Anyway while in Cebu, the same song and dance routine was had. Maybe all Pinay women get together at nights to see what each other do too make things as frustrating as possible. One girl in Cebu a few nights ago hit her head on the head board really hard while jumping into bed with me. Perhaps that is the cause of their issues.
PC out.
[QUOTE=Pcpc1688;1759452]This sounds about right Skoggie LOL.
BTW, who are the Phils Defenders as it seems at least in the last few pages they haven't said anything to this issue?
PC out.[/QUOTE]Reviewing your posts it seems me and you have and easygoing state of mind? I like that. It makes life a hole lot easier as I am here only for fun and not to dive into culture or customs. Even so there are a few points needed to be screamed out as a warning to, lets say, new members. Latecomming or pure stupidity are only two out of many obsticles you can encounter dealing with the lovely pinay pukies. There are more but it is latecomming, not that big an issue to me any more, but also the reason why I stress and stress this over and over again as my sched simply can not handle it (then it needs twist and turns and starting to rescheduel a pinay, well, I don't even want to go down that road as in writing how you can do that).
There are a big different in girls and how the value "time". My cabincrew girls are allways on time or early. They are used to "if your late you can loose your job" kind of thinking. Other educated ladies, lets take my mother of my phil baby as an excample, she was never late when we hooked up and learned how to create babies. She works now in big corporation where beeing late is unacceptable. When we met she worked at the Quezon city counsil as an official but still time was valuable.
Someone who did have the time and lust should dive into this matter. Since obviously time is not important to the general population we could maybe work out some theses on why phil is falling behind in the general picture. If I was supposed to earn like nothing for doing my job I would consider beeing on time as an evil thing and would be as late as possible.
The phil defenders have rested for a while but they probably did press the "ignore" button or sth on my posts so they can get a nice eve sleep. I never did mean to disrespect the hole population but I can admit it sometimes have sounded so. Peace and as pcp wpuld say:
Skoggy out.
S. Who are the Phil defenders you keep referring to? Anyone who has a different opinion or experience than you?
[QUOTE=Dg8787;1759519]S. Who are the Phil defenders you keep referring to? Anyone who has a different opinion or experience than you?[/QUOTE]No sweetie. Just a couple of former guys having this nubile impression of phil people. My mistake was I may have generilized quite to much. Then I got like "your english stinks" and attacks following the same line. I did not pay to much attention as mongering is my main hobby but they probably, and rightfully so, ignore my postings. Best for all of us.